pati66: So basically I'm really worried he's losing interest in me. We talk for 5 months now, and he changed in a last month. He still replays to me but he goes off and online quite often. We don't talk for that long anymore and he doesn't compliment me or say anything what he used to say anymore. Few days ago he asked me to Skype with him and he said he really missed me. On Skype he was complimenting me all the time and was showing lots of interest, but he went back to what he used to be after a day. I said to him that I feel like he doesn't want to talk to anymore but he said that he does he's just really tired (There is 6 hours difference) So if I have given him a chance to tell me that he doesn't want anything to do with me would he take it if he wouldn't be interested or would he still lie? Is it that he's just getting comfortable with me and just doesn't feel the need of doing all the stuff he did? If he would lose interest would he even still bother replaying to me or would he just stop? And also, should I tell him how much he means to me and that I feel like I'm bothering him all the time?

slimyem: all i see is a man who doesnt really know what he wants YET...
...and who probably isnt ready for any form of committment.
Just live your life and don't take him the least bit serious until he comes out straight and plain about his intentions honourably!

pati66: So basically I'm really worried he's losing interest in me. We talk for 5 months now, and he changed in a last month. He still replays to me but he goes off and online quite often. We don't talk for that long anymore and he doesn't compliment me or say anything what he used to say anymore. Few days ago he asked me to Skype with him and he said he really missed me. On Skype he was complimenting me all the time and was showing lots of interest, but he went back to what he used to be after a day. I said to him that I feel like he doesn't want to talk to anymore but he said that he does he's just really tired (There is 6 hours difference) So if I have given him a chance to tell me that he doesn't want anything to do with me would he take it if he wouldn't be interested or would he still lie? Is it that he's just getting comfortable with me and just doesn't feel the need of doing all the stuff he did? If he would lose interest would he even still bother replaying to me or would he just stop? And also, should I tell him how much he means to me and that I feel like I'm bothering him all the time?

pati66: that guy means so much to me, I'm so attached to him, more than most people I know in real life.

pati66: what cookie?

cowgurl: All I see is your desperation to get hooked up wit dis dude, FREE HIM, jeez! He's saying you are his girl n his action is saying otherwise n still you not getting the signals? Smh! You need to give ursef a slap for being this st[b]u[/b]pid.

cowgurl: Stop dreaming mahn!