ifyalways: Argh woman, wake up.please buy, prepare and place within his reach and eye radius more spicy and tasty pieces of meat. Let him eat as much as his itchy fingers can BUT while he's busy @ your kitchen "stealing" your meat, jejely move yourself to the bedroom and go deal with his wallets and atms. Itchy fingers V itchy fingers.
lol, mine was dealing with baby milks then, when caught he would claim his mouth was bitter. When my nagging and hiding my baby food didn't work, I simply resolved to deal with his wallet and nobody tell am when to stop.

Looking at the economy and considering that all fingers are not equal, have you thought of "empting" your pot after serving everyone?remove all meat from your soup after serving everyone, put the meat in the fridge or freezer. Most men are generally "kitchen lazy" and won't get the strenght to microwave frozen meat.

pls dont even consider removing de meats 4rm de pot, lest he steals 4rm ur neighbor's pot. He's a diehard meat thief u no!

I eat a lot of meat. And some meats she does not like game(bush meat) and pork. To help me reduce how I deal with her pot. I buy extra meat myself and tell her this is my meat. Please help fry and I can eat them as I want. But then those are not as sweet as the one in her pot. With all the stew soaked in them etc. So when I take from the pot I say replace it with my meet . I have a separate refrigerator upstairs in my room the bedroom fridge. But its good that its her pot right? Btw its my money. But I don't say that. But I have that at the back of my mind too. Sometimes i run covet operation. I hope my kids dont pick up the habit sha. Its only daddy that can do it because daddy pays for it!

Shouldn't we be advising the OP to educate the husband on dangers of eating excessive red meat?

lol back home they ration meat. . . .my mum used to make a habit of giving us meat whenever she was making it.

Do that, whenever you are making meat, give your husband one or two that is his extra portion. He cannot be eating the meat that belongs to the whole house, discipline him! lool if you see his hand in the pot tell him thats his meat for the week! nonsense

you can also add meat alternatives to the stew, if you dont want to spend too much, some chicken, mushrooms, turkey, that disgusting leathery thing they like eating. . . ponmo, those little little meat thingies, shaki, and bits that he doesnt like so even if he eats them it doesnt upset the ration of the house.

tEsLim: I eat a lot of meat. And some meats she does not like game(bush meat) and pork. To help me reduce how I deal with her pot. I buy extra meat myself and tell her this is my meat. Please help fry and I can eat them as I want. But then those are not as sweet as the one in her pot. With all the stew soaked in them etc. So when I take from the pot I say replace it with my meet . I have a separate refrigerator upstairs in my room the bedroom fridge. But its good that its her pot right? Btw its my money. But I don't say that. But I have that at the back of my mind too. Sometimes i run covet operation. I hope my kids dont pick up the habit sha. Its only daddy that can do it because daddy pays for it!

lol.Ur kids must definitely pick up the habit.

queensmith: lol back home they ration meat. . . .my mum used to make a habit of giving us meat whenever she was making it.

Do that, whenever you are making meat, give your husband one or two that is his extra portion. He cannot be eating the meat that belongs to the whole house, discipline him! lool if you see his hand in the pot tell him thats his meat for the week! nonsense

you can also add meat alternatives to the stew, if you dont want to spend too much, some chicken, mushrooms, turkey, that disgusting leathery thing they like eating. . . ponmo, those little little meat thingies, shaki, and bits that he doesnt like so even if he eats them it doesnt upset the ration of the house.

Which Nigerian man doesn't like these things?
Well-cooked, soft ponmo is better than strait-up beef IMO.

Does it matter if he takes the meat from the pot or from a plate? nor be him belle the thing dey go?


#Support from a notorious pot hacker!#

@Queen

My husband would kill anybody for his shaki, kponmo, abodi, chicken gizzard, crabs, snails etc. so your advise won't work for me at all

My husband is not a red meat lover anyways but will die for the above mentioned meats, add turkey and chicken to the list, Without the skin though. I leave my own skin on

Pepper soup with those intestine things is simply the best. Take it from a Lagos born babe

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That's very funny

Men are like that , I cooked a whole goat meat leg yesterday and he almost finished the whole thing, I didn't even taste it, I'm used to it and happy he's always looking forward to eat my food...., I guess that's a good thing.

he needs to stop this before he start taking meat from your next neighbor's pot of soup,this bad habit gat to stop. with fasting and prayer this evil habit will be conquered just believe in God.

You better warn him before he tries that in Aluu community

chaircover:

Thumbs up; he likes your cooking

No big deal, just cook more meat than you require or cook and grill some meat and leave it in the fridge for him to pick and nibble when he wants

I dont see what the problem is, he is a grown man & I beleive who works hard and puts down food money so, if he wants to eat his own meat in his own home then please let him be.

Excuse me, but its not his own meat anymore its their meat cos if u say his then he might as well be better as a bachellor why marry abeg he needs to show more consideration i mean its a marriage not a dictatorship

SUV:
my husband is fond of taking meat from the pot of soup/stew after everyone had finished eating.

i asked him why he does that he said his moth is feeling somehow

when we were growing up, my mum used to beat our house help for taking meat from the pot, she said its a bad habit. now my hubby is doing the same thin.

The annoying part is that sometimes we may not have surplus meat, we will only hv enof to go round everybody for the meal times, and when he finishes eating the meat in the pot, the real meal time, if there is no meat left to serve the food, he will complain that u are serving food without meat, that it is not proper.

wives in the house, please is anyone feeling or experiencing same thing?

Hubby's in the house, pls what do u guys think i shld do?

pls don't abuse me ohhhhh! i am only saying my mind

Tell him if he likes meat so much he should increase meat allowance by 50% so he can eat enough during meals and his mouth will stop feeling "somehow"

dnt wori he wont go as far as stealin meat frm ur neighbours pot..well its a habit dat cant b stopd soon o ..ma pastor said hez a victim of dat as far as ur nt hidin nd ur wife knws it nd u can afford it,den its nt bad..if u dnt giv him he may go outside to eat frm resturants nd bet me u wouldnt lyk dat..caution him to not let d children see him.wen doin it nd he shud support wit d buyin of mor meat bt if u knw una no get enof moni to support d habit den datz bad..u fry d meat nd hide it..wen u want to warm d soup u or stew u bring out d quantity dat wud b enouf fot dat particular meal

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