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Nonexisting1:
Make she go wash put inside the food and have the whole family simp for her. Kings, never give them access to your family's foods. Don't say you are not warned.

IconicR:
How about if she doesn't know how to cook?

It's barbaric to allow such thing hian

Like y d fvck wont she knw how to cook??

U no sabi cook, u dey follo somebody's son say na ur bf...

Aunty, if d mama no pursue u comot, mke i hear wetin happen..

But rose, can u cook?

Samantha124:
I will sit and wait to be served because I don't know what she's cooking and how she's cooking it.

It'll only seem disrespectful of me being a new guest, but already being too forward and all over the place... But I can help her with washing the dishes afterwards.

This is how it actually goes.. She knows u are a guest and shouldnt be anywhere near d kitchen bt she'd expect u to make an attempt to help her out which she'd heavily decline and send u back to ur bf..
d gf just has to make an attempt which simply tells u've got good home training..

That's against my culture... You don't just want to go to your boyfriend's mother's kitchen on your first day as visitor, it'll seem like you're already trying to take over the house and there's even no guarantee that you'll end up being the daughter-in-law... That's disrespectful.

Silentgroper:
This is how it actually goes.. She knows u are a guest and shouldnt be anywhere near d kitchen bt she'd expect u to make an attempt to help her out which she'd heavily decline and send u back to ur bf..
d gf just has to make an attempt which simply tells u've got good home training..

pansophist:
As a boyfriend, you visited your girlfriend's parent for the first time, and met them arguing with the carpenter that they still owe him 20k for his workmanship.

Should the boyfriend pay the 20k, or not?

Lol.. It would look like an insult trying to offer to pay. Especially d dad... Bt if it's just her mom, lol, u'd get shit loads of prayers..
Ordinarily, the dude shouldnt be.. Bt lets say u meet d father struggling to carry something, move or lift something, should the bf as a first timer sit his ass down watching gf's father struggle or make attempt to help out??

ur guess is has good as mine..

Most times, they'd decline ur offer to help them out bt attempting to help only tells them u've got good home training which Nigerian parents are always keen abt..
U sef no go wan go potential in-law make u no make good impression na..

englishmart:
Mature mind only

As a lady your boyfriend took u to his family house for the first time and u met her mother cooking, are you suppose to join her in the kitchen or u seat as a visitor and allow her to finish the cooking and serve u ?
Remember it's the first time meeting the family

its polite to ask his mum if you may be of help, but at the same time you must know your boundaries cos he hasn't proposed to you yet...you are still and just his girlfriend.

just use ur head.

Samantha124:
That's against my culture... You don't just want to go to your boyfriend's mother's kitchen on your first day as visitor, it'll seem like you're already trying to take over the house and there's even no guarantee that you'll end up being the daughter-in-law... That's disrespectful.

Down here, it's nt seen that way.. it's all abt d 1st time good impression. Yes, u may nt end up being d daughter in law which has nothing to do with d mother in most cases cause that's d decision that solely depends on bf.. Bt d mother would be so fond of that d gf which gives gf an edge.. Mothers would always want sons to marry that girl they're fond of and has a good home training..

Samantha124:
I will sit and wait to be served because I don't know what she's cooking and how she's cooking it.

It'll only seem disrespectful of me being a new guest, but already being too forward and all over the place... But I can help her with washing the dishes afterwards.

wife material

Dangrace01:

South African girl shut your mouth.

U, shut ur mouth too, asswipe.

99.9% of ladies pretend a lot on their first meeting with their boyfriends parents just so they could score some points.

As the boyfriend's mother, you can't just conclude that she has a good home training just because she asked to help in the kitchen... We just fake it so that we can please them and then enjoy our boyfriends...

Silentgroper:
Down here, it's nt seen that way.. it's all abt d 1st time good impression. Yes, u may nt end up being d daughter in law which has nothing to do with d mother in most cases cause that's d decision that solely depends on bf.. Bt d mother would be so fond of that d gf which gives gf an edge.. Mothers would always want sons to marry that girl they're fond of and has a good home training..

Dangrace01:
Join her in the kitchen. African mothers always use this to test their son's girlfriend.

I will personally chase her out of that kitchen if she tries it. Thank God for the type of Mom I have sha, she will not allow her.

Highest thing you can do is wash the dishes afterwards.

Samantha124:
99.9% of ladies pretend a lot on their first meeting with their boyfriends parents just so they could score some points.

As the boyfriend's mother, you can't just conclude that she has a good home training just because she asked to help in the kitchen... We just fake it so that we can please them and then enjoy our boyfriends...

well u fake it till u make it.. It's all good. ..
Yeah, she cant make a conclusion on that yet bt it's seen as a starter..

Why do i so much like d sound of " enjoy our boyfriends"

JASONjnr:


Nigeria makes very inconvenient traditions and it used to work for them back then.


These days it doesn't matter if the lady choses to join in the kitchen or not.


My mother wouldn't allow my woman on her first visit to join in the kitchen. More so, if she chooses to do so, we might just see her to be a pretender.

The best way is to be yourself. If the mother-in-law to be wants you in the kitchen, the lady should do so, it wouldn't take anything away from her.

You get it

Silentgroper:
Like y d fvck wont she knw how to cook??

U no sabi cook, u dey follo somebody's son say na ur bf...

Aunty, if d mama no pursue u comot, mke i hear wetin happen..

But rose, can u cook?

I can cook but not all meals

Egusi is very hard sha

Noo, you mustn't like that sound...

As a boyfriend, would you also give your girlfriend's parents some money on your first visit to just show them that you're capable of providing for their daughter?

Silentgroper:

well u fake it till u make it.. It's all good. ..
Yeah, she cant make a conclusion on that yet bt it's seen as a starter..

Why do i so much like d sound of " enjoy our boyfriends"

Silentgroper:
U, shut ur mouth too, asswipe.

Who b dis 1

No, to a responsible it would look weird.


You should be in the living room getting to know the family and not in the kitchen getting to know how they cook, at least itsy your first.

So it's your parents that would determine if your fiancee is wife material or not? That's nonsense.

So guy cannot know if their wife to be can cook or know how to do home chores until she proof it in thier parents home?

Smh

Nonexisting1:
Make she go wash put inside the food and have the whole family simp for her. Kings, never give them access to your family's foods. Don't say you are not warned.

Wise one.

Samantha124:
Noo, you mustn't like that sound...

As a boyfriend, would you also give your girlfriend's parents some money on your first visit to just show them that you're capable of providing for their daughter?

Depends.. If they ask ... Bt offering it, nah her dad would be so mad at me..

... I'm already drowned in euphoria from d sound of dat.. . There is no stopping it..

IconicR:
I can cook but not all meals

Egusi is very hard sha

Egusi?? Lol.. I think egusi is very direct.. Is it just making egusi that's hard or when u mix with efo

I have no words for you...😂😂😂... Just go to church tomorrow because only God can intervene.😂😂😂

Silentgroper:
Depends.. If they ask ... Bt offering it, nah her dad would be so mad at me..

... I'm already drowned in euphoria from d sound of dat.. . There is no stopping it..

[quote author=Samantha124 post=126109785]I have no words for you...

Samantha124:
99.9% of ladies pretend a lot on their first meeting with their boyfriends parents just so they could score some points.

As the boyfriend's mother, you can't just conclude that she has a good home training just because she asked to help in the kitchen... We just fake it so that we can please them and then enjoy our boyfriends...

This gender, I don't take them serious

Silentgroper:
Egusi?? Lol.. I think egusi is very direct.. Is it just making egusi that's hard or when u mix with efo

The various ways of cooking it

😂

[quote author=IconicR post=126111455] The various ways of cooking it

[quote author=Silentgroper post=126110020][/quote]

Yet you'll be doing push-ups on top of one tonight...

id4sho:


This gender, I don't take them serious

Samantha124:

Oh shit!! It happened again...

id4sho:


This gender, I don't take them serious

hahaha.. Pretense is like a normal way of life to them.. As annoying as they can be, they can adorable too..

Your problem is serious...

Silentgroper:
Oh shit!! It happened again...

Samantha124:
Your problem is serious...

I knw right.

I need saving..

come be my saviour