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Is This True Of Men? Poor Self Esteem =Humility And Confidence = Pride by pendo89(f): 8:56pm On Jun 22, 2012
Many rships are so wrong because some men confuse poor self esteem with humility and a confidence with pride in the process they have used quality women as girlfriends and ended up with confused ladies as partners.

Good girl to many men is the girl that swallows all the crap and pretends the guy is a good guy.


Heavy and thank you [b]Andromida [/b]for highlighting this.
What is the reason for this blindness and why? custom or belief?
Re: Is This True Of Men? Poor Self Esteem =Humility And Confidence = Pride by slimyem: 10:47pm On Jun 22, 2012
it is not just guys that confuse these terms in relation to girls.
It is use of english and EVERYONE does confuse the meaning at one point or the other as the case may be.
However,you cannot also totally divorce one from the other....
What really is..most times,lies within the person being debated/judged!
We cannot always see people as they truly are no matter how psychologically analytic we think we are!
..nice topic btw....cheesy
Re: Is This True Of Men? Poor Self Esteem =Humility And Confidence = Pride by Nobody: 10:56pm On Jun 22, 2012
@OP you can ask the same thing to women don't you think?
Same thing applies all round.

I'm sure you've heard of the nice guys finish last phrase been thrown around before.
Re: Is This True Of Men? Poor Self Esteem =Humility And Confidence = Pride by Nobody: 11:01pm On Jun 22, 2012
@Pendo98
in a country where most women believe that MONEY/WEALTH is the root for love, what you wrote above is chicken change.
Re: Is This True Of Men? Poor Self Esteem =Humility And Confidence = Pride by Tedpgrass: 11:02pm On Jun 22, 2012
In whom are these qualities being adjudged?
The woman or man.

Correct assessment of qualities is dependent on the bias of the beholder.
Re: Is This True Of Men? Poor Self Esteem =Humility And Confidence = Pride by Nobody: 11:04pm On Jun 22, 2012
pendo89: Many rships are so wrong because some men confuse poor self esteem with humility and a confidence with pride in the process they have used quality women as girlfriends and ended up with confused ladies as partners.

Good girl to many men is the girl that swallows all the crap and pretends the guy is a good guy.

isn't this what many, guys and girls alike, believe? undecided
Re: Is This True Of Men? Poor Self Esteem =Humility And Confidence = Pride by tpia5: 11:14pm On Jun 22, 2012
Tedpgrass: In whom are these qualities being adjudged?
The woman or man.

Correct assessment of qualities is dependent on the bias of the beholder.

gbam.

EOD.
Re: Is This True Of Men? Poor Self Esteem =Humility And Confidence = Pride by kilimanjaro(m): 11:35pm On Jun 22, 2012
Op,
It's stuupidity! And fortunately for them, no law against stuupidity.
Re: Is This True Of Men? Poor Self Esteem =Humility And Confidence = Pride by claremont(m): 5:27am On Jun 23, 2012
It works both ways. Some ladies in certain parts of the world also have a myopic view as regards the qualities of the men they want. I think it's borne out of the cultural environment in which they (both the men and the women) were brought up
Re: Is This True Of Men? Poor Self Esteem =Humility And Confidence = Pride by Mynd44: 5:56am On Jun 23, 2012
If what the OP wrote above should hold true, then we shod assume that women also think a guy driving a BMW X5 is heaven and a guy on okada is hell

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