walahi dayo, you so spoilt/baje baje! i pity the girls living in your apt blocks
o dorty ju kere

dayokanu:

Sorry Efe for missing out on the thrill, Lets start with yours

Oya

Kabude Cinya ina so n kalo fargin ki

Hauwa,

ina son ki sosai. Idon ki kaman idon malaika, muryan ki ya tuni mani muryan tsuntsu

in ki yadda, walahi zan ba ki duka abun da ki na so

Baka de kudi....mene zaka bata? meanwhile, tache wei baka de apartment? is that true? so kana zaman de uncle ko kawa ne?

hauwa, Abun da tsakanimu ba maganan kudi,

Abun da ina ce a kan kauna ne

Jumping in a well will do the trick; just make sure there is plenty of water inside.

chaircover: @poster a lot of people have rightly condemned your actions/thoughts but at the end of the day, you are going to have to consciously do something about things or you will end up doing something stupid and making the biggest misstate of your life.

I know your type; the wild airhead ones!!! the ones who love the excitement and are naturally attracted to "bad" boys and "good" boys bore you. Your husband is a good boy and that is why you are not satisfied. well let me tell you young lady, there is nothing out there and you will only end up messing up your life. Bad boys are no use at the end of the day. The feelings you have for this ex is just animal lust and by the time you sleep with him once or twice you will be over it, but stop for a moment to think about all the tings attached to those few minutes of lust. The lies, the deceit, the betrayal, sin, risk of STD's, pregnancy and a whole heap of other things all for what I ask? a man who upped and left you? A man who if he hadnt been deported may never have bothered to set eyes on you again? Is this the man you want to give up your marriage for

You honestly dont know how lucky you are to be able to describe your husband as a good man. so many people out there are looking for good men to marry and the ones that are married are praying everyday for God to turn their wayward husbands into good men and here you are ready to risk that for a few minutes lust. Why not invest that time into moulding your husband into what you want him to be, tell him how you like it, tell him what you want and if he is as good as you say he is, then he will want to do anything to make you happy. What you are loking for in Sokoto is in your sokoto.

My last point may be rather controversial and depends on the relationship you have with your husband and the kind of person that he is, but you may consider just telling him in passing that your ex is in town. This may work as a control to curb you from doing anything stupid, cos his knowing means that you cannot really do much behind his back without him suspecting something and you wouldnt want that.

Tanks a lot CC,my hubby knws he is in town but he trust me So much not 2 cheat or do anything funny.He always tells me hw God blessed him wit a beautiful and faithful wife.dat breaks my heart.I ve decided 2 be d woman my hubby tinks I really am.as for d spicing up aspect my hubby really doesn't want to accept new tins.He can't finger me,or go down on me.take note dat am very clean,young and pretty.he is always bothered abt me not gettn hurt during sex and dats makes me so furious.its a lot of distractions.keeps askin,Baby re u ok,hope its not painful(because his manhood is a little on d big side)hope dis and dat.pls be careful dnt hurt urself all in d name of sex.is he cos he is 10 yrs older dan me.Buh I will still try 2 initiate a lot of spicy tins.

^^ Na wa o!

Your boldness is something else, and I've got half a mind to insult the hell out of you, on behalf of your husband.

But then again, in your own raw & crude way, you've raised some valid points. Would be interesting to know what CC's and Dayo's responses are to this.

Oya CC 'n Dayo, make una come give us the male & female perspectives here...

@ CC, Ronke 'n Jenny, don't you think this issue calls for the resumption of milking 201 class?

Efemena_xy: ^^ Na wa o!

Your boldness is something else, and I've got half a mind to insult the hell out of you, on behalf of your husband.

But then again, in your own raw & crude way, you've raised some valid points. Would be interesting to know what CC's and Dayo's responses are to this.

Oya CC 'n Dayo, make una come give us the male & female perspectives on this...

@ CC, Ronke 'n Jenny, don't you think this issue calls for the resumption of "milking 201" class?

woooow,how i missed and love to go classes again. Oga taryour and i must to............ U know na......**winks**

^^ Naughty girl!

Morning Tayo - Kilo de?

Efemena_xy: ^^ Naughty girl!

Morning Tayo - Kilo de?

kosi nko ko oooo.. I just gas to..... You know na..... How we do it.... Had some spice.....

chaircover: Efe you are right, I read her response and she made some points that once cannot just hide under the carpet.

This is atypical problem where women cannot/refuse/unable to tell their partners what exactly they want in bed without been seen as wayward and what happens is that so many just grin and bear it until they fall into the trap that this poster is going to fall into if she not careful. She will have an affair, get caught and that is the end of her marriage.

I was discussing this with mr cc last night and he said maybe the poster at one point in the beginning of the relationship had complained of pain (maybe she was truly in pain or just in a ploy to make the man feel that she was a "good almost virgin inexperience girl" LOL and that is maybe why he is always worried that he will hurt her when they make love.

No question about it, the Poster has her own blame, but these lousy, university educated but still illiterate men who automatically assume that a woman who speaks her mind is wayward and will be accused of infidelity at the slightest opportunity also help to silence women and many women are short changed in the bedroom. Tell some men that you like it this way and they automatically assume that the woman is cheating.

@poster, it is your life, your husband, your marriage and your sexxlife. If you like keep quiet there and hope that your husband is a magician and a mind reader who will automatically know all your desires or you can be proactive and request for what you want/spice up your sexx life. This is 2012 and with all the books, internet search engines, videos, sexx aids it there, there is no reason for any woman or man for that matter to have a rubbish sex life. you can sit there and wring your hands together till kingdom come and he will carry on doing what he thinks is satisfying you till kingdom come.

The ball is in your court and like i said before, what you are looking for in sokoto is right there in your sokoto.

I get wat u re saying but am not the type dat dies in silence.me and my hubby re very good friends,we talk abt almost everytin,so I ve told him a number of times 2 spice tins up,he promised 2 change,infact changes for like 2days and stops.wen I met him I neva lied 2him dat I was close 2 a virgin or pretend during sex,just dat wen he started sleeping wit me initially I was having bruises afta sex but dat stopped like a year ago.Lemme blieve he will change wit time.Tanks

chaircover:

OK. sha dont do anything stupidd

I won't,will occupy myself wit oda tins.

ese-maro:


I get wat u re saying but am not the type dat dies in silence.me and my hubby re very good friends,we talk abt almost everytin,so I ve told him a number of times 2 spice tins up,he promised 2 change,infact changes for like 2days and stops.wen I met him I neva lied 2him dat I was close 2 a virgin or pretend during sex,just dat wen he started sleeping wit me initially I was having bruises afta sex but dat stopped like a year ago.Lemme blieve he will change wit time.Tanks

My dear, take charge of the bedroom....your hubby will not spice anything up....do role plays if that is what you want, dress as a nurse or police-woman, dress like a gogo-dancer, if it is rough abuna you want, let him lie and you do the riding, some men cannnot go down on women, it is not about being neat they just see it as "a taboo". If you want to do 1-mic with him, feel free, if he is not stopping you, try different positions and let him know that his "size" is ok for you.....if you want rough-rider....you will be the one to give it to him, all this and many more, will give him an idea of who you really are in the bedroom....if it is dry....and you are feeling hurt...lubricate my dear and continue with the rampage.....lol.

rol/ed:


Tanks a lot CC,my hubby knws he is in town but he trust me So much not 2 cheat or do anything funny.He always tells me hw God blessed him wit a beautiful and faithful wife.dat breaks my heart.I ve decided 2 be d woman my hubby tinks I really am.as for d spicing up aspect my hubby really doesn't want to accept new tins.He can't finger me,or go down on me.take note dat am very clean,young and pretty.he is always bothered abt me not gettn hurt during sex and dats makes me so furious.its a lot of distractions.keeps askin,Baby re u ok,hope its not painful(because his manhood is a little on d big side)hope dis and dat.pls be careful dnt hurt urself all in d name of sex.is he cos he is 10 yrs older dan me.Buh I will still try 2 initiate a lot of spicy tins.

I really wish your hubby'd cheat on you with a woman vixen and he's leave your sorry arse!

lol, this one pass power. dress as police carry that kondo for hand and command him to lie down now! lie down now i say! you have been stubborn and need to be beaten. Now take down your pant and say please ma
Ronkelus

ronkebp:

My dear, take charge of the bedroom....your hubby will not spice anything up....do role plays if that is what you want, dress as a nurse or police-woman, dress like a gogo-dancer, if it is rough abuna you want, let him lie and you do the riding, some men cannnot go down on women, it is not about being neat they just see it as "a taboo". If you want to do 1-mic with him, feel free, if he is not stopping you, try different positions and let him know that his "size" is ok for you.....if you want rough-rider....you will be the one to give it to him, all this and many more, will give him an idea of who you really are in the bedroom....if it is dry....and you are feeling hurt...lubricate my dear and continue with the rampage.....lol.

Well said! I couldn't have put it any better

But you know, I think going by what she's posted, her hubby is of the old school stock (10 year age gap) The guys is obviously reluctant to try anything new hence her frustrations. I mean, come on, in this day and age...what stops him from giving her what she wants? Why on earth should "going down" on his wife be a taboo for him? I bet he doesn't mind, no - probably loves being given a bl[i]o[/i]w-j[b]o[/b]b

I know this sounds crazy but the poor girl don dey compare hubby's performance with her ex-lover's and finds her husband seriously lacking in that department. I think this thread should be an eye opener to those conservative men who think it's okay to climb aboard, hump away then roll off after their 2 minute explosion.

I'm just *smh* at the selfishness of some of our Nigerian men sha...

ifyalways: If you can type "buh" what really stops you from typing the right word seeing it's same 3 letter words
I'm not trying to correct your grammar(who born me) but rather your sentence structure and writing style.

So,have you done your ex already? How did it go? Any videos?

Post that u and ur boyfrnd first. Little brain @ifyalways

In life there are some things that you would consider too bad and some would be OK with it.

Sometime back I was talking to a bunch of college kids in church like 18-22yrs and they told me almost every one in college smokes weed or have tried once. And they even told me smoking weed is considered more "cool" than most other vice. I was even trying to say that ciggarette might even be milder and they were like Cigarrete is bad, Weed is cool. In their class I was made to look like something that dropped from 1700

Imagine as bad as I thought I was, I was still being viewed as Old school

Those of you that are calling the man old school probably have some things that you cant do sexually

If your hubby comes tomorrow says Back entry (Anaal), Using his foot in your wetincall, whips, hair pulling, Bleep are the things he consider modern and new school, How many of you here calling this man old school would gladly comply?

Oya CC, Ronke, Omoge, Efe and OP be truthful. What would you say to this?

ese-maro:


I get wat u re saying but am not the type dat dies in silence.me and my hubby re very good friends,we talk abt almost everytin,so I ve told him a number of times 2 spice tins up,he promised 2 change,infact changes for like 2days and stops.wen I met him I neva lied 2him dat I was close 2 a virgin or pretend during sex,just dat wen he started sleeping wit me initially I was having bruises afta sex but dat stopped like a year ago.Lemme blieve he will change wit time.Tanks

From wat u just said here, one of ur probs is sex life wit ur hubby! Do u get to climax in d act or just d style that is ur prob? Just listen to me, it took years to perfect in dis act, i was in ur shoes though as a man! I will give d key to d question wen u must answered ma qtn. Now, apart from sex life. These ar some of ur reasons for trying to go back to ur ex..... (1)u didnt go tru d rudiments of marriage course very well. Where are d transformation of marriage consciousness? (2) u ar still emotionally attached to ur ex, dis COULD b as a result of ur joblessness, some of ur friends still discuss him wit u awakening ur memories wit him; u still have his contacts - pictures, facebook access, bb, 2go etc (3) u bonded with him long enough and u ar now comparing him in some of hubby's deficiencies. (4) U dnt have respect for ur God, d ten commandments, dnt commit adultery.
Way out is to work on urself cos u ar d cost of ur prob.Its common wit human ma dear. Ibos use to say "Ifu oji odigi ka odi ocha".who told u that if u had married him, u wouldnt hv been wanting to go back to ur hubby supposing he was d one that is ur ex? Satan will always try to give us reason why we shld go astray! Marriage is for better or for worse, for better sex or for worse sex. Commitment holds u there for life. As i said, work on ur faith and ur self! All d best.

@ Dayo
I remember a long time ago when I lied to one nairalander oziomatv that I was a professional in the emergent exit area, by gad that guy almost had a heart attack

Seriously though you asked a good question up there. Some men are not comfy going down on a woman whilst others are professionals. Are these not one of the things you make sure of before getting married? You don't have to necessarily engage in them but there are ways you to find out.

This op is a freak in bed and cannot tell me she did not taste her husband before marriage but you went ahead And married him. Admit it, these comparisons started when you met your ex.

Ps I'm mobile

jennykadry: @ Dayo
I remember a long time ago when I lied to one nairalander oziomatv that I was a professional in the emergent exit area, by gad that guy almost had a heart attack

Seriously though you asked a good question up there. Some men are not comfy going down on a woman whilst others are professionals. Are these not one of the things you make sure of before getting married? You don't have to necessarily engage in them but there are ways you to find out.

This op is a freak in bed and cannot tell me she did not taste her husband before marriage but you went ahead And married him. Admit it, these comparisons started when you met your ex.

Ps I'm mobile

Whereas some people think its normal to do rear entry. I encountered one girl that the first thing she presented was the rear. I told her I dont do that and she was almost looking offended am I from Shakespeare era?

She did it again another time and I told her its an abomination in Africa to do that. Just to have an excuse

dayokanu:

Whereas some people think its normal to do rear entry. I encountered one girl that the first thing she presented was the rear. I told her I dont do that and she was almost looking offended am I from Shakespeare era?

She did it again another time and I told her its an abomination in Africa to do that. Just to have an excuse

you don't arsefuck? be rest assured your wife would cheat on you at a point in your marriage. it became a fad amongst naija babes ever since kim kardashian got buttfucked by ray j!

coogar:

you don't arsefuck? be rest assured your wife would cheat on you at a point in your marriage. it became a fad amongst naija babes ever since kim kardashian got buttfucked by ray j!

Do you buttfuck? and how many Naija women would agree to be buttfucked. lets take a sample from this thread

Moreover buttfucking I heard bleeds and more exposure to diseases.

One girl once told me the rear would be the dish on the wedding night.

dayokanu:

Do you buttfuck? and how many Naija women would agree to be buttfucked. lets take a sample from this thread

Moreover buttfucking I heard bleeds and more exposure to diseases.

One girl once told me the rear would be the dish on the wedding night.

there's a huge disparity between what people say here and what they do in the real world? if you take a sample, 99% of the women on this forum would admit they have never fellated in their lifetime but is that the truth?

dayokanu: In life there are some things that you would consider too bad and some would be OK with it.

Sometime back I was talking to a bunch of college kids in church like 18-22yrs and they told me almost every one in college smokes weed or have tried once. And they even told me smoking weed is considered more "cool" than most other vice. I was even trying to say that ciggarette might even be milder and they were like Cigarrete is bad, Weed is cool. In their class I was made to look like something that dropped from 1700

Imagine as bad as I thought I was, I was still being viewed as Old school

Those of you that are calling the man old school probably have some things that you cant do sexually

If your hubby comes tomorrow says Back entry (Anaal), Using his foot in your wetincall, whips, hair pulling, Bleep are the things he consider modern and new school, How many of you here calling this man old school would gladly comply?

Oya CC, Ronke, Omoge, Efe and OP be truthful. What would you say to this?

could not help but laugh, Old school master!!!!!, i can do anything i enjoy sex/ually, if i am not enjoying then bye-bye to it, the first time might be crazy, but subsequently it eases out. Sometimes being crazy with hair pulled back and a hard core easy in- easy out is the way to go...(sorry for being raw)

armyofone: lol, this one pass power. dress as police carry that kondo for hand and command him to lie down now! lie down now i say! you have been stubborn and need to be beaten. Now take down your pant and say please ma
Ronkelus

My dear, make sure that police-woman with her condo, is chewing gum, imagine half n/a/ked with condo, cap to the side and blowing and popping the gum,with shirt unbuttoned and a nice and sexy waist beads, the guy will rush at the woman, old school will fly out the window....

dayokanu: In life there are some things that you would consider too bad and some would be OK with it.

Sometime back I was talking to a bunch of college kids in church like 18-22yrs and they told me almost every one in college smokes weed or have tried once. And they even told me smoking weed is considered more "cool" than most other vice. I was even trying to say that ciggarette might even be milder and they were like Cigarrete is bad, Weed is cool. In their class I was made to look like something that dropped from 1700

Imagine as bad as I thought I was, I was still being viewed as Old school

Those of you that are calling the man old school probably have some things that you cant do sexually

If your hubby comes tomorrow says Back entry (Anaal), Using his foot in your wetincall, whips, hair pulling, Bleep are the things he consider modern and new school, How many of you here calling this man old school would gladly comply?

Oya CC, Ronke, Omoge, Efe and OP be truthful. What would you say to this?

What a question! You sure know how to throw the spotlight on someone sha

Okay, how do I answer this without sounding too crude?

One of the joys of married life is that you get to explore different bedmatics with your hubby. As long as there is mutual understanding between you both, anything goes. It's a constant learning process and as long as I'm comfortable with what's being done to my body, then why not? Like Ronke and CC mentioned, your hubby is no mind reader, so if you want something, then ask.

For example, I found out that during my pregnancies (especially at the late trimester where the missionary and wheelbarrow positions were uncomfortable) - one of my favourites was to lie back and get hubby to sit ontop / pin me down, i.e sit on my b[i]o[/i][b]o[/b]bies so I could go down on him while he did the same for me. He never would have done it if I hadn't initiated it...and this was at 8months gone

Yes, lightly applied B-D-S-M also works for me (won't go into further details here). But having said that, getting spanked loudly on the rear before entry is one of my favourites

Pls I'm a good girl o! Just attempting to answer your question honestly...

ronkebp:

My dear, make sure that police-woman with her condo, is chewing gum, imagine half n/a/ked with condo, cap to the side and blowing and popping the gum,with shirt unbuttoned and a nice and sexy waist beads, the guy will rush at the woman, old school will fly out the window....

Now that's food for thought!

Where in London am I gonna find those sexy beads sef?

Efemena_xy:

Well said! I couldn't have put it any better

But you know, I think going by what she's posted, her hubby is of the old school stock (10 year age gap) The guys is obviously reluctant to try anything new hence her frustrations. I mean, come on, in this day and age...what stops him from giving her what she wants? Why on earth should "going down" on his wife be a taboo for him? I bet he doesn't mind, no - probably loves being given a bl[i]o[/i]w-j[b]o[/b]b

I know this sounds crazy but the poor girl don dey compare hubby's performance with her ex-lover's and finds her husband seriously lacking in that department. I think this thread should be an eye opener to those conservative men who think it's okay to climb aboard, hump away then roll off after their 2 minute explosion.

I'm just *smh* at the selfishness of some of our Nigerian men sha...

Mena I feel its just my kind of hubby,dnt think age is d problem.cos he just completed 33 June 4th and I will be 23 next thursday.so 33 is not so old sch,and in terms of Mouth Gig he always gives excuses wen I ever I want 2 initiate it.Tins like baby I just urinated now,or dnt stress urself or it will make me come faster or prostiutes do such and u re not suppose 2.I really told him my mind last 2 months and he changed for like 1 week,by d next week same old story. Funny enough my ex sent his pin 2dai thru FB,buh I told him wasn't interested.

Efemena_xy:

What a question! You sure know how to throw the spotlight on someone sha

Okay, how do I answer this without sounding too crude?

One of the joys of married life is that you get to explore different bedmatics with your hubby. As long as there is mutual understanding between you both, anything goes. It's a constant learning process and as long as I'm comfortable with what's being done to my body, then why not? Like Ronke and CC mentioned, your hubby is no mind reader, so if you want something, then ask.

For example, I found out that during my pregnancies (especially at the late trimester where the missionary and wheelbarrow positions were uncomfortable) - one of my favourites was to lie back and get hubby to sit ontop / pin me down, i.e sit on my b[i]o[/i][b]o[/b]bies so I could go down on him while he did the same for me. He never would have done it if I hadn't initiated it...and this was at 8months gone

Yes, lightly applied B-D-S-M also works for me (won't go into further details here). But having said that, getting spanked loudly on the rear before entry is one of my favourites

Pls I'm a good girl o! Just attempting to answer your question honestly...

eeeeeeehhhhhhhhh, Efeeeee. If i hear say i no try dis one tonight eehhn....

Abeg wetin be BDSM make try dat one too......

Time to give my son aburo...*winks*