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He Paid My School Fees But I Want To Dump Him by fulfillment2020(m): 11:45pm On Jul 17, 2012 |
Dear Nairalanders, I am a 23 year old female. My parents died when i was 8 then I dropped out of school because no one could afford to pay my fees. I then met this guy when i was 14 and he sent me back to school. He was selling fruit then but still he was Able to pay my fees. He then got a job as a truck driver and sent me to university. my problem is that i feel i can't continue with this relationship because he is not my type, he isn't fluent in English, he his a very short man Plus some other Personal stuffs. I feel I have Paid him back for his Good Deeds cos I give him intimacy anytime and anywhere he wants. But now he can't meet up to my demands. How best can i tell him that he is not my type without hurting his feelings?? I am grateful that he sent me to school but i can't be in a relationship with him anymore. I want somebody in my own class not a truck driver. Please can someone advice me on what to do! Am confused. |
Re: He Paid My School Fees But I Want To Dump Him by acidtalk: 11:54pm On Jul 17, 2012 |
YOUR STORY NO SELL ABEG. The poster is testing this dumb story for his/her magazine ( treasure sity magazine). Foolish attention seeker. Go and hang yourself before you dump him Is this where you are now making money from that you think he isn't good enough. Or isn't he the one that help you set this up? https://www.nairaland.com/963442/treasure-city-magazine-vendors-needed#11104172 2 Likes |
Re: He Paid My School Fees But I Want To Dump Him by Akinagirl(f): 11:56pm On Jul 17, 2012 |
In your class? Yet without him you would have not even finished high school. And no, sex isnt pay back that just makes you a prost.it.ut/e. Hes not your type but you were happy getting money from him. Ugh Icant stand girls like you you make girls look bad. Learn to work for what you want out of life and not use others. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Paid My School Fees But I Want To Dump Him by ayurdavid: 11:59pm On Jul 17, 2012 |
You are no longer his type now that you‘ve been ‘polished‘? Just refund all the tuition money, sex alone isn‘t enough for a reward. ;DYou are no longer his type now that you‘ve been ‘polished‘? Just refund all the tuition money, sex alone isn‘t enough for a reward. |
Re: He Paid My School Fees But I Want To Dump Him by drejunior: 12:45am On Jul 18, 2012 |
U̶̲̥̅̊'r shameless if he didn't snd u to skul u shld probably be selling groundnut now u are his and notin more lol uif am him I will mess U̶̲̥̅̊'r life up 3 Likes |
Re: He Paid My School Fees But I Want To Dump Him by MrsChima(f): 12:49am On Jul 18, 2012 |
fulfillment2020: Dear Nairalanders, Yeah....dump his dumb arse. |
Re: He Paid My School Fees But I Want To Dump Him by Csami(m): 1:06am On Jul 18, 2012 |
Touchè....are u done with ur movie script? Nah, don't think it will sell cos i've seen alot of home videos like this and it never ended well for the ladies. 3 Likes |
Re: He Paid My School Fees But I Want To Dump Him by freecocoa(f): 1:09am On Jul 18, 2012 |
@ Mrs Chima,Yeah his arse is really dumb, not for helping someone through school but for not being able to detect all this while that he was dealing with the DEVIL,then again i don't blame him so much because some people are good at pretending,who knows how good OP was at deceiving him. @OP,You are one ungrateful biatch and people like you end up paying for their wickedness one way or the other,no matter how long it takes. You are a full time prostitu*te for saying you've repaid him with 5ex,since you could pay your way through school with 5ex,why didn't you just go work at Allen avenue and let the man be?just how callous are you? you think it will be well with you? Why didn't you realize he is so not your type before taking all his hard earned money? Ah you go suffer am. P.S i don't care whether your story is real or not but it just annoyed me, don't even quote me to say rubbish because i promise you,there's plenty more where the above came from,useless demonic gold digger.. 10 Likes |
Re: He Paid My School Fees But I Want To Dump Him by Godmother(f): 1:15am On Jul 18, 2012 |
If ur story is true then bliv me babes u re sowing a seed that other girls will suffer for in future. The law of karma will also not let u go scot free That being said, I guess u shud do what u hav to do. There's no point staying wit d guy if ur mind is no longer in it. Let him go for d next girl who will love him for him 1 Like |
Re: He Paid My School Fees But I Want To Dump Him by Acidosis(m): 1:21am On Jul 18, 2012 |
Lmao |
Re: He Paid My School Fees But I Want To Dump Him by Ranoscky(m): 1:38am On Jul 18, 2012 |
Well, i think am better off sayin nothin cos if i do, believe u me, God wil get VERY angry with me. So, in that case, i comment my reserve. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Paid My School Fees But I Want To Dump Him by addictiv(m): 2:12am On Jul 18, 2012 |
mehn this poster is ungratefull. its because of situations like this that i avoid dating undergraduates 3 Likes |
Re: He Paid My School Fees But I Want To Dump Him by pleep(m): 2:19am On Jul 18, 2012 |
lol, i don't even feel sorry for dudes like this anymore. When u over value women they use you. one niggas learning the hard way 1 Like |
Re: He Paid My School Fees But I Want To Dump Him by beylinko(m): 2:29am On Jul 18, 2012 |
There is no point in tellin u how bad u are and how i wish i cud slap u both left,right and center. D guy semt u 2 school he never went n u come out here openin ur mouth. Advice me, l'm confuse ko. Conduce ni ! Nevertheless,wat is d guys plan 4 ur life. Do u jst meet each oda 4 sex witout any emotional attachment,are u planin getin married now dat u are tru wit ur schools(atleast he must have said smtin abt dat 1ce or 2ice). Seat ursevs down n know dis. U may nvr can tell if d guy is enjoyin d punny witot feelin anytin 4 u 2. |
Re: He Paid My School Fees But I Want To Dump Him by Ybutterfly: 3:07am On Jul 18, 2012 |
^^^^^^^gOOOd LuuCCk^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ |
Re: He Paid My School Fees But I Want To Dump Him by jaybee3(m): 3:19am On Jul 18, 2012 |
Nollywood script |
Re: He Paid My School Fees But I Want To Dump Him by Ranoscky(m): 3:22am On Jul 18, 2012 |
Girls like this ended up datin their favourite men ---------> Ritualist! 1 Like |
Re: He Paid My School Fees But I Want To Dump Him by Idowuogbo(f): 3:34am On Jul 18, 2012 |
Ara gba ndi ara! May amadioha seal ur puntash. See dis mental case o! So bcus aristo don dey price ur market now, so u sef think ur level don upgrade? Imagine! An illiterate made d effort to groom u d little witch, and all u do in return is leave him? Happiness won't locate u o! Karma is a biatch! Go and see if u won't jam guy were use blow destroy toto.Fooooooolish gal! 2 Likes |
Re: He Paid My School Fees But I Want To Dump Him by godonzoki(m): 3:43am On Jul 18, 2012 |
@ OP, its nw u realise dat u r not in the same class with him bah? D last time i had somtin of dis nature, the gal is languishin in hell rite now. ' U gav him sex anytime he wanted it' Did u not enjoy d sex too? Gosh, will u feel good with ur self afta u do wat u r about to do? Do u fink that God will eva 4giv U? I jst pity d man dat will end up marryin u bc u wud only bag problems into his innocent house. |
Re: He Paid My School Fees But I Want To Dump Him by Lexusgs430: 3:55am On Jul 18, 2012 |
How polished would your English have been, if he did not do what he did out of love? He is no longer your type? Are you forgetting he made you what you are? Now you refer to him as a truck driver? But you could collect the fruit sellers and truck drivers money for personal and educational upliftment? You talk about sex pay-back as your only entitlement, did he tell you he did all he did for sex? Where were all the tall guys to come to your rescue @ your lowest ebb? When evil befalls you in the future, those that don't know the source will be cursing your enemies. Not realising that the number 1 enemy is/was you!!!! 3 Likes |
Re: He Paid My School Fees But I Want To Dump Him by Mynd44: 4:27am On Jul 18, 2012 |
Dump the mugu jorh. He was dumb enough to fall maga so he does not deserve to be in a relationship. That said, girl you have to think garden about this. Granted you might not feel anything for him and I don't subscribe to staying in a relationship because of gratitude so leave him if you feel that way but realise that he might not let you go without a fight |
Re: He Paid My School Fees But I Want To Dump Him by clickgold(m): 4:30am On Jul 18, 2012 |
are you testing your script for your project work? If you are...then that your theatre lecturer will have problem with you Everything is wrong with the script, from your dates to your rapport...rewrite for the characters...polish it up a little But if you are telling the truth... May T.B Joshua see you in his vision... |
Re: He Paid My School Fees But I Want To Dump Him by Mynd44: 4:37am On Jul 18, 2012 |
^^ are you advising her to stay with a guy she does not feel anything for again? Relationships based on gratitude is nonsense |
Re: He Paid My School Fees But I Want To Dump Him by Nobody: 7:27am On Jul 18, 2012 |
freecocoa: |
Re: He Paid My School Fees But I Want To Dump Him by Ranoscky(m): 7:39am On Jul 18, 2012 |
Karma, where the hell r u? 1 Like |
Re: He Paid My School Fees But I Want To Dump Him by Idowuogbo(f): 7:44am On Jul 18, 2012 |
Mynd_44: Dump the mugu jorh. He was dumb enough to fall maga so he does not deserve to be in a relationship.U must b high? U no hia d reasons y d babe wan run ni? 1.She is leaving cus she can't b wiv a truck driver 2. She is leaving cus d dudes English ain't Harvard 3. She is leaving cus d dudes pocket-money no carry weight again. So after 6 solid years, she now realises she can't cope wiv the following abi? Infact may d gods of iron block her g-spottt 10 finger waka u o poster! Yes Badosky dey Shege u wiv keyboard Fawcking anuzz!! I dey vex o! Hold me.... 2 Likes |
Re: He Paid My School Fees But I Want To Dump Him by Nobody: 7:57am On Jul 18, 2012 |
This girl you are wicked. But If you wany to break up with him, pay him back the money he spent on your schooling. 1 Like |
Re: He Paid My School Fees But I Want To Dump Him by slimyem: 7:58am On Jul 18, 2012 |
the guy allowed himself to be used. What did he think all these years? . That she as a graduate would end up marrying him a truck-driver? Why didn't he develop himself alongsides her... The worse thing one can do to himself or herself is rendering help or doing anyone a favour and expecting an equal or almost equal reward for it. Do good if you feel the need to without expecting anything in return and do not...if you don't have to! Mtcheew... Next story abeg! 3 Likes |
Re: He Paid My School Fees But I Want To Dump Him by Idowuogbo(f): 8:15am On Jul 18, 2012 |
slimyem: the guy allowed himself to be used.U have a point Yemz! But! Igbehin omo na Ma....... U sure no worra I mean. |
Re: He Paid My School Fees But I Want To Dump Him by Melahou(m): 8:30am On Jul 18, 2012 |
[b]Anyway i dont blame u...its not ur fault,some guys do silly tins all for the sake of LUV... i blame guys 4 sponsoring girls 2 school xpecialy wen dey re not married 2 dat person... wateva u sow dat u`ll reap |
Re: He Paid My School Fees But I Want To Dump Him by kay9(m): 8:46am On Jul 18, 2012 |
U knw, i was busy gettin angry...until i saw all the replies. Lol... @idowu, i've known u to be a lil crazy and VERY annoyin and irritating and aproko-central... but u knw what? TODAY i hereby domole at the altar of your FURY! Babe, u rock!!! |
Re: He Paid My School Fees But I Want To Dump Him by no1madman(m): 9:25am On Jul 18, 2012 |
There's nothing wrong with driving a truck. .na job too! D world needs its cleaners,Bus conductors,mechanics,Doctors,postmen,truck drivers e.t.c. . . . .na wa 4 naija mentality! |
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