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Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Kobojunkie: 9:29am On Aug 29, 2022 |
uthompson2001:What this man needs is not Salvation but treatment. |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Noblex2011(m): 10:29am On Aug 29, 2022 |
Op, it is greediness that wants to kill you not gambling. You must always have this on my mind that in betting, you can win or loss regardless of what kind of game you play. I have used betting to sort somethings that my salary can't even sort once. Infact, in a month , I used to account for how much I lost to how much I won. I don't play it everyday. See, I have never stake beyond a 2k for a game. That is the maximum I have used on a game. I don't stake many games as well. Infact , there were period I won for almost a week. There are periods I don't play game at all eventhough I have money on me. I have used #300 to win close to 50k in just two days before. Deal with your greediness and addiction. Last week I forecasted like 28 games, I used #50 to play the game because the odd is much then I played flexi bet with the 28 games that if 3 lost out of the whole 28games, they will still pay me. I put #680 on that flexi one. The #50 lost but the #680 came with 5k. At times, you need wisdom while playing bet. Sit yourself down and strategies. Talk to yourself that you won't play bet beyond this amount of money. For me, I don't go beyond 2k and if I don't want to play game, I will not play it. I have won games as well as loss. But I am satisfied with it. Another thing is this, one you win a game, don't rush to bet the follow day. Withdraw more than 70% to run your finances. Used the 30% to go again. If you lost with the 30% don't try to play for a while. Infact, if I play game with 2k, I am very sure the game will come and I don't usually play any game people send or maybe on Twitter. |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Lovelydaisies: 12:05pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Melap: She is?! |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by AMI3(m): 12:10pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Lie detector. I salute |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by maasoap(m): 12:16pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Melap: Oh sorry, I wanted to quote his post that wasn't long. |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Kobojunkie: 1:18pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
AMI3:You can engage in a habit for an extended period of time and then decide one day to quit and never look back. That no be addiction. Instead na phase.... we all have some of those. Addiction is something else. |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Prettychild(f): 3:03pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:It’s a pity that you don’t understand who Jesus Christ is and also what I said. Smh |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Kobojunkie: 3:15pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Prettychild:Since you seem to understand who Jesus Christ is, go ahead and explain to us how the OP is among those Jesus Christ came to call then. OP is struggling with an addiction problem and is in need of treatment, so how exactly does He qualify for Jesus Christ ? |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Nonam: 4:32pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Gamblers are weak dirty souls. I don't pitty them. They also know what they are doing. newold: |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Prettychild(f): 4:44pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Do you stop an addiction by your own power? |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Kobojunkie: 4:53pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Prettychild:Medication has been shown to cure addictions, so? |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by omobolarinwa1(m): 5:30pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
I will only give you advice and clear prophecy through the Holy quran.With prayer and decide with mindset you should be able to over come this gambling etc. (2:219) They ask you about wine and games of chance. Say: “In both these there is great evil, even though there is some benefit for people, but their evil is greater than their benefit.”235 They ask: “What should we spend in the Way of Allah?” Say: “Whatever you can spare.” In this way Allah clearly expounds His injunctions to you that you may reflect upon them, Notes 235. This is the first injunction concerning intoxicating drinks and gambling, and here the matter has been left merely as an expression of disapproval. This was a preliminary step designed to prepare the minds of people for the acceptance of their prohibition. The injunction prohibiting the performance of Prayer when in a state of intoxication came later, and ultimately alcohol, gambling and the like were categorically prohibited see( 4: 43)and (5: 90). 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Prettychild(f): 6:37pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:So sad, it’s difficult for you to comprehend |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Kobojunkie: 6:43pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Prettychild:What didn't I comprehend abeg? I said medication has been showed to actually cure addiction, a fact that many addicts are happy about. |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by rumenase(m): 8:01pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
newold:Mehn I can feel your pain but you can stop gambling. I was a chronic bettor from 2013 - 2018 but I stopped. You can do it you just need discipline. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Microwhy: 12:06am On Aug 31, 2022 |
newold:If this post is actually the truth and not some writing skills, then you're Very Stupid . I realised I can make turns of money in teaching Crypto trading than actually investing in it because of trading pattern. Since I know how to analyse chart, I will still analyse while dumping using another indicator forgetting that there are whales behind the curtain controlling the market. In a nutshell, I am a patient trader. I dumped crypto when I joined future trading which never requires patient. It almost ruin me. You can never recover your lost take it or leave it. 2M in 2 days.. delete those rubbish apps on your phone. Goto W3school.com and start your journey as Front-end developer. First watch a good tutorial video completely and next to W3school.com No matter your age, it will get you busy, stick to your phone and at the end, very rewarding. Stop that trashy thing since you're married. The future of your family first. Wetin be addiction.. We can generally not deny it that the time we spend on our phone is far more than we spend without it. So delete those apps and web bookmarks and replace them with different and rewarding engagements. If you like dont agree, you can never recover what you lost in those shots. BOTs have taken over everything. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Fantasial: 9:00am On Sep 04, 2022 |
May the Lord save you but what i have come to realize it that as long as you have a means to exercise an addiction, you will not overcome it. In your case it is access to money. All you need to do is to ensure all your income goes to.your wife's account especially given she understands the battle you are up against. Also, stop yourself from holding cash not for any reason whatsoever, let your wife do all your expenses for you. You only need to do this long enough till your brain recalibrates. I hope you agree with me that without access to money you would have no addiction to gambling. Good luck |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by jimmynauty: 1:58am On Sep 11, 2022 |
newold: What you have done is allowing you subconscious mind to be dominated by your addiction. You need to undo that addiction from your subconscious mind. Quote me if you are ready for the next step. |
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