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Family / Re: My Wife Double Dated Before We Got Married by efilimu(m): 3:06pm On Sep 28, 2017
sayittome:

Exactly my thought too. However, i think he needs like six months (may be more or less) to reflect, pray, plan, get counselling from well-informed pple and strategise. And i suggest your wife should go away for those period. The essence is for her to appreciate the seriousness of her wrong ways and repent of them and appreciate you as her husband.
Dont be desperate and dont go begging for her.
People change, sometimes, when they know what is at stake. So you need to be sure that she has really changed.
The six months is long but it serves as a discipline to her and a test of her repentance, faithfullness and loyalty to you.
If she is a changed person (and a wise woman too) she and her family should come begging.
But dont accept her just like that. You should give conditions for accepting her. Moreso, i reckon she needs counselling too. She needs to undertand the value of a family and the dignity/holiness/blessedness of its purpose.
Essentially, you need to take back control of your marriage, and, the time is NOW.
Try not to be emotional now but let your actions be based on grand rational sense.
Also be guilded by God's words which discourages divorce.
Taking back control of you marriage is possible but i reckon you need expert counselling to succeed.
Anyway, dont hesitate to contact me if you need more advice. Obviously you do need more as this piece is insufficient and will require clarification. GOD BLESS YOU.
Best advice so far.
TV/Movies / Re: DC EXTENDED UNIVERSE (FILM) by efilimu(m): 10:56am On Sep 26, 2017
philfearon:

Exactly what is there to dislike in the movie?
And exactly what is there to like in the movie?
TV/Movies / Re: DC EXTENDED UNIVERSE (FILM) by efilimu(m): 11:09am On Sep 25, 2017
philfearon:

Unless you are myopic, and read a lot of junk online, then you should know BVS is more than epic.
So because I dislike BVS, I'm myopic. You are the myopic one for believing everyone's taste must align with yours.
Events / Re: Is N500k Marriage Still Possible In This Recession? by efilimu(m): 3:00pm On Sep 22, 2017
Acidosis:


Please do not create problems for yourself. To buttress Ishi's point, majority of the problems we face today are man-made. We spend 20 hours creating problems for ourselves, and then struggle through the remaining hours of the day looking for solutions.

You have saved N800,000. Go ahead and marry a woman that shares same orientation with you. Many women out there do not need the 'ovation' kind of wedding... don't be scared of anything, they all possess the same body structure and endowment. Spending N1 trillion on a wedding won't automatically give you access to four brea.sts on your wedding night.

A group of businessmen just sat down and derived a way to suck out money from intending couples and they felt the best way to go about it is to build wedding dress worth millions, event centres, etc. Since they are aware that many people out there are mu.mu "sheep-ers" to celebrities, they make sure their services and products get endorsed by celebrities.

You are a human with a mind of your own, you can break the chain!

About the car talk, I sincerely think that you're about getting married the wrong woman. If your woman is not ready to take that public transport with you, then quit. Get a car at a convenient period when you're sure that YOU (not a girlfriend) will NEED it.

If Danfo is what you use, ensure you get a woman that feels comfortable in Danfo, if she bothers you with Uber requests, quit! She's not your type.
Your last paragraph...exactly what was on my mind.
TV/Movies / Re: DC EXTENDED UNIVERSE (FILM) by efilimu(m): 10:55am On Sep 22, 2017
xtin007:
Early Justice League screening says the movie is Epic...well let's just wait and see for ourselves.
The same was said for BVS
TV/Movies / Re: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by efilimu(m): 12:37pm On Sep 21, 2017
TV/Movies / Re: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by efilimu(m): 12:36pm On Sep 21, 2017
Funjosh:





That movie strong O, you can never say that thing is very old until shit starts revealing it self angry
https://www.efilimu.com/tomb-raider-trailer/
TV/Movies / Re: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by efilimu(m): 12:36pm On Sep 21, 2017
TV/Movies / Re: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by efilimu(m): 12:35pm On Sep 21, 2017
TV/Movies / Re: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by efilimu(m): 12:35pm On Sep 21, 2017
TV/Movies / Tomb Raider Trailer: Lara Croft Is Fierceless In This Reboot by efilimu(m): 12:31pm On Sep 21, 2017

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2w5VZmos5I4
Alicia Vikander plays Lara Croft in the reboot of American action film “Tomb Raider” which is based on a video game of

the same name. The film is scheduled for a 2018 release by Warner Bros with supporting characters, Dominic West,

Daniel Wu and Walton Goggins.

Roar Uthag is in the director’s chair.
https://www.efilimu.com/tomb-raider-trailer/
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Apply For The 2018 Stanbic IBTC Fresh Graduate Trainee Program by efilimu(m): 9:54am On Sep 21, 2017
adakoleagbenu:
still haven't gotten invite o n I meet all d criteria. chose Lagos.



why **� sad
You are not the only one!!!
TV/Movies / Re: Trailer For Amina: A Must Watch Nigerian Historical Movie by efilimu(m): 11:53am On Sep 18, 2017
toluxe0075:
I wasn't surprise when i saw Izu Ojukwu as the director, his movies are usually of high quality with good storyline. I'm hyped for this movie.
Yes, you are right. The production quality is high. Please like my facebook page: facebook.com/efilimu
Romance / Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by efilimu(m): 5:31pm On Sep 15, 2017
isaacsegun:


Sometimes ago I created a thread to seek
people's advice, but to my surprise I was bashed
beyond my imagination. Some even went as far as
coursing the op,so I see it as a matter of
necessity to let everyone know the full details of
what prompted me to seek for people's advice.
As I stated in the first thread, the abortion
brouhaha happened in 2008.And after the abortion
I did everything I could to stay away from her
due to so much friction that the issue has caused
between our parents and most especially the
strict opposition from her mother, but she will
never leave me.
We even came to know that we are closely
related.
I got admission in 2009,and I left her in village.
I was happy thinking it will give me the
opportunity to cut off all my contacts with
her,which I did. But after some years she got my
phone number through a friend,and we have been
calling/chatting on phone but we only saw each
other once in 2011 when she came to village, and
we could not even talk because her mother was
around that day. Since 2011 we have only been
talking on phone up to this time.
I actually appreciate her love for me and I was
already having a rethink towards her,but
through one of our recent conversation I
discovered that her mother was still strongly
against our relationship likewise my parents,
though I understand the reason my parents gave
to me. So,I felt what is the essence of keeping a
relationship that none of our parents ascent to.
But she's still insisting we must marry.
I apologize on their behalf.

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Romance / Re: I’m Ready To Marry Any Man At All, Once He Has 2 Hands & Legs – Nigerian Lady by efilimu(m): 4:34pm On Sep 15, 2017
wristbangle:


I sincerely hope they changed from their repulsive/impossible attributes they want from a man before they start seeking for deliverance when they clock 50.

Na so I DM one pretty slay queen and if you see the demand of this broke olosho eh!

Here are her demands and I am not fabricating the story.

1. Must be resident of lekki-VGC area in Lagos (for my mind I meet the criteria becos I dey stay for one ghetto area whey e dey Jakande, Lekki) but the rest wan make me go coma

2. Must be tall ( 6.5ft shocked, I am like chai me whey tyrion lanister call short man sad )

3. Handsome and 6packs ( She said the face of Jidenna and the body physique of CR7)

4. Wealthy ( earning 7figure salary as a start).

She wan continue with point 5 before I rudely end the useless conversation.

Am sure she is still searching for her maga
In as much I agree that the requirements of these ladies are unrealistic, we the guys shouldn't relent in hustling hard to make it in life. Not for them, but for ourselves and family.
TV/Movies / Re: Trailer For Amina: A Must Watch Nigerian Historical Movie by efilimu(m): 2:17pm On Sep 15, 2017
USUKUMA:





damn!!!! this is tots better than the over hyped wedding day, 10 days in sun city and the rest receive boring movies. Nollywood don the act war scenes!!!!!!!! mods pls push this to FP!!!
I hope they will. Films like this deserve attention, but in Nigeria only comedy films make money. The production quality of this film is top notch.
TV/Movies / Trailer For Amina: A Must Watch Nigerian Historical Movie by efilimu(m): 3:51pm On Sep 14, 2017
With over two years of intense production and research, “Amina”, a Nigerian historical film is set to make its debut with

this must-watch trailer. The movie boast of an impressive cast of Lucy Ameh, Clarion Chukwura and Ali Nuhu.

Okechukwu Ogunjiofor (Living in Bondage) and Izu Ojukwu both sit in the producer and director’s chair respectively.

The film is an adaptation based on the life of Queen Amina of Zazzau as “She dares to defy inequality“.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jdbd9VZ2yXo

https://www.efilimu.com/amina-trailer/

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Apply For The 2018 Stanbic IBTC Fresh Graduate Trainee Program by efilimu(m): 1:07pm On Sep 14, 2017
Jesusgirl92:
Am I the only that have not gotten the mail Who else is like me biko? sad
No
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Apply For The 2018 Stanbic IBTC Fresh Graduate Trainee Program by efilimu(m): 12:48pm On Sep 14, 2017
toluduji:
SEEMS I AM THE ONLY ONE NOT GETTING MAIL FOR BIODATA UPDATE sad sad sad angry
You are not the only one. I'm thinking of applying again.
TV/Movies / Re: DC EXTENDED UNIVERSE (FILM) by efilimu(m): 8:48am On Sep 12, 2017
TonySpike:
I suspect MOS 2 will be announced after JL. Announcing it now might be too early as Superman has a uncompleted arc in JL for now. Just my though.
Hopefully!!!
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NBC Management Trainee 2017 DragnetNG by efilimu(m): 8:16am On Sep 12, 2017
EdoBoy90:


Fact. Experience jobs, they will just ask you about your experience and your place of work to ascertain if you actually worked there. And it is very easy to get a job with experience.

My guy left a chemical company to a pharmaceutical company because of his experience. Did you know what the company did? They only invited those with experience. That is the pharmaceutical company.

I am always busy . if dragnet calls, we will go. If dragnet doesn't call, we will manage where we are. By God's grace, they will call me.

I prefer the Oral stage, where they will ask you what can you offer and your little experience or your undergraduate courses. #Shekina
Abi oh, our lives doesn't have to depend on Dragnet.
TV/Movies / Re: DC EXTENDED UNIVERSE (FILM) by efilimu(m): 4:00pm On Sep 11, 2017
Minemrys:

kai. U no dy tire? You've c0me with this your blame it on snyder again. Is it snyder thats holding the MOS sequel? Whats stopping wb fr0m hiring a different director and writer for it just like they did suicide squad? What else? The man's g0ne. What do u need again?
My oga no vex. You know my stance on Snyder since day one. But you are right by saying it rests on the shoulders on WB. And if you've noticed, WB are in the habit of hiring directors they've worked with before.
TV/Movies / Re: DC EXTENDED UNIVERSE (FILM) by efilimu(m): 3:35pm On Sep 11, 2017
Minemrys:

seriously, thats the problem i have with hollywo0d. Rebo0ts. I still can't rec0ncile the fact that marvel passed on an inhumans m0vie for an0ther spiderman reb0ot. N0t that we needed one. And the h0mec0ming one wasn't like it it was that special or s0mething. And i hate the fact that wb is rushing a w0nder w0man sequel this s0on when man of steel [the film that started the EU] hasn't gotten a solo sequel. What abt the flash and so on? Hollyw0od is loosing it. We need variety.
if you know how annoyed I feel that we'll get a sequel to WW before MoS. Blame it on Snyder!!!!
TV/Movies / Re: DC EXTENDED UNIVERSE (FILM) by efilimu(m): 3:30pm On Sep 11, 2017
TonySpike:

Yeah, I saw pac man on gotg 2 in the third act and I was like, "WTH is this?". I felt nothing after watching gotg 2. GOTG 1 was a far more superior product even with its own silly "dance-off" third act.
I agree!!!
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NBC Management Trainee 2017 DragnetNG by efilimu(m): 2:53pm On Sep 11, 2017
EdoBoy90:
.

Even some the first class graduates will fail that test. It is not by 2.1 or First class by God's grace and mercy.

The verbal reasoning you can't even read the comprehension passage before answering the questions because of limited time.

questions 1 to 5, 6 to 10, 11 to 15 and 16 to 20, each comprehension passage before answering the questions for just 17 minutes.

Everyone is calm here now. I was expecting such from them.

This is the why experience jobs are better. The will interview you base on your experience. Sometimes, even when u failed the written test they will still consider you base on your experience.

Well, I give all the glory to God.

The hustle continues till we get feedback from them.

Pls don't put all your hope in Dragnet/NBC and let the hustle continues as we await.
God knows, I hate anything management trainee even though most times I'm qualified for it. Even when you scale the hurdle of the first assessment, you still have to consider other stage hurdles that you'll have to conquer, of which someone might get dropped at any one of them. And provided, you are still able to successfully move from one stage to another, the time frame for the recruitment is something else. If someone doesn't have anything doing to keep busy, one might die of hbp. I still prefer jobs that are based on experience like you said.

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TV/Movies / Re: Marvel Cinematic Universe by efilimu(m): 2:22pm On Sep 08, 2017
Marvel (three certified tv flops combined with boring Luke Cage, The Defenders)
Agent Carter
iron Fist
Inhumans

D.C (just one)
Constantine

On television (D.C >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Marvel

If you like vex!!!
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NBC Management Trainee 2017 DragnetNG by efilimu(m): 10:50am On Sep 08, 2017
EdoBoy90:
.

is it Dragnet the only recruitment agency in Nigeria or is it NBC d only company in Nigeria.

I have told people several times here don't let any company frustrate you. always hope in God. Woe to he that put his hope on men biblically

After Dragnet, there is the next step.

After this dragnet test, I will keep the hustle mood activated. I will forget about them and pray to God for his mercy and favour.


if you like let Dragnet frustrates your life as if that is where all your hopes rely on.

Good day
I like your spirit! Keep on the hustle!
TV/Movies / Re: Marvel Cinematic Universe by efilimu(m): 7:25pm On Sep 06, 2017
Now that Inhuman is a certified flop, I can finally laugh at the fact that D.C is better than Marvel on t.v
if you like argue with your ancestors!
TV/Movies / Re: Toxicwap Is Back by efilimu(m): 12:59pm On Sep 04, 2017
Amossity:
TOXICWAP IS BACK.
Yes oh! I just logged into their website now. So happy about this development.
That website is one of the best!
TV/Movies / Watch The Grave Dust: Late Actor Obi Madubogwu’s Last Film Before His Death by efilimu(m): 11:24am On Aug 30, 2017
Grave Dust was the last movie late actor Obi Madubogwu featured in before his passing to diabetes.

It stars Ramsey Noah, Joke Silva and a whole host of other Nollywood actors.

Watch the trailer above and head over to Iroko tv to see the full movie

Source: Pulse Ng


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BhAS_XbHCb4


https://www.efilimu.com/the-grave-dust-obi-madubogwu/

Jobs/Vacancies / Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by efilimu(m): 11:16am On Aug 29, 2017
jaszplus12:

see how you jus spoil my gist!
so, woman be my motivation? sorry!
obviously you missed the point, no need trying to reason it out! cheers man.
No vex!

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