heironymos:
ok thanks man I feel like I've grown a bit soft lately for girl A I definitely fell for my emotional whims hence not being able to wait and use the information to my advantage in the future... but what I want from her right now is to secure that job for me first... it's too early to make decisions of who to marry like u said I will start wearing my stoic cap from now... I seemingly have a soft spot for good feminine women thanks for being objective.

What is the job title and job role of the job she got for you for that amount?

--Men remember being boys. Man has a lucid perspective in comparing the diminished affection of his adulthood to the greater bounty of his childhood. Women do not experience such a significant loss of affection. As such, man is forced to realise he will never again be loved so profusely, for the boy gets his fill, but man loves the most to be loved the least. The profundity of maternal love is longed for, but forever gone. A girlfriend cannot provide that, and is loathe to do so should a weak man demand it. This is perhaps the bitterest of all the pills.

No lies detected.

dreamxhaser:
So guys. There is this very close friend of mine. She used to be my girlfriend in high school.

She has a boyfriend who is very rich and spends a lot on her. Like the guy is a better baller.

She always comes to me when she feels lonely and I am always available. We are very close because she shares women's contact with me and I give her scores on how she played the women (during my bad boy days before I fell in love with my current girlfriend ).

She knows my dirty secrets but somehow seems to still enjoy my vibes.

Now me and her don dey talk for weeks, I can sense her serious obsession with me these days.

she wants to use care and love to finish me. Though according to her the guy has been misbehaving.

So one discussion led to another and we have finally agreed to fvk. Lol, like she wants it desperately and I am gonna give it to her.

I am invited to come and eat food, then eat her. Hahahh, I have never spent a dime on this girl. But as for the boyfriend, nigger must have spent millions (not kidding) because they have been dating for years.

She knows I have a girlfriend and even knows my girlfriend. But still don't care.......

Though I am willing to take her green light. Can experts here explain why she wants me to hit her. Like I should be all sorts of red flags to her but she doesn't just care.

Ubunja have explained this in his miseducations.

Hmmmm

luminouz:


This is nothing...some guys pee on them and one dude once told me he peed inside his gf....😳😳😳

You are a bad boy🙂.

axeman10:


No they don't. The way audit firm work is this:

Yes, the pay may be little at entry level, but there is career progression, provided you pass your exams. So, each year, you are guaranteed an increased salary.

As long as you are on a job, your transport fares, taxis, Uber etc to clients' offices can be claimed back. So, you basically not using your salary on transport fares as long as you are on field.

Many clients provide lunch for auditors. This may also include breakfasts or even dinner if you are working late. Or in some cases, you just present the receipts of your lunch to your office for the period you were on the job.

The juicy jobs are the ones outside the your base. Say you go audit Shell in PH, you may be there for over a month. Hotel accommodation paid for, you will be chauffer driven, breakfast, lunch and dinner paid for. So for a month or two, your salary is untouched.

The downside is, you get bored. It's can really be a boring job, if you are in it just to make ends meet.

So forget the notion that they have to know small gods to live the kind of whatever lifestyle they live. Some jobs do have dignity, and auditing is one of them.

Why do you say you get bored? How? Can you explain better?

Una no good🙂🙂🙂🙂. Let everybody drop their nuggets🙂. Take whatever you like. Waka jeje inside life🙂.

JESHAL007:
THE TRUTH ABOUT SEX MEN DON'T WANT YOU TO KNOW

Because they know you will condemn them, see them as sex freaks, call them dogs and give them unprintable names but that does not stop a man from being a man or do you wanna marry a woman?

To have a full blast, blissful relationship with a man, you must understand what makes him a red blooded male! If you do, your man will not only love you but go crazy for you every single day of his life.

1. Men are very sexual.

2. Men are are very visual. An average man thinks sex at least 8 times daily. That is the least. Men are bombarded with sexual images all day from bill boards adverts to pictures on social media to scantily clad ladies in church. Because they are visual and sexual, they take in images that create sexual pressure seeking a form of release.

3. Men are excited about female body parts.

4. Breasts and buttocks get men turned on.Tight fitting clothes around the chest region and bosom region can drive a man crazy!

5. Men's ego in marriage is boosted when their wives respond to their sexual advances. Rejecting a man sexually is rejecting him.

6. When a wife pursues her husband sexually, she boosts his self esteem by 50%.

7. A woman who moans during sex gives her husband 80% ego boost on his sexual performance.

8. Sex is not food to a man, it is the air he breathes. He can't live long without it.

9. Beauty is useless to a man if it is not available for sex.

10. A sexually hot woman is very beautiful to a man no matter how unattractive or shapeless others see her. To the man, she is his Madonna, the queen of his sex kingdom, the one who rules, dominates and controls his entire universe.

11. A tight vagina does wonders on the penis than any man will tell you.

12. Men love sexual adventure.

13. It is not the size and shape of breasts that matter but how they are packaged and presented to the man.

14. Men love to suck breasts. Carrying the breasts away is like slapping him.

15. Men like a woman who loves sex.

16. 60% of the reason he is marrying you is because of sex.

17. Men love sex.

Men are wonderful. Men are sweet. Men are awesome.

It is not the fault of a man he is very sexual. God created him that way. When a man is completely loved, cherished and honoured for who he is and what he is made up of, he will love you, adore you and cherish you forever.

Wahala wahala wahala🙂. The shape of the bbbboooobbbbsss matters. I like it huge and perky🙂.

heartofcity12:
I wonder…

Them lie to us. Women like s....e.....x.... They are as h....o....r....n...y as men🙂.

JESHAL007:
Now I understand why this redpill knowledge should be discreet and not be this exposed to the world.some of this secrets should never be out in the mainstream.
What drives the world has always been women,sex either for procreation or pleasure. That's why majority of this bad boys that can get women without stress often times don't amount to anything good in life eventho they are biologically successful.
Truth is majority of men will lack motivation to succeess if they can pull the type of women they want when they are broke. (Outliers excluded)
Betas keep the world moving that's why majority of betas are successful in the blue pill society but suffer greatly with women.
Perhaps,If you had not come across the redpill truth, you would have still been in the blue pill system of make money and girls will come later, testosterone would have triggered you so bad you will want to make enough money so you can be rewarded later.
Now imagine the number of people still in this system, imagine how people are working tirelessly to fulfill the bluepill conditioning (Just like a pulley and lever system)
However,now that you know the truth, I know you're equally disappointed, so I was, your drive to succeess should be trippled, you should trigger yourself to succeed so you can enjoy the goodness of this Life

At the end of it all ,all road leads to sex

@bolded🙂. No lies detected.

Cooked up story.

heartofcity12:
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If girl no like you, she no like you niyen. She no allow jaywon touch her, na she dey touch her sabi guys🙂.

ubunja:
yes, men can turn down sex due to self-control and morality issues. That's commendable. The "but" here is that no man must think doing so has a bearing on how women view him. As concerning value and worth.
Because at the end how it plays out is That pucc you're passing on to appear special/different from other men, the lady is just going to take it to another guy! Usually some guy who's always available for quick cheap no-stress sex. Some guys just make it so hard and complicated to give them sex girls simply stop offering.

I'm sure we've all heard of a situation where some morally upright gentleman of a guy had a lady always visiting him acting funny for him but the guy was always "controlling" himself until the lady gave up, stopped visiting and somehow ended up getting pregnant for some clown.
What the gentleman did is really not playing hard to get in the dating sense, he just missed opportunities.

Okay let's switch genders for better clarity.

How does a woman play hard to get?

We go back to the foundation of male/female dynamics: Men love sex, Women love money. Men want sex, Women want money.

A woman then plays hard to get by being stingy with SEX. Cause sex is what men want.
While a man plays hard to get by being stingy with LOVE aka commitment, cause that's what women want.

A man doesn't play hard to get by refusing sex just as a woman doesn't play hard to get by refusing love/commitment/money. A man takes the sex but refuses to give the woman that one thing she wants (love/commitment/money) -that's him playing hard to get. Because until a man is in love or committed the woman hasn't actually got him.

Same way,,, a woman takes the love, commitment and money that's offered to her but denies men that one thing they all want: sex. Cause until a woman has given a man sex, the man hasn't actually got anything worthwhile from the woman. He hasn't yet "got" the woman.
The moment of truth for women is when a man finally commits. And the moment of truth for men is when a woman finally gives sex.

If you're a woman it doesn't matter if Davido or Chris Brown wants to sleep with you. What matters is Do they want to commit?Do they want to marry you? That's the question cause that's what really determines your worth IN THEIR EYES. Being good enough for sex is inferior. Being good enough to committment is superior. Its when a man commits that you have got got him.

That's why when a woman cheats a man's first question is "Did you sleep with him?" Cause for men there's nothing serious until sex happens.
And when a man cheats women's first question is "Do you love her?" Cause women understands that men will fucc anything, its when a man commits that things become serious.

Men and women are looking at sex and love from opposing sides, so what they value, what they see as valuable, is also opposed.

When a girl tells her friends "Moses loves me!" What do the friends ask? They ask, "What has he done for you?!"
Meanwhile, if a guy tells his friends, "Dorothy loves me!" They're going to ask "Did she let you smash?"

Which is to say, A woman can't say "Moses loves me cause he had sex with me". Not really, cause sex is not something men control. Just as a man can't say,"Dorothy loves me cause she bought me this and that". Cause a womans commitment is worthless. As long as he hasn't smashed Dorothy, his friends can't really be convinced Dorothy loves him. Cause the only thing of value Dorothy has is the pucc. Until she puts that on the table, she's holding back.

All this is to illustrate both men and women understand the "moment of Truth" concerning each gender. A woman can't use commitment to show a guy she loves him, just as much as a man can't use sex to show a woman he loves her. Women express love by sex, men express love by commitment. Hence that woman who's hard to fucc is the woman everyone fights for cause she has value.Just like that man who's hard to commit is the man everyone fights for cause he has value.
Which brings us full circle back to the virgin and the Bad boy as the most valuable in the dating field.

Ubunja😯😯😯😯. Take it easy on us🙂. This is real.

ubunja:
the more brutal you are with women they more they come to you. Because as much as love is about romance and all that sweet stuff, the pussy only gets wet when dealing with a cold motherfucker. Be cold. You'll never starve for sex. Be romantic and you'll be friendzoned. Girls want romance but when they wanna marry but they wanna marry when they're done with the fvckers.

Stay sharp. Stay cold. Stay winning.

Ubunja no dey lie. Take note of the bolded.

Martinez39s:
Exactly!

A particular redpiller of YouTube once told a story of how he lost his job back then because during break, he drove all the way to fuçk a particular girl and arrived late at work. It is sexual incontinence that will make a lecturer put himself in a sex-for-mark scandal and tarnish his image all because of five-minute pleasure. Let's not talk about how many pastors it has put in trouble. I could write much more, but let me stop here.

It will always pass. Most times a lady is sexy and hot to a man just because the man is heavily barraged by konji. It after the sexual encounter that he experiences post-nut clarity and he realizes what a foòl he has been. Most times, the fantasy you have built up in your head about a lady and the assumptions you've made about how good you will enjoy her in bed is never met in reality; it is then men think "it wasn't as good as I hoped", "her puśsy stinks", "she is actually lazy in bed", "her pùssy isn't as tight as I thought", etc.

No one should be fooled that a man must release. No one should be fooled that it is impossible to effortlessly subdue your urges. I used to think like this, but I have proven myself wrong with practice. There is nothing there, the urges come and go.

How many years now without you RELEASING?

luminouz:


Nice take

There must always be that undercurrent of strength and capacity for violence in a man. It keeps the woman in check and also turns her on.

No Lies detected.

imustsaymymindo:


Then don't invite her over.

Sometimes, I wonder the rational in these statements. You want to be housing a girl that is attractive i.e. sexy, while you are providing and you would not be smashing. Listen to yourself bro. Is that possible? Of course. With simps, all stupid heights are possible. And I'm sure you don't want to be a simp.

Brother, if you want to be smashing her, just make it clear to her. She might agree to the deal and might want to run you streetz when she comes saying she is on her period, sick etc. based on how she has viewed you already. So make sure your discussions cover all edge cases even before coming. For instance, you agree to go from the other hole if on her period or you can't accomodate a sick person for safety reasons lol.

But if you are really genuine about not wanting to smash, then why invite her over?

Crazzzzzzyyyyy😯🙂.

Ericmaestrooffi:
Good morning house

I’ve been following this thread for a long time but I’ve not commented before. I want to ask your opinion on cohabitating with a lady that’s not your gf or wife.

A female friend of mine who recently graduated reached out to me that she wants to come stay with me and use that opportunity to look for a job, she didn’t tell me how long she intends to stay but from our conversation it seems she will be staying for a long time.

I’m currently a banker and not doing bad for myself, I don’t have any issue housing or feeding her but I don’t know if it’s right for a guy and lady not dating to live together.

N.b: we are only friends and nothing more, although I once dated her sister.

Please I need your opinion on this before I take a final decision on this.

Shey she no go mind make you dey put yam in her beans?

Karlifate:
Dear [young] men,

Here are some truths mommy didn’t tell you about Women:::

1:
They like arrogant sexually entitled men.

2:
They love to compete for a High Value Man.

3:
Jealousy turns them on.

4:
They get h0rny thinking about you fukking other girls.

5:
Gifts & other surprises can't give you their [lasting] loyalty.


👌💯

Ahhhh. She did not tell me this😯🙂.

IAmHim1:
In the first picture, the man is LEANING INTO the woman while the woman is LEANING AWAY from the man

Leaning into and leaning away sounds like a contradiction oxymoron but pay attention to this message I'm passing


In this first picture, both the woman and man failed the Green Line Test.
The woman IS SUPPOSED to lean into her man to SHOW Submission WHILE THE MAN maintains a straight figure resembling a rock...that tree that doesn't get moved by petty breeze to SHOW Dominance

The woman, by leaning AWAY from her supposed husband has just revealed a body language that shows she won't be submissive to him in marriage AND the man BY LEANING INTO his wife has revealed his body language that he will submit to the leadership of his wife



It may sound like I'm blowing things out of proportion but body language works. It's the reason why you feel someone putting his or her hands in their pocket either

1) Has something to hide
2) is protecting something valuable

Like you just feel it. Either ways, it sends a message: This person can't be fully trusted because he/she might be hiding something

And the best way to display honesty and trust is BY REVEALING YOUR HANDS. That's why in interview or dates, you gotta show your hands once a while to send a message that you are being transparent...that is "i'm not hiding anything. You can trust me and we can bond like white on rice"

**There's nothing like black rice. Have you ever seen one lolzzzz***


Women read body language better than men and these subtle display of dominance or submission matters and will matter in the long run

Like your seat position during a date: As a Dominant Man with strong leadership qualities, you must sit in a position that easily makes you see the door of your date venue. This way, you can easily see the threat that may walk into the room FIRST and act in ways that benefits you and your woman first.

This is the standard for military men. They must sit in a position that they can easily see the door. That's why you never see a soldier sit in a position that shows his back to the door UNLESS he is sitting with his fellow comrades

Even while entering bus or UBER with your girl: She must be inside the vehicle first and if there is an open window, it must only be in your sit position and not hers. The car door window of her sit position should be closed while yours should be opened in case of a threat that may want to access her by invading the car window of her position

Even while trekking with her: she stays in the inside of the road while you stay on the outside. Ask questions if you're not getting it yet

So far, the BEST TEACHERS for body language, speaking and reading, are:

1) Alpha Rivelino, Twitter, Green Line Theory

2) Shayna Wahedi, YouTube. (He uses scenes from Suits and Peaky Blinders to pass his message)

As you were fellas

Ubunja has touched this topic before🙂. I can tell if the wife loves her husband just by watching their videos and checking their picture. Ubunja, emancipating men from pvssy slavery.

TheGidRedpiller:
This is TheGidRedpiller.

*Yes, I'm back.

*Yes, I'm more matured.

*Yes, I'm still a Redpiller, but I'm now one with a whole lot more experience.

*Yes, there are a whole lot of upgrades that needs to be made to the TheGidRedpiller's branding.

*Yes, I have a lot of stories to tell, and I WILL TELL THEM.

* Tomorrow At 10AM On The Dot, i will be live on Nairaland, I will be posting my first topic in 52 weeks.

*This is a call to action, go out there and let every Nairalander know that TheGidRedpiller is BACK, and as a matter of fact, he never left!!

See you all tomorrow.
TRP IS GOLDEN!!

Trouble maker🙂. Welcome back. All feminist will not like it that you are back.

McOluOmo:
I dey always give her money after sex......



She sent me this message this evening

She is dickmatised.

Freshtruth:
When she mean she sold all her properties she meant all the juice in her pussy has been drilled by her sugar daddies she gave are all to make this movie come to reality

This type of people never leave nairaland?😀😀😀😀.

Smartb0y:

You don fvck up.

First and foremost,stop taking advice from that your friend,he seems blue pilled.

Sex first , relationship second
This is non negotiable.

If you do relationship before sex you will lose more trust me.

A woman should be the one vying for a relationship,a connection, security because basically that's what relationship is for . It benefits Women more.

No sensible guy should chase after a relationship.
Chasing after a relationship is a feminine drive..

A man that chases is a man that loses.
Men with value and options don't chase,they attract.

Give her less attention,if she comes running afraid she's in a state of losing you,only then will that show a little inclination that she's invested or ready to invest in you.

If you lock up and she lock up too, thank your stars, you just dodged a bullet.

Make sure you hit her as soon as possible to get her invested in you. A woman that you haven't fvcked won't be emotionally invested in you .
Understand this.

But don't be pussy focused just to get her.
Instead use less attention to get her to open up.

If at this point she doesn't open those legs,she was never into you.

Move on with the speed of lightning else you'll sign yourself up for games and manipulation.


2. Better don't get tired. As far as associating with women goes, they'll always play games so better be on guard else you get used. There's no good woman anywhere just woman.
How you associate with them is what brings their different flavors.

3. You were pussy focused. She knows you're hungry for sex. She'll use that against you.
Right now , she's got the upper hand

4. Stop rationalizing simping. Fvck her and find out

5. You acted needy and beta. No woman wants a needy guy. Ever. You've messed this one up really bad. How you start with a woman is how you'll end it.
She already sees you one way. Trying to form the hard guy now will seem almost laughable. She won't take you seriously. It's better to cut your losses and get a new one

6 &7. She doesn't give a fvck if you call her. You failed to attract her. Her pussy isn't tingling for you because you acted needy.
You didn't make her work for your attention.
In her eyes, you're already conquered. She did nothing to deserve a relationship.


I don try for you.
Bye

Ubunja no dey lie. Sex first.

morikee:
Starlink

How did you get it? How much?

A woman should do the same. "He sent" I don know say na man.

CaveAdullam:
The average person lacks self-awareness, knowledge, and wisdom. Because building these virtues and values takes a long time.

A woman earning more than her man in the process of a relationship ought not to be a problem. But the average woman doesn't think beyond the first layer of her head. Hence, many become obnoxious and treat their husbands with disdain and disrespect.

Women want to be with men higher and better than them. Once a woman senses that she's better than you in one or two areas, resentment and disrespect start breeding in her heart.
Because she sees you as a leader, and expects you to operate from a higher dimension. You operating below her scares her evolutionary wiring - that you are a man who can't protect and provide for her kids in dire moments.

These challenges men face with women have led men into the field of innovations and different wonders. The burden of performance is always upon the man. The woman wants that assurance that she is with the right man.

Relationship isn't a competition. It ought to be two people working together to achieve a particular goal.

However, in sexual relationship, men must be ahead of their woman in all ramifications. It breeds respect, ensure the stability of the relationship, and gives the woman an assurance.

Men that have their women ahead must work hard to pass them and maintain first position. It isn't by pulling her down, treating her badly, subtle jealousy, subtle hate, and acting macho.

It is him going back to the strategy board to plan better ways and win his game. After all, it is his duty to lead his family, and by so must remain at the forefront.

It's easier to tell women to maintain submissions, modesty, and humility when they are on top and earning more than their husbands than for said women to deliberately act that same way.

Only advice for this women is to help stimulate their husbands in getting to the top. Not by anger, henpecking, nagging, subtle jabs, and negligence. But by love and humility.

It will not be easy. But it is possible. Because a woman wants to see her man at the top and it gives men joy to be at the top.

Thanks.

"Treat their husbands with disdain and disrespect"


No lies detected.

CaveAdullam:
There's a higher rate of rejection when you cold approach women on motion.

To minimize the rejection rate, approach women in stationery positions more.

Examples:

That girl buying groceries.
That girl waiting for a bus.
That girl sitting with her phone.

Friends were strangers once upon a time.

On motion, you can compliment, suggest and then, escalate.

Move.

Update🙂. Thank you.

Crucialgem:
Nairaland has successfully change my perspective about opposite sex with the constant bashing and critics of Nigerian girls and the notion of Alpha (red pill) males and simpleton (simps)

Backfoward before entering nairaland I used to dream of being so much in love with my dream woman and sacrificing all I could in my power for the sake of our love
But with all the thread of my girlfriend did this, my wife did this and that etc. my perspective has change big time

Do you guys think it a good thing so it can allow me make better decisions as regards relationship or it is bad thing that has mess me up mentally

Is it a bad thing?

Vinnie2000:



Well, Pple should know that Naija Ladies spec changes with time.

16-18 years- A Flashy Boy looking like Rema

18-25 years- A Yahoo boy with nice apartment.

25-28 years- A Rich man's son (like Davido).

28-33 years- A Married man with bad wife.

33-36 years- A Politician in the ruling party.

36-Menopause- Any available Young man with PREEK.

This is not a lie.