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Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Hndrrxxx(m): 12:21pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by pocohantas(f): 12:21pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
While dating her she told me all kind of stories of her philanthropic and generous gestures to people. She told you? Did you see her giving anyone anything? I know someone that would always tell me of philanthropic deeds, but you need to see him dragging N50 with a broke trader. It was so shameful to watch. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Emperor88(m): 12:24pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Na people like you the previous post the talk to....you go see red flags then turn blind eye in the name of marriage.....your wife didn't change, you are the one who refuse to see. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Fiscus105(m): 12:25pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
She wasn't, only that you were not observant enough. Nobody can effectively hide his or her character if you are a good observant, many guys also hide their characters which often made the partner not exhibit hers too. Meanwhile, ur excuse and allegation are flimsy, you need not inform your wife if truly you want to do charity. Try to work on ur behavior to make ur marriage work. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by lomprico(m): 12:25pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
ElonEmpire: She is the reason why u don't have kids yet, she has to learn to give. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by b0rn2fuck(m): 12:26pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
I helped people without my wife knowing, infact she never get to awared of any since 5 years. Why your own a big deal 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Starz825(m): 12:27pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
A lot of women are liars... They tell lies to you so both of you can married..only for them to start showing their true self after marriage.. Infact na this dey fear me pass... Make person no go marry witch thinking say na angel... Cos bible sef don talk am say: Even the devil comes in and dressed up like an Angel ... |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Comedian2019: 12:28pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Be a man. Do the right thing and instruct her to cooperate, else she should gerrout. |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by marsup: 12:29pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Don't let anything or anyone stand in your way of helping people genuinely in need. Whilst doing that, do it cheerfully, logically and reasonably. May God continue to bless you. |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by prosnadis(m): 12:31pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Ur wife knows more about u than everyone commenting up and down...No one said u should not help but u can't over do urself.Thank God u said ur not that stable financially,when ur children starts coming that's when ur will understand hers fears..My friend listen to ur wife...I have been a victim of this.. because when the chips are down na only ur wife will be there for u. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by od501: 12:31pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
ElonEmpire: You have been scammed sir, as in, you have been yahooed. Just take em like dat, or file for divorce. Sorry, but it's true. It also means that there still things up her sleeves. That hal is good, she will make a good spy. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by GooodHardDick: 12:32pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
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Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Pimine: 12:32pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by MYHUBBY: 12:33pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
MadamVanessa: Op if you need advise, don't read from this maad fellow, he has a low IQ, do not allowed dumbass like him to destroy your home since she's not discriminately doing this then it's not yet a problem, she's your financial principle since you lack one only a foolish man use capital to help people, I was once like you and it took me from Grace to Grass before I got up again, meanwhile the people I helped then are the one mocking me and those that advise me to take caution are those that stay back you give to people out of your gains/profit not from money meant for wealth building, she's on the right track start to generate more income and you will see her relax a little. she doesn't want to go back to default 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by blackpanda: 12:34pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
ElonEmpire: Your wife may destroy u Be careful. Women are naturally selfish and wicked. Especially Nigerian women that were raised with Nollywood movies . If u want to show kindness to people don't let anyone stop u. because we are on earth for different reasons. And nobody knows tomorrow. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Ken4ward: 12:35pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Why would you want to bring people into your home to help them? I’ll support your wife in this case. It’s like you have a misguided priority. If you plan to help people, let them stay kilometers away from your business. Doing so would make them have a happy life at the expense of your own joy. Whatever you want to use in supporting anyone can be sent to them, you don’t need to be their watchdog. 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Archworld(m): 12:35pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
ElonEmpire: Remember you are already married hence, you can only build on your marriage in whatever way you can. But there are so many ways of doing good things without involving your wife. If you so much wish to train or cater for the needs of others , do it without letting your wife know. Your wife does not need to be aware of all your goodwill or financial help to others as long as you are not using her money. Women are very territorial hence you don't need to bring another person's child to live in your house. I once told my ex girlfriend that I would like to adopt children later on and that I will like to raise and train other people's children. My dear If you see serious quarrel that day ehhn She said she can't take it and that no other children other than her children should bear my name . 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by emmyN(m): 12:36pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Please ma, can I drop my akant number so that your awwwwnn will plenty today? |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Lexusgs430: 12:36pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
ElonEmpire: She played you...... Pretended all the way ....... If you bought a goat, then realised it was actually a cow ....... Best to severe ties .......... 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by illuminutty: 12:36pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
People will always change. Only pray they don't change beyond reasonable and tolerable limit. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Kelvin3476: 12:37pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
MadamVanessa:Madam Vanessa is this ur comment 1 Like
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Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 12:37pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
emmyN: I can, if I am capable. However, don't test me. |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Nobody: 12:37pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Why not help from far, must everyone stay with you? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by JerryQ: 12:39pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
What If the reps are made to manage the year groups so they can relate better to themselves . Did you conclude on these issues during courtship? |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by GooodHardDick: 12:39pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
[s] tensazangetsu20:[/s] Are you daft or u just want to argue? Did the op told you he wasn't taking care of his family? Oga, the OP wanted a woman who has visions and goals just like him. It is very clear that the lady manipulated him into believing she's a philanthropic whereas she's not! That girl is an example of how Nigeria girls behaves, they're so broke, stingy, bitterrd and filled with entitlement mentality. The OP should go ahead and help whoever he chooses to help, he doesn't need that girl's suggestions or opinions at all 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by pocohantas(f): 12:39pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Ken4ward: Well said. You have a point here. I don’t know why men wait to be married before embarking on this kind of philanthropy. He wants to bring kids into his home to help them. By dropping money for his wife to be cooking, bathing and taking care of them? When they don’t have their own kids yet. He should do his bit from afar. I don’t even see the need for unnecessary talk when you want to help people. As long as your home is not affected. 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Kelvin3476: 12:40pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Cyntie55:God bless you abundantly HANTY 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by bigtt76(f): 12:40pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Explain this to her and also make her know your true worth. If she's refusing you to assist her own family, then it tells you she may be scared of you guys' future financially. ElonEmpire: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Mooh247: 12:40pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Most women are like that .. since charity gives you pride, joy and fulfilment, find a way to be charitable without bringing them home, whatever you give with you right hand let it be secret to your left hand 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by juman(m): 12:41pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
She get sense pass you. You people are now married, you have to be logical and sane in your spending. She decline bringing people into your home because its not good idea. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Nobody: 12:42pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
If I understand you, you don't have your own kids yet but you want to bring two children into your home so you can take care of them? And you think any woman in her right senses will be comfortable with that? Well done father Christmas. Let me just advise you; that woman has not changed. It is you who is spending money on outside people, knowing fully well that you are married now and your financial responsibility is first to your family that is the problem. You said that you are not financially buoyant. Why want to help every tom dick and Harry? What's your financial plan for your family? Do you have a savings account for your unborn kids? Are you planning to build your own house? Are you planning to move out of the country? All these require money. The little you have, you are using it to do philanthropic work. God advised us to help those in need, but not at our own detriment. Love your neighbor AS YOURSELF. Na people like una dey like shower money for outsiders make Dem dey praise una, but for inside house, una stingy. You are now married. Reduce the number of people you help financially. You have financial responsibility at home. Make una dey get sense small before una marry. 8 Likes 1 Share |
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