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So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by Nobody: 11:13am On Jul 04, 2022 |
Girls are really not so bad. Yes many of them have attitude issues and bad personalities but the truth is every girl have genuine kindness and goodness in her but they hardly show it because they DONT like you! Yes, your girlfriend or even your wife may not like you as much as you like them. You bought her and you may never experience the best version of that girl because she’s not as into you as you are into her. Have you heard a girl complain about a guy saying hello to her and calling him a “stalker” ? Do you know that same girl will tell her friends that another “perfect gentleman” is following her everywhere and she thinks he’s so romantic? Two guys doing the same thing to the same girl but different reactions. That’s the life of women, they love the same thing they complain about, it all just depends on who is doing it. Find a girl that likes you genuinely, stop buying women with money, very wrong move. You will never get the best version of her like that, they will use you and once a better option comes they will dump you in a second. Don’t impress girls with money, if you truly want a good woman make sure she likes you for anything but not because of your pocket! That’s the worse way to get a woman. 604 Likes 73 Shares |
Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by LoveNbeloved(f): 11:16am On Jul 04, 2022 |
Ok 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by JBriel: 11:18am On Jul 04, 2022 |
Preach my brother. You're so on point. Let me cap it up by saying to detect how a lady likes you If she isn't spending on you Yearning to see you and more of you Reciprocating conversations Bending over rules to meet you in the middle My dear, you're by your self. Be it platonic or romantic relationships, if a woman falls into this category with you, you're wasting useful time. Same lady stingy with a guy can be willing to collect loam for another. Don't dig into the reasons. It's always filled with their nonsensical bullshit. Don't try to spin the reality before you, change them or be patient. Just move respectfully Just withdraw your attention,end the chats, don't check the timeline. Walk away like you don't care.. e dey pain them die 364 Likes 41 Shares |
Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by LUAN1: 12:05pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
Badboibipo:you are right bro, We don't have any woman who is entirely wicked or have bad character, it all depends whether she likes you all not, if she likes you she will respect you, her bad character will not manifest, but if you are not the kind of man she want, you will see all manners of drama and attitude that she will bring from the pit of hell. Same way you will meet a girl and tried to toast or ask her her for sex, she denied you, while the kind of guy she likes won't even stress himself before she fall for him. 202 Likes 21 Shares |
Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by LUAN1: 12:08pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
JBriel:you are right, any girl that likes you won't stress you from day one, don't forget that they are more concerned about physical attributes of a man more than they way we men are concern about theirs. 52 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by Sonnobax15(m): 12:15pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
Make e be... But so long say we still dey off and sample their pants like pot of beans,no problem.....Las las,na dem go regret. 39 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by JBriel: 12:19pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
LUAN1: That's the point. Make we no reason them. They are other ladies to mingle with for every woman on earth 6 Likes |
Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by mystery22: 12:27pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
Nice write-up,date only girls who want you...you can also read up on ubunja miseducation .. 75 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by PARADIZEPRIEST: 1:29pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
IS THERE FOOLISH CHOICE 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by Ballzproblemm: 1:33pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
Badboibipo:the problem is many men refuse to read the signs and bod language ,them dey do love ,mumu love 74 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by Kutunban: 2:33pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
I think most people don't understand what being a Simpleton is.. 70 Likes 9 Shares
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Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by Alibaba0: 2:41pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
Sonnobax15: Hahahahaha 6 Likes
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Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by EmzyT: 2:41pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by TheWolfen(m): 4:38pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
Trying to understand women is an exam one can't pass. Just live ur life if it works fine. If not then walk 29 Likes |
Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by talk2hb1(m): 4:39pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
On Point, that's why you will have difficulties with relationship if you have money. They will only like your money, not you. 71 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by Nobody: 5:50pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
LUAN1:Your past line lies. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by Nobody: 5:53pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
Once it took you longer than 2 weeks to get a girl, she doesn't like you. Just bleep her and dump her when you're tired. The one who loves you will not stress you. 130 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by Leepeak(m): 6:09pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
funny I don't want to know if my girlfriend love me or not.... If u like, love me if u like, like me. My mission is have enough wealth like billgate 32 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by Leepeak(m): 6:11pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
Let me see if you ladies will not automatic develop love for the bill gate 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by Rickmann: 6:27pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
Badboibipo: Spot on,bro May ur days be long 26 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by christianjoy(m): 6:38pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
Your breakfast never finish 1 Like |
Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by cherryCola: 6:48pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
Nothing sweet like being in a relationship that the woman loves you most . 128 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by Yinkusgold: 6:53pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
Hello 1 Like |
Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by Generalwoodz(m): 9:14pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
The nugget you dropped here is what some nigga would pay 200$ for. 119 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by Silentgroper(m): 9:37pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
Inspiring. i should make this my mantra.. 5 Likes |
Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by Silentgroper(m): 9:40pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
But most times, d woman who wants us are not the one we want.. Has happened to me twice.. 172 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by dedoyix: 11:02pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
Ok |
Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by Beetwaise(m): 11:50pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
Badboibipo: True words✔ 7 Likes |
Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by Fiscus105(m): 2:49am On Jul 05, 2022 |
LUAN1: You never meet human being Sha or will I say you dnt know what mentality is. If a lady has unshaking mentality and attitude of taking money from man or not believe that money should go from woman to man, no amount of love can overwhelm her, I have seen countless examples of such ladies/girls 25 Likes |
Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by Fiscus105(m): 2:56am On Jul 05, 2022 |
TheWolfen: And you think man too can be understood? My friend, human beings are very complex in nature, extreme difficult to understand, it has nothing to do with gender or tribe ok. Looking for perfect in the land of imperfection, is what making you guys finding it difficult to be in marriage. When you urself not perfect, you are looking for perfect partner! As many guys believed. girls as they created, are meant to do their boyfriend/husbands biddings at all time and at all cost. They fail to understand that, human beings not designed in such manner. You only pick the one you can manage her characters and in which two of you would be ready to make compromise for the marriage to be blissful. 40 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by CaveAdullam: 6:15am On Jul 05, 2022 |
1. Every woman got a man she loves. Yes, love. Love not in the entire meaning of sacrificial - threshold exclusively to men. However, a woman who loves you will be sacrificial to an extent, that is, based on the romantic feelings she has for a man, she can go the extra mile to please him. 2. This love( not sacrificial but romantic) is what is termed genuine desire. Genuine desire doesn't care about age, status, looks, or wealth. Let's call this man, man A, the poor man. This is the man that can titillate her emotional spring, the player, the bad boy who doesn't give an fvck about her reality, the smoker with six packs. These men satisfies the first half of a woman's sexual nature - search for protection and dominance. This doesn't mean that women are not attracted to age, status, looks, or wealth. Let's call this man, man B, the rich man. He is the ultimate provider, the easy nice intelligent dude with good glasses. He satisfies the other half of a woman's nature - search for provision, care and support. > Said woman has a genuine desire for man A. But she can frolic with man B and in the end, still falls back to man A. > To man A, she is a hostage. While to man B, she is a diamond in the rough. > Funnily, she will not marry man A, but man B, except man A, has the same level of wealth and status as man B. Here lies the genesis of paternity fraud. >However, she will ever be more loyal to man A than her husband, man B because she has a genuine desire for man A. 3. Problem many men of today are having is that they don't know about this. They chase the woman helter-skelter in an attempt to change her mind from loving man A. Smart women have discovered and capitalized on this and are manipulating men of different classes just to sponsor themselves while remaining loyal to man A. Everything happens behind the scene of her heart, man A may not even be aware, however, still got the woman at his beck and call. (Men date. While women multi-date). a. Men date because with one woman he is satisfied and can channel his limited resources to her. Women multi-date because she wants to accrue many resources as a result of interaction with many men. Then, you may ask: "aren't men more polygamous and promiscuous than women?" b. Monogamy and polygamy rest based on RESOURCES AND COMMITMENT - it is men that provide them not women. Now, men by their testosterone in high volume want to fvck different women, without committing and squandering their resources because it is limited. No wonder monogamy is the human primary mating strategy, however, men are still promiscuous but will never commit to other women. c. Men fvck different women and will not commit; only the woman that wins his heart will he commit to. d. While women fvck different men looking for the one that will commit. She will not be loyal to the man that eventually commits; women are highly loyal to the men that deflowered them, they may no longer be close to each other, but it was that man that opened her eyes to the gateway of sex that she will ever be loyal to both consciously and instinctually, and this is the man that always owns her heart and has a genuine desire for. Women are slightly less promiscuous than men, in their dating or sex spree they are still cautious and selective about the men they fvck. e. So, a man fvcks and commits to a woman that wins his heart. While women fvck but not looking for a man to win her heart, she already has one, what she needs now is commitment. 4. You may ask: "but men spend heavily on side chicks and sugar babies". > Yes, that is true. For a man to effectively pull polygamy he must be wealthy and resourceful. However, only a few men in the world are wealthy and can successfully commit to different women at the same time - this is a solid claim for polygamy. > (Rich) men may squander their money on side chicks but what they spend is minuscule compared to their net worth. The baseline is that they are not going to commit to these side chicks. Why? a. They know that side chick's love is fake and fickle. b. Side chicks are damaged goods and can't sustain a family. These men only commit their entire resources to their families, wives, and children. On the other hand, these men may be spending to win a woman's love which is a futile journey from the beginning. A man can't win a woman by spending exorbitantly. She will only fake submissiveness. 5. Back to the beginning: every woman has a man she loves genuinely, the man may not notice it and both may not care about it, however, there is a spark once they unify. 6. Guys should therefore upgrade and better themselves, and it will be easy for them to get hold of these women that has a genuine desire for them. However, they must be cautious as some women may fake genuine desire just to siphon them. 7. Guys should look around them, there are some girls/women that have a genuine desire for them instead of chasing women that don't have any iota of interest for them. 8. Women always date high. True, a woman may be loyal to man A, but her nature still gravitates towards man B. Upgrading and bettering yourself as a guy is not only to fvck women in their hordes, but that when you are sitting on a high pedestal, men, women, children, and society either fear you or respect you. You become a force majeure. Thanks. 185 Likes 33 Shares |
Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by cumoverna: 7:34am On Jul 05, 2022 |
r=cherryCola post=114421697] Nothing sweet like being in a relationship that the woman loves you most .[/quote] This is so true, I had a girl, who really loves me, funniest part is, I was so broke and believe that this her love will not last when she realize I am not rich. Before I even wooed her, she kissed me on the lips while I was escorting her back home, I was so shocked that night. Bae was ready to do anything I asked her, I later found out she was a troublesome girl, but she never ever fought with me on anything, she comes over whenever I ask her to, even at 9pm. I regret letting her go till today. I hope I see another one 25 Likes 2 Shares |
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