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Re: Families In Africa Act As If They Own You When You Make Money- Mikel Obi Laments by Bukola94: 4:37pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
Hezzyluv:There is luv in sharing, I learnt to be a cheerful giver,I learnt that from father 1 Like |
Re: Families In Africa Act As If They Own You When You Make Money- Mikel Obi Laments by Bukola94: 4:39pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
joseph1832:Na them owe is dead body too. He no go take the bags go heaven 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Families In Africa Act As If They Own You When You Make Money- Mikel Obi Laments by Darkjudge24: 4:46pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
Mindlog:No matter what u say, family is u,u are family,so when u are up try to upgrade ur family 1 Like |
Re: Families In Africa Act As If They Own You When You Make Money- Mikel Obi Laments by hiziks: 4:47pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
Error401: How much of your current savings are you spending on your family? |
Re: Families In Africa Act As If They Own You When You Make Money- Mikel Obi Laments by Whalis: 4:56pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
Bukola94:Don't mind stupid people quoting who knows nothing about him. |
Re: Families In Africa Act As If They Own You When You Make Money- Mikel Obi Laments by Ishilove: 4:57pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
nedekid:Bro, it is not an excuse. So if there is no wealthy person in that family, that is how they will just birth innocent kids to suffer? What happened to family planning that is subsidized in government hospitals? 2 Likes |
Re: Families In Africa Act As If They Own You When You Make Money- Mikel Obi Laments by nedekid: 4:57pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
Ishilove:You are right jare. |
Re: Families In Africa Act As If They Own You When You Make Money- Mikel Obi Laments by saasala(m): 4:59pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
Mindlog: I won carry go chop better catfish peppersoup and Heineken. I just gbadun |
Re: Families In Africa Act As If They Own You When You Make Money- Mikel Obi Laments by coputa(m): 5:02pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
Who own you before, when the chips are down all your friends will runaway, your family is all you have,so when you have the means take care of them,if not you will regret in the long run. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Families In Africa Act As If They Own You When You Make Money- Mikel Obi Laments by Mindlog: 5:12pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
Darkjudge24: When you exert all human efforts to upgrade your family but they willfully choose pathways that continually exerts on you.....be humble enough to accept the fact that you are not their Messiah. Rationalize how it is okay for you to be disciplined enough to have only 2 children and it is your responsibility to cater for your siblings who are birthing 5-7 children? 2 Likes |
Re: Families In Africa Act As If They Own You When You Make Money- Mikel Obi Laments by FireUpNow(m): 5:14pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
Over billing don injure this guy oo. Mikel should know that Africans are poor, no work and no capital to begin a business. H can help those he wants to help and just keep calm. 1 Like |
Re: Families In Africa Act As If They Own You When You Make Money- Mikel Obi Laments by Pauliaette(m): 5:19pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
Be nko! No be Sadio Mane built, help, improve the livlihood of the people of Senegalese? No complaint 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Families In Africa Act As If They Own You When You Make Money- Mikel Obi Laments by yommen: 5:28pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
DonBenny77:. Imagine. How much have I made to compare myself to Mikel Obi ntori Oloun? |
Re: Families In Africa Act As If They Own You When You Make Money- Mikel Obi Laments by Error401: 5:35pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
You dont have to know, they are not suffering, and when they ask me, I give hiziks: 1 Like |
Re: Families In Africa Act As If They Own You When You Make Money- Mikel Obi Laments by sorepco(m): 6:10pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
Yeah true talk indeed. I blame some of these abroad guys. If a family member comes to u for aid and you are abroad. Just ask them what they want to do and set them up in that field so that they can take care of their families. If you keep giving them money you are part of the problem. They will see you as a cash cow. If bizness set them up by financing the project after looking at the bizness plan! Theweekend: 2 Likes |
Re: Families In Africa Act As If They Own You When You Make Money- Mikel Obi Laments by achimendy(m): 6:21pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
mariahAngel: Exactly |
Re: Families In Africa Act As If They Own You When You Make Money- Mikel Obi Laments by achimendy(m): 6:26pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
DonBenny77: Will you shut up your dirty mouth. Those that have never test success in their life are the ones to first talk how successful people should spend their money. You're a man like him so go hustle and make that money, so you can be sharing to family and friends. So many entitled pigs this days. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Families In Africa Act As If They Own You When You Make Money- Mikel Obi Laments by Blackdisciple(m): 6:27pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
Lolzzz we are Africans 1 Like |
Re: Families In Africa Act As If They Own You When You Make Money- Mikel Obi Laments by achimendy(m): 6:29pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
sorepco: This one never jam irresponsible and reckless money spenders. The problem is entitlement, we have too many of them in Africa. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Families In Africa Act As If They Own You When You Make Money- Mikel Obi Laments by Nolevel666: 6:48pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
DonBenny77: You day mad |
Re: Families In Africa Act As If They Own You When You Make Money- Mikel Obi Laments by Nolevel666: 6:50pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
Mindlog:Can 10 nuclear bombs be louder than this? No!!! 1 Like |
Re: Families In Africa Act As If They Own You When You Make Money- Mikel Obi Laments by 4KNGOATS(m): 6:58pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
Words of a stingy bastardzzz |
Re: Families In Africa Act As If They Own You When You Make Money- Mikel Obi Laments by o123456789(m): 6:58pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
Mikel Obi is speaking about my current situation, Omo e nor easy, better to be hard on them, because they will never use the money you give to them wisely... Ok what if the rich family member who shares these money die, then who will fund their entitled lavish lifestyle? 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Families In Africa Act As If They Own You When You Make Money- Mikel Obi Laments by Druss(m): 7:29pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
I felt ashamed for Mikel when I heard this. Compare to Mane. Mane has done so much for his people. |
Re: Families In Africa Act As If They Own You When You Make Money- Mikel Obi Laments by Druss(m): 7:34pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
casualobserver: Exactly. You got it. I felt ashamed for the guy. He even said it on talksport - one of the gutters of English radio. I am very embarrassed for him. 2 Likes |
Re: Families In Africa Act As If They Own You When You Make Money- Mikel Obi Laments by MichaelSokoto(m): 7:41pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
Angelfrost:Oga, if u got extra money dat is spendable but u can't spend it because pesin asking u 4 it is not ur family, guy na stinginess be dat... Akagum! |
Re: Families In Africa Act As If They Own You When You Make Money- Mikel Obi Laments by Blue3k(m): 7:48pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
He shouldn't concern himself with the opinions of unproductive losers whether they're you're friends, family or strangers. You're only responsibility is to yourself and your minor children. If you want to give past that it's out of your abundance, generosity, and being neighborly. The only thing a person is entitled to is the productivity of their own hands by right. 1 Like |
Re: Families In Africa Act As If They Own You When You Make Money- Mikel Obi Laments by Angelfrost(m): 7:51pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
MichaelSokoto: Bro, you are mixing things up and failing to get the message here. Generosity is good, and giving remains a righteous virtue. However, no one should lay demands on others all because they are rich or richer. Everyone should make effort to earn his own keep, and learn to be content. Philanthropy is no one's right. Gifts are privileges bestowed by those who feel the need to... No one should demand for handouts. 3 Likes |
Re: Families In Africa Act As If They Own You When You Make Money- Mikel Obi Laments by Mindlog: 7:52pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
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Re: Families In Africa Act As If They Own You When You Make Money- Mikel Obi Laments by Lamasta(m): 8:10pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
NAC1666:What have you yourself done for the grassroot you came from |
Re: Families In Africa Act As If They Own You When You Make Money- Mikel Obi Laments by Morphinne: 8:21pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
DonBenny77:This is an unpopular opinion and most people won’t like this but you’re defined making sense. Though the entitlement mentality among Africans should not be encouraged (I myself won’t condone it from anyone no matter how close you are) but rich folks should always strive to empower their family members before considering outsiders because your family will always remain your family no matter what. Some people in our society today enjoy being nice towards outsiders and empowering mainly for clout, leaving their families in penury. Mind you, I purposely said ‘empower’ and this is not to be mistaken for just giving and giving each time they ask because I will personally not condone you coming to me for assistance each and every time you need help. I’ll rather find a way to make you financially stable on your own and this will not be done at my own expense. Africans need to do away with this ugly culture of expecting others to provide for them what they can’t provide for themselves. For this guy to say this in public, it’s obvious they’ve choked him. |
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