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Re: What's Your Opinion About Splitting Bills With Your Partner? by Kingson28: 4:36pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
If you want to split the bill's, then you must split the chores too or you must employ a maid to do the chores. She can't go to work like you do and still be expected to cook, clean and take the kid to and from school. So, if you're splitting the bills you MUST split the chores as well. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What's Your Opinion About Splitting Bills With Your Partner? by BloomingDale(f): 4:37pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Nickelodeon93: Who will go to the market, buy the foodstuffs, cook and clean? 2 Likes |
Re: What's Your Opinion About Splitting Bills With Your Partner? by BloomingDale(f): 4:40pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
omega25red: Hope you also cook for yourself, do your laundry, clean your side of the house etc likewise she also cooks for herself, does her laundry etc, then you guys split the care of the children 50/50. 2 Likes |
Re: What's Your Opinion About Splitting Bills With Your Partner? by PeachtreeReside(f): 4:41pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Every woman and man in a relationship must partake in the bills paying of a home they co-habit in. That is why a man should not prevent a woman from working or being ambitious for any reasos whatsoever so that when it comes to bills being paid it won't become a problem in the future. That is why marriages crash when they get abroad. Both genders must work and contribute even if the other party is wealthier. 1 Like |
Re: What's Your Opinion About Splitting Bills With Your Partner? by BigIyanga: 4:42pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
BlissGod:If you’re a man , you’ll die faster. Your wife contributing to family’s upkeep will elongate your life since there is shared financial burden. No go keel yourself trying to be a real man.. u go die faster |
Re: What's Your Opinion About Splitting Bills With Your Partner? by BloomingDale(f): 4:43pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
nkemdi89: Make sure you are also splitting the housework and care of the children with him, so you don’t age faster than him. 3 Likes |
Re: What's Your Opinion About Splitting Bills With Your Partner? by bukatyne(f): 4:52pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
labake1: Please where can I find Kie Kie's interview? |
Re: What's Your Opinion About Splitting Bills With Your Partner? by Silentgroper(m): 4:55pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Well, she is a partner isnt she.. |
Re: What's Your Opinion About Splitting Bills With Your Partner? by bukatyne(f): 4:58pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
raumdeuter: Dayo! Dayo!! Happy new years ke! Where have you been hiding since? |
Re: What's Your Opinion About Splitting Bills With Your Partner? by Deepthoughts: 4:58pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
labake1:please let me ask a question,for a woman in marriage,what does she really make money for? |
Re: What's Your Opinion About Splitting Bills With Your Partner? by Silentgroper(m): 4:59pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Kingson28:Men has been doing chores since time immemorial. |
Re: What's Your Opinion About Splitting Bills With Your Partner? by Deepthoughts: 4:59pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
labake1:Have you be small pikin?. |
Re: What's Your Opinion About Splitting Bills With Your Partner? by bukatyne(f): 5:00pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
aestake: Bring that energy when it comes to housework. In man & woman matters, both parties always want to eat their cake & have it. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What's Your Opinion About Splitting Bills With Your Partner? by raumdeuter: 5:01pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
bukatyne: Long time, How have you been and hows family? I dey sport section mainly since our usual section no too dey sweet again |
Re: What's Your Opinion About Splitting Bills With Your Partner? by Deepthoughts: 5:02pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
labake1:He is only saying, women should learn n appreciate the value of collective effort and cooperation. |
Re: What's Your Opinion About Splitting Bills With Your Partner? by Deepthoughts: 5:04pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
BlissGod:so what is supporting the home? |
Re: What's Your Opinion About Splitting Bills With Your Partner? by phemmyfour: 5:05pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
labake1:There is no one size fits all. Stop making rules about money in your home. If you say 60/40, if he loses his job or you lose yours tomorrow, will you come back and change it to 0/100 or 100/0 If both parties are mature financially, all these algebra about payment of bills won't be necessary 1 Like |
Re: What's Your Opinion About Splitting Bills With Your Partner? by Deepthoughts: 5:06pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
labake1:Good luck to you. |
Re: What's Your Opinion About Splitting Bills With Your Partner? by bukatyne(f): 5:08pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Konjiboii: So women who split bills withtheir husbands don't get cheated on? Or you think we are living under the rock? 2 Likes |
Re: What's Your Opinion About Splitting Bills With Your Partner? by bukatyne(f): 5:12pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Kingson28: 😄 🤣 😂 😆 😄 🤣 😂 😆 😄 Did you see any of them mention chores? The only thing done in a marriage according to them is pay bills 3 Likes |
Re: What's Your Opinion About Splitting Bills With Your Partner? by fineberry(m): 5:13pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Like if you feel this topic has been over flog, share if you feel it cannot be over emphasize. |
Re: What's Your Opinion About Splitting Bills With Your Partner? by bukatyne(f): 5:14pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
raumdeuter: We are good and yours? I agree with you joor that family section & NL generally is not sweet again. Good to catch up with you here. |
Re: What's Your Opinion About Splitting Bills With Your Partner? by sulakishop(m): 5:14pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
50-50. We're equal |
Re: What's Your Opinion About Splitting Bills With Your Partner? by NoToPile: 5:38pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Kingson28: Somebody has said it finally. They didn't mention it in the 3 pages. It is only bills Nairaland men want to split, they will never ever ever split chores. If chores and nurturing is just chores and not a big deal, then providing is just providing and also not a big deal. If it's not manly to be domesticated then it's not womanly to provide money Let everybody carry his/her cross and rest. Ladies should stop falling for that scam, you will provide money , born pikin, nurture, do all the housework and all he does is provide money? Money you are already making? Na Scam. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What's Your Opinion About Splitting Bills With Your Partner? by Chizigreat(m): 5:45pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Your Faith Must Be Anchored On This To Command Result. Apostle Joshua Selman. Listen. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pl3JgDWy538?si=lU5sMxmgMajwSnfY |
Re: What's Your Opinion About Splitting Bills With Your Partner? by Nickelodeon93: 6:19pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
BloomingDale:I am talking about partner wey get em own house |
Re: What's Your Opinion About Splitting Bills With Your Partner? by MzErica(f): 6:57pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
NastiLord: E pain am
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Re: What's Your Opinion About Splitting Bills With Your Partner? by Little21: 7:08pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
NoToPile:They would never talk about the house chores.. cuz it's not a big deal to them. If house chores is not a big deal, then making money isn't. So they shouldn't be pained when woman says she can't split the bills. They want a woman that will do the house chores, split the bills, and bow to them as the head of the house. Without doing all that then you are a feminist to them. So just let them keep dreaming. 3 Likes |
Re: What's Your Opinion About Splitting Bills With Your Partner? by JapaPrince: 7:10pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
My mother had a career, worked, and earned a reasonable income, which she selflessly used to support our family. I appreciate this reality, and I am committed to not marrying someone who believes that a man should bear all the financial responsibilities within a family. In return, I am willing to share household duties, such as cleaning, washing, and cooking, and I promise never to be unfaithful. I understand that money is not the sole foundation of a successful marriage; we both contribute to our family's growth. I am not controlling and value her input. This is my perspective; any woman who expects a "baby girl treatment" is not the right match for me, and it's a matter of personal preference, not a judgment. 5 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: What's Your Opinion About Splitting Bills With Your Partner? by RPG2020(m): 7:22pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
advanceDNA: Abeg wetin you dey take wey make you get sense like this recommend that shit for me |
Re: What's Your Opinion About Splitting Bills With Your Partner? by advanceDNA: 7:43pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
RPG2020: Baba no dey whine me |
Re: What's Your Opinion About Splitting Bills With Your Partner? by rosalieene(f): 7:47pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
I will not split bills. However, my partner is an amazing man and a selfless giver; I will assist with bills here and there but you see that sharing formula? No, supporting financially is the right term. I can go way and above for my partner because he takes my personal need as his problem. This doesn’t change the fact that he is the main breadwinner while I am his support system. Thankfully, he understands this and that’s how we will run our home. I will contribute but never on sharing formula. 2 Likes |
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