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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Elxandre(m): 11:11pm On Dec 28, 2021
Why are Nigerians so obsessed with sex?
You open any social media, a sex topic is trending.
There are virgins that have done all kinds of nasty things minus the main act itself. These women could possibly go back to complete the whole thing after marriage too.
Would you really pick a virgin over a nice, caring and genuine woman?

Well marry who/what you want to and stop bothering others with these unimportant topics. undecided

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by jimmychang: 11:13pm On Dec 28, 2021
FernandezPablo:

Exactly man..this a great advice and also truthful..but guess what wannabe redpillers won't agree...while themselves are full of s**t
They will call those non virgin ladies worthless...as if they are any way different..


You don't know what redpill is about.....SMH...

But shey you go marry goal oriented hardworking prostitute? grin

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Myketuale(m): 11:16pm On Dec 28, 2021
Nyascobar1414:
And ladies should stop looking for rich guys... Go and marry broke guys also... If not, our mothers would have not been married, cos most of our dads were broke during the initial years of courtship....
How you gonn' see that?

Despite all these, I cant marry a non virgin.. If only if I wont pay a bride price..

Cos its makes no sense going to marry a gabbage that was digged by a nigga in exchange of 2k,5k, indomie and egg... And I will now pay upto 2million naira... As in there is no sense in it now...
If only the parent of the so called bride will not collect a bride price..
Then some guys wont mind the virginity aspect...

Though people are different, they can overlook her sexual past...
But, for me, its a no no deal...
Y'all are gonn' be surprise those niggs that dig em will want a virgin to settle down with...

A used girl is meant for flirting..
Virgins are meant to be settled down with...

Non virgins and frustrated hoes... Make una no carry una frustration follow me oo .. Mbok, abeg

peace!

Boss you made a whole lot of sense...
You just hit the nail on the head.
God bless you.
I shared n like your comment after reading ur first paragraph.. because I believe the remaining paragraph will mk more sense..
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by GoldenSpec: 11:17pm On Dec 28, 2021
And where are we going to get the one with those qualities u mentioned sef??
Abi no be for dz corntree wey we dey again where most of nowadays girls has turned a prostitute in disguise

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Doczeze: 11:18pm On Dec 28, 2021
Better quote is "You can't have your cake and eat it too". Both are mutually exclusive.
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by gnhpowerhouse: 11:19pm On Dec 28, 2021
advanceDNA:


U must think yourself to be important for your opinion to hurt a stranger......I only asked what you are saying... because u made zero sense
You already read what the person was saying why asking again .it sound sooo rubbish asking again .it made lot of sense . it's ur Comment that made Zero sense

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Nobody: 11:19pm On Dec 28, 2021
advanceDNA:
What’s this one saying ??
Don't mind him. He thinks everyone is stupid enough to marry a woman they did not disvirgin knowing that such a woman is a curse to her children.

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by gnhpowerhouse: 11:20pm On Dec 28, 2021
grin
Nyascobar1414:
And ladies should stop looking for rich guys... Go and marry broke guys also... If not, our mothers would have not been married, cos most of our dads were broke during the initial years of courtship....
How you gonn' see that?

Despite all these, I cant marry a non virgin.. If only if I wont pay a bride price..

Cos its makes no sense going to marry a gabbage that was digged by a nigga in exchange of 2k,5k, indomie and egg... And I will now pay upto 2million naira... As in there is no sense in it now...
If only the parent of the so called bride will not collect a bride price..
Then some guys wont mind the virginity aspect...

Though people are different, they can overlook her sexual past...
But, for me, its a no no deal...
Y'all are gonn' be surprise those niggs that dig em will want a virgin to settle down with...

A used girl is meant for flirting..
Virgins are meant to be settled down with...

Non virgins and frustrated hoes... Make una no carry una frustration follow me oo .. Mbok, abeg

peace!
. grin
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Zenithphil8368: 11:20pm On Dec 28, 2021
This one don mad ooo, so because you marry nonvirgins all of us must Marr nonvirgins abi? So the ones weyb virgins who go come marry them? Oga abeg pack well make I hear better thin

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Myketuale(m): 11:22pm On Dec 28, 2021
Adeolaeniola:
Oga Abeg pack well joor them dey take virginity collect award ni, abi who virginity help self... The criteria you included is difficult to find than virginity self.

Na the truth be dat
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Janosky: 11:52pm On Dec 28, 2021
BadRadio:
Just find a lady that's goal oriented, a supportive woman, a visionary, an independent woman with good manners and culinary skills... a graduate perhaps and get married. Stop checking for virginity and body counts.... just get married !!!

It is fair to say that you may have defiled and abused your countless ex's, but they are now married, If the guys who married them were scouting for virgins or were checking body counts like you are doing now then all the ladies in the world will grow old without getting married.


Goan marry joor !!!cheesy

After chopping and clean mouth, they come here to lambast women upandan as if they came into the world from outer space without the usual reproductive format.
Do these women you label with derogatory terms tango alone?

The same tag you label on them also befits their partners in crime- menfolk.
It takes two to tango.
"Whatever is good for the gander is good for the goose. "

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by onuman: 11:59pm On Dec 28, 2021
I am a virgin. If I don't get a virgin, I will not marry a disvirgened lady.

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Lalas247(f): 12:29am On Dec 29, 2021
Nyascobar1414:
And ladies should stop looking for rich guys... Go and marry broke guys also... If not, our mothers would have not been married, cos most of our dads were broke during the initial years of courtship....
How you gonn' see that?

Despite all these, I cant marry a non virgin.. If only if I wont pay a bride price..

Cos its makes no sense going to marry a gabbage that was digged by a nigga in exchange of 2k,5k, indomie and egg... And I will now pay upto 2million naira... As in there is no sense in it now...
If only the parent of the so called bride will not collect a bride price..
Then some guys wont mind the virginity aspect...

Though people are different, they can overlook her sexual past...
But, for me, its a no no deal...
Y'all are gonn' be surprise those niggs that dig em will want a virgin to settle down with...

A used girl is meant for flirting..
Virgins are meant to be settled down with...

Non virgins and frustrated hoes... Make una no carry una frustration follow me oo .. Mbok, abeg

peace!

Sounding a bit broke to me grin

Who hurt u??

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Datedoboy: 12:30am On Dec 29, 2021
onuman:
I am a virgin. If I don't get a virgin, I will not marry a disvirgened lady.

Good decision. Please don't settle for less. That's my stand too. Before, I thought it doesn't matter until a friend told me his ex called him after she was married that she doesn't enjoy her husband's dick.

She wants him to continue sleeping with her but he refused. After telling me I just shook my head. That girl belongs to him cos he hit it first b4 her husband and she will never respect her husband this is why many marriages are in crisis because most men are married to another man's wife.

Virginity is value. Women want value in terms of protection and care that's why they go for comfortable guys but from a man's standpoint, value is determined by loyalty and morals.

A man or woman who has slept with any person he or she is not married to, has loose morals and marriage doesn't change that.

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by joviegghead: 12:30am On Dec 29, 2021
Bobmarie:
The boreholes in your household are not complaining in their husband’s house. But you can take this to them when next you gather for a reason. You’re only talking to the non virgin women in your family that got married as boreholes, this speech only concerns them.
They are the bitches you speak of with no value.
He is referring to in the sensible men that married the non virgins in your family you call boreholes. Not filth and non entities like your kind.

Looks like I struck a nerve, bitch.

Don't take it personally tongue grin

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Lalas247(f): 12:31am On Dec 29, 2021
Myketuale:


Boss you made a whole lot of sense...
You just hit the nail on the head.
God bless you.
I shared n like your comment after reading ur first paragraph.. because I believe the remaining paragraph will mk more sense..



Enter his a$s and lick it some more ... kai... have some shame
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by famagusta(m): 1:10am On Dec 29, 2021
advanceDNA:
What’s this one saying ??

I no understand oo. Jusy dey yan trash.

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by funshint(m): 1:17am On Dec 29, 2021
It's even more of the men trying to defend the ladies here. I don't blame the virginity crew though. What you see ladies doing outside now can put you in-between a state of anger and depression at thesame time. Most especially in schools. A lady should have the dignity to know that you shouldn't co-habit with a guy you're not yet married to. But no matter what you say, it's like talking to a deaf person. Though I'm not of the opinion that virginity should be a major opinion to consider before marriage but girls should also learn to respect their body.

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by MrNipplesLover(m): 1:25am On Dec 29, 2021
Na true, I can't eat my cake and have it.


I will rather eat that motherfvcking cake and dump it. grin
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by haslaw(m): 1:47am On Dec 29, 2021
BadRadio, you and your kind have low self esteem and your self worth is in the mud. Stop justifying your low self esteem

I got married to a virgin and it is one of the best thing that has happened to me. There is absolutely nothing like body count or even bad history of some mumu ex in our lives. I have friends who got married to virgins and they are far more happy and proud of their wives than those who married someone else's trash .

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Hamiltonii: 3:39am On Dec 29, 2021
Bobmarie:
Damaged women? Don’t you guys think of your mothers and sisters when you type? Are they like this? Doesn’t your reasoning tell you that not everyone is the same because you have such people in your family too? DO YOU REALIZE PEOPLE FROM ALL OVER THE WORKD COME HERE TO SEE WHAT NIGERIANS LOOK LIKE AND THIS AFFECTS THEM TOO? Nah, you are a child that’s why.
There is prostitution and immorality everywhere but only black men call their own sisters damaged and all sorry of incredible names. And that’s why we will always be at the bottom of the food chain, because we hate ourselves so much.
YOU WILL NEVER SEE A WHITE MAN BRING DOWN HIS OWN BECAUSE OF YOURS DESPITE THE FACT THAT THEY ARE WAY WORSE AND LITERALLY GO NAKED.
I’m going to stop deactivate my account at this point, and leave here because you all ARE SO GODDAMN IMMATURE AND STUPID.

Nigerian men are too worthless. The stupidity in some of you is so alarming.

A damaged fúcker is a damaged fúcker, whether mother or sister.

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Hamiltonii: 3:44am On Dec 29, 2021
Lalas247:


Sounding a bit broke to me grin

Who hurt u??

You sound like a "borehole" or drum!

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Hamiltonii: 3:49am On Dec 29, 2021
God knows I would have been married long ago if not that I've always met "Hard working and brilliant" women with Boreholes between their legs. Good brains but their nyash open waaa! Once you put your priick, you'll be disappointed and frustrated.

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by PrinceMajestic: 3:52am On Dec 29, 2021
Bobmarie:
Damaged women? Don’t you guys think of your mothers and sisters when you type? Are they like this? Doesn’t your reasoning tell you that not everyone is the same because you have such people in your family too? DO YOU REALIZE PEOPLE FROM ALL OVER THE WORKD COME HERE TO SEE WHAT NIGERIANS LOOK LIKE AND THIS AFFECTS THEM TOO? Nah, you are a child that’s why.
There is prostitution and immorality everywhere but only black men call their own sisters damaged and all sorry of incredible names. And that’s why we will always be at the bottom of the food chain, because we hate ourselves so much.
YOU WILL NEVER SEE A WHITE MAN BRING DOWN HIS OWN BECAUSE OF YOURS DESPITE THE FACT THAT THEY ARE WAY WORSE AND LITERALLY GO NAKED.
I’m going to stop deactivate my account at this point, and leave here because you all ARE SO GODDAMN IMMATURE AND STUPID.

Nigerian men are too worthless. The stupidity in some of you is so alarming.
I have been seeing your posts mentioning my guys. I understand you, but I think you take things too personal. Some guys just enjoy bashing ladies, I don't think they take everything they say about women seriously like you are taking it. I think they want you ladies to diss them back, I expect you ladies to give my guys a hot diss too but let's not take things too personal. You want my guys to think of the females in their families when bashing women which is right but you didn't think of the men in your family and men that never offended you when you generalised saying "Nigerian men are too worthless"? It has not gotten to that extent, it has not also gotten to the extent you want to deactivate your account because my guys are bashing ladies. Take a chill pill Ma, don't take these things personal because my guys don't.
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by addexx: 4:26am On Dec 29, 2021
advanceDNA:


Being a Red red piller has nothing to do with looking for virgins...red pillers are just guys don’t think with their wife’s or girlfriend’sPussy


By the way Virgin hunters are just trying to take calculated risk in an environment of high prostitution, several abortions and dangerous body counts..... it’s crazy out there...

If you don’t care about a woman’s sexual past Good for you...
Don’t blame those that care

...

Guuuuuuyyyyy.... You deserve a mountain of Heineken cheesy
Dunno where this dude crawled out from to start trying to impose on our choices. Funny to know that there are also many well to do virgin dudes out there or with low body count at least. These men have been focused on whatever hustle they have been and become high value. Seeing the rate of promiscuity among ladies these days and the drama that usually accompanies most of them with high body counts viz infidelity, dishonesty, discontentment, sexual insatiability, dangerous past, damaged uterus, loose kitten aka konga.com , emotional blackmail and unnecessary pressure....... You expect these men to now settle for less? I think not.
A man's choice is his choice.

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by sotomayor: 4:48am On Dec 29, 2021
haslaw:
BadRadio, you and your kind have low self esteem and your self worth is in the mud. Stop justifying your low self esteem

I got married to a virgin and it is one of the best thing that has happened to me. There is absolutely nothing like body count or even bad history of some mumu ex in our lives. I have friends who got married to virgins and they are far more happy and proud of their wives than those who married someone else's trash .
where do you guys see virgins
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by MossLuv: 4:53am On Dec 29, 2021
I beded over 70 girls (not olosho) but I can gladly say I never defile or disvirgin anyone. Praying God should bless me with one
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Midas01: 5:09am On Dec 29, 2021
like your mother, right?
Kingscee:
Nigeria women are very stupid and foolish, all of them, them no be wife material, marry oyibo women and get peace of mind

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Midas01: 5:11am On Dec 29, 2021
And it is fools like this that will still open their gutter trash of a mouth to call women hoes on NL.

Lmao. Who is the brolosho now?
MossLuv:
I beded over 70 girls (not olosho) but I can gladly say I never defile or disvirgin anyone. Praying God should bless me with one

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Midas01: 5:12am On Dec 29, 2021
In their cradles, right before raping them of course.
sotomayor:
where do you guys see virgins

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Midas01: 5:28am On Dec 29, 2021
As usual, victim blaming. No wonder the black race has the lowest IQ in the universe, only animals have a lower IQ than blacks and this is evident in the way you people foolishly reason on this forum.

Most NL guys come here everyday to bash and insult Nigerian women everyday on this forum even without provocation from the female gender yet you're taking their side and blaming the victims for "taking it too personal". Remember that this is how violence against women starts but no worry e go reach everybody, shey everyone has a mother and/or sisters grin

Whenever a woman achieves a feat she's a hoe that has fvcked her way through life, lmao. The women you see on the streets hawking , the market women, female doctors, lawyers, accountants, business women, nurses, etc are hoes too right? Only your mothers are saints grin

That's how some fools were tagging and still tag Ngozi Okonjo Iweala and Obi Ezekwesili hoes , grin
It's not even you guys I blame, I blame your mothers for not dumping fools like all of you in trash cans.

PrinceMajestic:
I have been seeing your posts mentioning my guys. I understand you, but I think you take things too personal. Some guys just enjoy bashing ladies, I don't think they take everything they say about women seriously like you are taking it. I think they want you ladies to diss them back, I expect you ladies to give my guys a hot diss too but let's not take things too personal. You want my guys to think of the females in their families when bashing women which is right but you didn't think of the men in your family and men that never offended you when you generalised saying "Nigerian men are too worthless"? It has not gotten to that extent, it has not also gotten to the extent you want to deactivate your account because my guys are bashing ladies. Take a chill pill Ma, don't take these things personal because my guys don't.

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Tonytonex(m): 5:41am On Dec 29, 2021
BadRadio:
Just find a lady that's goal oriented, a supportive woman, a visionary, an independent woman with good manners and culinary skills... a graduate perhaps and get married. Stop checking for virginity and body counts.... just get married !!!

It is fair to say that you may have defiled and abused your countless ex's, but they are now married, If the guys who married them were scouting for virgins or were checking body counts like you are doing now then all the ladies in the world will grow old without getting married.


Goan marry joor !!!cheesy
This is not the main issue why most guys ain't getting married. The main issue is lack of fund. Na money no dey.

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