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Please Help! by shadshadyz: 3:56pm On Jul 20, 2012
I just recently got this job but i have an issue.

My boss keeps touching my hair and smoothing it.

I really dont like this. He has done it twice.

What is the best way to go about this.

Urgent advice needed.
Re: Please Help! by Nobody: 3:59pm On Jul 20, 2012
tell him:"oga sir, with no disrespect, i feel uncomfortable when you touch my hair and i would really appreciate if you didnt do that."
Re: Please Help! by Cidi: 4:06pm On Jul 20, 2012
Either you throw your legs up or start looking for a new one grin grin grin
Re: Please Help! by shadshadyz: 4:08pm On Jul 20, 2012
MRbrownJAY: tell him:"oga sir, with no disrespect, i feel uncomfortable when you touch my hair and i would really appreciate if you didnt do that."

can i send an email
Re: Please Help! by Nobody: 4:18pm On Jul 20, 2012
shadshadyz:

can i send an email

I think such are best delivered in person. It's very passive-aggressive sending an email to someone about an issue when they are right there!
Re: Please Help! by Nobody: 4:18pm On Jul 20, 2012
If a bus conductor touches and smooths your hair, what will you do? Come to NL and seek advice?

If you do not react the same way with your boss, you have a problem that cannot be solved by anyone, but you. . .
Re: Please Help! by Nobody: 4:28pm On Jul 20, 2012
shadshadyz:
can i send an email

definitely not!
Re: Please Help! by Caracta(f): 4:32pm On Jul 20, 2012
2buff:

I think such are best delivered in person. It's very passive-aggressive sending an email to someone about an issue when they are right there!

Seconded
Re: Please Help! by angiemartinez(f): 5:35pm On Jul 20, 2012
wen next he tries it, y nt say sir am sory am not com4table wit d way u touch me. Am ur employee and so lets keep it at dat.

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Re: Please Help! by tobechi20(m): 8:15pm On Jul 20, 2012
Just ur hair and u are complaining.....
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Set a trap 4 him...when he tries it , instantly turn and slap him..,then apologise imediately...tel him ure sorry,just not comfortable with it....beg him neva to try it again

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Re: Please Help! by haruna1970(m): 9:08pm On Jul 20, 2012
I'm a hypocrite. Pick up your bible and pretend to preach to him. I'm like him. I hate being preached to. Try it and you will thank me. Okay ?
Re: Please Help! by Mynd44: 9:28pm On Jul 20, 2012
The next time he does it, tell him
Re: Please Help! by Rocktation(f): 9:31pm On Jul 20, 2012
Really just tell him that you're not comfortable with 'anybody' touching your hair. Not just him in particular.

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