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Re: Your First Time Of Visiting A Guy, And This Happens. What Would You Do? by Babastrong(m): 5:39pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
As
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have
to
join,
though
iya-oko
will
surely
not
gree
give
you
turning
stick
to
do
amala
or
cook
on
your
first
visit.
WAIT,
APART
FROM
BEING
MY
WIFE,
I
GO
TAKE
YOU(FEMALE)
GO
MY
HOUSE
AND
YOU
WILL
SEE
MY
MAMA
COOKING
BUT
YOU
WILL
NOT
PRETEND
TO
ASSIST
HER.
YOU
DEY
CRAZY
BE
THAT. |
Re: Your First Time Of Visiting A Guy, And This Happens. What Would You Do? by imagrg(m): 5:53pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
You are not a wife material. Puss360: |
Re: Your First Time Of Visiting A Guy, And This Happens. What Would You Do? by Puss360(f): 5:55pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
imagrg:If a woman that slaves herself is now a wife material to you, then we aren't on the same page... Besides, how you rate your wife is how others will rate them and see them.. |
Re: Your First Time Of Visiting A Guy, And This Happens. What Would You Do? by izubext007: 5:56pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
U are not supposed to..... ladies who do that end up to be cat🐈 and rat🐀 with their mother in law. Observation is key |
Re: Your First Time Of Visiting A Guy, And This Happens. What Would You Do? by phemray(m): 6:19pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
Puss360: Anyway it depends on how long you and the guy have been dating. But generally Africans do keep seriously to first impression which they say ,do last longer. in case you don't have the opportunity of visiting again immediately. It does not mean that you are bad or disrespectful The memory might not be ok as African except you requested to assist and she said no(better). But, if you have been calling n chatting her on WhatsApp showing her the kinds of your stuff, hair, clothings , cookings, bags, shoes etc. Then she will not really see u as first timer |
Re: Your First Time Of Visiting A Guy, And This Happens. What Would You Do? by BluntCrazeMan: 6:43pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
englishmart:Girlfriend?? Visiting family house of the boyfriend for the first time? .... If his people knew she was coming, then she was a special visitor. So, all eyes will be on her. His people would respect themselves, because that would be the same as respecting him and his special visitor. So, she would sit there, as the novice and visitor she is. ... If they just visited with the boyfriend giving a prior notice of visiting with her. That means, his people were not expecting her. She is now a STRANGER to them, and not even a visitor. So, why would a stranger enter the kitchen? As-per what exactly? ... So, in conclusion,, she shouldn't just enter the kitchen.. So far that is her first visit. |
Re: Your First Time Of Visiting A Guy, And This Happens. What Would You Do? by BluntCrazeMan: 6:44pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
Dangrace01:The African mother must be a trouble maker. Like,, who does that? Any lady you see with your son, the next thing, she's in your kitchen that same day they both came for the first time? |
Re: Your First Time Of Visiting A Guy, And This Happens. What Would You Do? by Puss360(f): 7:08pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
phemray:Yes that's true... Africans do keep seriously to first impression... But it's always good to set standard to your guy that you aren't a pushover... I'm sure his mother is aware that he is bringing me... So she will prepare for my arrival.. At least let me feel comfortable.. I can assist to do the dishes after eating.. Then me and she talks and share minds.... But to begin enter house dey do househelp immediately, nooo... |
Re: Your First Time Of Visiting A Guy, And This Happens. What Would You Do? by Ate247(m): 7:45pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
Dangrace01:my mom won't even allow you to join her in the kitchen. You're her visitor. |
Re: Your First Time Of Visiting A Guy, And This Happens. What Would You Do? by beardedboy(m): 7:48pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
illicit:Firstly, those are skilled tasks not basic domestic skills. How can you compare the two? Secondly, yes I'll at least do whatever it is I can to help him even if it's helping him carry a thing or two. There's no where in the world that watching an elder do something without trying to help is a good thing. Away with the toxic wokeness. |
Re: Your First Time Of Visiting A Guy, And This Happens. What Would You Do? by IMPARTIAL: 8:04pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
Offer the woman help. Let her refuse. If she does not, continue. |
Re: Your First Time Of Visiting A Guy, And This Happens. What Would You Do? by Honestfrend: 8:18pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
pansophist: This table when u dey shake na only 3 legs e get.. 1 Like |
Re: Your First Time Of Visiting A Guy, And This Happens. What Would You Do? by OLULAW: 10:12pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
Question coming from someone with no home training. |
Re: Your First Time Of Visiting A Guy, And This Happens. What Would You Do? by Allfavours: 11:20pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
All this grammar wey full here,I hope say na so e be |
Re: Your First Time Of Visiting A Guy, And This Happens. What Would You Do? by franksam209: 6:31am On Oct 29, 2023 |
englishmart:this is one way to know nairaland's children community lolz |
Re: Your First Time Of Visiting A Guy, And This Happens. What Would You Do? by franksam209: 6:34am On Oct 29, 2023 |
illicit:lolz I hope you will do this when the time comes |
Re: Your First Time Of Visiting A Guy, And This Happens. What Would You Do? by skedy1(m): 7:51am On Oct 29, 2023 |
Just be yourself. If you're one that can't see an elderly or any woman cooking without helping, then help her. If you're still the one that can't do so, go on. Just be yourself. |
Re: Your First Time Of Visiting A Guy, And This Happens. What Would You Do? by Konjiboii: 11:44am On Oct 29, 2023 |
Dangrace01: It's not just an African thing, a girl with good upbringing will make an attempt to assist even if it's the minute work like setting the table |
Re: Your First Time Of Visiting A Guy, And This Happens. What Would You Do? by BALLOSKI: 2:04pm On Oct 29, 2023 |
englishmart:You want her to find your mom as her opponent for the rest of her life? |
Re: Your First Time Of Visiting A Guy, And This Happens. What Would You Do? by Afolue(m): 2:26pm On Oct 29, 2023 |
She will be too forward helping out for the first time not even second |
Re: Your First Time Of Visiting A Guy, And This Happens. What Would You Do? by Echo50(m): 3:32pm On Oct 29, 2023 |
englishmart: Wisdom demands that, you sit down and undergo the introduction process. With time, she will get use to the family and access will be given to her to cook but not on first visit. Abi you want to kill the whole family? |
Re: Your First Time Of Visiting A Guy, And This Happens. What Would You Do? by smasher1(m): 6:24pm On Oct 29, 2023 |
Boogyman557: All the girls I was interested in know how to cook. Perhaps they form the other 22% |
Re: Your First Time Of Visiting A Guy, And This Happens. What Would You Do? by franksam209: 12:15pm On Oct 30, 2023 |
Nigerians!!! Most of y'all making these rubbish comments will not try these rubbish when it their turn to meet their mother in-law, but will advice others who are not wise to do otherwise.. When you meet your mother in-law, you can sit in the parlour cross your legs and wait for her to finish cooking and serve you, and then you see first hand what happens next lolz, very funny.. |
Re: Your First Time Of Visiting A Guy, And This Happens. What Would You Do? by xtreme07(m): 1:29am On Oct 31, 2023 |
spiritedtete:bros help me, pls. |
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