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Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Andrew87(m): 3:40am On Jul 16, 2021 |
I got married to my wife. I love her both with the kids but the biological father of the kids is a bit wealthy and left the whole responsibilities to my wife since last year. This is not funny because I am part of her although we hustle hard but it's not easy. He insists the kids must be with him if he must take care of them but a member of his family informed my wife that he plans to take them away and she will not see them. Please friends what's ur take on this? Times are really hard. 34 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Juicewrld27: 3:44am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Andrew87:better allow the man take his property 515 Likes 35 Shares
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Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Andrew87(m): 3:49am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Na so oohh 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by phorget(m): 4:12am On Jul 16, 2021 |
You wan carry another man load? 302 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by EmptyGarden(m): 4:31am On Jul 16, 2021 |
You don marry you don marry, man up! What if she was a widow? 263 Likes 19 Shares |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by 111sunshine: 5:29am On Jul 16, 2021 |
you don't need any advice... what was your reason for marrying the lady? maybe your plan was that the man will keep sending money to her because of the kids so you can "leach" off him?... Please have a bit of decency and either take care of the kids or return them to their dad.... 440 Likes 21 Shares |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by phemmyfour: 5:54am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Andrew87:Let him take his kids. That's less distraction in your home 127 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Romanoff(f): 6:01am On Jul 16, 2021 |
To those telling him to let the father take his kids, if you were one of those kids, won't you resent your mother for abandoning you? Wouldn't you ask that "what type of mother will abandon her kids?" @Op, you knew she had kids when you married her, I know it's not easy, but you both will have to double your hustle. Get other side businesses, cut your coat according to your material. If you'll need to downgrade their school, do so, if you'll need to move to a cheaper area, do so. Do all you can to cut cost. Those kids will never understand or forgive their mum in the future. Use two side look the matter. Another thing your wife can do is to take him to court, especially for child support. Let her get a good lawyer if she wants him to care for his children. MODIFIED She can go through FIDA to sort out Co-parenting and child support agreement. For those coming for me, if you're not capable of talking like a homosapien, don't mention me, cause I no well. I will drag you from here to Timbuktu. So come correct 282 Likes 20 Shares |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Nobody: 6:20am On Jul 16, 2021 |
I just read the headline only and I'm pissed! If you must marry a woman with kids, do so only when you know and have confirmed from genuine sources that the husband is late (dead) If a man is alive hael and hearty, don't ever mistake taking his divorced wife and kids. Its a charity with no reward whatsoever. Love you say?! Love is relative my man. Don't just get to a woman cause of you love her. Check and balance iq, literacy, degree of burdening you and many other important stuff. Ass and boobs aren't the only thing to consider ( I know you didn't mention) but i'm just saying! 211 Likes 24 Shares |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Styluss: 6:56am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Split the kids... Take the youngest... Return one to the father... If possible... Return both!!! Why should you carry another man's burden? 58 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Bola146(f): 7:02am On Jul 16, 2021 |
I guess the lady is rich that is why you didn't reasoned well how to take care of the two kids before getting married to their mother You need to be ready to take full responsibilities of the kids. She can't ignore them, since their father is not responsible, act like their father, carry your cross biko 38 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by ahnie: 7:33am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Only here to read comments. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Katier00(f): 7:58am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Juicewrld27:they are humans, that need motherly love and care not property. Op if you can afford training those children please do and God will bless you. You can see that the biological father is not responsible. 28 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by duro4chang(m): 8:58am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Andrew87:What was the arrangement you both made before marriage? 26 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Nobody: 9:56am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Romanoff: This is sad! What you are saying is, it’s better they resent their father instead. Nice. 99 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by babyfaceafrica: 9:56am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Avoid single mothers if you are single .. He get why 95 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Onyi22(f): 9:57am On Jul 16, 2021 |
op you need sense 12 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by nairavsdollars(f): 9:57am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Once u marry a woman with kids, all the responsibilities are yours 24 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by NwaAmaikpe: 9:57am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Tufiakwa. Ya Allah, don't make us to be stupid in this life and in the life to come. Except they reduced the bride-price for your fairly-used wife, I can't fathom the incentive that was given to you to act so stupidly. 133 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by AFvckingAlpha(m): 9:57am On Jul 16, 2021 |
The fvck Nigggarr!! This one pass my pay grade. I said what I said 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by KingAzari: 9:58am On Jul 16, 2021 |
But you knew what you signed up for when you chose to inherit a liability and and an abandoned property. Such comes with huge cost of maintenance and distraction. You never see anything. And which man in his right sense would marry a woman with two kids from a previous marriage? Could be you were the reason her first marriage failed. Andrew87: 30 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by PAWG(m): 9:58am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Do it for love, they’re your kids now. At the same time put yourself in the other man’s shoes. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by izubext007: 9:58am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Nal u be mumu ..... U marry mother of two with paying thier bills before 16 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by id4sho(m): 9:58am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Excess baggage for this Buhari regime. Oya carry your load. See broda, broda wet mumu You carry woman go house You spend all your money Money come finish You don dey cry 33 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by sam564: 9:58am On Jul 16, 2021 |
whether she is divorced or not o, weather she got the children out of wedlock or not o.... my brother!!!!!!! u absolutely made ur choice brahhh..... even if the real father chooses to take responsibilty of the children, one way or the other u will still contribute ur own to the bringing up of those children... the day u accepted to marry her, u already soccom to taking them along... them dey use u play kalokalo..... hop say u even get ur own pikin with her... God!!! I stand on behalf of the jobless guys to pray for a sudden miracle of change of status, let the husbandman be the first partaker!!!! amen I meeeuuuvvveee 11 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by infogenius(m): 9:58am On Jul 16, 2021 |
op Is she legally divorced? If she is there would be a court ruling on the welfare of the children that can be enforced. If there isn't then you may seek legal advice on this issue if you want the biological father of the kids to provide for the kids. And if they were not married that one na long tin. She may need to consult a lawyer and possible go through the man's family. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Womanizer(m): 9:58am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Let the man come and take his kids, it's as simple as that! 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by DirtyGold: 9:59am On Jul 16, 2021 |
This thread is annoying me sef Well done captain save a hoe... if she was so great, she won't be divorced now! Fresh girls are turning 18 every single day but, your sense failed you so badly that you had to marry a single mother of two. No sensible man throws away a good woman that gives him peace especially if they have children together. Don't worry, what her former husband saw and divorced her, you'll see it too in due time. How you people manage your situation is your headache. What's tha business? 78 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by eedimo(m): 9:59am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Things men do. **Let the kids go** 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Weedhustler: 9:59am On Jul 16, 2021 |
U be mugu.....who send u? 27 Likes 6 Shares |
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