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Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Kobojunkie: 4:19am On Nov 07, 2022 |
Naijatask:I will be honest with you. I find this story hard to believe particularly in the year 2022. Please walk to the police station, without informing your mother and father, take at least one of your sisters with you so there can be one person's story recorded. If they refuse to go with you, it is OK too given their own parents don't seem incensed by the sexual assault. File a report at the police station and let them begin investigations before you leave so it does not seem as though you filed it and fled like a coward or something. That way your family is forced to face the situation by an outsider with support from at least one in the family. 3 Likes |
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Naijatask: 5:12am On Nov 07, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: After reading the comments, I had to woke up my mom from sleep, and told her about the my displeasure on how she handled the situation. She said her marriage will crash if she were to take an action, and she's also concerned about the future of my sisters if a word were to be led out concerning the issue. Right now, I'm just confused to be honest, and I also believe that taking the matter to the police station will cause the same issue my mom has been trying to avoid. Overall, I've definitely decided and know how to deal with the situation. Thank you all for your advices 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Foodie1(m): 5:14am On Nov 07, 2022 |
Your religion permits cousin's to get married to one another na, I guess that's the reason why your dad is not really bothered about it, maybe sef he will give out one of your sisters for him to marry If I were you I don comot that boy's teeth since 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Naijatask: 5:16am On Nov 07, 2022 |
Foodie1: Sorry but this was done long time ago, it's no longer practiced. I've decided on how to handle the situation. |
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Kobojunkie: 5:19am On Nov 07, 2022 |
Naijatask:First of all, your mother's response reveals her selfishness. She is willing to trade the emotional wellbeing of her daughters in order to maintain her Mrs status in marriage. That is cruel, no matter how you choose to cut it. As for her concern about the future of your sisters, ask them. Women who are abused as children are likely to be abused in marriage. Is that really the future your mother wants for her children? If you found out that one of your sisters turned out like your mother, allowing her daughter to endure sexual abuse while doing nothing about it, how would you feel at that point? Please don't let this abuse continue. Take it to the police and let them handle this situation since your parents refuse to. 7 Likes |
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Sammy101111(m): 5:38am On Nov 07, 2022 |
Bro if this guy keeps doing this shit to your sister he will make them loose I swear because they are too young for this shit. He want to destroy your sister life and spoil your home . I know how people live in the north United family lives together as one . Now what you will do is simple try to monitor if he still continue he you caught him late hour drag him outside naked him shout let everyone come outside disgrace him . And tel them what happen and go straight to the point be bold when talking . let them Know he is doing shit with your sisters . Go to he’s mum house warn her tell her if she does take her son from your house he will end up in jail that you have been recording he’s act since he came that you give her one week if she say know report the case to her new husband who is a police officer . But bro give the boy a heavy disgrace is the 17 years old boy stronger than you . Drag him out cut of he’s cloth give buy cane beat him well we’ll .If this boy mistakenly disvirgin your sisters at early age it will affect them because they will want to keep trying that shit . Be strong and be bold if you are not sharp they will take advantage of you bro 3 Likes |
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by pussyeater(m): 6:07am On Nov 07, 2022 |
Op... The only advice I have for you is to go to the nearest police station and rent a pistol from on of the corporal, then come back to finish the bastard. Case closed! 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by flyingdutchman(m): 6:09am On Nov 07, 2022 |
You can file a Police Case against him, since your parents are too weak not to so anything. A police case will awaken them. |
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by ObiaboAdoka(m): 6:10am On Nov 07, 2022 |
Tzar91:Oyel d head. |
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Aaaaarghmed(m): 6:23am On Nov 07, 2022 |
Upon all this write up,you never break him hand abi,am disappointed in you seriously.i trust myself. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Naijatask: 6:53am On Nov 07, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: I know it maybe selfish of me, but I will respect her decisions. I will be resuming to school, as such, I have penned down a lengthy message which I intend to send to my dad once I live home. Hopefully, this will make him have a change of mind 1 Like
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Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Naijatask: 6:58am On Nov 07, 2022 |
flyingdutchman: Filing a police case might cause a rift between my parents. For now, I intend to voice out my displeasure to my dad when I leave for school.
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Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Naijatask: 7:00am On Nov 07, 2022 |
Sammy101111: I'll definitely take action, but police station is out of the question |
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by abokikhalifa: 7:11am On Nov 07, 2022 |
Comradepreneur: I would have advice you to record him when next you see such thing. And then go report to human right organization or any gende base organization in your state. The only problem i have is your family coming for you if you end up repoting your cousin. But if you love your sisters so much. Just get enough evidence and then report the basterd. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by stephanie94l: 7:18am On Nov 07, 2022 |
I sunset why you have not slapped the living daylight out of his face already... It seems you are the only sane man in that house. Unfortunately you are weakI sunset why you have not slapped the living daylight out of his face already... It seems you are the only sane man in that house. Unfortunately you are weak... 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by OloYeOfEgbE: 7:36am On Nov 07, 2022 |
person wey you go kick him prick as the thing still strong,the kind shout wey he go shout,neighbour's go come out...kasala don burst 3 Likes |
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by obinna58(m): 7:36am On Nov 07, 2022 |
Baba I take God beg you, hating is not enough for a criminal, don't let that boy subject your sisters to extreme poverty coz of pleasure. Throw him out yourself, yes you can don't wait any authority to do this coz they've failed you. If you no careful na you go begin raise children for that stupid boy while Gnashing teeth 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Naijatask: 8:04am On Nov 07, 2022 |
obinna58: I pray it wouldn't get to the stage of me raising a bastard child. And I can't throw him out, since my dad brought him in |
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by falcon01: 8:17am On Nov 07, 2022 |
Comradepreneur:bruh, f*ck him up! Like wtf! Those are your f*cking sisters and your parents ain't making things easy obviously because of Religion and The Northern Culture. Here's what you are gonna do sleep with one eye open make it your purpose to catch the bastard doing any nefarious activities, make sure you record him doing what he is doing then stop the record and beat the hell out of him! Heck without record you should beat him like how the Bleep is he still living in your house? See the one that pains me more is the little girl saying she feels pain like what the fùck? Guy where are you staying? Guy your uncle is also a stùpid idiot why is he in your house? I'm very very very angry RN walai. Kamburo ubannan Bruh you saw Him fùcking jerking off over your fùcking sister, I'm angry at you RN 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by WantsandMore: 8:21am On Nov 07, 2022 |
Naijatask:Don't send note to your Dad, talk to him & if he doesn't take action, patiently wait for an opportunity, if you catch m again, slap m twice, like better slap oh, then insist he leaves or you leave, dama you go soon go nysc, before you leave just like suggested, educate your sisters & admonish the eldest ones amongst them to always be on the lookout and protect the younger ones,if not you go get problem with them. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Lamanii22(f): 8:55am On Nov 07, 2022 |
Jesus! I’m boiling right now…. Like he doesn’t even need a second chance… is it until he forcefully rapes all your sisters? Like your mother is not an at all, she’s too slow for my liking… that boy can no longer live in your house he is going to ruin all your sisters…. Like it’s really paining me that you are too slow as well… 4 Likes |
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Lamanii22(f): 8:56am On Nov 07, 2022 |
dawnomike:or punched him on his nose |
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by flyingdutchman(m): 9:07am On Nov 07, 2022 |
Naijatask:Bro, I feel you. Look, as a fellow First born, I can tell you: your duty is to protect your family where your parents fail (and that happens often). Your sisters are the priority here, not your parents. They have lived their life. Do the right thing. Report to the authorities, then withdraw your Case after they've all begged you and seen that you are serious. That idiot must learn, otherwise, you might be tempted to take laws into your hands, and that can land you in jail. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by realestate99: 9:08am On Nov 07, 2022 |
Naijatask:You are 23 and not a kid, before you take any action, act like an undercover but it must be very fast, find reasons your uncle, your dad and to some extent your mum are sympathetic towards that potential rapist, after your answers you can decide what action to take because as it is now, if you go overboard with the guy, don't be surprised your parents might rebuke you or disown you. something strange is happening or has happened in your family, uncover it first for your own good and sisters wellfare......it is somehow strange for parents to know about a potential rapist lurking in their house filled with succulent daughters and still treat the rapist with kid's glove. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Naijatask: 9:11am On Nov 07, 2022 |
WantsandMore: Thank you for your advice, but I'm not the type to stand up to my dad and talk to him face to face, reason why I'm sending him a text message instead. |
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Naijatask: 9:13am On Nov 07, 2022 |
realestate99: Thank you for your kind advise. I'll take this matter more seriously from now on and start investigations. As for why my dad is acting sympathetic towards him, it may be because his mom is his favorite younger sister. |
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Naijatask: 9:14am On Nov 07, 2022 |
Lamanii22: I've been bolting in my angers all these while, reason why I needed to sought for advice on how to go about the issue. |
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Baronthecelebri: 9:18am On Nov 07, 2022 |
You're a fool, instead to use machete to cut him chase him out of the house, you're there whining. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by LILTJAY: 9:23am On Nov 07, 2022 |
until him give your sisters anal before you go kill the idiot..
mumu |
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by WantsandMore: 9:28am On Nov 07, 2022 |
Naijatask:You are not standing up to your Dad, heck I wouldn't advise you to disrespect the old man irrespective of what gives, however, this is where wisdom is required, before leaving the house, kindly tell your Dad, you want to talk as there’s something that's been disturbing you, you have to understand your kid sisters aren't only your responsibility, they are his kids too, subtly, tell him how you feel, don't tell him he's not handling it well oh, just say you worry, when he's too busy and since you wouldn't be around much there wouldn't be anyone around to protect them. These r your concerns. That's all. You will feel relieved cos by now you would've done your best to protect the dignity of your kid sisters. Just from time to time make sure you call home, request to talk to your dad, sisters, and even the so called cousin causing you heartache. All the best buddy. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Nobody: 9:33am On Nov 07, 2022 |
Comradepreneur: Replace the hatred with the hatred of corrupt politicians. Simple. |
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by kingamaa(m): 9:33am On Nov 07, 2022 |
Pray for him regularly 1 Like |
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