fem29:


Hi hun. It's been a while . How are you and the family. We are ok here in Jesus name oooo. Been in a bit of a funk but feeling better now.

Fine thanks. Yes its been a while. a bit busy at the moment. Family is fine. Glad you are fine. Look after yourself and the girls for us as always.

fem29:
First of all congratulations on your bundles of joy. I wish I had had boy girl twins. I know it's really hard right now but it will get better. As someone above said please hire a house help that comes during the day and leaves at 9pm. Let her do all cleaning, washing, tidying etc etc. So that your wife will just cook and focus on the babies until they get older and sleep through the night and are more manageable.

Hello fem. long time. How are the cute twins doing?

cococandy:

Fine o. My baby is gentle and doesn't disturb YET..:

It's the plenty exams I have this period that's weighing me down. Sort of bad timing but God dey. I'll make it.

You will be fine dear. Goodluck.

Happy birthday tearoses.

Chillisauce:


Hi babes. Longest time no hear. Hope you are great .

Am great dear. Thanks am doing great.

byvan03:




Hello dear, its been a while. Hope family is doing great, thanks for the mention .

Am doing great dear. Thanks

cococandy:
Thanks for all your support

Gotta go rest now.

Ttyl.

You deserve it dear. Put your legs up and have a lovely rest.

bukatyne:


Babygirlfl,

How do you do?

Lovely regards to you and family

Am fine dear. Trust you are doing great. Regards to the family.

cococandy:
Efemenaxy
Chillisauce
Bukatyne
Babygirlfl
Edwife
Tearoses
Ifyalways

Lil princess is here.

Congrats darling. Thank God for a safe delivery. She will shine like a star wherever she goes in life. She will be a source of happiness to you and your family. She will never lack. Mummy coco try and get as much rest as you can and enjoy your bundle of joy. I will be celebrating here with you.

cococandy:

Few weeks to go.
Can't wait!

I can't wait too dear. Eagerly waiting for the arrival of our queen. I keep coming to have a peep on Nairaland just so I don't miss the birth of our queen.

Greetings to the ladies. Byvan03, chillisauce, Efemenexy , bukatyne, ifyalways etc.

Who seats in the front of a car might be petty depending on who is involved. What is not petty however is op's attitude. Also, in marriage, petty things tend to be the cause of trouble. If the wife considers it petty and ask you to stay in front, then its fine. In your friends case, it seems it is important to the wife who sits in the front and it is so rude of you to ignore and stay put. You also do not have respect for him and his wife (this might be secondary to him not having respect for her anyway).

I used to ignore who sat at the front of the car until I realized that some people just lack good manners. Letting them stay in the car because they were there already will give some people without manners the right to think that that is how it should be. They might not understand why they can't stay in front next time.

The fact that you are arrogant about it is enough for some women to teach you a lesson by making sure you get off that front seat just for the fun of it and not because it means so much to them who seats in the front. Most sensible men won't even let you treat their wife in that manner.

op, If your wife comes to pick you with her friend in the car, would you expect her friend to act in this same way you acted?

Miami11:

As crazy as that sounds, I hope it's a 14 month old

I really hope so too.

Really, Are we talking 14years old or 14monrhs. This is laughable. I would not allow my child that is much younger than that sleep in the same room/bed with us through the night. If the 14years old is unwell, the Dad and step mum can see to her in the guest room.
Women please think really hard before you become a step mum.

Kachisbarbie:
This argument has been on between my colleagues and I, some of us insist a woman maintains her maiden state of origin (officially) after marriage, others say she changes to her marital state of origin .

To the Mrs in the house, which state of origin do you put on official forms (e.g) bank documents, travelling, sim registration...etc.?

Sweetheart, you are right. State of origin does not change. Origin means start. It does not change. I and hubby come from the same state so would be the same state irrespective and I also hardly ever need to write such as I hardly ever get asked that.I perfectly understand why you asked. Some women have changed every trace of their existence before marriage. This is not bad on itself except that they expect every woman to do same. Please my dear, for your sanity, do not get into arguement with them. To such women. I always tell them to do what suit them let me do mine.

cococandy:

I'm fine. thank you.

I hope you're splendid too.

I am doing great dear. Thanks.

Our women should learn to build themselves also while building the man. You two should build each other. If you both build each other and you separate, you will know you have to deal with the emotions only and not just the fact that you are losing out. This is a common occurrence now. It's old news that a lot of men change and start chasing women as soon as they get rich. I expect every woman to do herself good by building herself too. If you don't in this time and age, then am sorry, you don't deserve any pity.

bukatyne:


Real drama

How are you and family?

Fine dear. How are you and the family?

cococandy:

I think I understand. It hit so close to home and has you worried but you just have to stop dwelling on the fear joor.
It's true the C diseases is just almost everywhere now. Almost like an epidemic. sometimes I find myself thinking about it too. My boss just went for her surgery last month. We are hoping she pulls through fine.

But we can't prevent anything by worrying.

keep up the carrot juice.

And pushing is going fine. Few more weeks to go.

How are you doing dear. Take care of yourself and our beautiful queen. Cancer is scaring and sad but unfortunately is on the rise. Good thing is that there is active cancer and HIV research TO find medicines that would treat or manage it effectively.

Chillis:


Nice one Efe.
I don't even run again. I will try. Even if it's once a week.

For those doing pills for pregnancy prevention. How do you do it. I'm scared of cases of breast cancer I hear of every corner. These women are not even up to mid 30s.

Even pills for cold. I only take it when I can't move around. All these drugs could either save or kill you. Radiation too. How much is too small or too big ?
I tire sha. It's well. My very good friend is sick. God she is too young for this kind of sickness .

The incidence of breast cancer from contraceptive pills is really low but definitely there. Contraceptive pills also has a small chance of preventing some cancers too. However, we always advice that those with a family history of breast cancer stay away from using contraceptives.

There is no medication without side effect. whether or not to give/take medication is always a case of risk/benefit profile. If it will benefit you more to take it, then its worth it but if there is more risk, then you won't take it.

very sorry to hear about your friend.

bukatyne:
Drama Drama

We love drama. Lol

cococandy:
U.K babes and entertainment galore.
I dey like to read their stories sha.

Lol. Trust me I like to read the stories but I really hate witnessing one. The last one I witnessed when I visited London the last time at Dalston market was just awful.

I did not know people in the uk engaged in such fetish egg things. I have not personally seen or heard it. For the BFF and insult thing, it's common here with people falling out. It's always a shameful act to witness it with people threatening to report and deport the other person. I think it's worse in cities like London, Manchester and Bermingham with large Nigerian communities. I stay in a part of Uk with a native population and not many blacks let alone Nigerians. The Nigerian here have less time for such things. We are always pleased to come across our kind.

Fem29, I thought you were planing to go Geordie town? How are our beautiful girls doing.

Chillisauce:


You are here fighting Byvan over coco babygal while EfemenaXY had secretly cornered her with one of her teenage sons.
When the babe turns 18, Efe's 31yr old son by then will show up with cooool cash. Your boy and Byvan boy will still be carrying bag pack for one of their anthropology course
Make una dey hustle. The silent ones are the ones you should be aware of.

Happy new yr

Lol. Now I know why Efe want me and Byvan to keep fighting. We go they there they fight when she don take the queen. Ok Byvan, no more fighting. Chilli, I always trust you to tell me the truth.

bukatyne:


Merry Christmas in arrears dear

Hope the day was great.

Cc: cococandy, babygirlfl, chillisauce ( you just disappeared), Efemena et all.

Wonderful 2016.

Merry Christmas dear and may you all have a wonderful new year.

EfemenaXY:


Chai!

Nne, your mouth bad pass chilli own.

Oya babygirlfl fire back. Da score izz 1-0. Where is Edwife? Referee tinz...

Nah Efe, the only win I want is to get that queen to our palace. Byvan can win the talk.

byvan03:







Lol, you still dey build palace, Cococandy don already collect trailers of yams and 10 cows for the engagement rights. The rightful Prince has been in karate classes for two years in case people like you comes around to crash a perfect engagement party . No need to dey wait Prince wey im palace still dey under construction .


Wait for next turn, beg Coco to born your own Queen. This one was taken before her conception. You are invited to the engagement party, come with your boy because other chics will be there for taking .

Lol madam Byvan we don't talk much. We act. You go dey there they give yam like say we dey 18th century when we go carry our queen they go our well built palace. You no see coco for the healthy eating thread? She no dey eat yam again neither does our queen so I no know wetin you dey give them yam for.

byvan03:
Please be exactly yourself from day 1 and create your boundary now, if not it will be difficult for you to do later. Playing mumu for as long as she lives won't be an easy job.

Exactly.

All you have to do is ask. I can't conderm her until you have asked her to help and she refused.

Asking her to help you is much easier than stopping her from coming around.

Funny thing is that the op will get married herself and wish she had a husband that is that helpful. When you get married, provided you don't have a detective in-law like you, you can decide to make sure your husband never gives a hand and nobody will ask you.

This is the reason why inlaws are sometimes not welcome. Instead of coming and helping out and make the family miss you when you go, you decided to make yourself an unpaid detective investigating a loving couple with the hope of passing unsolitated information to you mum. Please mind your business.

On a side note, a woman does not need to be sick or pregnant for her husband to help out in the home and they are many reasons a woman can ask the husband to get something even though other people are there. It could be because he is the only other person that knows where it is or the only person to be able to reach it or simply because the do things that way and don't think too much about such little things.

cococandy:

I wasn't betraying you. I promise.

Just looking at other options

byvan03:




The babe is home already, no more options to browse.

Lol. we no dey talk too much. Queen meets King and settle into their palace shikena. No option no browsing. That one na Cococandy and byvan03 own . Ehen Oga contractor, I said better than Buckingham palace not exactly like Buckingham palace.

Chillisauce:


Happy new yr

Same to you dear. Have a blessed and fruitful new year.

Chillisauce:


Hi babes. I'm fine o.
Was tied down. When I finally had time. . I couldn't type with long nails. Then one thumb nail fell off. Im using it now to type but my eyes are hurting from to much reading. O yes... chilli reads too much.
Anyway. .

Lol. Good to know you are fine. Merry Xmas dear.