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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by MNDY(m): 8:41am On Dec 29, 2021
Loreettaa:
With all these backward mindset I'm reading here. I'd rather use my virginity to eat yam sauce than date any nairaland male. May God forbid.

Why are you pissed? If you are a virgin, you don't belong to the category of your gender that is being criticized here, or you are lying and belong to the category and you are just pained that your gender is being criticized? Fake love that your gender show each other. No genuine love among yourselves in reality.

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by micxwell(m): 8:41am On Dec 29, 2021
BadRadio:
Just find a lady that's goal oriented, a supportive woman, a visionary, an independent woman with good manners and culinary skills... a graduate perhaps and get married. Stop checking for virginity and body counts.... just get married !!!

It is fair to say that you may have defiled and abused your countless ex's, but they are now married, If the guys who married them were scouting for virgins or were checking body counts like you are doing now then all the ladies in the world will grow old without getting married.


Goan marry joor !!!cheesy
Add teachable to that and it's a wrap.
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by lenghtinny(m): 8:51am On Dec 29, 2021
Now I know why Naija babes are fond of pulling that Rapist took my virginity scam format angry

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Nyascobar1414: 8:55am On Dec 29, 2021
Lalas247:

Sounding a bit broke to me grin
Who hurt u??
Sounding a bit pained and guilty Who broke your virginity and still dumped you?

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by YoungBlackRico(m): 8:56am On Dec 29, 2021
This guy must be a teenager or something, he no dey ever make sense to me
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by YoungBlackRico(m): 8:56am On Dec 29, 2021
Lalas247:

Sounding a bit broke to me grin
Who hurt u??
shocked
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Nyascobar1414: 8:56am On Dec 29, 2021
Myketuale:


Boss you made a whole lot of sense...
You just hit the nail on the head.
God bless you.
I shared n like your comment after reading ur first paragraph.. because I believe the remaining paragraph will mk more sense..



Lol
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Nyascobar1414: 8:58am On Dec 29, 2021
ImoleNaija:

You can still halve the bride price. At all at all na im bad cheesy
Girls dont settle for less... Why should I settle for less?

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Nyascobar1414: 9:02am On Dec 29, 2021
Bobmarie:
I’ll send my brothers after your used up sisters and mother.

They will make a great cum dump site for my family men.

Dont be pained ma'm... I know yo guilty of this..
But note the Bleep that broke your hymen cannot be unfucked...
Its gone , Its gone 4ever...
Move on...
Its a cold world

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by saintruky(m): 9:02am On Dec 29, 2021
advanceDNA:


U must think yourself to be important for your opinion to hurt a stranger......I only asked what you are saying... because u made zero sense

Bros come enter heaven ma see... Wicked person lol
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by sylve11: 9:02am On Dec 29, 2021
advanceDNA:




By the way Virgin hunters are just trying to take calculated risk in an environment of high prostitution, several abortions and dangerous body counts..... it’s crazy out there...

If you don’t care about a woman’s sexual past Good for you...
Don’t blame those that care

...

That simple, my man. cool
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by sylve11: 9:03am On Dec 29, 2021
Lalami3232:
Are you saying this because of your sisters? Anyways, men wey no like virgins go marry dem laslas grin

Easy na. grin cool
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by advanceDNA: 9:03am On Dec 29, 2021
saintruky:


Bros come enter heaven ma see... Wicked person lol

Haba brother angel Gabriel, relax naaa...na play we dey play on naira land...nothing serious here ooo
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Figger(m): 9:07am On Dec 29, 2021
BeeBeeOoh:
Who is even looking for a virgin in the first place?

As a matter of fact, eye yam not good at teaching angry

As far as she is loyal, she gave me peace of mind and she cares, forget it, na she I go carry walk down the aisle wink

To me virginity is a bonus.
ok by the time u realize she can't conceive due to damaged womb caused by abortions, you'll know what we're talking about.

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Figger(m): 9:09am On Dec 29, 2021
Nyascobar1414:
And ladies should stop looking for rich guys... Go and marry broke guys also... If not, our mothers would have not been married, cos most of our dads were broke during the initial years of courtship....
How you gonn' see that?

Despite all these, I cant marry a non virgin.. If only if I wont pay a bride price..

Cos its makes no sense going to marry a gabbage that was digged by a nigga in exchange of 2k,5k, indomie and egg... And I will now pay upto 2million naira... As in there is no sense in it now...
If only the parent of the so called bride will not collect a bride price..
Then some guys wont mind the virginity aspect...

Though people are different, they can overlook her sexual past...
But, for me, its a no no deal...
Y'all are gonn' be surprise those niggs that dig em will want a virgin to settle down with...

A used girl is meant for flirting..
Virgins are meant to be settled down with...

Non virgins and frustrated hoes... Make una no carry una frustration follow me oo .. Mbok, abeg

peace!
only virgins deserves bride price is as simple as that.

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by saintruky(m): 9:20am On Dec 29, 2021
advanceDNA:


Haba brother angel Gabriel, relax naaa...na play we dey play on naira land...nothing serious here ooo

Anyways angel mikky don beg on ur behalf... So u re carried
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Loreettaa: 9:55am On Dec 29, 2021
MNDY:


Why are you pissed? If you are a virgin, you don't belong to the category of your gender that is being criticized here, or you are lying and belong to the category and you are just pained that your gender is being criticized? Fake love that your gender show each other. No genuine love among yourselves in reality.
Tell that to your sisters. They're are the epitome of the rubbish you typed.
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Sumento(m): 9:56am On Dec 29, 2021
advanceDNA:


U must think yourself to be important for your opinion to hurt a stranger......I only asked what you are saying... because u made zero sense

grin grin
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by haslaw(m): 10:14am On Dec 29, 2021
BadRadio:
An whose gonna marry the ones u disvirgined

How is that my problem?
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Nobody: 10:26am On Dec 29, 2021
micxwell:

Add teachable to that and it's a wrap.
If you ate teachable yourself then that won't be a problem at all.
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by BeeBeeOoh(m): 10:30am On Dec 29, 2021
Figger:
ok by the time u realize she can't conceive due to damaged womb caused by abortions, you'll know what we're talking about.

I know a woman married as a virgin in my family but she's yet to conceive till today. The married is roughly 20yrs, they ended up adopting a boy and a girl.

I also have a family friend who married a virgin from the village, the marriage is barely 15yrs and they are not living together again because of the woman's infidelity. They have two girls, the woman finally left her husband's house about 7/8yrs ago and rented an apartment in another area.

What I said above is not a hearsay, it's a real life story. So, being a virgin doesn't guarantee happiness or fruitfulness in a marriage, it's kinda luck bro, if it works for you, you'll ENJOY but if reverse is the case, then you're completely FINISHED.

Virginity is a bonus, it doesn't guarantee happy marriage or being faithful
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by micxwell(m): 10:31am On Dec 29, 2021
BadRadio:
If you ate teachable yourself then that won't be a problem at all.
I am. Both have to be.
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by IkranDragon: 10:50am On Dec 29, 2021
Munzy14:

This is how it should be.

Being a virgin is a bonus.


Being a virgin should be a big deal, not a bonus.


The effort should be valued and appreciated especially when the person with virginity has good morals and they are faithful.

It is because we are not strict in choosing, that's why girls don't care to lose their virginity.

We have a power to influence ladies decision, but the problem is that, men are cheap. If we can drill ourselves, many girls will retrace back to keeping their virginity.

You see women, doing butt and breast up and down because they noticed that is what we want, if we can bring virginity to the picture, they'll be concerned. Think about it.


Imagine a 24 year old girl, and she's still a virgin. In my opinion, that's a big deal. I will respect such lady. Because she's rare o. Lol

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Nobody: 10:58am On Dec 29, 2021
Midas01:
like your mother, right?


I go burst your empty skull one day with my Big Gbola
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Nobody: 11:24am On Dec 29, 2021
Offpoint1:

Longtime my brother cheesy
wow... its good to know u are finally out of prison. Welcome back soncheesy
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Nobody: 11:46am On Dec 29, 2021
advanceDNA:


Being a Red red piller has nothing to do with looking for virgins...red pillers are just guys that don’t think with their wife’s or girlfriend’sPussy


By the way Virgin hunters are just trying to take calculated risk in an environment of high prostitution, several abortions and dangerous body counts..... it’s crazy out there...

If you don’t care about a woman’s sexual past Good for you...
Don’t blame those that care

...

My brother, you even have time replying to Simps on this forum
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Olumaeme: 12:37pm On Dec 29, 2021
Nothing wrong is having qualities of a dream partner in mind sir.
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by zexy2030(m): 12:39pm On Dec 29, 2021
BadRadio:
Just find a lady that's goal oriented, a supportive woman, a visionary, an independent woman with good manners and culinary skills... a graduate perhaps and get married. Stop checking for virginity and body counts.... just get married !!!

It is fair to say that you may have defiled and abused your countless ex's, but they are now married, If the guys who married them were scouting for virgins or were checking body counts like you are doing now then all the ladies in the world will grow old without getting married.


Goan marry joor !!!cheesy
Ds one na bad radio joor grin
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by zexy2030(m): 12:43pm On Dec 29, 2021
advanceDNA:


Being a Red red piller has nothing to do with looking for virgins...red pillers are just guys that don’t think with their wife’s or girlfriend’sPussy


By the way Virgin hunters are just trying to take calculated risk in an environment of high prostitution, several abortions and dangerous body counts..... it’s crazy out there...

If you don’t care about a woman’s sexual past Good for you...
Don’t blame those that care

...
Body count matters bro. Nature wasn't stupid to put a seal on that hole. There is honour in being the first man to open that hole.
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by advanceDNA: 12:47pm On Dec 29, 2021
zexy2030:

Body count matters bro. Nature wasn't stupid to put a seal on that hole. There is honour in being the first man to open that hole.

Did I say body count does not matter??
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Elporo(m): 12:53pm On Dec 29, 2021
poweredcom:


Yes it's true but truth to tell u

Girls of today are harlot just 20 percent are still worthy and the percentage is gonna be less next year
Just this holidays if I tell u how many girls de give me green light

These gals claimed to have BF ...o but they r flirt n hoes

On the other hand widespread prostitution is now sometime to brag about in naija gals

Shameless

Omo, person we no know e n go ever know.

Tis why all this girls are fighting tooth and nail on nairaland against guys like gidi and mosdii. Nairaland don expose many girls.

Several guys wey dey suffer and smile have been able to find their mojo by reading all the gory stories on this site.

16 year old girl they do hookup for this Abuja. No lie. Enter Shoprite Jabi on New Year day, you won't get less than 10 - 15 nos of fresh entries into hookup business. I no go lie, Abuja get high preference for young girls from 18 - 21; them market they move like cheap beer.
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by MrSquint: 1:29pm On Dec 29, 2021
If you're looking for a virgin to marry, you better be a virgin too.

But that's not to say its OK to marry the one that has slept with your uncle or dad.

Its also not to say one should go and marry a prostitute aka runs girl ?

These girls don't make the search easy actually, guys just concentrate on your preferences and take the risk.

Like she said go and marry

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