Trust me I am a redpiller and I am a proud one with no apology.

I see a lot of guys saying they would rather have baby mamas than get married. let me laugh at you first hahahahahaha.

Even though I am a redpiller, my advice to all men is to GO AND MARRY IF YOU KNOW YOU WANT CHILDREN. Dont marry OLD cargo please if you like yourself.

I have dated more than 5 baby mamas in my short life and I can tell you they are the ones that sleep around the most. They will never take proper care of your child. If you dont want to be father to an irresponsible child, marry and raise your child yourself. all these girls no get sense to take proper care of children. it is a miracle that the children even survive, with how careless they are.

Roadside wannabe redpiller! Always shouting redpiller on an empty stomach.

Hungrypillers!!

Hmmmm

No where is safe but still you survive life by how smart you are.

obinna58:
No where is safe but still you survive life by how smart you are.

true. but it is better to be in charge of your family than to have a baby mama.

Mumu redpiller. What are you redpillers doing with a female in the first place? I thought you lots detest the female human. Your confusion is really confused. You better start dating your fellow men. Dirty lots!!

HardMirror:
Trust me I am a redpiller and I am a proud one with no apology.

I see a lot of guys saying they would rather have baby mamas than get married. let me laugh at you first hahahahahaha.

Even though I am a redpiller, my advice to all men is to GO AND MARRY IF YOU KNOW YOU WANT CHILDREN. Dont marry OLD cargo please if you like yourself.

I have dated more than 5 baby mamas in my short life and I can tell you they are the ones that sleep around the most. They will never take proper care of your child. If you dont want to be father to an irresponsible child, marry and raise your child yourself. all these girls no get sense to take proper care of children. it is a miracle that the children even survive, with how careless they are.

You said the fvcking truth!


The worst sets of humans come from single parents.

It’s a proven fact all over the world. Especially those raised by only women, they mostly never make it to be responsible in life.

Guys be bragging about baby mamas when most of them would be ashamed of their kids at old age.

Na so my brother

Tboymessiah:
NasoLifeBe!!!

Na man you be. A man must manage his family. only goats would impregnant a woman and leave here to raise the child. sending money for your child's upkeep is not enough. you have to train your child yourself. majority of women are terrible at taking care of children. no be to breastfeed be training of a child

CoronaVirusRelo:




You said the fvcking truth!


The worst sets of humans come from single patents.

It’s a proven fact all over the world. Especially those raised by only women, they mostly never make it to be responsible in life.

Guys be bragging about baby mamas when most of them would be ashamed of their kids at old age.

Surrogacy is the way. I'm taking care of my child myself. With money anything is possible

Antimarraige:
Surrogacy is the way. I'm taking care of my child myself. With money anything is possible

better than baby mama.

How does having a babymama not better than the so called ,odern marriages...
Abi you no sabi as dem dey knack married women, even for their workplace?



Just to find one woman wey don satisfy your standards small, make she gv you kids... Your only business is the child, anyhow she wan fvk up and down no concern me.. If she ain't taking care of the child, then I take custody of the child.

Surrogacy still dope shaa...

Than for a sane man to commit to repented ex wh0res...

Past is my past,old things have pass away fire una deir..



NO Hymen...
No Marriage.

depending on who the baby mama is, you are totally right.... just the same as getting married. it all depend on the woman you choose.

Nyascobar1414:
How does having a babymama not better than the so called ,odern marriages...
Abi you no sabi as dem dey knack married women, even for their workplace?



Just to find one woman wey don satisfy your standards small, make she gv you kids... Your only business is the child, anyhow she wan fvk up and down no concern me.. If she ain't taking care of the child, then I take custody of the child.

Surrogacy still dope shaa...

Than for a sane man to commit to repented ex wh0res...

Past is my past,old things have pass away fire una deir..



NO Hymen...
No Marriage.

U that is talking, can u afford baby mamarism or even surrogacy? You wey dey feed from Ur mama pot. Erectile function kee u there.

TMTR:
As it is with getting married so it's also with getting a baby mama, you just don't get married to any random girl you see likewise you just don't make any random girl you see your baby mama, you have to scrutinize and vet for certain qualities, you have slept with more than five baby mamas , like wise some men have banged even more married women so ,

Having a baby mama, my concern is my child so what she does with her body is none of my fucking business and if I see that my child is being neglected, I will take my child from her and raise him/ her myself, issa simple stuff,

my point is, you should NEVER leave your child with her at all. dont wait till she misbehaves. the sleeping around is not my concern it is the fact that ladies are ready to drop that child with any friend or family so they can have time to play around with men. If you are married, the child will always be in your house, no legal constraints

Antimarraige:
Surrogacy is the way. I'm taking care of my child myself. With money anything is possible

How does Surrogacy work?

Nyascobar1414:
How does having a babymama not better than the so called ,odern marriages...
Abi you no sabi as dem dey knack married women, even for their workplace?



Just to find one woman wey don satisfy your standards small, make she gv you kids... Your only business is the child, anyhow she wan fvk up and down no concern me.. If she ain't taking care of the child, then I take custody of the child.

Surrogacy still dope shaa...

Than for a sane man to commit to repented ex wh0res...

Past is my past,old things have pass away fire una deir..



NO Hymen...
No Marriage.

see how u missed the point. nothing concerns me with wether them nack baba mama or wife. what i am saying is, marry and let her be taking care of the child in your house, not that you have baby mama that would be dragging custody of your child with you. hope you understand now

MrBrownJay1:
depending on who the baby mama is, you are totally right.... just the same as getting married. it all depend on the woman you choose.

i agree but child custody is the main problem here. child custody is guaranteed when you are married.

9ja girls don't love and dey will never love u.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Know this and know peace

Truvelisback:
How does Surrogacy work?

carry my child for me and forget about him/her after birth, signed under oath and sometimes law. I know people that runs the package, the ladies are from the deep villages of the west.

HardMirror:
i agree but child custody is the main problem here. child custody is guaranteed when you are married.

child custody is NEVER guaranteed, whether with a babymama or a wife. if your wife/babymama is abusive or a junky etc then she will NOT get custody, same as if "you" are useless as a father. remember, just because you aint married to a woman, does NOT mean you lose your rights as a father. whether married or babymama, you have the exact same rights towards that child.

MrBrownJay1:


child custody is NEVER guaranteed, whether with a babymama or a wife. if your wife/babymama is abusive or a junky etc then she will NOT get custody, same as if "you" are useless as a father. remember, just because you aint married to a woman, does NOT mean you lose your rights as a father. whether married or babymama, you have the exact same rights towards that child.

have you considered the intricacies of day to day life of your baby with a baby mama? I understand the legal angle you are looking at things from, but pratically, it is more risky to have a child with a woman who is not your wife. it is better to accommodate her and let her be in your house caring for the child.

Savedday:
9ja girls don't love and dey will never love u.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Know this and know peace

no body mentioned love here. we know them already. the sensible ones among them are only 1 out of 2000

Jennyclay:
Roadside wannabe redpiller! Always shouting redpillers on an empty stomach.

Hungrypillers!!

you recently joined nairaland. You're welcome

HardMirror:
have you considered the intricacies of day to day life of your baby with a baby mama? I understand the legal angle you are looking at things from, but pratically, it is more risky to have a child with a woman who is not your wife. it is better to accommodate her and let her be in your house caring for the child.

i fully disagree... many fathers out there have better r/ship with their babymamas than with their (ex) wife. the only thing that is risky here is to have a child with a bad woman (whether a wife/babymama). many wives are BAD WOMEN, many babymamas are BAD WOMEN. many babymamas are better at raising your children than a wife, while many mothers are better at raising your children than a babymama....the only difference here is the woman you choose to have babies with.

to say that all wives will be better than babymamas is a damn lie.

MrBrownJay1:


i fully disagree... many fathers out there have better r/ship with their babymamas than with their (ex) wife. the only thing that is risky here is to have a child with a bad woman (whether a wife/babymama). many wives are BAD WOMEN, many babymamas are BAD WOMEN. many babymamas are better at raising your children than a wife, while many mothers are better at raising your children than a babymama....the only difference here is the woman you choose to have babies with.

to say that all wives will be better than babymamas is a damn lie.

ok. I cannot have a baby with a baby mama regardless of how good she is

HardMirror:
ok. I cannot have a baby with a baby mama regardless of how good she is

...and you are entitled to your own decisions in life. but just because you are against an act, doesnt automatically makes it bad.
babymama lifestyle is NOT for everybody, just like marriage is NOT for everybody. let us all accept that, just because something is different, doesnt mean it is automatically bad.

many men out there are better off with babymamas, just like many married men are better off in a polygamous marriage.
to each their own misery!

Those men that say they want kids instead of being married...

Under whose household will the kid be under?

Antimarraige:
Surrogacy is the way. I'm taking care of my child myself. With money anything is possible

How are you going to do that?

1Sharon:


How are you going to do that?

you mean how to take care of my child alone? It's what I've always wanted so I'm sure it won't be an issue, as long as I pay someone to breastfeed the baby well for the first one year, I can handle the rest myself trust me, and I only want one kid. Boy or girl