I'm dating this guy, he is 26years old, he is super friendly, makes me happy. he keep telling me that he loves me but I really don't trust him coz he has a lot of female friends and he's super friendly with female....today he told me that if I break his heart he'll destroy me, now I'm scared of him....I don't know if I should give us a chance or leave him, if I leave him what's gonna happen to me.....I'm really scared of him

stay

b4 he destroys you. .

Does he meet your requirements? If yes then stay if no, walk. The whole destroying thing is just a bluff

Mynd_44: Does he meet your requirements? If yes then stay if no, walk. The whole destroying thing is just a bluff

true

Dnt stay with someone u r not comfortable with...

Mynd_44: The whole destroying thing is just a bluff

you think so?

pls dont blame him if he destroys you, it is the work of the devil

All I know is that I love him but now I'm also scared of him

That might be his emotions talking, unless of course you see actual craziness about him. I know some dude who convinced himself the craze he saw in his gf was "nothing". See us eating popcorn and waiting for the action that will follow once he sees the truth after marriage.

Tell him not to talk like that, carefully watch your fb and email to see if he's hacked in or is isolating you from family and friends. Use side-eye and watch him, don't brush this away. Give him space, if he cannot calm himself down, walk.

agb2011:

you think so?

I know so

Nozy Carter: All I know is that I love him but now I'm also scared of him

You don't have to be scared, he is only blowing hot air

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in as much as i woulldnt advice u stay were u aint cnfortable but on a serious note, that threat was just a bluff.....he cant do anythin to u,
he just want u to be with him, thats it but first try and undastand if he's goot de tendencis of being "destructive".
den u know whats next to do

Mynd_44: Does he meet your requirements? If yes then stay if no, walk. The whole destroying thing is just a bluff

#Gbam

Destroy u? Na cult member? Madam u best para give am bck o! U not his property. Wetin he wan destroy? He is busy playing Lego wiv ur head and hoping his threats would eat deep. Wise up! Let no man make u liv in fear.

sounds like a threat he will destroy you ?

Idowu is right, you should have returned it like you too let off some steam and tell him you are a witch or ay least your grandma is one and you will see him mellow down

Love dont come with a guarantee, many have wished. Just tell him a broken heart hurts so good there's nothing to it, besides he is a player, so go ahead and break his heart into lil pieces, by walking out on him. A threat in any relationship is WRONG.

As a yaba left prof. He is workin on u psychological..
He is aware of ur fear of trust thus blowing hot air 2 mk u feel how valuable u re, thus kipin u 4 himself...

If u know wat u want n he matches ur choice......
grab ur copy while stock last.

Sister. Run now. if he loves you for real he should be compromising and tender. You have an alarm from him. "Get out". your Man is on the way. I dont mean to be harsh in my words but there is no smooth road in relationships and the guy doesnt seem that he could handle romantic stress and to fix broken things. His words are predetermined should your friendship gets sour. Please just Get Out. I am over overseas and we see this every minute. There is danger light.

Nozy carter, abi na carter nose, all dah im threaten na gobe! If u ain't cool with him anymore, walk away! Dont be surprised that his threatenin would turn out to be comin back to u n beggin for forgiveness.

^^

Destroy dat wat happened..he can't destroy u but dat word is a very bad one to use in relationship..if a guy can say dat to u wen he hasn't even married u, datz crazy, wat if he marries u, dat means u will be living in fear cos of his threats. Sis, stand up to ur right n tell him to cursion the way his talks or address u. U r his angel, switty, honey, not his mare friend. U r a special person to him. So he should knw wat he says wen he's with u or wen he's talking to u. Cos as a woman, u av all right to argue wit him n tell him wat u r seeing dat u dnt like. If he has numerous gfs, he should explain to u who d r to him. And u, closely watch him..dnt overreact wen ur wit him, n dnt scroll his phone in his present, do it quietly one day u will find out the truth.

dnt
scroll his phone in his present, do it quietly one day u will
find out the truth

dis got me laffing really hard

The guy wants to make sure he does not lose her and so, he makes up threats. This is no too rare nah

OP

U я already destroyed

Run girl, and never look back. I won't advice you to take those words of his for granted. That might be d devil speaking thur him for all i care. Shame on him.

belemzy: Run girl, and never look back. I won't advice you to take those words of his for granted. That might be d devil speaking thur him for all i care. Shame on him.

Grow some Darned balls man.

This statement is a ₪O ₪O for me. Any guy ∂α† says ∂α† τ̅o my sista & i find out,will HªvΣ τ̅o destroy me first cos my sis ain't goin nowhere wit him. Dis Is nt romantic but A THREAT! Dnt be blinded by love pls.

Nozy Carter: I'm dating this guy, he is 26years old, he is super friendly, makes me happy. he keep telling me that he loves me but I really don't trust him coz he has a lot of female friends and he's super friendly with female....today he told me that if I break his heart he'll destroy me, now I'm scared of him....I don't know if I should give us a chance or leave him, if I leave him what's gonna happen to me.....I'm really scared of him

If you leave him, he might end up with my sister, ex girlfriend, cousin or someone i know or care of. Please, pretty please, i beg you, please stay with this mofo. Someone has to. why not you ? please do me a favor