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Re: Ever Regretted Breaking Up With Your Ex After Starting A New Relationship? by OrdinaryNigeria(m): 12:28pm On May 12, 2021
Ooo my teeth
Re: Ever Regretted Breaking Up With Your Ex After Starting A New Relationship? by Ginalex(f): 12:30pm On May 12, 2021
MadeINchenzen2:
Some may say "u dont know what u have until it's gone or u loose it" ...sometimes we may think a partner is not good enough or does not measure up to our taste or standard or social and financial status... we may observe some contrasting personality traits that does not complement us... so we want something more, we want something close to perfection.

We end the relationship and then find someone else... thinking we have found what we want, only to discover that "EX" was better and even presently still improving.

Now we regret !!!

Have u ever been in such situation?

Kindly share your story in summary

Mine: it happened 2005, I left an 18 months old relationship cause I thought she was damn too ugly and broke, few years later after we parted ways, I discovered she is the owner of a leading cosmetic brand and now looks so beautiful compared to current bae.
Gold digger... Alexa play me gold digger by Kanye West

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Re: Ever Regretted Breaking Up With Your Ex After Starting A New Relationship? by Kingbaba47: 12:31pm On May 12, 2021
Were una dey see all this Love self..cause my body don dey vex for me self e done reach 5yrs now I never see anybody.
Re: Ever Regretted Breaking Up With Your Ex After Starting A New Relationship? by Ginalex(f): 12:32pm On May 12, 2021
Lollittaa:

Enjoy your beautiful broke parasite grin
grin grin grin grin
Re: Ever Regretted Breaking Up With Your Ex After Starting A New Relationship? by mariahAngel(f): 12:32pm On May 12, 2021
Lollittaa:

Enjoy your beautiful broke parasite grin

LWKMD! grin
Re: Ever Regretted Breaking Up With Your Ex After Starting A New Relationship? by Jimmyubah2: 12:32pm On May 12, 2021
But you didn't tell us what happened.
Re: Ever Regretted Breaking Up With Your Ex After Starting A New Relationship? by kuntash: 12:32pm On May 12, 2021
PrincessGlow:


It's amazing what we can accomplish when motivated. Your dumping her was probably what motivated her. She was like, he will see!
Some disappointments are camouflaged blessings

But that's really not the point .. NTOR or whatever is not the matter now ..

Many people make such mistakes at younger ages , we choose to follow our instincts rather than seek for divine Providence to help us navigate such choices or decisions in life , there is no expert in such matter ...

Howbeit , humility is key in life , when you are humble it would be difficult to rule off anyone

when you have realized your errors , as in this case , you learn from it and take stock of your errors and move on , you would be able to teach the youngers ones your experience so as not to follow same ...

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Re: Ever Regretted Breaking Up With Your Ex After Starting A New Relationship? by MrJonny(m): 12:35pm On May 12, 2021
You needed to leave
She needed to grow
Not because its good or evil but because it was simply meant to happen.

She's a strong woman too
Stay friends with her
She did it to make you come to a knowing; and now, you have known.

MadeINchenzen2:
Some may say "u dont know what u have until it's gone or u loose it" ...sometimes we may think a partner is not good enough or does not measure up to our taste or standard or social and financial status... we may observe some contrasting personality traits that does not complement us... so we want something more, we want something close to perfection.

We end the relationship and then find someone else... thinking we have found what we want, only to discover that "EX" was better and even presently still improving.

Now we regret !!!

Have u ever been in such situation?

Kindly share your story in summary

Mine: it happened 2005, I left an 18 months old relationship cause I thought she was damn too ugly and broke, few years later after we parted ways, I discovered she is the owner of a leading cosmetic brand and now looks so beautiful compared to current bae.

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Re: Ever Regretted Breaking Up With Your Ex After Starting A New Relationship? by Successmind(m): 12:36pm On May 12, 2021
You are the reason for her setback.....once you left she met grace....may God answer your prayers too..

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Re: Ever Regretted Breaking Up With Your Ex After Starting A New Relationship? by Jman06(m): 12:36pm On May 12, 2021
Never regret leaving a lady!

As for her being the owner of a cosmetic brand, don't even think that would have been of any benefit to you because a woman's money is a woman's money. You know the drills!

As for her now looking beautiful, her beauty at the moment is obviously cosmetic and does not change her genes of ugliness.

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Re: Ever Regretted Breaking Up With Your Ex After Starting A New Relationship? by Kudducini(m): 12:37pm On May 12, 2021
Seniorwriter:
Lolz MONEY STOPS RUBBISH!!!
Deep Quote Nobody is ugly they are just broke.
@Seniorwriter

OP said she was ugly and Broke
Re: Ever Regretted Breaking Up With Your Ex After Starting A New Relationship? by NamelessOGBENI(m): 12:40pm On May 12, 2021
These are stories that crushed a nigga’s spirit

And now I love you means nothing when I hear it...
Re: Ever Regretted Breaking Up With Your Ex After Starting A New Relationship? by frizakengineeri: 12:41pm On May 12, 2021
ChiefSosa:
She left me 'cause she thought I was broke, but now I own 13 face masks, a wireless headphone and I'm the current admin of 3 WhatsApp groups with several members, so I guess she lost.
Congrats man, you're doing well
Re: Ever Regretted Breaking Up With Your Ex After Starting A New Relationship? by Nobody: 12:41pm On May 12, 2021
This is why it is necessary to end a relationship only due to "irreconcilable differences" (narcissism, different belief system etc), that even if she turns to queen Elizabeth tomorrow, you won't regret it one bit. You dumped her for vain reasons, hence your regret.

My advice to you is to start looking inward, because when you know yourself well, know your vulnerability, imperfection, and aware of your shortcoming, then it becomes natural to be easy on others. You won't expect perfection from them because you're aware of your imperfection and also, knows that they accepted you and your fault regardless.

As a final advice, know that a strong/good man is one who is tough on himself but easy on others, a weak/unkind man does the opposite, which is one who is tough on others but easy on himself. Hope this experience made you grew, its part of life.

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Re: Ever Regretted Breaking Up With Your Ex After Starting A New Relationship? by kokomilala(m): 12:44pm On May 12, 2021
The take home message is : never look down on anyone,never write off anyone; never announce anyone's demise while they're still breathing.Like the Scripture says: there's hope for the one joined to the living; a living dog is better than a dead lion. And,if a tree is cut down,if it can smell the scent of water it will sprout.
I knew a common housekeeper,who was brought from Togo to Àgùdà , Lagos. At a point,her bosses bypassed their own kin and took the housekeeper to the US,where she became successful. I'll never forget that lesson.

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Re: Ever Regretted Breaking Up With Your Ex After Starting A New Relationship? by Officialgarri: 12:44pm On May 12, 2021
Always try to get better, then you will have no regrets dumping someone.

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Re: Ever Regretted Breaking Up With Your Ex After Starting A New Relationship? by omoadeleye(m): 12:45pm On May 12, 2021
Kobicove:


Not in all cases undecided



So you can chew your cud
Re: Ever Regretted Breaking Up With Your Ex After Starting A New Relationship? by stasius: 12:48pm On May 12, 2021
It is good.

If you didn't dump her she might not have discovered her potentials. So weldone to you.

Your regrets, her gains.

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Re: Ever Regretted Breaking Up With Your Ex After Starting A New Relationship? by ayodestar: 12:57pm On May 12, 2021
You will break up with this current girlfriend, then 5years later, u go Dy complain again undecided
Re: Ever Regretted Breaking Up With Your Ex After Starting A New Relationship? by Nobody: 12:59pm On May 12, 2021
Maybe leaving her was the challenge she needed to double down on the hustle.
you, me every bleeping human on this earth is a bleeped human.

You're a bleeping Golddigger and your love is not real
Your bet don cast, count your loses and stick to your current "Beach"

If a girl does this, you will call her all sorts
Re: Ever Regretted Breaking Up With Your Ex After Starting A New Relationship? by Martinez39s(m): 1:01pm On May 12, 2021
You are not remorseful, you are just unhappy that she is doing better without you. It's okay to be selfish and remorseless in how you select your women and dump them, but śhit happens; even women have their hypergamous monkey branching backfiring at times. Besides, how are you sure she would have been grateful to you for being by her side? How are you sure you would have benefited from her success? Even if you stayed and supported her, don't you think she would now feel you are beneath her and that she deserves better now that her level is upgraded and she is more beautiful?

Just chill and drink cold water.

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Re: Ever Regretted Breaking Up With Your Ex After Starting A New Relationship? by Omoluabiii(m): 1:04pm On May 12, 2021
Gold digger, stay one place, make that current babe something too instead of eyeing what you once rejected.
Re: Ever Regretted Breaking Up With Your Ex After Starting A New Relationship? by Afrogoddess25(f): 1:04pm On May 12, 2021
Even if you had stayed with her until she became successful, do you think that she would have shared her success with you? Women are stingy in nature, she might have still dumped your broke ass and looked for a niggar in her class.

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Re: Ever Regretted Breaking Up With Your Ex After Starting A New Relationship? by blinking001(m): 1:06pm On May 12, 2021
Jeon:
Lollittaa my baby.
I don't wanna regret losing you.
Am I missing something or what? You're now a lesbian? Fati02 stop fooling around joor. We know this moniker very well. Fati02
Re: Ever Regretted Breaking Up With Your Ex After Starting A New Relationship? by Nobody: 1:06pm On May 12, 2021
JubrinElSudan:
She travelled to the US 2016, me started withdrawing, now after many failed relationships both sides, we are trying to come back
opportunist grin

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Re: Ever Regretted Breaking Up With Your Ex After Starting A New Relationship? by Eastcaostboy: 1:06pm On May 12, 2021
MadeINchenzen2:
Some may say "u dont know what u have until it's gone or u loose it" ...sometimes we may think a partner is not good enough or does not measure up to our taste or standard or social and financial status... we may observe some contrasting personality traits that does not complement us... so we want something more, we want something close to perfection.

We end the relationship and then find someone else... thinking we have found what we want, only to discover that "EX" was better and even presently still improving.

Now we regret !!!

Have u ever been in such situation?

Kindly share your story in summary

Mine: it happened 2005, I left an 18 months old relationship cause I thought she was damn too ugly and broke, few years later after we parted ways, I discovered she is the owner of a leading cosmetic brand and now looks so beautiful compared to current bae.
Maga-man... She owns a Cosmetic company, abi? And you have been calling her to beg her, abi? You need to own a bank before you get her back, okay,... Mugu man
Re: Ever Regretted Breaking Up With Your Ex After Starting A New Relationship? by Chijeep(m): 1:07pm On May 12, 2021
No na... Oga it can't work that way.
Can't you understand that you're a hindrance to the girl's blessing?
If you never leave her she might not be who she is now. grin

AS IN IF IM THE ELDER BROTHER OF THE GIRL, MY MESSAGE FOR YOU IS:- Thanks for leaving my sister as your act have led her to her Success

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Re: Ever Regretted Breaking Up With Your Ex After Starting A New Relationship? by Nobody: 1:07pm On May 12, 2021
blinking001:

Am I missing something or what? You're now a lesbian? Fati02 stop fooling around joor. We know this moniker very well. Fati02
grin grin beat her n.aked her grin
Re: Ever Regretted Breaking Up With Your Ex After Starting A New Relationship? by Goldbw122(m): 1:08pm On May 12, 2021
Hmm, na so e dey be when you break up then your ex become beautiful who don notice am before quote me..
Re: Ever Regretted Breaking Up With Your Ex After Starting A New Relationship? by Goldbw122(m): 1:09pm On May 12, 2021
MadeINchenzen2:
Some may say "u dont know what u have until it's gone or u loose it" ...sometimes we may think a partner is not good enough or does not measure up to our taste or standard or social and financial status... we may observe some contrasting personality traits that does not complement us... so we want something more, we want something close to perfection.

We end the relationship and then find someone else... thinking we have found what we want, only to discover that "EX" was better and even presently still improving.

Now we regret !!!

Have u ever been in such situation?

Kindly share your story in summary

Mine: it happened 2005, I left an 18 months old relationship cause I thought she was damn too ugly and broke, few years later after we parted ways, I discovered she is the owner of a leading cosmetic brand and now looks so beautiful compared to current bae.
Bro na make up

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