Racoon: The citizens are really funny. Admiring a beautiful lady that spoke out against the lawless of soldiers in fueling the fuel scarcity of 1984. Meanwhile, have the situation changed 30 years thereafter? Absolutely no!
The speaking ought to have been more louder now with more affirmative action, but most have leagued with their corrupt oppressors. Ask the chalartan Occupy and Save Nigeria groups of 2012 - 14.
I doubt thats a good way to see it. This is probably distraction mechanism from the governing branch now. Allows them control the narrative, just like Roman emperor's were doing with the colosseum.
Although I consider this question a dumb one, I’ll share my considerations. Sex is primarily an instinctive indulgence, and I’m sure goats don’t watch porn to know what to do during sex; chimpanzees and dogs don’t either. It’s like a baby’s first walking steps; it is instinctive—a response to nature’s design.
Humans are born with a sexual primal instinct that calls us to act in a certain way during sexual intercourse. I have heard foxes moan while mating, and it’ll be dimwitted to suggest that it’s a learned behavior. It is nature, just like it is natural to cry when beaten. The summary of my point is that if two virgins get married, they will, to a great extent, know what to do. They’ll know what’s pleasing, what’s painful, what feels good, what should be repeated.
Who taught humans what sex styles are? NOBODY! It’s the instinctive obsession to pleasure that invents even more pleasurable sexual methods. Sex styles must have been as old as mankind, but its labeling and popularity was aided by porn. Porn didn’t invent sex styles; nature did. It is important that intending couples know basic things about their sexual organs, but this should never be taught using pornography. Pornography is a skewed and corrupt imagery of sex. It is everything sex and intimacy is not! It is a bad example.
As Christians, it’s an abomination. Justifying watching porn as a married couple is like learning how to please God from Satan. Your marriage is holy; why involve unholy things? I appreciate the liberty married couples have in marriage, but it’s still subject to holiness. Humans don’t need porn for a fulfilling sexual life in marriage. The primal instinct aided by communication during intimacy is enough for pleasure your partner. Porn is unattainable—60 minutes nonstop thrusting; the perfect bodies and 10 inches joysticks are unreal.
I started work for this organization in December last year and I am heading my department. A new manager, a female was brought in January from a different state as the overall head. It wasn't easy for her as a lot of junior staff fought against her decisions. I was her go to person even though there are other people heading various departments. As time went on, some junior and senior members of the organization began to disassociate from her. This made us come more closer. We hug each other every morning on resumption of duty, she visits my office, eat there if she came with food and most times, will sleep on my office. She is always jealous whenever she sees me holding other female colleagues. I don't go beyond the hugging because she is married and I respect her marriage. Even the hugging, I don't hug in the front, but at the side. With time, she was able to push a lot of junior staffs away and new ones were employed. One of the new guy employed last month, knows the game to unlocking women's leg. Within last month and this month, he has slept with almost all the girls in the organization and even the girls I usually play left me, both the one that has visited me in my house although, we didn't do anything. Some weeks ago, he began coming close to the overall manager, and the woman, started developing emotions for him and becomebtoo attracted to him. Last week, I and the guy were having some good time then she appeared, came to the chair where I sat and looked straight into the guys eyes. I caught her, and she became uncomfortable. She left my office and then closed work after 5 mins even though it wasn't her closing time. She lives with her husband and I do go to visit them. I never knew I had feelings for her all these while until that particular act happened. Well, after that act, I restrained her from coming to my office. She came begging me. She asked me what was wrong. I couldn't tell her because she is married but i was dying. She even asked me if i am in love with her but i kept mum. Two days ago, I was with her in her office when she heard the guy's voice and how the other women are happy, chanting and laughing. Immediately, she became uncomfortable and after 5 mins, she told me that she was coming and left. 10 minutes later, I went out and caught she and the guy in a happy mood. I became very angry and hurt, the only friend I had was gone. Yesterday, I called her to her office and asked her if she loves the guy. She was furious but I continued by pointing out all that I have observed about her and the guy. She became cold, and her countenance changed. After i left her office, she sat there without stepping out the whole day except the time she closed for the day.
I don't know if it was wrong to have told her about the guy since I'm not the husband.
As it stands now, I've decided to cut close ties with her as I know clearly, the guy has won.
Before she went home yesterday, I went into her office and noticed that she was crying and then, her hand shaking. I asked her why was she crying and why is her hand shaking. She did not say anything, so I told her to do what's on her mind, because I know clearly that that I've lost her.
Ever since yesterday, I've been feeling jealousy towards them.
She didn't come to work today but I'm worried about her, me and the guy tomorrow.
Lol, a case of hold me oh, let me fight, like thouts in a market square. If you knew you didn't want to fight,why attack Israel? Israel will retaliate before they come to the table
GistMedia0: In a viral video circulating on social media, a cultural exchange turned into a moment of astonishment as a white man questioned his Nigerian wife about the process of making fufu, a traditional West African staple dish.
The video, which has sparked both amusement and debate online, captures the husband's candid reaction as his wife demonstrates the intricate steps involved in preparing fufu, a dish made from fermented cassava.
"So you eat rotten cassava?" the husband incredulously asks, his tone a mixture of surprise and skepticism.
The wife, unperturbed by her husband's reaction, patiently explains the fermentation process that gives cassava its distinct flavor and texture in fufu-making, emphasizing its significance in Nigerian cuisine and culture.
Wawelexy: What kind of rhetorical question is this? You say legal wife... Any reasonable person should know the legal wife is the third wife that did court wedding. Court = Legal
He can't do church wedding and court wedding with two different women without divorcing one of them. Reason being that the church weddings are taken to court to legalize so question is a no-brainer
DaudaTheSexyGuy: This is one of the reasons why I don't want to relocate to Canada, I know it will be difficult for me to be getting steady supply of fresh toto
Not true. If e scarce scarce, red light district never finish
ednut1: I see a lot nairalander fantasizing about being hot cake abroad when they haven’t been there. The truth is women there are only interested in 20% of men. If you are not good looking, tall, with good job and swag. Nothing for you o. In Nigeria you could use your 3k or indomie and egg to get babes. But for abroad the babes are equally working so your money has to be long to entice them. 🤣🤣
Not really. Naija ladies are lonely so it's free for all but as usual they would expect you to spend. Most times you only need to have a nice car and good job and you go chop tire. If that is your game. I know a guy that concentrates on those ones that have been rejected asylum. They are usually desperate to stay and there he does his census. All in all, you need to be at the right place and at the right time. Then it depends on what you are looking for.
orohbiro: A guy. Help me with paltry 20k yesterday and he have d effrontery to ask me what he will get in return. Why is broke guys like this? can't you just help and leave in return finish him there Big fool
Em! Hope you gave the money back? If you didn't then you should be grateful he decided to help your poverty ministry so STFU
siofra: Every sensible human knows Okafor's law is fake. Only insecure foolish men that can't move on from their exes, FwB, one night stands etc believe that rubbish law.
Quality20: One major reason is because they know that they could easily b caught and besides its a thing of shame for her husband to discover on the wedding night that she isn't a chaste as expected. Its also important to remember that Hausa Fulani girls are very religious and not wayward, intact most of the girls are even more religious than the boys. They are also under less economic pressure ,so they have no reason to go out in search for money
Seun: The idea that every woman in every marriage should be submissive offends me. No one should be allowed to demand for that. Anyone who is truly submissive will surely be taken advantage of. When I love someone, the last thing I want to do is to try to subjugate/infantilize them. I feel so sad when women are talking about the "struggle" to achieve submissiveness in their marriage because of some ancient religious texts.
I want a strong partner. I don't want a subordinate. I don't want an unpaid domestic employee. Equality in diversity is the way to go, in my view.
Yes, that is where we all confuse the meaning of marriage. Our African mentality really can't exist in Morden times. The idea of submission in marriage does not have to apply to only the woman. Marriage itself is submission. You submit yourself to the other person for the progress and success of you both.
AoifeNightfall: I see hot takes on women being submissive especially after that mummy Zee's stuff on Twitter.
But I want to ask, in this modern era where women contribute financially too in the home, should a woman still submit?
I think we should be talking about reciprocal respect now, not submission because the world is changing. Concepts that worked in the past may not work anymore in the present era.
Please don't submit to anyone especially your husband. It is not by force to marry. If your husband insists you submit to him, give him a slap. After all he didn't train you or give birth to you. Don't even submit to yourself. The only people you should submit to are your pastors. In fact don't even submit to your pastors, those people are now rapists
WebOracle: I made a post on my Facebook about my accommodation issues in school and how I needed help with a new one.
This guy went to my DM and asked me to delete the post, that he’d help me.
Asked me to come to Umuahia from Calabar, I asked for tfare, he asked me to come first with mine, after all na me dey find help.
I traveled down two days later, got to Umuahia only for the guy to tell me to find a place to lodge and he’d join me later because he had to attend to an emergency.😳
I managed to lodge with what I had which was even a deposit and told the hotel receptionist that my host will balance up when he comes.
He came later in the night with “Nutri Milk and Bread”.😡
He coerced me into having $3x with him based on say I dey vulnerable to his help.😭
4am he took excuse to rush to go for another emergency.
Na so Orjiako Emmanuel Japa from the hotel and left me stranded o.🙆🏽♂️
Balance of hotel e nor pay. Food e nor give me chop. Transport e nor give. Money for rent e promise e nor give
Blocked me everywhere and left me in more vulnerable and terrible state.😭😡
Nobody treats any human like that no matter what You don’t ride on people’s desperation to make yourself feel good.
Orjiako Emmanuel is a terrible human and he should be famous by force!!!
ObaKlaz: Wake me up when they at least bring Diezani to justice ⚖️. Before April 2024, we'd forget there ever was an investigator or investigation. The dust would settle and it would be back to business as usual. Useless 'cruise' country!
Diezani is over and done. She is gone. Nothing Nigeria can do to her anymore
Keepamsafe: I feel so sad and devastated. Why are ladies treating good men like this
Today, I had to borrow money from 3 different loan app because im meeting a new girl today.
Luckily, we met and had our date and I spent roughly 45k I borrowed from loan app and still gave her 5k for pocket money and yet, she refused to follow me home.
Im home now, lying in bed alone and sad.
Hook up 7k, but I spent 50k today because i wanted to build soul connection. yet I gained nothing. Absolutely nothing. Not even sex and im now in debt, broke like a church rat and no woman to console me. I feel scammed.
Im in a dilemma. help please.
I doubt tis story is authentic. I mean only reason to borrow money is if one is investing in a sane program. Borrowing money for a date makes no sense cos one gets no returns from the results of that date. Unless the lady in question is wealthy and the man in question sees her agreeing as the monetary investment that would pay monetary dividends to pay back that loan
The pic is authentic. Yes the pope said the blessing of people who are irregular couple should not be liturgical, it should not be done in a place, with gestures, or vestments or signs or anything that will make people confuse it for a marriage or scandalise people. It should be a spontanous blessing
Exactly and that is why when I see statements like on this thread, I ask if people even understand what was said before they start arguing. Very well said, bravo!
It is a matter of avoiding that “something that is not marriage is being recognized as marriage.”[5] Therefore, rites and prayers that could create confusion between what constitutes marriage—which is the “exclusive, stable, and indissoluble union between a man and a woman, naturally open to the generation of children”[6]—and what contradicts it are inadmissible. This conviction is grounded in the perennial Catholic doctrine of marriage; it is only in this context that sexual relations find their natural, proper, and fully human meaning. The Church’s doctrine on this point remains firm.
5. This is also the understanding of marriage that is offered by the Gospel. For this reason, when it comes to blessings, the Church has the right and the duty to avoid any rite that might contradict this conviction or lead to confusion. Such is also the meaning of the Responsum of the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith, which states that the Church does not have the power to impart blessings on unions of persons of the same sex.
Yep, thereabout close to the general meaning of things. Yes, the church has the right to bless whoever the want, wherever they want. But the catholic doctirnes doesn't support homosexualism and hence they can't directly show support for it cos it goes against those doctirnes. And the Pope stated that as such in the last paragraph of that statement. Why people misunderstood that baffles me.
Hallo, I know exactly what he said. But like I stated you need to look closely at what the Pope spoke about. If it's still unclear to you, then look at the last sentence where he stated something about church grounds and what not.
Now this is surprising. The question here would be does the church house not fall into any catholic approved grounds or did the Pope mean that such blessings should only happen outside the church itself? That would need to be clarified, if that pix is authentic
abhosts: Them go explain taya. The African Catholics are doing damage control because they know Africans are not receptive to homosexuality.
But there is no damage to control. The Pope did state publicly that Priest are allowed to bless homosexual couples. But read the statement yourself then you would understand the undertones of the statement
Politics / Re: Woman Who Spoke Against Fuel Scarcity In 1994 Video Goes Viral by drnoel: 6:06am On May 03
