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Education / Re: What Offence Did a Student Who Approached His Female Lecturer For love Commit? by Chuksemi(m): 9:48pm On Sep 05, 2022 |
In saner climes, your brother should be in jail for harassment 5 Likes 1 Share |
Celebrities / Re: Davido Meets Wizkid’s Mum At The Airport (Photo) by Chuksemi(m): 5:58pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Davido like wizkid Sha 1 Like |
Romance / Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by Chuksemi(m): 10:23am On Jun 03, 2022 |
julie90: He doesn’t want someone who is ambitious. There is nothing wrong with that. He is just not for you. Move on, the right man that can handle your success will come and encourage you to move higher. 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by Chuksemi(m): 10:07am On May 31, 2022 |
Lifted07: Maybe he actually did sleep with his brother’s wife and the brother just got to find out. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Not The Marriage I Had In Mind by Chuksemi(m): 7:21am On May 23, 2022 |
Augustwife: Good morning Mrs August. From what you have said so far, I do not think your “marriage” has a problem. Rather your husband does, addiction. Addiction to alcohol is a very difficult thing to fight, it is not easy for anyone to fight any addiction. A lot of people spend years trying to get rid of alcohol addiction but it’s largely unsuccessful. You can decide to leave him because of his addiction problems, but the essence of marriage is to stick to your partner especially in times like this. Addiction is an illness and should be treated as such, he can’t control himself, he doesn’t drink because he “wants” to. He drinks because he must and if he doesn’t his body system goes haywire. What you need is a solution to his problem and the ones you have tried so far has been unproductive. I advise both of you do an extensive research on alcohol addiction and best methods to fight it. Meet professional psychological doctors, try home therapy too. So many times he will try and fail, you are his support system and should be there to cheer him on to win the fight. He also needs to belong to a group or community of people trying to fight alcohol addiction, if you can find one. Overseas, they have what is called AA meetings for those addicted to alcohol and trying to fight it. If he can find something like that here it will help a lot, so he can know he is not alone in the fight. People make mistakes and get addicted to substances that ruin their lives. You’re his last hope, leaving him right now will only make things worse and make it more difficult for him to break his addiction. Like I said, addiction isn’t easy to fight, you may not understand him because you are not in his shoes. But right now, if he is willing to stop, he needs love, support and care. He won’t get it right on the first try, or even the 10th one, but you guys have to keep trying together till he is able to overcome it. And yes one more tip, it’s difficult or stop addiction at once. It has to be gradual. Try first by reducing his alcohol intake little by little. If he takes 10 bottles a day, start by making it 9 per day. |
Celebrities / Re: DJ Spinall Blasts Rema by Chuksemi(m): 8:30pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
thesicilian: Chai be like make I buy you wine but sapa de. Nice comment 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Why Do Christians Worship On Sundays? by Chuksemi(m): 10:06am On Nov 28, 2021 |
Solofresh2: The apostles after the death and resurrection of Jesus used to meet on the first day of the week, untill they were identified as Christians. So hence the tradition carried on. The apostles couldn’t meet on the sabbath day as it was a strict offense even in those days. 1 Like |
Religion / Re: South-East Killings Force Catholic Summit’s Movement From Imo To Asaba by Chuksemi(m): 2:49pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
Leverage2021: So according to your logic, since the north is in disarray And unsafe, the east can also follow suit? Is this a defense? If Boko haram is in the north, does that mean the east can then be unsafe as well? I would really appreciate your response 6 Likes 1 Share |
Fashion / Re: My Elder Brother Wears Waistbeads by Chuksemi(m): 11:56am On Nov 24, 2021 |
EkehPraise: Mind your business and ignore. He will come out of the closet when he is ready to. 3 Likes |
Politics / Re: Buba Marwa: Legalization Of Cannabis Will Take Nigeria To Dark Days by Chuksemi(m): 7:14am On Nov 19, 2021 |
This one just wants to keep making money from arresting marijuana dealers lol. 2 Likes |
Pets / Re: Do Vets Perform Abortions On Dogs? by Chuksemi(m): 5:16pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
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Crime / Re: Omowunmi, Osun Polytechnic Student Died After Visiting Her Boyfriend (Photo) by Chuksemi(m): 8:53am On Nov 02, 2021 |
Nigerians are so brain dead, it’s painful to see. |
Romance / Re: In Brazil Prostitution Is Legal (photo) by Chuksemi(m): 10:13pm On Sep 23, 2021 |
Politics / Re: Abba Kyari Committed No Crime On US Soil, Shouldn’t Be Extradited – Panel by Chuksemi(m): 10:47am On Sep 19, 2021 |
Street Unfriendly, Wetin men eye don see no be child’s play 1 Like 1 Share |
Properties / Re: Can 4 Million Naira Build A House? by Chuksemi(m): 12:27pm On Aug 25, 2021 |
Happinessjosh: a. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Describe Your Relationship by Chuksemi(m): 1:02pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
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Music/Radio / Re: Essence By Wizkid On Billboard Hot 100 by Chuksemi(m): 10:45am On Jul 13, 2021 |
This album probably going to get a Grammy nomination this year. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Why Most Guys Don't Allow Their Younger Sister To Date Their Friends? by Chuksemi(m): 4:05pm On Jul 10, 2021 |
If you’re my friend and you’re dating my sister, it better ends in marriage because if you break her heart, it’s probably going to be the end of our friendship. My sister is my family, so if you’re going to be with her and I know you personally, you better come correct. 48 Likes 2 Shares |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: The Profitability Of A Keke Napep On A Hire Purchase by Chuksemi(m): 6:35pm On May 25, 2021 |
Kelvin125: I gave it out, I think it’s best if you drive it your self. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: The Profitability Of A Keke Napep On A Hire Purchase by Chuksemi(m): 9:38am On May 25, 2021 |
Please don’t buy it. Bought 2 last year, money down the drain today. 1 Like |
Properties / Re: My Landlord Gave Me 6months Quit Notice When My Rent Will Due In 6months Time by Chuksemi(m): 11:14am On Mar 09, 2021 |
He is right. He simply doesn’t accept a renewal of contract from you. 10 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Nina Onyenobi Buys Her Mother A Car On Her 60th Birthday by Chuksemi(m): 9:33pm On Oct 25, 2020 |
Hoodlums |
Celebrities / Re: "Chacha Eke Has No Bipolar Disorder" - Brother, Aik Eke Blasts Chacha's Husband by Chuksemi(m): 12:37pm On Oct 08, 2020 |
Abi the brother follow get Bipolar disorder? Just de talk anyhow. If you want talk wetin happen talk am, if not keep quiet abeg make we rest. 20 Likes |
Politics / Re: Ernst And Young Appointed As NDDC Auditors by Chuksemi(m): 11:31am On Aug 28, 2020 |
alushkimo: Lol. Okay. |
Politics / Re: Ernst And Young Appointed As NDDC Auditors by Chuksemi(m): 9:56am On Aug 28, 2020 |
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Politics / Re: Ernst And Young Appointed As NDDC Auditors by Chuksemi(m): 9:51am On Aug 28, 2020 |
Another avenue to siphon funds lol, 2.5 billion ke, only God knows how much was paid so they can be chosen as one of the 12 auditors. Nothing will come out of this, the 2.5 billion would be pocketed and spent, the auditors will get their share, a few non complying directors will be indicted and we’ll move on with life. This is so sad, another 2.5 billion about to be shared � 5 Likes |
Romance / Re: Guys; Having Money Doesn't Make Your Babe Loyal. Share Your Stories by Chuksemi(m): 8:11am On Jul 30, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1: Hahaha nice. If she belongs to the streets, then to the streets she must return. Never love a hoe, only Bleep a hoe. 7 Likes |
Romance / Re: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by Chuksemi(m): 10:17pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
Nairaland has a lot of kids. Smh |
Romance / Re: Important Message For Those Who Like To Watch Xvideos by Chuksemi(m): 6:27pm On Jul 07, 2020 |
I think it’s best to watch porn hub then. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Health / Re: Masturbation Has Caused Me Erectile Dysfunction. Help!! by Chuksemi(m): 10:24pm On May 12, 2020 |
junior20202020: Erectile dysfunction is quite normal. And it’s nothing to be ashamed of. Your issue is psychological, since it happened the first time, it will keep happening again till you face it. Find a girl who loves you, explain this to her and both of you should patiently work on it. It’s not really a big deal, unless you make it one. |
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