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Re: Should Men Who Can't Cook Be Ashamed Or Proud? by jude33084(m): 6:46am On Jun 03, 2012
grin grin grin grin
Pakavy: ...and b eaten!


Pls just say the right words grin grin
Re: Should Men Who Can't Cook Be Ashamed Or Proud? by mannyU: 6:49am On Jun 03, 2012
Pakavy: ...and b eaten!


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Re: Should Men Who Can't Cook Be Ashamed Or Proud? by Kelskelly(m): 6:49am On Jun 03, 2012
Mrkuvuki: In nigeria,there is nothing to be ashamed of, not knowing how to cook as a man...Buh knowing how to cook still gives u a lot of edge,the ability to cook as a man is more like holding the four Aces in a joker game...I dated this girl back in my university days and she sees me like some kind of demi-god cos after the other positive compliments there's a "Good Cook" attached some where in there...U can imagine when a woman finds out that ur,cute,rich,have a sense of humour,gat super sex skills and Still superCook;U've gat nuffing to lose!

What is this one feeling like? hahahaha. mr super skills.
But on a more serious note sha, i think i can cook a little. I dont need to improve on it, cos jevenic and tastee will complete the rest.
Thinking of removing the fridge from the kitchen so that i wont even have any reason to go there again.
Re: Should Men Who Can't Cook Be Ashamed Or Proud? by Wisdytech(m): 6:51am On Jun 03, 2012
Y should we? Women is there 2 cook! But i tel u, is good 4 a guy to cook welld..
Re: Should Men Who Can't Cook Be Ashamed Or Proud? by mikuz(m): 7:00am On Jun 03, 2012
there's no such big deal in it.
Re: Should Men Who Can't Cook Be Ashamed Or Proud? by Dtwoabbey(m): 7:06am On Jun 03, 2012
kilimanjaro: Though i can prepare indomie and egg but i hate doing it with passion!
@op, why should a man be ashamed? Even some women sef no sabi cook.
thats bad of such a woman not knowing how to cook. As a man, it is good to know how to cook even more than wife in order to assist wife in training the children theoretically when needed.
Re: Should Men Who Can't Cook Be Ashamed Or Proud? by Wislet(f): 7:19am On Jun 03, 2012
hmmmmm. I comment my reserve. Lol.
Re: Should Men Who Can't Cook Be Ashamed Or Proud? by kilimanjaro(m): 7:29am On Jun 03, 2012
acidtalk: what i detest most is being held to ransom, women will toy with your somach once they know you cant cook.
They will come to their senses when they see u eating out.
Re: Should Men Who Can't Cook Be Ashamed Or Proud? by Johnsinia(m): 7:44am On Jun 03, 2012
They shuld cover their face in big shame. Cooking is nt femine.
Re: Should Men Who Can't Cook Be Ashamed Or Proud? by killuminati(m): 7:49am On Jun 03, 2012
ArQueBusieR: lol @ comments.
lol all funnygringringrin
Re: Should Men Who Can't Cook Be Ashamed Or Proud? by butpro(m): 7:49am On Jun 03, 2012
wink its better for us who have a professional chef as a dad! I cook anything!
It wud be hard for a lady to try yanga for me!

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Re: Should Men Who Can't Cook Be Ashamed Or Proud? by Digriz(m): 7:54am On Jun 03, 2012
I cn cook well so i neva eat outside except during d day am at my work place. I cook stew and soup during wkend whch i store on my refrigerator for wkdays.
Bt seriously, i hate going to the market buying food stuffs.
Re: Should Men Who Can't Cook Be Ashamed Or Proud? by chydume: 7:57am On Jun 03, 2012
It is a plus to a man's cv to the wife,children n friends cos the need comes in handy when the wife is indisposed. A single man needs it as human needs air cos ur girl friend or fiancee is not expected to always be around. That knowledge that u can cook will always put them on their toes cook-wise.
Re: Should Men Who Can't Cook Be Ashamed Or Proud? by Murphy7h4: 8:01am On Jun 03, 2012
[img]http://www.50centloseweight.com[/img]It is amazing!
Re: Should Men Who Can't Cook Be Ashamed Or Proud? by dokunbam(m): 8:05am On Jun 03, 2012
Cooking? I love food and I love cooking as well. No woman can do shakara for me when it comes to food. I will get into the kitchen and cook beta food for her and myself. We have more guys in my family so how would u not know how to cook. We don't wait for the girls sometimes. Guys should know how to cook, what of if your wife is not around?
Re: Should Men Who Can't Cook Be Ashamed Or Proud? by beautifulzerah(f): 8:08am On Jun 03, 2012
There is nothing bad in a man knwin how to cook. It is not a shame either because somehow it has become the woman thing, assigned to them by the world created by us. It is always fun when my hubby decides i take a night off cos he wants to cook. But drop the ego guys, it is good if you know how to cook to help out and keep the home lively no matter how you cook it.
Re: Should Men Who Can't Cook Be Ashamed Or Proud? by drzed: 8:14am On Jun 03, 2012
I think the title of (and essential questioned asked by) this thread is rather inappropriate because there is nothing for a man to be ashamed of in this regard. Okay, so lets do a little reversal:

Should women who are not working (employed) be ashamed or proud?
Should women who rely on house-helps be ashamed or proud?

From the above you can get a better perspective of the question asked by OP.
Re: Should Men Who Can't Cook Be Ashamed Or Proud? by Kagawa: 8:15am On Jun 03, 2012
Then, the Good lord in his magnificence shalll neva let such gurls grace my home as my wife...niga, I didn't grow to hw I be nw by eating bad cooked food, my kids will neva eat such, a gurl who makes such a statement is 1 who is a very bad cook. Thus: she wants a dummy for husband who can't detect her deficiencies but rather eat any mish-mash she rolls out from her kitchen stabels......AND A DUDE WHO KNWS NOT HOW TO COOK, WILL EAT ANYTHING GIVEN TO HIM BECOS HE'S AT THEIR MERCY & OFCOURSE HE DOESN'T KNW ANY BETTER. EOS
Hemanwel: I've heard gals say dat dey cant marry a guy wu knws hw 2 cuk vry well simply cos their own efforts wud nt b apreciated.....

All men knw hw 2 cuk nah!Dey can feed a woman 4 nine mnths wit their special delicacy of 2eggs,1 sausage,n small milk..Na lie?lol
Re: Should Men Who Can't Cook Be Ashamed Or Proud? by JojoArmani(m): 8:17am On Jun 03, 2012
He shouldnt be ashamed for not knowing how to cook but is a added advantage. For I me I do cook but not everytin and still willing to learn more.
And guys u need it even if she is not there u can help ur self in de kitchen. Cookin is even fun and again ur girl loves u more wen she finds out dat u re gud in kitchen tins.
So men dat feel dat cookin is for ladies u re wrong. U can still put ur interest in it. i wonda wat a man will feed his kids wit wen his travels or sick..
Anyway u can still train ur children(male and female) to do it better(cookin) wat u cant do.
Re: Should Men Who Can't Cook Be Ashamed Or Proud? by nitrogen(m): 8:18am On Jun 03, 2012
I know how to cook, but i dislike it.
For a man not to know how to cook is bad, likewise, it shouldnt be an hobby(to men).
Re: Should Men Who Can't Cook Be Ashamed Or Proud? by Nobody: 8:19am On Jun 03, 2012
There is no big deal in cooking. It's not so hard to do nowadays sef. There are so many tomato pastes, pepper pastes, soup pastes, maggis, seasonings etc that require little practice to prepare a simple consumable meal. Is it fryin egg wen we av powdered egg or making pounded yam, when we have poundo yam etc. And if as a guy u can't cook u can always visit a 'mama put' or Mr Biggs or tantalizers if you have a very high income and can afford it regularly. Cereals are easy. And how many foods do we have in Nigeria sef that they will be so hard to prepare. It's just wat women try to use to have an edge over us but the days of that are almost gone. If as a woman u can't cook then what r u rily bringing to the marriage?
Re: Should Men Who Can't Cook Be Ashamed Or Proud? by Kagawa: 8:20am On Jun 03, 2012
Yeh, tru talk, it is all dis men that gv no crap abt cooking knwledge that will go & bed their house maids wen dia wives are not around & the house maid cooks food & brings for of which they find out the maids food is sweeter than their wives'. Such men aren't suppzed to be called men.
dokunbam: Cooking? I love food and I love cooking as well. No woman can do shakara for me when it comes to food. I will get into the kitchen and cook beta food for her and myself. We have more guys in my family so how would u not know how to cook. We don't wait for the girls sometimes. Guys should know how to cook, what of if your wife is not around?
Re: Should Men Who Can't Cook Be Ashamed Or Proud? by aykabba(m): 8:21am On Jun 03, 2012
Hell
Re: Should Men Who Can't Cook Be Ashamed Or Proud? by VOfficialR(m): 8:27am On Jun 03, 2012
PROUD!!! VERY VERY PROUD... people love us, they envy us, they want tobe like us, they want to learn from us, they wish there boyfriends are like us, they pray there male children are like us, they accommodate us, thry cant be proud.Most of it all, we havr more than a bargaining power
Re: Should Men Who Can't Cook Be Ashamed Or Proud? by mumento007: 8:30am On Jun 03, 2012
ikechukz: cooking remains one of my hobby.i hardly eat outside.even the girls that stay next door come to my room to eat.

thatz cool..thumbs up



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ydrixjR9Rf8
Re: Should Men Who Can't Cook Be Ashamed Or Proud? by mumento007: 8:32am On Jun 03, 2012
butpro: wink its better for us who have a professional chef as a dad! I cook anything!
It wud be hard for a lady to try yanga for me!

...lol


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ydrixjR9Rf8
Re: Should Men Who Can't Cook Be Ashamed Or Proud? by Revolva(m): 8:32am On Jun 03, 2012
Haha I am proud I can't cook Bleep you poster and why should a man behave like a sissy and how do you expect. Me to know how to cook all dishes am I a woman I can only cook the little I can
Re: Should Men Who Can't Cook Be Ashamed Or Proud? by JojoArmani(m): 8:33am On Jun 03, 2012
donguutti: ashamed of what?? if i cannot cook, whose problem is it..........mine, what is the big deal
with cooking sef, no be to put pot on fire,put tomato , put oil, add pepper, salt, meat
and other things, wait 30-45 minutes, bring down the pot and voila, u have a pot of stew.
NO i am not ashamed , its just that the stew tastes funny. tongue tongue



hahahahahahahahahahahaha abeg put maggi and crayfish so dat de stew will stop testin funny. Lolz
u re funny why wont ur stew be funny. U sure say u put laugh inside de stew.lolz
Re: Should Men Who Can't Cook Be Ashamed Or Proud? by missagbaa(f): 8:38am On Jun 03, 2012
Men who dont know Ђδω †☺ cook should bow their heads i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ shame,nobody said Ɣ☺ΰ‎​​ guys guys should cook all τ̣̣ђё time,but Ɣ☺ΰ‎​​ should know ♓☺w †☺ cook joor,that's y men eat rubbish cos they dont know ♓☺w †☺ cook. aπϑ sincerely, i think dat those of them who thinks they cant enter τ̣̣ђё kitchen for annything wen τ̣̣ђё women ® there ® those wit little ego aπϑ inferiority complex.shikena.for a woman who married or Iڪ dating a guy who knows ♓☺w †☺ cook,Iڪ always careful of ♓☺w aπϑ wat she puts together i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ τ̣̣ђё kitchen so as †☺ avoid being embarassed by τ̣̣ђё patner,
Re: Should Men Who Can't Cook Be Ashamed Or Proud? by Nobody: 8:44am On Jun 03, 2012
johnezz: [i][/i] Well, it's VERY important for a man to be good in cooking but not being ashamed when he can't 'cos, africanly&biblicaly speaking, it's a woman's duty to cook.
He can help when the woman is not feeling strong but never take it as his duty 'cos, once he does, she will be lazying around.I discovered that from my neabour who felt he was showing love to his wife by cooking for her, only for his wife to abadon the duty for him most times and that resulted to frequent fighting in that home.
Please can u back up ur claims with d bible where it was written dat women r suppose to be chefs. And African Wise, do a mini research on why women (not even only african women. I mean globally) were d cooks n cleaners of dose days. Bless
Re: Should Men Who Can't Cook Be Ashamed Or Proud? by gp66(m): 8:46am On Jun 03, 2012
I believe a man should be a good cook rather than always waiting 4 his wife even though its her domestic reponsibility. As for me and my kitchen we are one. Moreover most Naija babes dont even knw how to prepare simple Indomie let alone soup.

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