He was so shocked when he saw a positive pregnancy test result in the room of the lady he wants to marry. The result shows that the test was conducted 7months ago, after he started dating her. This simply implies she aborted the pregnancy and lied to him never to have had abortion. He is really confused and has lost trust in her, but he still loves her.
NOTE: He has not slept with her for even a day.
What should he do to format what he saw from his memory and continue with the lady? Is this likely to affect his attitude towards the lady in the nearest future?

Matured advice please....

bro u nid to investigate d mata very well nd clear awt any negative thought...if u indeed realy love her nd u wish to settle wif her...

Lovebond34:
bro u nid to investigate d mata very well nd clear awt any negative thought...if u indeed realy love her nd u wish to settle wif her...

Nice one

Wahala dey o... Some men/women can lie eh and they will not arrange themselves well.

Reminds me of a friend who was going about the place telling us she's a virgin(nobody asked her o) meanwhile another person told me of how she directed her to where she had an abortion..

The guy should confront her sha. No one is perfect but there are certain things u don't do or u arrange urself well.

Make sure you photo copy it and ask her again if she says no still tell her that you saw it if she denies it show her d evidence, still 4give and marry her if she worths it

D lady na snake in d monkey shadow, confront her n hear her out b4 jumping d gun,but it seems she's not trustworthy

profbrightuzoma:
Make sure you photo copy it and ask her again if she says no still tell her that you saw it if she denies it show her d evidence, still 4give and marry her if she worths it

She knows that he saw it

omega903:
D lady na snake in d monkey shadow, confront her n hear her out b4 jumping d gun,but it seems she's not trustworthy

she denied it wasn't hers, that it was for her close friend, bt d friend used her name. Imagine!

Girls disgracing ladies

First things first , He should confront her and ask her if she was pregnant before, if she agrees , she'll definitely ask for forgiveness and he can forgive her if he still loves her and move on .

But if she denies then he should show her his proof and watch her explain , Her story will definitely be filled with lies so its gonna be his choice what decision he's gonna make but a relationship without trust can't work .


The lady probably got pregnant before she met him and didn't want to lose him so she aborted the baby.

Mbkite:
He was so shocked when he saw a positive pregnancy test result in the room of the lady he wants to marry. The result shows that the test was conducted 7months ago, after he started dating her. This simply implies she aborted the pregnancy and lied to him never to have had abortion. He is really confused and has lost trust in her, but he still loves her.
NOTE: He has not slept with her for even a day.
What should he do to format what he saw from his memory and continue with the lady? Is this likely to affect his attitude towards the lady in the nearest future?

Matured advice please....

Your friend is a schmuck. So, he hasn't slept with this babe who isn't a virgin; strike 1. Strike 2; he wants to go on even after finding out that this 'virtuous' babe is an abortion veteran?

You/your friend don't need mature advice. Feel free to go on with the marriage. Good luck.

Timbuktou:


Your friend is a schmuck. So, he hasn't slept with this babe who isn't a virgin; strike 1. Strike 2; he wants to go on even after finding out that this 'virtuous' babe is an abortion veteran?

You/your friend don't need mature advice. Feel free to go on with the marriage. Good luck.

u dey vex ooo. Show pity nah

elantraceey:
First things first , He should confront her and ask her if she was pregnant before, if she agrees , she'll definitely ask for forgiveness and he can forgive her if he still loves her and move on .

But if she denies then he should show her his proof and watch her explain , Her story will definitely be filled with lies so its gonna be his choice what decision he's gonna make but a relationship without trust can't work .


The lady probably got pregnant before she met him and didn't want to lose him so she aborted the baby.

gud one. Thanx

@Op, is the test result carrying her name? you need to be sure if its hers or her friends test result.

easyconnect:
@Op, is the test result carrying her name? you need to be sure if its hers or her friends test result.

Yea, her name.

Mbkite:

Yea, her name.

Haha....hahaaa.

Ask her point black; if she lies ....please move on.

You only forgives when you love her and can bear the heartache of knowing fully well what happened and any associated fall outs.

VintageCocktail:
Haha....hahaaa.

Ask her point black; if she lies ....please move on.

You only forgives when you love her and can bear the heartache of knowing fully well what happened and any associated fall outs.

Gud. Thanx

Mbkite:

she denied it wasn't hers, that it was for her close friend, bt d friend used her name. Imagine!

enough reason to end the relationship..

She's a potential liar.

Mbkite:

she denied it wasn't hers, that it was for her close friend, but d friend used her name. Imagine!

As my father used to say; if you must lie, lie intelligently. That babe over dull.

Your friend should waka pass jare. She no be am.

Phema:


As my father used to say; when you want to lie, lie intelligently. That babe over dull.

Your friend should waka pass jare. She no be am.

Am telling u

And some vgs are looking for worthy husbands, who are crazy about them. Life sha

Zi:
And some vgs are looking for worthy husbands, who are crazy about them. Life sha

abeg can u link me to any vg, am seriously looking 4 them. They no longer exist in Port Harcourt, Nigeria.

Mbkite:
He was so shocked when he saw a positive pregnancy test result in the room of the lady he wants to marry. The result shows that the test was conducted 7months ago, after he started dating her. This simply implies she aborted the pregnancy and lied to him never to have had abortion. He is really confused and has lost trust in her, but he still loves her.
NOTE: He has not slept with her for even a day.
What should he do to format what he saw from his memory and continue with the lady? Is this likely to affect his attitude towards the lady in the nearest future?

Matured advice please....

Cc: lalasticlala, ishilove - Pls help us push this to the FP, the guy needs more help. Thanx

My dear please dump her IMMEDIATELY. Which question are you asking again na.she obviou sly cheated on you, got pregnant and aborted it . Please oh, don't open your eyes and enter a pit, this na serious one chance.

She is lying, so someone took a pregnancy test in HER name , then the person gave her the result and she kept it in her room for 7 months. Usually if a story sounds unbelievable, it's is a lie, SHINE YA EYES

@Op by any chance could your fiancees name be Babyosisi, Cococandy or Sophyrocks?
My brother there is no hope there. But let him fulfil all righteousness and ask her while keeping a duplicate copy of the preggy test or at least snap the test to show her if she wants to deny.
According to end time marriage counsellors, he is better of not knowing that his fiancee is an abortion veteran!

fem29:



My dear please dump her IMMEDIATELY. Which question are you asking again na.she obviou sly cheated on you, got pregnant and aborted it . Please oh, don't open your eyes and enter a pit, this na serious one chance.

She is lying, so someone took a pregnancy test in HER name , then the person gave her the result and she kept it in her room for 7 months. Usually if a story sounds unbelievable, it's is a lie, SHINE YA EYES

Lol, thanx dear

dinachi:
@Op by any chance could your fiancees name be Babyosisi, Cococandy or Sophyrocks?
My brother there is no hope there. But let him fulfil all righteousness and ask her while keeping a duplicate copy of the preggy test or at least snap the test to show her if she wants to deny.
According to end time marriage counsellors, he is better of not knowing that his fiancee is an abortion veteran!

None of the above mentioned names. Thanx 4 ur advice.

Mbkite:

she denied it wasn't hers, that it was for her close friend, bt d friend used her name. Imagine!

this lady has Ph.D in lietology!
She's just too dangerous to believe/trust. How can someone else use her name to run pregnancy test? The lying tongue and lips of hers is just too big for you to kiss and embrace.
Free her before she lie against you yourself!

greatgod2012:



this lady has Ph.D in lietology!
She's just too dangerous to believe/trust. How can someone else use her name to run pregnancy test? The lying tongue and lips of hers is just too big for you to kiss and embrace.
Free her before she lie against you yourself!

Lol. Thanx

Mbkite:

she denied it wasn't hers, that it was for her close friend, bt d friend used her name. Imagine!

ain't her fault she got this from nairaland


my friend my friend my friend

Lool
Women can never change.

Acidosis:
Lool
Women can never change.

too bad bro

Never hang on to a lying woman(or man)....especially when it has to do with finance, family, religion and sex!