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Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by Iamzik: 7:48am On Apr 08, 2023
Rhozabeth:


I always have problem with marriage that the man has complete control: what happens to the woman saying she doesn't want the girl and if the husband keeps insisting then she should ask the husband to choose between her and the maid. But if she keeps getting scared! The day will come when she will find the maid lying on her bed!

What if it was the man that employed the maid because the wife is not living up to her responsibilities? I have seen this happen in a few families

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Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by MASTAkiLLAh(m): 7:49am On Apr 08, 2023
Lovilla:
i dont see where she is getting it wrong

She has always been submissive to her husband
your sister never show that man craze before and that's why he's acting stupid. Get ladies from his own side of the family involved, you all should match to the house one faithful day when he's not around and bounce the girl. Stay on ground till he comes and you all reprimand him sternly
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by prophetfire: 7:49am On Apr 08, 2023
Lovilla:
My married sister kept complaining how thier house help is about to bring her marriage to the mud.

She said her husband is no longer giving her attention like before just few months the maid arrived.

The maid is taking over her marriage slowly, as her husband only eats food prepared by the house girl.

She has been crying all day.
She said she has tried everything possible to chase the girl away but her husband always kicks against it.

She is afraid of loosing her marriage.

Please, what must she do?
Your sister is a pathetically weak SIMP of a woman.
How about knacking someone akpako and throwing her things into the streets? SIMPS suck!!!!!!
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by IAMBOSS1990: 7:55am On Apr 08, 2023
SyrusdeHansome:
The day u ladies begin to knw what sustains relationships i bliv the number of failed marriages will drastically reduce. Beauty will always get u men but character will determine whether the men will stay or will take a walk. Show me a submissive lady that is disrespected by the husband. Submission breaks us men more than any other thing in life.
Very true. It has an added advantage making a man value the wife more and unable to take any major decision without consulting the wife first.
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by Nicemuna: 8:03am On Apr 08, 2023
Lovilla:
My married sister kept complaining how thier house help is about to bring her marriage to the mud.

She said her husband is no longer giving her attention like before just few months the maid arrived.

The maid is taking over her marriage slowly, as her husband only eats food prepared by the house girl.

She has been crying all day.
She said she has tried everything possible to chase the girl away but her husband always kicks against it.

She is afraid of loosing her marriage.
Please, what must she do?

If someone should probe into this matter, u will be shocked that it is supposedly wife that brought in the house maid. It beats my imagination how some women myopically play with their marriage(hiring a full fledged lady to be ur maid).. the matter arising is that supposedly local maid u undermined has undone u in ur wifely duties

Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by MorningStar233: 8:03am On Apr 08, 2023
advanceDNA:
Learn how to cook better food...mba!!! ..... you say "i am a feminist..my husband-to-be should also go and learn how to cook to satisfy me"....

But u sabi only snake in the eagle and hold burglary style.... the sex seff...u are always tired, asking him "is it food" grin

Okay naa..food matter don come...now u are crying and hating on another girl that can cook accusing her she wants to crash your home.... nothing should happen to that poor girl ooo... grin

How did you come to all these conclusions? Why do you men here on NL talk so badly about women? It will be nice if you channel this your energy into blogging, you might make good money from your fellow haters of women. Thank you
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by missyblissy: 8:14am On Apr 08, 2023
Lovilla:
My married sister kept complaining how thier house help is about to bring her marriage to the mud.

She said her husband is no longer giving her attention like before just few months the maid arrived.

The maid is taking over her marriage slowly, as her husband only eats food prepared by the house girl.

She has been crying all day.
She said she has tried everything possible to chase the girl away but her husband always kicks against it.

She is afraid of loosing her marriage.

Please, what must she do?


Her husband is sleeping with her maid. Some men are shameless. Tell your sister to move on. Take your kids and leave the shamelesa man. Tell her to focus on herself, improvw her skills and bwtter hwr life.
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by lendahand(m): 8:14am On Apr 08, 2023
Lovilla:
My married sister kept complaining how thier house help is about to bring her marriage to the mud.

She said her husband is no longer giving her attention like before just few months the maid arrived.

The maid is taking over her marriage slowly, as her husband only eats food prepared by the house girl.

She has been crying all day.
She said she has tried everything possible to chase the girl away but her husband always kicks against it.

She is afraid of loosing her marriage.

Please, what must she do?
most of you ladies deserve what happens to you. Most of you are witches thinking because a man brought you into their homes, they have no options other than to eat shit. This man's salvation has come. I only pray he doesn't start eating the other food too. Your sister should repent and beg for mercy.
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by missyblissy: 8:16am On Apr 08, 2023
prophetfire:
Your sister is a pathetically weak SIMP of a woman.
How about knacking someone akpako and throwing her things into the streets? SIMPS suck!!!!!!

And end up gking to jail. Hell no. You can keep any man that doesn't want to be kept. Omo move on with your life. Forcus on yourself and kids.
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by Kooldame: 8:16am On Apr 08, 2023
Look for sleeping tablets make sure you didn't sprinkle overdose on her food every dinner.She will not wake up until 11:am everyday.With that your husband will see the need to chase her away because before she wakes up you would have prepared the meal .Meanwhile find a means of improving in all areas so that your husband will see the reason of not employing another maid again.
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by caandi: 8:16am On Apr 08, 2023
SyrusdeHansome:
The day u ladies begin to knw what sustains relationships i bliv the number of failed marriages will drastically reduce. Beauty will always get u men but character will determine whether the men will stay or will take a walk. Show me a submissive lady that is disrespected by the husband. Submission breaks us men more than any other thing in life.
what of osinachi that’s the husband killed
Was she not a submissive wife??
What of yuls wife?? Cos yul was always praising her on Sm, so went wrong
Omo gbabe o, Nkan be
A man that wants to be kept would be kept lobatane
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by dollyp88(f): 8:25am On Apr 08, 2023
grin
Lovilla:
give your opinion Mr Man

It doesnt matter if its me or my sister.
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by tishbite42: 8:26am On Apr 08, 2023
Lovilla:
trash..

if i am to be in my sister's shoe, i would ve poisoned that girl on a lowkey.
I can now understand the kind of person your sister is
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by Otunba2004(m): 8:31am On Apr 08, 2023
endsarrrs:


It matters o. Because you being in Nairaland since is suppose to have impacted maximum sense in that your kokolo head from great comment/advice on similar thousand topics like this.

As the saying goes: "dey play"
oh I see same same as your sister you're a snake I pity who is going to marry you,muderer
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by Lilfire(m): 8:33am On Apr 08, 2023
Stop fighting the maid monitor her cooking stay with her do the dishing of food yourself and up your game in the order room and stop showing everyone who care to listen your fears and insecurities become adventures in the bed room, infact a porn star, and see how things change just make sure you are in the kitchen while she cooks and make sure you dish the food yourself oh

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Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by Mina79(f): 8:36am On Apr 08, 2023
Lovilla:
My married sister kept complaining how thier house help is about to bring her marriage to the mud.

She said her husband is no longer giving her attention like before just few months the maid arrived.

The maid is taking over her marriage slowly, as her husband only eats food prepared by the house girl.

She has been crying all day.
She said she has tried everything possible to chase the girl away but her husband always kicks against it.

She is afraid of loosing her marriage.

Please, what must she do?
Your sister is careless and the maid is taking over period.
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by madmelon: 8:38am On Apr 08, 2023
Instead of her to go and enroll in catering class to up her cookery skills she is chasing shadows..Okpe!
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by Otunba2004(m): 8:39am On Apr 08, 2023
Lovilla:
all i can say is Men are polygamous in nature, so i dont blame him.

Bcause this maid in question doesnt even come close to my sister in terms of beauty.
You're very arrogant in nature you comment speaks volumes about you once again I pity the man who will marry you,we are talking about good home and peaceful marriage you're talking of beauty let it sink to your head beauty is not part of quality in marriage beauty only matter when you're looking for side chicks so hold your useless beauty for yourself.nonsense
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by Cutehector(m): 8:44am On Apr 08, 2023
Lovilla:
trash..

if i am to be in my sister's shoe, i would ve poisoned that girl on a lowkey.
seee the trash emanating from your unchristian brain.
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by Otunba2004(m): 8:45am On Apr 08, 2023
Lamanii22:
She better need to clean that tears and look for a way to chase the maid away…. I don’t know why people need a maid in the first place
because they're lazy and no common home training how to do house work.

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Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by alizma: 8:45am On Apr 08, 2023
Lovilla:
give your opinion Mr Man

It doesnt matter if its me or my sister.
It matters, you can't be telling lies and want to get truth from others.
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by lendahand(m): 8:50am On Apr 08, 2023
SyrusdeHansome:
The day u ladies begin to knw what sustains relationships i bliv the number of failed marriages will drastically reduce. Beauty will always get u men but character will determine whether the men will stay or will take a walk. Show me a submissive lady that is disrespected by the husband. Submission breaks us men more than any other thing in life.
agba Lamba

Dem no know!!
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by donMIG(m): 8:52am On Apr 08, 2023
Too late
Omo tyt virg na play ni
Good for u
Ur mother get maid for her time?
Lazy a55 women of nowadays
Mk u rest
Ur man dei bang her well
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by Lovilla(f): 8:53am On Apr 08, 2023
alizma:

It matters, you can't be telling lies and want to get truth from others.
how can u tell that i am lying?
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by Demurray: 8:53am On Apr 08, 2023
Lovilla:
trash..

if i am to be in my sister's shoe, i would ve poisoned that girl on a lowkey.
You will live to regret your action. Nonesence and ingredients
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by mikywonder(m): 8:54am On Apr 08, 2023
Lovilla:
trash..

if i am to be in my sister's shoe, i would ve poisoned that girl on a lowkey.

U can never be in her shoes
Cos marriage is far from you
Silent murderer
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by 2starboy25: 8:55am On Apr 08, 2023
Lovilla:
give your opinion Mr Man

It doesnt matter if its me or my sister.
Did u expect anything good from nairalanders b4? Awww time wasting!!!! Enter twitter if ya looking for such advice, and for ur sis issue. She shld calm down and continue showing love to her husband. That's life of menh! She shld never in anyway hate her husband cos that's gonna trigger sumtin unimagineable. And for the maid, love her, accommodate her and make sure she doesn't get angry toward ur sis cos such maids can go along way to poison ur sis outta her husband house. If he marries her, "fine" if he doesn't "fine" That's life, hard to see men depend on 1 person.
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by lendahand(m): 8:56am On Apr 08, 2023
Freo:


Do you really want me to keep explaining the verses to you..
Genesis 3 vs 19 - 22 is talking about our physical body not our soul.
arguing with that junkie will drain you, she's a devil's emissary, keep off...

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Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by tctrills: 8:56am On Apr 08, 2023
adewumiopeyemi:
Your married sister or you

Go to the point so that people can advice you in the comment section


This is not a. Matter of shame again

You like gossip. If you have an opinion please give her instead of trying to do police work.
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by ArsenWinner: 9:01am On Apr 08, 2023
Lovilla:
trash..

if i am to be in my sister's shoe, i would ve poisoned that girl on a lowkey.
How dare u think of murder.
You are in a postion to adviae your sister wisely but the only think u can tell her is to kill the poor innocent girl. Even if you get rid of the girl, the problem wont be solved.
The man is passing a message which you flagrantly ignored.
You better tell her to discuss the issue with the man.

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Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by KaptainAfrika: 9:02am On Apr 08, 2023
The house maid get big nyash or brezz? Lets start from there.

Lovilla:
My married sister kept complaining how thier house help is about to bring her marriage to the mud.

She said her husband is no longer giving her attention like before just few months the maid arrived.

The maid is taking over her marriage slowly, as her husband only eats food prepared by the house girl.

She has been crying all day.
She said she has tried everything possible to chase the girl away but her husband always kicks against it.

She is afraid of loosing her marriage.

Please, what must she do?
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by IamtheTruth1(m): 9:04am On Apr 08, 2023
Lovilla:
give your opinion Mr Man

It doesnt matter if its me or my sister.

Who need advice dey get pride?

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