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VORTEX (m)
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guys,u know ,i use 2 wonder wether its wrong 2 be a jealous lover.fine if u ask me im i a jealous lover? ill proudly say yes.but ill like 2 know your own opinion on this issue.and i have a double answer question for you, ARE You A JEALOUS LOVER AND IS IT GOOD 2 BE A JEALOUS LOVER???
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cute-ass (f)
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Yea, i think its good to be a jealous lover. It shows your partner that they're appreciated, cherished (too precious to be lost), wonder how it would feel for your partner to find out some other guy is seriously after you or that he met you with some guy whom he's yet to be introduced to as your family member or classmate . . and not show any sign of jealousy . . where's the urge then of wanting the person to yourself and yourself alone (not literally meant)
But like any other thing in life, too much of anything/everything is bad I consider jealousy "bad" when the person gets carried away with it (i call it being jealous to a fault, and thats not cool at all), start acting in an un-called for manner, or being abusive and violent. Be jealous but do not give up the "trust" factor  And YES, i'm a jealous lover but only in the cute way, nothing overboard as that'll take the "cuteness* of it away!!  |
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iice (f)
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I guess it is good to be one so long as you know where to draw the line. Turning into some possessive psycho is overboard oooo.
As to your other question, nope am not a jealous lover/friend/person.
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rotimy (m)
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jeal·ous (jel′əs)
adjective
1.very watchful or careful in guarding or keeping jealous of one's rights
2.resentfully suspicious of a rival or a rival's influence, a husband jealous of other men
resentfully envious
3.resulting from such feelings a jealous rage
4.Now Rare requiring exclusive loyalty the Lord is a jealous God
FROM THE ABOVE DEFINITIONS, jealousy can be positive or negative. True love begets freedom and tust. True love is not a policing affair. Have a lovely jealous love!
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btayo1 (m)
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No; it is not good; as a ardent believer in freedom, for those that think it is good wait till you are at the receiving end of it, then u will find out that it is not cool. Being a jealous lover shows signs of mistrust of ones partner, and disguised insecurity
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kool phobi (m)
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[ Yea, i think its good to be a jealous lover. It shows your partner that they're appreciated, cherished (too precious to be lost), wonder how it would feel for your partner to find out some other guy is seriously after you or that he met you with some guy whom he's yet to be introduced to as your family member or classmate . . and not show any sign of jealousy . . where's the urge then of wanting the person to yourself and yourself alone (not literally meant)
But like any other thing in life, too much of anything/everything is bad I consider jealousy "bad" when the person gets carried away with it (i call it being jealous to a fault, and thats not cool at all), start acting in an un-called for manner, or being abusive and violent. Be jealous but do not give up the "trust" factor And YES, i'm a jealous lover but only in the cute way, nothing overboard as that'll take the "cuteness* of it away!! yeah i agree with you, its good to be a jealous lover, so long as it is healthy. Healthy in the sense that you have limit to the way u display your jealousy both in public and when u are alone wit your spouse I'm a jealous lover but mine is healthy |
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jkpretty (f)
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I guess it is good to be one so long as you know where to draw the line. Turning into some possessive psycho is overboard oooo.
Cool when its still mere jealousy, annoying & pissing when it becomes possessiveness. |
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lilrukevwe (m)
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NO NOT at all
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eezzy (f)
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Cool when its still mere jealousy, annoying & pissing when it becomes possessiveness.
ABSOLUTELY!  Love evokes jealousy for sure, but when it goes overboard, it can be quite annoying. |
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Seun (m)
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"Love" evokes jealousy? What kind of ridiculous "love" is that?  |
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yimiton (f)
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@ Seun, Do you have an idea of what love is?  |
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almondjoy (f)
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Jealous as in a "flattering playful" way to enhance the self esteem of your partner is healthy. Not wanting to share "your love" because you can't have enough of it yourself is cool. All lovy-dovy! Jealousy stemming from insecurity, maliciousness, hate, possessiveness and other sadistic terms is an absolute no-no. In this case this person exhibiting such a trait does not care about you and this has nothing to do with love but anger. Usually the seeds of domestic violence being sowed in this instance. You have to explain what jealousy means in every instance. |
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Nautillus (m)
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Jealousy is a SIN gbam  |
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ibrahiem (m)
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JEALOUS,NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
WHY JEALOUS?
You will end up having sleepless nitez.jealousy is bad,it's dreadful and it'not worth it 4 either of us.
HAVE EVER TAKEN UR TYME TO VIEW DA WORLD DA WAY IT IS?IF You HAVENT, THEN LET ME TELL You DAT You ARE NOT ALONE IN DA RACE TO WIN UR LOVER'S AFFECTION.YOU SEE,THERE IS NO NEED TO BE JEALOUS WHEN You ARE SECOND OR THIRD IN HER LIST OF GUYS.
PLEASE,BRO, KNOW WHEN TO BE JEALOUS (when u are finally under one roof).
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bolajibaok (m)
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GO AND WATCH THE NOLLYWOOD MOVIE DEADLY PROPOSAL,
THEY WILL BE SHOWING IT ON AFRICA MAGIC ON XMAS DAY
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ndubest (m)
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, moderation in every aspect of life is the key issue
know where to draw the line
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9star (m)
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Well Jealousy? Its beta for the woman to b jealous rather than d man. cus if a man gets jealousy is also hard to control n most times turns into possessiveness. But 4 d woman i guess its only natural u get jealous of your man cus its now 1 man to 7 chics. am sori but can't help saying that even if sm chics here will want to begin sm kind na blind arguement. |
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Bblak (f)
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Not too bad if the party involve can draw their boundaries. But it sucks when possesiveness comes in |
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ammamat (f)
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Jealousy emmmmmmmmm, i think it's has the bad side and the good side of it. Some chi love love that and some guys do the same too.
But as for me i think is bad, good, ugly etc.
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Ecomog
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Good day All,
It is great to be part of this forum.
It is good to be a jealous lover at least it shows that you care and appreciate your partner.It is only when your jealous act becomes violent that i believe is wrong.
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ettehgate (m)
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omo no need to jealous over a punnana o
if you jealous and them kill you ontop o.
another guy go de shag the punnana while you are gone o
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ThoniaSlim (f)
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@topic
Its natural to feel jealous sometimes over the one you love. but when you can't control it, then it becomes bad.
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Sweet T (m)
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@Thionaslim
Did you say "sometimes"? Well i don't know about that. There was this girl that i gave my heart to once, i was very jealous not because i wanted to hurt her feelings but because i believed i had what it takes to make her happy more than anybody else. Women don't understand that a jealous man is a sign of a good man who really cares about you. A player or a roughneck don't care if you f*cking somebody else, matter of fact that's nough reasons for him to cheat more. A jealous man usually will not cheat on you because he believes no one comes close to you.
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ThoniaSlim (f)
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well it might be good to be jealous, but when you become so possessive that your girl feels your suffocating her without giving her a breathing space then you need to slow down.
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Sweet T (m)
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@Thionaslim
If you equate jealousy with violence, then it's really bad but if your jealousy=extreme care and love, i see nothing wrong with that. Women suffocate themselves by looking for love in all the wrong places. They usually prefer a ruffneck.
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iceblue (f)
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what's the point in being jealous? like i have nothing better to do with my time than wonder what the other person might be thinking about my bloke! ah, please o! don't even know the meaning of the word. i can't and havent ever dated someone i can even call mildly jealous, but it doesnt mean they felt lukewarm towards me! not being jealous allows you concentrate on more important things - like really getting in sync with the person's thoughts and feelings.
trust me, it aint useful to be jealous.
PROUDLY UN-JEALOUS!
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ifyalways (f)
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perharps its good to some extent to be jealous.it might help make ones partner fell cherished and all.am not a jealous lover or friend so i really don't know |
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gosky (m)
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A true lover will actually be jealous. God being a lover too said He is a jealous God
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tinkerbery (f)
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Jealous!!!!!!!!!!emmmmmmmmm its good as long you aint the aggressive type that would woze the makeup out of a sister's face  .so, back to you. what kind of jealous lover are you refering to? aggressive or non aggressive? some one could help with other types. can't think of any would call back when i have more list . and jealousy could come with trust and no trust. poster dear, jealousyyy na long gist oh!!!!!! better let it rest but its still up to you. |
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gosky (m)
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Re: Is It Good To Be A Jealous Lover?
« #18 on: Today at 01:33:45 PM »
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Not too bad if the party involve can draw their boundaries.But it sucks when possesiveness comes in
I kind of agree with u
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rockiedink (m)
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Jealous!!!!!!!!!!emmmmmmmmm its good as long you aint the aggressive type that would woze the makeup out of a sister's face .so, back to you. what kind of jealous lover are you refering to? aggressive or non aggressive? some one could help with other types. can't think of any would call back when i have more list . and jealousy could come with trust and no trust. poster dear, jealousyyy na long gist oh!!!!!! better let it rest but its still up to you. Gbam!!! |
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