60k doesn't even sustain me as a single guy in a month let alone in marriage moreso someone like my current girl friend that has vowed not to work and earn a living but rather has the mindset that a man has to cater for all that she needs. Thank God I'm already making steps to retract.

As I dey look like this many g8rls no go marry. By the time dem enter 35 na dem go dey beg for marriage say once man marry doors go open.

Meanwhile che the graphics below

MALIGNANTGuest:

They are attractive.
That's the truth.
Even in Death, Wealth is distinguished.

When LAZARUS died as a poor man, he was found at the feet/bosom of ABRAHAM who was very wealthy.
He successfully made it to heaven but was still kept at his position.

Quote saved.

It's obvious many people won't get married

But then life has a way of shifting poles.

I cannot marry a guy earning 60k and you're 30yrs already. When u get to 35yrs, you will beg to marry a guy earning 35k monthly

Geonigga:
60k doesn't even sustain me as a single guy in a month let alone in marriage moreso someone like my current girl friend that has vowed not to work and earn a living but rather has the mindset that a man has to cater for all that she needs. Thank God I'm already making steps to retract.

You should ooo, that one is a liability

I can't advise you until when I know much you earn yourself.

What happens to those earning 15k

Simbrixton:
hypergamy

Exactly what many women are into regardless of mans love.

maasoap:


Judge it yourself based on his 30k/40k salary if that was possible, they had another source(s) of income

Bro it is very possible, the guy I'm talking about is someone I know very very well, I know how office,I know how oga sef...And "No, he doesn't have any, Asin any other source(s) of income"

As a Lagosian what I believe is, first own your own apartment (a house no Matter how small it is) of landlord money don comot for.your life as a Lagosian forget it the rest easy one kain.....

I just believe say, know yourself (Ur status) and the person who wanna get married to before even diving into the river Ocean of marriage..... And las las human don't eat from what the earn it is God who feeds and cloth us all, our own na to strive, that's why u seeing people making peanut doing things pple making hundreds of thousands are yet to do

des4ella:
I was earning less than 60k (45k) when I got married; and Babe wasn't working. You just have to marry someone who support your vision. Above all get side hustle.

To God be the glory

SweetCunt97:
Yes why not? His plus mine will b sufficient until God blesses and Enlarges our coast.

Na so.

gare2510:
Guys pls be wise as you choose life partners no be only women sabi find rich husbands you too like for girls with dual citizenship (UK, US or Canada), from rich connected family, earns enough money to cater for her Bill's first then see if you can fall in love with her, if love works you marry if e no work you move. Have your in checklist that should weeds out liabilities, mannerless people. In other words collect CVs and consider them carefully as an investor seeking to employ a manager for his investments.

Y u de advice.
We know na. I leave mercy bcuz na only kpekus she de offer. Na so I leave her go fine one medical doctor for church. At least she de collect reach 120k as starter. Wen God open road she fit collect reach 250k.

For me na guys de select Women pass. Leave beauty follow money like women

SimplyFacts:
I can't blame the ladies who said No. Actually, I don't know why I find only ladies with rich status attractive. I need a supplement for complement & not just a compliment!

Gold digger.

FalseProphet1:
I see broke girls claiming that they can't even marry a guy earning 100k. This I have seen.

Those broke girls will remain in their father's house till they grow white hair. Age will tell them later

CXLVII:


If you look at the bad side of the story, you wont make a move. I know some one you know who got married with 80k as at 2011. Today, he earns over 50 million per annum (After tax and excluding allowances) with that same wife, blessed with kids.

Be positive!

You are a bold face LIAR!

Drop the name or give us a clue to the person’s identity.

YoungLionken:
That amount is too small to begin a marital journey.. Kids school fees, feeding, rentage, transport...

That's the reason the wife of a man is referred to as a helpmate in all ramifications. If there's love, she should do the needful by legitimately working too to support. With time, their finances will grow when managed & invested well.

Never. NO.

Except there's a very profitable side hustle besides the 60K. I won't speak from both sides of my mouth because I want to please people. I can't, please.

50K for this economy wey no fit even reach 3 weeks for a single person. You can't even save something meaningful out of the money. Except say na manage manage lifestyle una wan live. And now that inflation has risen to the highest. Frustration go kill una for the house. Except you live in low cost states not Lagos. Don't mind this ladies saying YES oh. When you put them for house, the story will change.

[You don finish talk...ah swearquote author=Lalami3232 post=101424222]If the man dey earn 60K and the woman dey earn 40K, that one no be 100K?
But women go agree NO!!! Dem believe say as dem get kpekus, dem don already offer millions to the marriage already . God bless hardworking women worldwide oooo, no be those ones wey feel say their mobile office (kpekus) is everything a man needs[/quote]

Iamaboonasir:


You wrong my brother, with right planning and self contentment make God come give you your own fine join u good to go (no be all this slay girls out there)

I know of a guy with 4 kids his wife is just a full house wife,she does nothing! Just stay at home all day taking care of the house and kids,even from the little her husband drop's she still do ajo/contribution inside..... This guy salary for month I doubt if e reach 40k sef (40k kini, highest 25/30k)...this guy's is currently living in his own house, all his kids dey go school aside the last child who is just few months old,they on gen from 7-10/11pm everyday (considering the cost of fuel)..... So my brother it's possible when u with the right person, it might be tough o but then with right channel of resources it will def work..

FAKE story!!!

MALIGNANTGuest:

They are attractive.
That's the truth.
Even in Death, Wealth is distinguished.

When LAZARUS died as a poor man, he was found at the feet/bosom of ABRAHAM who was very wealthy.
He successfully made it to heaven but was still kept at his position.

See as this guy misinterpreted and misrepresented Bible passage to support is vain idea.

You just added the word "feet" beside "bosom" to change the narration of that verse. Abraham's bosom or beside Abraham, or by the side of Abraham, are the appropriate rendition.

Iamaboonasir:



Bro it is very possible, the guy I'm talking about is someone I know very very well, I know how office,I know how oga sef...And "No, he doesn't have any, Asin any other source(s) of income"

As a Lagosian what I believe is, first own your own apartment (a house no Matter how small it is) of landlord money don comot for.your life as a Lagosian forget it the rest easy one kain.....

I just believe say, know yourself (Ur status) and the person who wanna get married to before even diving into the river Ocean of marriage..... And las las human don't eat from what the earn it is God who feeds and cloth us all, our own na to strive, that's why u seeing people making peanut doing things pple making hundreds of thousands are yet to do

Living on HOPE!!!

CXLVII:
Love conquers all.

You just must be able to trust the man's drive. Not trusting my words of mouth, but doing by his ways.

Dont judge a man with his position today. Try to see a picture of his destination.

in this 21st Century you are talking of love!?... your love is your worth even in your immediate family, quit deceiving yourself... the only true love you experience in life is from your mother, the rest fake and manipulative loves comes after your are financially stable, be WISE!

Juliearth:




He earns 60k, but that is not the total cash in-flow for the month. I am expected to earn as well. Thus, assuming I earn about 200k monthly, that should bring our total cash in-flow to 260k, which is fair enough for an average family.

I know you are desperately searching for a man, so you are trying to be in your good books. As old age don come na, your brain don reset. I bet you wouldn't say this in your early-mid 20s. Aunty Juli Juli. So, you no mind bring 200K into the welfare of the home make your husband bring lesser? Trying too hard to be too true.

But in reality, majority of married Nigerian men earn below 40k.

Burgerlomo:


Thank you Omalicha

From this moment, I pronounce both of you husband and wife. You may now shake your bride!

60k cannot even pay electricity bill in Lagos.

adg98:
Yes I can
60K is fair enough

60k is not enough of except you are bringing something to the "table".

eljayson:
Does love really conquer all? Including poverty?

This economy has opened the eyes of everyone to the importance of having money.


The price of everything has gone up and love no go work if money no enter.

Recently, a pastor said his wife married him in 2016 when he was making 60k monthly.

This made us go into the streets to ask people if they can brave it and still marry someone who makes 60k monthly.
See what they said.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5MT2EcoRGbY&t=6s

mynd44, Rocktation, farano

Those ladies that will start saying I can't marry a man that earns 60k is too poor watch them, they are nothing but liabilities marry them suffer alone this type of ladies will never contribute idea or money for the family up keep, all they know is spending, guys avoid them, with these type of ladies if you like be a millionaire the moment you are not doing well watch as that your wife will suddenly leave you because of money

When it comes to marriage expenses,some women would recognize that it's the duty of the husband to provide,but when it comes to simple recognition and respect of the man as the head of the family,they would be ranting gender equality....mtchew

UyaiIncomparabl:


I know you are desperately searching for a man, so you are trying to be in your good books. As old age don come na, your brain don reset. I bet you wouldn't say this in your early-mid 20s. Aunty Juli Juli. So, you no mind bring 200K into the welfare of the home make your husband bring lesser? Trying too hard to be too true.

Ah! I am desperately single and dangerously searching for a man oh! Rich or poor, young, old or an ancestor, I won't mind.... LOL

BUT



I can't believe that the girl who thinks I am desperate is nothing but a two-timing, lazy, and a*s licking gold digger, looking for a white man to marry. Perhaps you should consider joining your cahoots to Italy. Nigerian women are scattered around the world, doing exploits and all you want is to marry an old and sickly white man... Your village people really got you on this one...



I wonder what would make a girl this bitter... Did you suffer any form of abuse in your formative age? Were you abandoned? Instead of taking it out on people, seek help!

yes that was in those days, Nigeria gets worse everyday and you can never ever compare economy of a year or two years ago with now

don't live life now like its done in past or else na whole generation wretchedness you creating

hisgrace090:
But men have been marrying women who earns almost nothing for long without complaining as they women mostly go for the richest always.