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My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Lifeinbits(m): 9:11pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and I encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam. While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel. Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry. 59 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by HumbleTrader: 9:14pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
How about you speak to your partner instead of random strangers online. 467 Likes 25 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by amnesty7: 9:14pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
Congratulations! You have just been liberated. 439 Likes 22 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by sholay2011(m): 9:15pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
Errmmm...will somebody tell him? 209 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Nwodosis(m): 9:19pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
This exactly the treatment Tinubu is receiving from APC! She had seen that you are unfit to be in charge as a man. 131 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by rickpat(m): 9:21pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
she hasn't even gotten the visa,she is acting this way..maybe she neva even get visa appointment...bro,let her be and focus on your life...If she gets the visa..good...if she doesn't.. DON'T ACCEPT HER BACK...I hate it when people. are dating and one party feels they're smarter or wiser than the other... FOCUS ON YOUR LIFE US VISA ABI?.. OKAY O..I JUST DEY LAUGH THAT GIRL ..PINK PAPER GO RESET HER BRAIN 452 Likes 27 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Jennyclay(f): 9:31pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
If you support her with application fee nko? Mtcheeww. Men should learn to help and not expect anything in return. Nawa oo! If the lady decides not to marry you after spending on her, it's her choice and not a sin against God. Biko, don't spoil her show oo! 28 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Kobojunkie: 9:38pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
Lifeinbits:Seems she is not ready for marriage or at least she is not ready to marry you at this time. What do you want us to tell you? You may be sure of wanting to spend your life with her but she isn't and there is nothing wrong with that as that is after all the why of these relationships, is it not? 7 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by EriMma1: 9:40pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
There's no love here. She's been using you to pass time all this while. Now she has gotten a great opportunity, she feels she will get a better person hence the change of plans. Forget about that kind of person. She's not really into you. 264 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Sonnobax15(m): 10:20pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
And one female werey for up just successfully commented thrash as usual. 168 Likes 9 Shares
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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Richy4(m): 10:51pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
πππππ It is called keeping opinions/ options opened..or not putting all eggs in one basket...if she get married to you, Bill Gate is single now, she might just ran into him while shopping.. .. by then, marrying u would have destroyed the chances of getting his contacts...π² If indeed u wants to travel, take her advice by traveling... if it's US, u wants to settle, find a state so far away from where she is going to be residing... While u were there, Make sure your mumu buttons are deactivated π§βοΈπ©βοΈ 99 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Mkelv0106(m): 10:56pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
Don't stress urself man, she'll still need you, like you said, she haven't started the visa application process yet, chill bro, if she isn't keen on getting married to you, fine, draft out a contract, if she still want you to help, the both of you shud sign an agreement for her to pay you back, let it be purely business, you're not running a charity organization. Hope you read about a man that sued his ex after he trained her in law sch, and she left him and won 12k dolls, if I'm not mistaken.. If you guys can't be married partners, you might as well be business partners, everything no suppose lead to quarrel and malice. 63 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Gerrard59(m): 4:29am On Feb 07, 2023 |
You do not know how to travel abroad, but you have a girlfriend who does and you supported her so much financially to enable it happen. While doing this, you did not ask her; Nne, how are processing this application to move abroad? Could you teach me considering I am sponsoring the process? Did you? Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!! Then, you came to Nairaland typing mendaciously about how she has changed her mind even though you wanted to travel but you don't know how. Not only that, you had created the same topic in the Travel section, but since that had little traction, you came here to try your luck, all in a bid to enter FP. I understand that the unemployment situation in Nigeria is extremely high, but don't you think there are better things to do with your time and precious bandwidth? https://www.nairaland.com/7557673/girlfriend-doesnt-want-get-married#120697918 33 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Gadafii: 4:51am On Feb 07, 2023 |
FΓ΄olish man, una just carry boyfriends and girlfriends matter for head like rada, una no Dey smoke loud 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Acidosis(m): 7:06am On Feb 07, 2023 |
I like your SIMPlicity though. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by CrownOfClay724: 7:19am On Feb 07, 2023 |
You sound entitled, and dependent. I find that a little 'unmanly'. You should be making plans for your life as well instead of planning on another person's plan. She go sweep your leg. E sure me die. 45 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by ITbomb(m): 7:29am On Feb 07, 2023 |
Free the girl please, both of you are still struggling to stand, don't be a burden to each other. If you can, remain friends. That's life, no need to be hard on yourself 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Natbrowny: 7:35am On Feb 07, 2023 |
DONT FORCE THINGS 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by nicerod(m): 7:45am On Feb 07, 2023 |
U too travel out without marrying her πππ ππππ€ͺπ€ͺπ 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Nicepoker(m): 7:53am On Feb 07, 2023 |
You want to sabotage her plans . Then travel out without informing her. I know that's what you want to hear. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Nobody: 7:56am On Feb 07, 2023 |
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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Lance008(m): 8:51am On Feb 07, 2023 |
Bro plans changes Ur gf don Dey see one imaginable husband abroad 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by fidelmarshal199: 9:19am On Feb 07, 2023 |
Someone that hasn't applied for visa yet is already fledging muscles. Op stop worrying yourself because the ingrate is going nowhere. Mindlog: Either student visa or work visa, None of them comes easily at the US embassy, More than 90 percent of the application get declined daily. . Someone that can't even afford an application fee completely, how is she going to come up with ticket and accommodation fee? The chance of the opportunist leaving this country is very low. 42 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by LittleBigDick(m): 9:55am On Feb 07, 2023 |
Hinder her plans to travel ( find out where she keeps her travel and necessary documents,get rid of them) Send boys to steal her phone so that you see what's going behind the scenes π₯΄ Las Las you and her must day naija She must see shege 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Mindlog: 10:30am On Feb 07, 2023 |
fidelmarshal199: What if she gets the student visa? π€£ Both grateful and ungrateful people dey collect Visa on the steady π€£ 12 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by emmaodet: 10:34am On Feb 07, 2023 |
Acidosis: πππ 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by boxer022(m): 11:25am On Feb 07, 2023 |
Have a sit down discussion with her and understand her reasons for changing her mind. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Saintmary(f): 11:49am On Feb 07, 2023 |
Lifeinbits: You want to marry her because you supported her ambition to travel abroad. Not because you love her. Leave her alone and ask her to return your money. 11 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by obembet(f): 12:36pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Abeg allow her jare... Just keep praying for her make the country favor her. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Winters23: 12:37pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Smart girl, keeping her options open 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by DumbGeek(m): 12:37pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by JoshTim: 12:37pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Bro, your girl don scam you. Why is she changing the goal post now that she is about going for visa interview. Na wΓ‘ o. And you v spent a lot on this. α»mα», make una dey try wise small small. 14 Likes |
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