::Andrew:::


WILL YOU MARRY ME?

IZUKWU: Marriage is a permanent institution at least was the impression i had growing up but today permit me to say that it is no longer so. It's something you could enter and exist when you feel like notminding your partners feelings. You said it is not a bondage,look around and see ,40% of married folks are in misery,some hate their partners ,some even in to the extent of murder. The other 30% are just enduring their marriage ,marriage should be enjoyed not endured. It's only about 30% that could tell you or you could see that the marriage is enjoyable. Marriage will come when it will . It is a necessary evil. Enter at your own risk.be ready for anything. Your wife could become your enemy tomorrow,you could suddenly discovered that that boy that calls you daddy is actually not your biological son.

Tedpgrass: The adage that states marriage is an eye opener is real.

I'd say, put on ur specs well b4 getting in but take them off whilst in it.

See it as a business deal.....
You do your due diligence and research properly... once in it, compromise and readjustment will be needed, whilst commiting to the entirety of the time period.

Girls: The false lashes, make-up, designer dresses, "big girl lifestyle"...... will not be present 40-50 years from now, a good character will be.

Guys, the aggressive, "my word is final" attitude only gets u into trouble. Or the let's chop and clean mouth... gets u AIDS whether physical or emotional.


Address it as a biz: aims, goals, objectives... short, mid and longterm.

Aim to develop each other ....
Pray together, whatever faith u allude to.
A sense of humour is needed..

Enjoy not endure!!!

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ATMC: D key to being happily married is being a servant...

sexkillz: Being a servant is not a one way thing. . . More like being sensitive to the needs of each other.

ATMC: ...therefore to be happy nd fulfilled in a lasting marriage, humble ur self while loving unconditionally with respect to d main author of marriage. Remove pride. Be forgiving. Try nd keep faith. Don't deny sex. Be considerate...e no easy at all, we all need d key to life...grace!

ATMC: yeah its a two way thing, but guys know this but wont practice it!

Tedpgrass: Such positive comments.
There's still hope, I daresay

I take on the endurance bit from sexkillz.
More like selflessness, I dare suggest.

But place emphasis on the need to work together as a couple.

With a joint goal or focus, nothing is impossible.

God bless u all.

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seedord247: Thank God. . I'm still in my early 20's. I dont have time for relationship not to talk of marriage.

Let the old cargoes in the house pump it up!

Haha. Your time dey come. . .

claremont: Modern marriages is more like a raffle draw, it's a game of probability. In order for it to work, both parties must be at the right place, at the right time, and they must be right for each other; the likelihood of this happening varies for different people. It's very easy for unmarried people to talk about theoretical concepts, transforming these theoretical concepts into practical realities is another ball game altogether.

I would argue that marriage is not for all of us. There are some people who actually do prefer a long-term relationship, rather than face the perils of an unholy union. Moreover, modern marriages have since outlived its usefulness, especially when viewed against the fact that everything being supposedly enjoyed in a marriage can as well be enjoyed outside the marriage.

seedord247: Thank God. . I'm still in my early 20's. I dont have time for relationship not to talk of marriage.

Let the old cargoes in the house pump it up!

pendo89:
It's great if you marry the right person, at the right time, and for the right reason

And even after uv doen that? there is no guarantee it's gonna last. Seen many fall.

Just marry cz uv chosen to and work hard at it but be ready for any shocks.

::Andrew:::
**grabs popcorn and 3d glasses with Pepsi on hand**