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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Equity15(m): 3:38pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
rickpat:lmao....that blue paper ehn..i no wish am for anybody |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by rickleye: 3:39pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Dude - There are tons of unmarried Nigerians & Non-Nigerians abroad. Don't cry over that. You'll find many women who are even set financially, you'll regret not being single. |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Setaleonoz(m): 3:40pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Jennyclay: Hmm |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Isabi4lov: 3:41pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
People are just wicked, las las na everybody go chop |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Setaleonoz(m): 3:42pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Next time you would learn to put yourself first before others 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Nyceguy92: 3:45pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
First, many people don't know the difference between being offered admission and actually being granted a visa. Nearly everyone that applies that qualifies gets the offer. The real deal is obtaining the visa at the interview. So nothing to rejoice or feel bad about yet. Second, she is only a girlfriend to you, not your wife. Intention to marry remains intention only. Besides, taking you along requires definite financial requirements that must be fulfilled. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Darnell9(m): 3:46pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
rickpat: Oil dey your head bro |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by albanikeh001: 3:50pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Jennyclay: Your answer shows how myopic and self-centered you are when it comes to relationship, love and sacrifice. I wonder if you would give the same answer if the OP were to be your junior brother or your son 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Moneyyman: 3:50pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Congratulations! God is indirectly using her to save your head. Either go on your own or forget it. Don't travel as her dependent where you'll become subject to her decisions...the US is no place to risk that. As for marriage, be happy she doesn't want it; only she knows why. Focus on yourself and make the next decisions for your future. Your mama prayers dey work. Lifeinbits: 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by ukaface(f): 3:51pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
She thinks when she gets abroad she would have a million men to pick who she wants to marry. Leave am, e go shock am E go do am vum for eyes You don’t need to wail, you too find your way out. In a year or two she go Dey find you. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Scandium: 3:59pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
This is actually a bad behavior from the lady. You guys should discuss about it. I am your best plug for visa application for those traveling abroad through study route. DM. Check my signature. Also write SAT, TOEFL IELTS, GRE and pass Easily. DM |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by ogbe88(m): 4:03pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:I don't know if your head is correct. What load of rubbish advice is this. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Maysdevices(f): 4:03pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
fidelmarshal199:Did he tell you she can’t afford the application fee? How much is that, not up to 100k the last time my mom applied. If it was a woman doing this now, you will say she wants to cage him. How did she flex muscles by saying let them halt their marriage plans for now? How do you even think? Why Must she marry him? What the Bleep? |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by usj(m): 4:05pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
okuta007:Thanks, |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Maysdevices(f): 4:05pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Sike:Keep helping, keep getting disappointed Happy helper |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by ogbe88(m): 4:06pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
obembet:Just look at this one, and u support CR7 as a fan. U nor get sense. |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by 12inchess: 4:32pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
You think you have a girlfriend but you don't. She is just using you as a stepping stone to achieve her dreams. While you encourage her and support her mentally, physically and financially,she will drop you once she gets there. This is why she is not ready to commit to you so that it would be very easy over to break up with you. Someone that really loves you wont act like this. I'm also abroad and had a similar situation. Guy better start pursuing your own goals as well. This is 2023. The lady you call girlfriend is using your head and is not serious. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by yommen: 4:37pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Jennyclay: If na the guy do same now, people like you go shout 'men!!!' They already agreed to run things together. Now she suddenly changed plans when na only admission she don get. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by sinola(m): 4:40pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Lifeinbits: Bros,i hope it is not UK she is travelling to....especially Manchester, if not, just admit that you have lost your babe.Those guys there are girlfriends vampires |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by 12inchess: 4:41pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
ModCaller:I applied for U.S Student Visa 7 years ago. Brought my wife here after 2 years of getting there and she schooled here as well. Today we are both permanent resident and through the LEGAL route and without marrying Oyinbo. It was very very TOUGH to get to this point but thank God for everything he has done. We are not fools. |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by ModCaller: 4:42pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
12inchess: 7 years is ages ago. The world has changed since then |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by zakkxx: 4:43pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
You are seeing red duvet no be even red flag! Baba run for your life, she will smoke you alife in America! Remove sex and money and u will see if she is a good or demonic wife! |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Officialkplus(m): 4:45pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Lifeinbits: Mehn, you don’t want to lose her bro, I get …. She will miss you. |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by deardear2021(f): 4:46pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Can't u see that u want to become her own village people.... Why can't u follow the same steps to gain ur own admmition? Guy stop complaining like ur the one sponsoring her abroad and get a life. I don't know what is wrong with all these our young men.......is marriage by force?untop person wey wan go school aah! Lifeinbits: |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by 12inchess: 4:46pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
ModCaller:People are still coming on student visa and getting Greencard. How long do you think it takes to get Greencard in the U.S through the student route. On the average you will spend atleast 5 years. 2 years of school say 1 year OPT and then 2 years for the Greencard to be filled. Some like me may even have it longer than 5 years. Most pple that come from Nigeria with papers after less than 5 years got it through marriage (either fake or real marriage). |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by fohlarp: 4:53pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Saintmary:yes i love dis ask 4 ur money back snc d plan has chgd u paid 4 d fee thinkn u wr goin togeda |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by ModCaller: 4:53pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
12inchess: 99% of the people who apply for student visa in Nigeria have been getting rejected for some years now. This is an issue that most people know about. It has even attracted media attention many times. As a rule, as a Nigerian, do not apply for USA visa. Getting rejected by US can create real roadblock when trying to get major European visa |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by bitingcool: 5:03pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Gerrard59: lol.. see mending |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Toks2008(m): 5:09pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Lifeinbits: Oya so pe o ti lo, E don go... Just joking... No worries, nah she go beg you to come join her. Mark my words. |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by 12inchess: 5:09pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
ModCaller:Okay. One way that used to work then was to get an assistantship i.e scholarship from a professor which makes your chances higher. I don't know if that still works as it was long ago. Quite a number of Nigerians would come to the U.S with a student visa and then go off the grid after getting here to work under the table, greencard marriages etc and apparently U.S immigration caught on to that. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Hotguy27: 5:23pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Lifeinbits: Guy, the only way out is for you to find your own way. Nothing will change her mind about her plan to dump you if you have no plan to travel on your own too. Forget about her but start now to plan your own japa. You may chose a different country, say UK. |
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