desari: So what exactly is your problem? it is not by force to reply oh Mr wisdom. Is it the lack of a picture on my profile that is vexing you or the fact that you don't know what i do for a living?? I guess you just need someone to pick on tonite. oh well its a free world.

I should be asking you; cos i seem nt to understand what it is, you want

Mynd_44: Hi I am mynd_44 and I like studying patterns. This pattern looks very familiar and you know how they say two triangle are similar if that have two sides and one angle equal.
I don't know about y'all but it should not be hard to realise that the OP= fuckherlord. This babe just wants the attention. Perhaps she was not hugged enough as a growing child or she is just messed up

desari: Nairalanders,

I am a career woman in my late 20's living in the U.S. It has been almost impossible for me to meet good Nigerian men much less Nigerian men at my financial level. As you all know the U.S is very big; i generally don't hang out with Nigerians..not that i don't want to, i just don't know where and how to go about meeting up with my people. When i do go out to naija lounges or clubs in my area, all i find are little kids playing around or 419ers( which i would rather remain single than have anything to do with them). I have tried the church avenue, but i am catholic, and catholic churches in the U.S are much different from naija catholic churches. I live in NYC, so anyone that can give me pointers on where to meet eligible professional Naija men would be great.

I have been very blessed and fortunate in my chosen career, and i would want a partner that can pull his own weight financially in a relationship. Though i have accepted that i would most likely do much better than a potential partner, i can never respect a man that would find it hard to give me money to cook food in the house and take care of some bills, instead of assuming i will take care of it since i make much more. Akatas and white men chase me all day, but i would rather settle down with a Nigerian man(preferably yoruba) i am half yoruba and half something else I grew up in naija, so i speak yoruba and can cook naija food well well.

Let me add that i am well mannered and come from a great family. Guys and girls, if you have single brothers who are financially stable, between 29 and 35 years old looking to settle down, please IM me. Thanks!

Successful married women
So where do you want to place
the women that have really made it big and are married? They have a common denominator. They married young, they are brilliant and they are humble. Examples include Oby Ezekwesili, Dora Akunyili, Ngozi Okonko-Iweala just to mention a few. If you get close to them or merely look at them
closely, you will see humility and homeliness. Oby Ezekwesili once said that once she gets back from work, she drops the toga of Govt official at the door and cook for her husband; she even goes to the market herself! I shake my head at this your low self esteemed men. I don't know if you believe the Bible but a
common quote from there: Husband, love your wife. Wife, submit to your husband. Many of these old single ladies are not ready to submit to anybody. A typical example is Miss Arunma Oteh...when she talks you see how she oozes pride all over, and probably explains why she is single.
So rewind---why are single women rampant?
Because they have forgotten their God given duty of submission and those that remember it are all married.

desari: I didn't come here to boast or toot my own horn. I wll not be disclosing how much i am worth now or in the near future. I mentioned finances as a sticking point as i have met men in the past that want to mooch off me and it ain't happening.

There are quite few fraudsters in London, i hope you make your money the legal way. I mean no offence