Jennyclay:
If you support her with application fee nko? Mtcheeww.

Men should learn to help and not expect anything in return. Nawa oo!

If the lady decides not to marry you after spending on her, it's her choice and not a sin against God.

Biko, don't spoil her show oo!

Leech

Your girl has left you already in her mind 😂
Don’t worry too much about it Cause you might be really depressed I mean to even create this topic means you are gradually getting there
Pick yourself up and remember to always put yourself first.
Use your head and not your deek 😂

I guess this is the time men need to stop all this sending a girl to school or pushing her to the next level while you’re in this same zone bro wise up this babe used you to move up I mean she doesn’t want you anymore bro she dey calculate like mad you’re here posting on nairaland when she she dey 2 step ahead of you , bro if you think she will marry you because say you support am loll you don jonz

Wait first is it not this same NL one guy said his girlfriend would have to come through the study route that he can't marry her and she come as dependant and his Co men were hailing him.

bro my advice is

let her be, do your own hustle and set ur own compass.... husband scarce for US...Na me talk am.
find Ur own japa route

try Ur own best and don't have bad thought because it's really heart breaking for someone to leave you when you have planned things together.

don't beg her.

Jennyclay:
If you support her with application fee nko? Mtcheeww.

Men should learn to help and not expect anything in return. Nawa oo!

If the lady decides not to marry you after spending on her, it's her choice and not a sin against God.

Biko, don't spoil her show oo!

And you expect me to help a random lady...you speak authoritatively like an entitled person. It won't work

Simp

For those of you thinking I am young, I am a 40 years old man while my girlfriend is 28 years old. We had some conversation this morning and it's so glaring that she wants me to go through the study route or try another country then she can come and join me. She said that going as a dependent means I want to settle for crumbs while i can also get the big bones. And I am insisting to her that it's doesn't matter even if F2 does not work, I can always do under the table job.

You can start your own travel process if you are keen in doing so. Don't render further assistance to her, just count your losses and move on. It will not be easy but just move on. Allow her to go on with her plan. It is even better you know about it now.

Jennyclay:
If you support her with application fee nko? Mtcheeww.

Men should learn to help and not expect anything in return. Nawa oo!

If the lady decides not to marry you after spending on her, it's her choice and not a sin against God.

Biko, don't spoil her show oo!

I won ask oo, you no get work?

This one you have time to comment here 247

I have started researching on it. She's so keen on my going through the study route

Davegeo2007:
You can start your own travel process if you are keen in doing so. Don't render further assistance to her, just count your losses and move on. It will not be easy but just move on. Allow her to go on with her plan. It is even better you know about it now.

Oya sope Otilo!!!

It’s gone.

Talking from experience.

Jennyclay:
If you support her with application fee nko? Mtcheeww.

Men should learn to help and not expect anything in return. Nawa oo!

If the lady decides not to marry you after spending on her, it's her choice and not a sin against God.

Biko, don't spoil her show oo!

Any way,you get point there.After all he can't say he hasn't being enjoying the puna for three straight years.Men should see women as investments,if it works you declare profit.If it doesn't it's a loss,move on.Las las...you will all be fine.

Lifeinbits:
Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and I encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam.

While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.

people are cruel 😭. I’m terrified of people . God will liberate you brother . In everything you do , always put yourself first .

Lifeinbits:
Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and I encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam.

While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.

She's right by going as Single in order not to jeopardize her chances, America that I know will not give her study visa if she's applying with you.

Lifeinbits:
For those of you thinking I am young, I am a 40 years old man while my girlfriend is 28 years old. We had some conversation this morning and it's so glaring that she wants me to go through the study route or try another country then she can come and join me. She said that going as a dependent means I want to settle for crumbs while i can also get the big bones. And I am insisting to her that it's doesn't matter even if F2 does not work, I can always do under the table job.

well she is selfish though. Most girls prefer their man to be boss over them. I guess that's y she doesn't want u as dependent

Jennyclay:
If you support her with application fee nko? Mtcheeww.

Men should learn to help and not expect anything in return. Nawa oo!

If the lady decides not to marry you after spending on her, it's her choice and not a sin against God.

Biko, don't spoil her show oo!

Another EVE spotted
Na Dem be dis

E shock you? It's very typical of women. And trust me if a woman take you abroad she will make it hell for you,every slight disagreement or quarrel she go remind you. Women are second place next to demons.

Lifeinbits:
Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and I encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam.

While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.

she don scam you
She's successfully used you as a ladder to attain success

Lifeinbits:
Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and I encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam.

While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.

Hey, use study route as well and when you get there, you'll marry her (No guarantees though, cos the easiest way to stay in the US permanently is via marriage of a citizen). If your marriage is too close to when she's travelling, they'll know that you married cos of that and they'll deny you entry while they allow her. If after they denied you, you decided to go via study route, they'll know that you want to go and be with her. They might deny you again.


I don't know if you get what I'm saying but all the best sha

But if your guy ask you for that money you go talk say e nor dey

What her father cannot do for her, you're carrying it on your poor kolo head. Chai
Some boys are fantastically stupid!!!
Hear me and hear well, don't ever invest in a woman that's not your wife yet, she's still a Hall as far I as know. Simple

Jennyclay:
If you support her with application fee nko? Mtcheeww.

Men should learn to help and not expect anything in return. Nawa oo!

If the lady decides not to marry you after spending on her, it's her choice and not a sin against God.

Biko, don't spoil her show oo!

You are a very great parasite ..if u jam people like me for life ...you go repent from this kind mindset

She never apply for VISA, she don change mouth.
Leave am, dey look am. No be USA VISA? She go humble by force.

LittleBigDick:
Hinder her plans to travel ( find out where she keeps her travel and necessary documents,get rid of them)

Send boys to steal her phone so that you see what's going behind the scenes 🥴

Las Las you and her must day naija
She must see shege

u wan turn enemy of progress 😂

Face reality

There's no need to marry her first, you are a man she's a woman

If she doesn't come back to you fine, you marry another lady, if she comes back fine you marry her

I don't understand where your feeling of resentment is germinating from

She hasn't even gotten visa

Even if she's successful keep your money, let her use hers

Forget her if she leaves...mind you she has her life to live, you guys are not married

Jennyclay:
If you support her with application fee nko? Mtcheeww.

Men should learn to help and not expect anything in return. Nawa oo!

If the lady decides not to marry you after spending on her, it's her choice and not a sin against God.

Biko, don't spoil her show oo!

But if the table turns... and a lady sponsor a man visa and the guy dumb her will u let the girl know she doesn’t need to expect a thing but move on.

Lifeinbits:
For those of you thinking I am young, I am a 40 years old man while my girlfriend is 28 years old. We had some conversation this morning and it's so glaring that she wants me to go through the study route or try another country then she can come and join me. She said that going as a dependent means I want to settle for crumbs while i can also get the big bones. And I am insisting to her that it's doesn't matter even if F2 does not work, I can always do under the table job.

40yrs and you have no kids?

Hahaha

She's 28

Oga find another girl fast

Jennyclay:
If you support her with application fee nko? Mtcheeww.

Men should learn to help and not expect anything in return. Nawa oo!

If the lady decides not to marry you after spending on her, it's her choice and not a sin against God.

Biko, don't spoil her show oo!

and after dating her and the guy decides not to marry her again hope it won't be sin against God and God will not judge him abi. I don't know why female folks re so stupid and selfish, they only think for themselves. Tufiakwa promax