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Romance / Re: How Do Broke Guys Get To Bang Girls by laivwire(m): 5:38pm On Sep 19
Sweet mouth and packaging.

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Romance / Re: Ghanaian Man Caught His Wife and Brother Cheating On His Bed (Video) by laivwire(m): 5:34pm On Sep 16
They even came late self. Round 1 don finish already. They were getting ready for round 2. grin

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Family / Re: He Is About Divorcing Me by laivwire(m): 10:17am On Sep 16
Maeve7:


Are you a lawyer? Is there a law saying that the child belongs with the parent who has a job?

Just to add, I don't think there's a law but if it is proven that the woman is not in a stable state (finance and living space), the odds are not in her favour. She also can't rely on child support which will evidently stop after one or two months and won't be sufficient in itself. I don't think the husband would even want to take the daughter in.

@msjackson, I had to run through your old threads and it's good you document things to refresh your tree of knowledge. Having known close people in similar circumstances, I would advice you move on. There are some battles you leave to fate. Your priority should be protecting yuor daughter now because the girl child in this kind of circumstance is vulnerable to life's vices.

If you can, send her to a boarding house or your parents' place so you can focus on getting your life together. You need a job now even if it means squatting with friends until you get something going. If there's no job, start a training in nursing, catering or whatever, in 3 years max, you would be well equipped to make money on your own. You can then get your daughter back and give her a good life or perhaps get remarried...and please don't waste time with men who would only want to chop you and run (except its just the sex you need of course)

Last paragraph, don't waste your time and efforts on a protracted battle with your husband. If yoou're so inclined, report him to community courts like Ordinary President or something. Otherwise, close that chapter and move on like I profferred earlier.

All is well.

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Autos / Re: Foreign Used Lexus Rx350 2009 (accident Free) by laivwire(m): 8:25am On Sep 12
17m grin
Education / Re: Please!! Advice Me � by laivwire(m): 7:20pm On Sep 09
Ozap:
Thank you so much for opening this thread.

Please what course would be best and most lucrative for masters as someone with a BA in English.

Between:
1. MA International Affairs and Diplomacy
2. MA Business Administration
3. MA Disaster and Risk management
4. MA Information management
5. MA Public administration
6. MA Human resources

Or any other suggestions apart from these.

Please I would really appreciate your guidance 🙏 Thank you.

It largely depends on the career path you want to follow. Having gone through 4 years of tertiary education, you should have a slight idea at least of what trajectory you would like to follow. Failure to do this will slow your career progress tremendously as you won't be building required experience to make you more valuable and earn higher as you develop in the following years.

If you're all about the money though and looking for what study can fetch you more money, the only one I can recommend is HR or something related to corporate Communications. If course, you will need additional certification and experience in these fields to earn a good living.

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Politics / Re: Why Ajaero Was Arrested by laivwire(m): 7:10pm On Sep 09
Where are all these APC bots coming from?
Politics / Re: DSS Arrest NLC President Joe Ajaero At Abuja Airport by laivwire(m): 11:40am On Sep 09
Corrupt politicians have immunity before and after their tenures but the NLC president is whisked at will even while in office.

A zoo indeed.
Properties / Re: How Can I Remodel This House For Revenue by laivwire(m): 11:13am On Sep 08
ishadfurnitures:
I can redesign the house cant be cut and re- construc into 1 bed and rooms self contain if you wan to commercialize the house (building ) i can give you a bull of Quantity too Chat 08099212590 im also in ibadan t

Thanks, I already have the technicians to use. I am only brainstorming ideas.
Properties / Re: How Can I Remodel This House For Revenue by laivwire(m): 11:12am On Sep 08
santaclaws:
Nairaland isn't where to get professional building advice. Instead of posting your house plan on social media, talk to a civil engineer or an architect and PAY them for their service.🙄

I am not asking about material pricing or technical details. I am only talking about simple design choices. Your contribution is noted nonetheless. Thanks.
Properties / How Can I Remodel This House For Revenue by laivwire(m): 10:53am On Sep 08
Happy Sunday my fellow nairalanders. I wish to seek diverse input in remodeling this house below and will appreciate ideas.

Originally a 3 bedroom, the Master bedroom (ensuite) at the lower left was sealed from the living room area and let out. The rest of the house has been empty for a while.

I plan to refurbish house and rent it all out but I am searching for the best way to optimize the design.

My thinking is to seal off the private sitting and join it to the let out room to form a room and parlour and then rent out the other side as a 2 bedroom apartment.

Additional ideas will be appreciated.

Nagode. The house is in Ibadan.

Autos / Re: A Clean Sparingly Used Peugeot 406 Is Available For Sale by laivwire(m): 6:25pm On Sep 06
Manual transmission, 9ja used 406 for almst #3m. Speechless

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Autos / Re: 2019 Sequoia Foreign Used by laivwire(m): 6:23pm On Sep 06
Only for the strong.
Autos / Re: BMW 325i 2006 upgraded to 2012 by laivwire(m): 6:13am On Sep 06

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Politics / Re: Stop Sending Service Chiefs After Us - Bello Turji Warns Nigerian Government by laivwire(m): 9:23pm On Sep 05
Preparing offensive when you're supposed to put pressure until you have this criminal's head on a spit. Can't Nigeria borrow a leaf from Israel-Hams war? These bandits have been a menace for over 15 years and the NA has so little to show besides photos and videos.
Family / Re: What Will Make A Wife Hide Her unclothedness From Her Husband? by laivwire(m): 8:08pm On Sep 04
Unclothedness in the house or through electronic media? Please be clear.

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Romance / Re: No Matter How Touching Their Story Is, Don't Let Anyone Squat With You. by laivwire(m): 8:06pm On Sep 04
All the squatting favours did turned from a few days to over a year. Nothing wey I no do to push these people out but for where. They only go when God says yes grin
Health / Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad. by laivwire(m): 9:21pm On Sep 02
Malawian:

He needs that pain, and he needs to remember that pain. He also needs to be scared of having a repeat of that pain.
you don't cuddle drug addict.
Wrong. It is just like trying to quit pornography at once by blocking access to all pornographic material. You will stay clean and suffer your konji but the day, you come across easy access to pornography once again, you will relapse into a worse state. The only difference is that it's worse, far worse with drugs. You're not dealing with konji but severe deprivation worse than hunger and thirst. It's not a good place to be at all.

Rehabilitation is mind training to a level that if you see the drug again, you won't take it because you know it's bad for you. You don't do that by locking up a junkie in solitary.

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Health / Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad. by laivwire(m): 4:00pm On Sep 02
Malawian:
Lock him up in a self contained room. Pass his food through a door. After few weeks, he will completely withdraw from the effects
of the drugs. You can then release him. Make sure the bathroom is not with a bath basin so he does not drown himself.

This is a wicked method for rehab. Do you know how bad withdrawal symptoms are especially when you go cold turkey?

Rehab centers are much better where the victims can be supervised and cared for.

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Politics / Re: Court Freezes 13 Bank Accounts Linked To Suspected Terrorist, Henry Okocha by laivwire(m): 6:43am On Aug 31
The way these people shout terrorism these days
Agriculture / Re: We Are Harvesting Honey This Heat Season (video/pictures) by laivwire(m): 2:45pm On Aug 30
Destructuve extraction. You're not only stealing the honey those worker bees hustled so hard for, you are destroying their combs as well and unaliving their unborn generations.

Just because honey is sweet

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Sports / Re: Victor Osimhen to join Al-Ahli on 4-year contract - SkySports by laivwire(m): 9:08am On Aug 30
With this kind of money. What do you want that you can't buy?
Romance / Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by laivwire(m): 12:49pm On Aug 29
They have every reason to request a court wedding. You want to make her a baby mama or what?

Stories where a woman gets pregnant and moves into a man's house with no official marriage but just inlaws meeting inlaws never favours the woman. What will she do when you say you don't like her again or you complain over every little thing just because you want to marry another woman. You throw her under the bus with no loss on your part.

If that lady is wise, court wedding is a must or she should not even move in with you, the Op at all.

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Politics / Re: Wike To Construct Under Ground Rail In Abuja by laivwire(m): 8:06am On Aug 29
For what reason? How many people are in Abuja that warrants this expensive transport system?

When people are complaining of not finding jobs even in the capital and costs of rent and living is so high, continue to build white elephant projects to siphon more funds.
Autos / Re: I Bet You've Never Seen A Clean Mercedes Benz 280SEL 1972 For Sale As This by laivwire(m): 10:31pm On Aug 28
Beautiful classic. Rides like aboat though

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Travel / Re: Trailer Loses Control In Abia, Crashes Into Street Traders, Kills One (Photos) by laivwire(m): 10:27pm On Aug 28
Talking of maintenance, just look at the slick tires of that tricycle. 100m braking distance enough for it to go under trailer and come out at the other side.

We really have a long way to go in this country.
Autos / Re: Rest In Peace Gazuzz by laivwire(m): 10:11pm On Aug 28
What the hell?
Romance / Re: I Don Draw My Time Table, (picx) by laivwire(m): 8:14pm On Aug 26
Friday morning will be really gangster for you. It'd get worse by 12 noon same day. I hope you don't faint in the mosque grin

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Politics / Re: Anambra Government Reacts As A PS Is Accused Of Beating An HOD To Coma by laivwire(m): 12:08pm On Aug 26
For her to go into coma, she must have held her neck tight for nothing less than 4 minutes.

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Autos / Re: Tokunbo Toyota Camry Sport 2010 For Sale @ Gbagada 10.1m by laivwire(m): 1:59pm On Aug 25
Phranx1:
Muscle is now 10m and Eediots are defending ronu enterprises with their blood even here on nairaland.
It's insane. A friend sold his Camry sport 2.5m barely 3 years ago.

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Politics / Re: ‘some Officials Have No Business There’ — FG To Cut COP29 Budget By N10bn by laivwire(m): 9:17pm On Aug 20
Oju aiye grin
Health / Re: Abia Confirms First Monkey Pox Case by laivwire(m): 7:27am On Aug 20
Siberia01:
No cause for alarm, it doesn't kill
And can go on its own after 2-4 weeks

Tinubu's hunger kills faster


Take time to read about MPOX

Are you joking or something? Have you not read that this is a new strain spreading rapidly from DR Congo where it has recorded a significant number of mortalities especially in infants. It is also more contagious than the last epidemic of 2021/2022 as this can spread by contact.

The authorities are not moving fast enough on this in my opinion because cases are already being reported in Europe as well.

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Travel / Re: General-german-student-visa-enquiries Part 8 by laivwire(m): 2:22pm On Aug 19
laivwire:


I'd appreciate if I can get your feedback. My appointment is next monday and I intended to use a sponsorship letter. My host has applied but is yet to get an appointment at the foreign office so I don't have it. He's suggesting I go along with a retinue of documents showing his income, mails and all other documents he's exchanged with the foreign office and explain to the VO

I'm not totally convinced about this because the consulate is not the foreign office and besides, there are many others in the same situation. I also don't want a rejection as this can affect my future applications.

Should I risk it or just pass and apply for another interview date?

An update:

I went for the interview today carrying along the sponsor's documents. The VO didn't look at them as it didn't make much difference. At least it showed proof that the application is in process. She asked when the application was submitted and said it's no suprise if it's taking longer than expected.

She said she'd hold on to my file and I scan the soft copy of the declaration of commitment once it's ready. She'd then forward the file for processing.

She added I'd have to come with the original copy when coming for the visa along with German health insurance (I didn't include that in the application as well).

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