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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Lalas247(f): 1:47pm On Dec 29, 2021
Nyascobar1414:


Sounding a bit pained and guilty
Who broke your virginity and still dumped you?
Your fada cheesy omo oshi
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Lalas247(f): 1:54pm On Dec 29, 2021
Hamiltonii:


You sound like a "borehole" or drum!
Just like your mother and her mother, and the rest of everybfemale in your family, learnt from the best but you already know this..... hence why that's the first thing u think of ... my dear heal grin
Go seek attention elsewhere kid or when you have over 30mil quote me
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Nyascobar1414: 1:57pm On Dec 29, 2021
Lalas247:

Your fada cheesy omo oshi

ohh... Bad parenting caused this shii...
But what was bleeped can never be unfucked...
Shamed loose girl..
You dont deserve a bride price...
Shiloh nkor...

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Nyascobar1414: 2:00pm On Dec 29, 2021
Lalas247:

Just like your mother and her mother, and the rest of everybfemale in your family, learnt from the best but you already know this..... hence why that's the first thing u think of ... my dear heal grin
Go seek attention elsewhere kid or when you have over 30mil quote me

ohh she said when you have 30 mil you quote again,..
This is a feature of an old HAG...
Why cant you bishes, stop advertising your work
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Lalas247(f): 2:00pm On Dec 29, 2021
Nyascobar1414:


ohh... Bad parenting caused this shii...
But what was bleeped can never be unfucked...
Shamed loose girl..
You dont deserve a bride price...
Shiloh nkor...
Is this suppose to be an insult

Please do better, right now I'm laughing grin
Chatting pure sh!t please make sense biko.
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Lalas247(f): 2:01pm On Dec 29, 2021
Nyascobar1414:


ohh she said when you have 30 mil you quote again,..
This is a feature of an old HAG...
Why cant you bishes, stop advertising your work
Your mum is an.old hag shame she cant match dem funds though...

Men u're boring me ...
Spin on it
Deuces wasteman
Get a good job too so ur pain doesn't spill on threads
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Lalas247(f): 2:02pm On Dec 29, 2021
Came here to laugh one dead ting just bored me to death grin

Love and light grin

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Lalas247(f): 2:04pm On Dec 29, 2021
Slow connection...

Can't even keep up .. wheew the ghetto grin

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Nobody: 2:22pm On Dec 29, 2021
YoungBlackRico:
This guy must be a teenager or something, he no dey ever make sense to me
I read that... the MODs knows that's y this piece made FP. Send ur AZA or crypto wallet address.... I ve got something for u.


Depression is bad !!!
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by JOACHINpedro: 2:24pm On Dec 29, 2021
BadRadio:
I read that... the MODs knows that's y this piece made FP. Send ur AZA or crypto wallet address.... I ve got something for u.


Depression is bad !!!





Badradio send to me bro.
Just urgent 2k grin
PS- I'm not joking embarassed
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Nobody: 2:34pm On Dec 29, 2021
JOACHINpedro:

Badradio send to me bro.
Just urgent 2k grin
PS- I'm not joking embarassed
I have crypto for u... send ur details to my DM
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by bizhop01: 2:35pm On Dec 29, 2021
I can't manage Lagos Ibadan expressway
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by jimmychang: 2:35pm On Dec 29, 2021
FernandezPablo:

Tell that to your master who is bashing women day and night on nairaland.... nonsense now get off my mention..

Rest nobody be master for redpill....redpill wey e be say na life teach me ...
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Nobody: 2:39pm On Dec 29, 2021
Lalas247:

Your mum is an.old hag shame she cant match dem funds though...

Men u're boring me ...
Spin on it
Deuces wasteman
Get a good job too so ur pain doesn't spill on threads

sweetheart pls ignore him... 2021 has not been good for some nairalander guys. Pls don't add to their mental stress and sexual frustrations
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Nobody: 2:40pm On Dec 29, 2021
jimmychang:


Rest nobody be master for redpill....redpill wey e be say na life teach me ...
And how is that my business.. were you not the same kid using insultive words at me yesterday in support of your master huh?
You guys ain't smart and as long as you keep bashing woman cos of your wannabe redpill nonsense I will keep taking y'all for clowns..
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Munzy14(m): 3:00pm On Dec 29, 2021
IkranDragon:


Being a virgin should be a big deal, not a bonus.


The effort should be valued and appreciated especially when the person with virginity has good morals and they are faithful.

It is because we are not strict in choosing, that's why girls don't care to lose their virginity.

We have a power to influence ladies decision, but the problem is that, men are cheap. If we can drill ourselves, many girls will retrace back to keeping their virginity.

You see women, doing butt and breast up and down because they noticed that is what we want, if we can bring virginity to the picture, they'll be concerned. Think about it.


Imagine a 24 year old girl, and she's still a virgin. In my opinion, that's a big deal. I will respect such lady. Because she's rare o. Lol
Pray you don't settle with a virgin with nasty character....Life will be like a hell on earth.. cheesy

Again, I am not saying we shouldn't gjve kudos to a babe that kept her self intact..But it shouldn't be themain thing to marry her...The beauty of a woman is buried deeper in her character.

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Elporo(m): 3:02pm On Dec 29, 2021
Nyascobar1414:


This is a feature of an old HAG...

From my experience some are Young HAG's wink
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Elporo(m): 3:04pm On Dec 29, 2021
Munzy14:

Pray you don't settle with a virgin with nasty character....Life will be like a hell on earth.. cheesy

Again, I am not saying we shouldn't gjve kudos to a babe that kept her self intact..But it shouldn't be themain thing to marry her...The beauty of a woman is buried deeper in her character.

Most of us would rather cry in a Lamborghini. Say, I dey find good character .. make I go marry low budget Iyabo Obasanjo grin

Wey Salman, Aliu, Chike, Jide and co have perused. Them even get her mixtape.

All this good character shit is for loosers.
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Mariangeles(f): 3:11pm On Dec 29, 2021
Munzy14:

This is how it should be.

Being a virgin is a bonus.


Any lady who's kept herself through discipline should never accept a man who thinks being a virgin is a mere bonus.

It takes discipline, determination and commitment to self to stay a virgin. No one should belittle that, especially in this age when porn is in your face as soon as you log on to the internet. No be beans!

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Nyascobar1414: 3:16pm On Dec 29, 2021
Elporo:

From my experience some are Young HAG's wink
lol... You mean it!

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by jimmychang: 3:26pm On Dec 29, 2021
FernandezPablo:

And how is that my business.. were you not the same kid using insultive words at me yesterday in support of your master huh?
You guys ain't smart and as long as you keep bashing woman cos of your wannabe redpill nonsense I will keep taking y'all for clowns..

Kid kid smh,everybody for Internet na small pikin for ya side and I see why them dey bash you...you don't know how to talk grin..

And nobody cares our elder
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Nobody: 3:27pm On Dec 29, 2021
jimmychang:


Kid kid smh,everybody for Internet na small pikin for ya side and I see why them dey bash you...you don't know how to talk grin..

And nobody cares our elder
Then if nobody cares don't come to my mention...if you don't know how to act and stop bashing women then you are a kid..
Now get out of my mention..
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Offpoint1: 3:48pm On Dec 29, 2021
BadRadio:
wow... its good to know u are finally out of prison. Welcome back soncheesy
Lol son ke grin I get 5 children for house
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Nobody: 4:01pm On Dec 29, 2021
Offpoint1:

Lol son ke grin I get 5 children for house
I know... but ur still my son
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Hamiltonii: 5:01pm On Dec 29, 2021
Lalas247:

Just like your mother and her mother, and the rest of everybfemale in your family, learnt from the best but you already know this..... hence why that's the first thing u think of ... my dear heal grin
Go seek attention elsewhere kid or when you have over 30mil quote me

It doesn't change the fact that you're a sperm receptacle of borehole category.
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by IkranDragon: 5:20pm On Dec 29, 2021
Munzy14:

Pray you don't settle with a virgin with nasty character....Life will be like a hell on earth.. cheesy

Again, I am not saying we shouldn't gjve kudos to a babe that kept her self intact..But it shouldn't be themain thing to marry her...The beauty of a woman is buried deeper in her character.


I am saying that ladies who keep their virginity should be celebrated more than making their virginity a mere bonus point. It should be one of the qualities to look out for when choosing a lady.

At least you can guess how self disciplined she is not including the amount of peer pressure she would have encountered while maintaining herself
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by moststylish(m): 6:10pm On Dec 29, 2021
ConsciousMan01:


but I'm sure you know not all non-virgins are promiscuous?? We Guys needs to stop being hypocritical, only virgin guys deserves virgin ladies!
there are lot of ladies who lost their virginity to guys they love but got jilted by the same guy! then who should settle for those ones??
Body counts matters, I agree with that! virginity matters too, but that's only for those who have one too!!

In as much as I am not supporting guys to be sleeping around with every girl. You know its a man's duty to pay the dowry of a woman and not the other way round,so men should have a choice on what they want. Imagine going to pay bride price for a woman that has like 50 body counts with your own money...ah

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by stanliwise(m): 7:56pm On Dec 29, 2021
advanceDNA:


So if I get you correctly....u mean if a guy has been dating and all the girls he met has been girls that other 10-20 men has slept with, girls that cheat on him, girls that are not disciplined

So, He doesn’t have the right to look for a decent girl that will give him peace of mind??

U do understand why people feel virgins are lows risk women.??.. it doesn’t automaticlly mean marrying a Virgin means your relationship will be perfect that a non Virgin..

In my opinion ... a man that has been cheated on, a man that has dated coded runs girls, and all manner of morally bankrupt girls is actually the one that will be looking forward to dating decent girls...so your point f eating cake and having it doesn’t apply here...



Why should any man pay huge bride price for a lady 10-20 men has slept with...with a couple of abortions to match


By the way.. if there’s any one that wants to eat their cake and still keep it, it’s the women living promiscuous lives, jumping from one d!ck to another, committing abortions but want men to put them on the same level as women that are more sexually disciplined..
In another words only women are promiscuous right?
Don’t you think gender does not play a role in this topic?

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by Munzy14(m): 8:08pm On Dec 29, 2021
Mariangeles:


Any lady who's kept herself through discipline should never accept a man who thinks being a virgin is a mere bonus.

It takes discipline, determination and commitment to self to stay a virgin. No one should belittle that, especially in this age when porn is in your face as soon as you log on to the internet. No be beans!
Zukwanuike biko... grin

Yes a lady who kept herself intact, has actually earned her trust without struggle.

But As a man, I will choose character over virginity for personal reasons..If the babe is a virgin come get good character, chineke a butterla my bread be that.. cheesy

Beauty of a woman attracts a man, but her character will keep the man...

I si should never accept grin noro kwa nga ahu, o wunu ndi di ka m ka enweta virgin lovers cheesy..

Maka love m na a di thicker.
Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by advanceDNA: 8:43pm On Dec 29, 2021
stanliwise:

In another words only women are promiscuous right?
Don’t you think gender does not play a role in this topic?

u have a funny way of jumping into conclusion. Are you a woman..?? because women are experts in that jurisdiction...

I never said men are not promiscuous. Every statement comes from a context... the context I spoke come from the premise of a thread involving a woman that’s sexually volatile..

Still, Women also need to look out for good men so that they can have a happy home. As a matter of fact, they do.. they don’t want men that sleep around. Ask them if you can..

Btw... the risk of promiscuousness is higher for women

Abortion count
Risk of being barren
Risk of non compatibility with penis size, as you know, men don’t come with equal sizes down there...

A woman that has been banging cucumber sizes will have a problem settling down with banana or candle stick

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by stanliwise(m): 10:08pm On Dec 29, 2021
advanceDNA:


u have a funny way of jumping into conclusion. Are you a woman..?? because women are experts in that jurisdiction...

I never said men are not promiscuous. Every statement comes from a context... the context I spoke come from the premise of a thread involving a woman that’s sexually volatile..

Still, Women also need to look out for good men so that they can have a happy home. As a matter of fact, they do.. they don’t want men that sleep around. Ask them if you can..

Btw... the risk of promiscuousness is higher for women

Abortion count
Risk of being barren
Risk of non compatibility with penis size, as you know, men don’t come with equal sizes down there...

A woman that has been banging cucumber sizes will have a problem settling down with banana or candle stick









The above are also not peculiar to gender is my point.

And for the OP he is somewhat speaking through this teeth.

My position is this, many people looking for a virgin husband or wife has no moral justification to do so. Many just wanna Bleep and enjoy themselves before marriage yet planning to get the virgin girls/boys in marriage. In other words promiscuous people are looking out for pure people to make life partner(what a funny combo)

Won’t it be justifiable for men who sleep around to marry women who do same too?
Or do you think any virgin wether male or female would survive with a partner who sleeping around?

Meanwhile promiscuity is different from Virginity and lastly aside pregnancy, saying women are most affected is a big fat lie.
The sexual infections and contamination going around you think they know male/female?
Men who sleep with Olosho after they are married you think their virgin wife are up to the task of those hoes?
Please do a rethink

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Re: Stop Looking For Virgins And Get Married Guys, You Can't Eat Ur Cake And Have It by advanceDNA: 11:17pm On Dec 29, 2021
stanliwise:

The above are also not peculiar to gender is my point.

And for the OP he is somewhat speaking through this teeth.

My position is this, many people looking for a virgin husband or wife has no moral justification to do so. Many just wanna Bleep and enjoy themselves before marriage yet planning to get the virgin girls/boys in marriage. In other words promiscuous people are looking out for pure people to make life partner(what a funny combo)

Won’t it be justifiable for men who sleep around to marry women who do same too?
Or do you think any virgin wether male or female would survive with a partner who sleeping around?

Meanwhile promiscuity is different from Virginity and lastly aside pregnancy, saying women are most affected is a big fat lie.
The sexual infections and contamination going around you think they know male/female?
Men who sleep with Olosho after they are married you think their virgin wife are up to the task of those hoes?
Please do a rethink

Moral justification??
U are taking this conversation back....
There’s no moral justification card here...

I told you why a man or woman that isn’t a Virgin May desire a Virgin... because they’ve seen the worse in their dating journey....

If people have not experienced their partner going back to their ex

Their wife not hinging birth because of several past abortions

Their partner not being able to satisfy them because they had a different partner in the past


The issue of looking for a Virgin May never have come up.

It’s crazy out there... a Virgin is just a calculated or low risk to people.... not a desire to bang a Virgin

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