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Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by siofra(f): 7:56pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: You mumu oo Who will take care of those children? |
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Aklee4994(m): 7:58pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Gamesmart:All your logic counter are good but stop laughing to make your assertion look sharp 1 Like |
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Expanse2020(m): 7:58pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Puss360:Be deceiving yourself those who practice the LGBTQ stuffs the still received konji better than yourself..So many news we have heard here about the transgender married themselves back, lesbians married to her house later denounced it...if your brother bobby risky don father he just de form for public |
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Nobody: 8:06pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Expanse2020: Are you okay? Who told you the population of women is 60-70%? Where did you get that statistics from? 3 Likes |
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Truvelisback(m): 8:10pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
talented321:These are the reasons to be polygamous. Although it has its own disadvantages. Polygamy will be good if you are rich or have the resources to take care of your wives and children. 1. It saves you from unnecessary drama from any of your wives. The competition to please you will be there unlike when you marry only one wife. She may decide to puff up because she feels you are the only man in her life. But if she notices that there are other wives who are willing to do anything to gain your love, she would be forced to adjust her behavior. If "A"can't cook good meal for you, B will do that for you. When B is always is always complaining of tiredness when you want to have fun with her, A will make herself available. |
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by talented321: 8:15pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Every woman wants a man other women desire which is money and character. Many people go into polygamy because of their selfish interests' because bringing children u can't take a good care for is very bad' just look at the poverty rate in nigeria. Truvelisback: |
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Chucks13: 8:16pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
We need it to silent those women who are bitch frustrating their husband in the name of one wife one husband nonsense. 1 Like |
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by casualobserver: 8:22pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
talented321: Manβs selfishness is being married and having side chicks knowing if your side chick is a decent woman she wonβt want a child out of wedlock for a married man. All the benefits of polygamy without the responsibilities. Itβs the women and the children they may bear that lose out in the long run. Monogamy is the reason there are so many single mature ladies 95% of whom will either never get a man to marry them, have children of their own or both. Polygamy is actually bad for men because they have to take full responsibility for what they are doing while officially monogamous. Men are polygamous by nature. Monogamy just means we continue to act polygamous and avoid responsibility. 1 Like |
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Puss360(f): 8:29pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Expanse2020:Lol... It's just a point, I'm not promoting any ideology... Pol |
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Puss360(f): 8:33pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
abdullahi45:Wahala... Oya judge for yourself... I hate unnecessary argument... And I'm done with this topic.. Make I rest ...
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Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Camberlo(m): 8:41pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
talented321: There are many reasons different men takes 2-wives. 1. Imagine you married for 10years and children yet and according to medical reports, the chances of your present wife give birth is not high due to her condition (she always get pregnant but delivery is problem) 2. What if you are married and have 3 children and the marriage collapsed and you remarried but your present wife not ready to be mother to the kids (as you are having custody of the kids). She can't do it because her condition does not give her the energy They are 12, 9 and 6yeras old. The only thing your present wife do is cooking after that, you are everything of these kids. Sleep, bathing, school, and other house chores 1 Like |
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by hanymasahun: 8:45pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Don't know how to explain better but let me put it in this way Why do we need two house why one is enough, why do we need more than one cars why one is enough. The same thing goes for wife when one busy the other one take position, when one need rest the other one move on, when one need repair or service the other one get to work. And Population of woman is more than men so there is reasons for that. Speaking from experience if you want best out of your wife married two the competition will favor you. |
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Truvelisback(m): 8:52pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
talented321:That's why I said in my previous comment that if you are rich or have the resources to take care of your wives and children, it is a good idea. Although it has its own disadvantages likewise monogamy has its own disadvantages too. |
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by talented321: 8:55pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Normally everything has good and bad'' but even if we happen to marry two wives we need to control the birth rate especially the struggling men. Truvelisback: |
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Truvelisback(m): 9:03pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
talented321:Yes, polygamy will only be good if you are rich or doing well or your wives are financially independent. I know several guys who have at least, two wives that the wives takes care of them. This is because the wives are financially independent. |
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by talented321: 9:10pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Just imagine'' what if the women are not financially okay' the the family will just sink and the innocent children will face a sorrowful and painful'' nigeria need to adjust many things. Imagine forcing ur children to go and live on their own when you haven't done any better thing for them'' Well everybody with his own choice. Truvelisback: |
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Charly68: 9:16pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Our fathers practice polygamy because of their farming occupation. Anything outside that is greed and avarice .. Too much lust for women forces many to marry more wives that they can't take good care of 1 Like |
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Truvelisback(m): 9:19pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
talented321:It would be hell. That's why I said if you are rich or doing well as a guy, or your wives are financially independent, you will enjoy it. |
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Laopangjiaspice: 9:22pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Gamesmart:YOU ARE A GOOD ELDER. A VERY INTELLIGENT ONE. I SALUTE YOU |
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by jojothaiv(m): 9:28pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
πππππππππ Na here we gather dey wey one sheke like that say she no mind if she be 4th so far the man get serious bar and she even admit say na her ambition be that. Ordinarily, guy man wey dey hustle no suppose reason that kain yarnings but on a second thought, after everywhere don burst, God don pick guy man call give money wey long wetin you think him go do with the bannies wey wan dey gum body, him go shenk them abi? Nairaland be like wetin I just know this days, na very anyhow matters just dey show face, e align e no align, the moderators wey dey on two weeks schnapps go don rush push am enter front page. |
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by kazyhm(m): 9:29pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Puss360: It seems you're deficient in statistics.....it very sad that you don't know what proving a pint is. |
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Puss360(f): 9:31pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
kazyhm:Ok 1 Like |
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by kazyhm(m): 9:31pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
talented321: Feeding is subjective.... Contentment is virtue.... It is a well know fact that a man with one wife loves his wife A man with more than one wives loves himself. What would you have done when loving someone else becomes a disadvantage? Think about this Female = chaos Male = Order I hope you understand? |
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Yinkusgold: 9:33pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Puss360: Exaggeration Abdullahi45 1 Like |
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Yinkusgold: 9:43pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Expanse2020: You are ignorant Ignoramus with stupid and misleading statistics, go and check population of male to female in the world, nonsense! Read and research more , don't you know that there are more baby boys at birth in human? IconicR |
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Yinkusgold: 9:47pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Jovialjune1: Don't mind the ignorance, he should check global sex ratio and boys are produced more than girls in human. |
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by kazyhm(m): 9:50pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Jovialjune1: Female are more that male in population... Population of Female of marriageable age is more than the population of male of marriageable age ( famale mature faster) Population of Rich male is more than the population of rich female If I can help you with the factor of the statistics especially as it relate to probable relationship between male and female |
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Nobody: 9:50pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Yinkusgold:More baby boys at birth? I don't believe this |
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by KnownUnknown: 9:52pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
talented321: Women don suffer!! They are not people but property to be acquired. Lol |
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by talented321: 9:54pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
No be small' KnownUnknown: |
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Yinkusgold: 9:56pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
IconicR: It's because you are ignorant of the fact, my research in Unilag was sex ratio and multiple births in human. There are more boys because y (male) chromosomes sperm can run faster than the x (female) chromosomess sperm in fertilization.. Begin your findings tomorrow, by visiting hospitals ,, either private or public and check birth records, looking for sex ratio (male : female) sex ratio, you will be more enlightened. It's a human thing,, not only in Nigeria. |
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Nobody: 9:57pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Yinkusgold:Why then is the population of females far more than the males |
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