If you help a man, he will appreciate it for a long time. If you forget, he will remind you. It is as if he owes you a debt. The guy that helped me to bring back Nairaland in 2014 could do no wrong in my eyes until last year. And even now, you won't catch me saying anything against him.

If you help a woman, she will appreciate it for a short time. 3 days. A week. A month. 3 months. Then it's as if you never helped her. It's history. Your help is like a subscription. Once it expires, you can be ghosted. Unless you renew it. And there are many other subscribers, so stop feeling as if yours was such a big deal. 😭

PS: Please o; I don't do redpill. Women are not ungrateful. They recieve help all the time, which they deserve. I'm just speaking from pain. 😭

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your help to a lady is like a subscription
Cracked me up

Too true

Seun:


If you help a woman, she will appreciate it for a short time. A day. A week. A month. Then it's as if you never helped her. It's history. Your help is like a subscription. Once it expires, you can be ghosted. And there are many subscribers, so stop feeling as if yours was such a big deal. 😭

You chose to speak facts this morning!!! 🤣 🤣 🤣

Seun:
If you help a man, he will appreciate it for a long time. If you forget, he will remind you. It is as if he owes you a debt. The guy that helped me to bring back Nairaland in 2014 could do no wrong in my eyes until last year. And even now, you won't catch me saying anything against him.

If you help a woman, she will appreciate it for a short time. A day. A week. A month. Then it's as if you never helped her. It's history. Your help is like a subscription. Once it expires, you can be ghosted. And there are many subscribers, so stop feeling as if yours was such a big deal. 😭

Whatever you do for your fellow man... Is only keep for me

Agreed.
This beautiful gurl I began dating started giving me the cold shoulder because I didn't give her Christmas money. She forgot the other times I gave her money freely.
I wonder how broke girls try to broke shame guys .. the audacity.

Misogyny.
Stone this man 😂😂

That’s why we don’t need to help women, the subscription goes with her services, she can fvk the hell out anytime she wants

Jeon jennyclay baby can I subscribe una as seun say per subscription

Who broke your heart?

Exactly my point 💯

This is exactly what redpillers have been preaching on nairaland for ages, but SIMPS just like the SIMPLETON above won't listen.

A woman's love for you is conditional, she only loves you because of the gifts and money she's getting from you. The moment you stop giving her gifts and money, her love for you reduces and fades away, there she goes looking for another Scape goat to manipulate and cash out from.

Helping a woman, esp a gf is like throwing your money away. Once you stops giving, she forgets everything you have done for her in the time past, she'll even ask you "what exactly did you do for her" 😂 This is exactly why I have no pity for SIMPS who literally jump up at any given opportunity to please and impress a woman into loving them

Seun sissy farano disguy nlfpmod

This is worthy of front-page for wider views

kkins25:


You chose to speak facts this morning!!! 🤣 🤣 🤣

I'm surprised too bro.

Never knew the guy was a redpiller too

Oga Seun isn't lying. Sometime in 2009, As a young guy in secondary school then, I was one day hungry and went to an empty class to cry cuz I use to be a very shy guy then. There was this lady who found me crying and left to get me snacks and zobo drink (Omo life came back to me in a split second)

What the classmate of mine did imprinted her name on a Golden plate in my heart that day till today, Apart from my family members, she's the only human that'd ask me something and I'd never say No even if she asked in millions

NB.: I've never got to remind her that was what she did to me far back 2009 to warrant all the favour she gets from me (her mind think she got my mumu button) if only she knows the reason

Women are naturally ingrates (no offense) the moment she sees a better offer her subscription to you will expire 😂 … and they have this defensive-mechanism mentality that will make it seem like — because you did that for her you now feel like you own her ??
Take for example- a man can marry a woman out of pity, but a woman can never do same.. in fact, once a man’s situation becomes pitiable the woman dumps him no matter the sacrifices man has made to/for her.
helping a woman is like donating to the orphanage, in fact, the orphanage is better because they will at least appreciate it no matter how small and pray for you..

Seun don dey take red pills. Beware of overdose.

Seun:
If you help a man, he will appreciate it for a long time. If you forget, he will remind you. It is as if he owes you a debt. The guy that helped me to bring back Nairaland in 2014 could do no wrong in my eyes until last year. And even now, you won't catch me saying anything against him.

If you help a woman, she will appreciate it for a short time. A day. A week. A month. Then it's as if you never helped her. It's history. Your help is like a subscription. Once it expires, you can be ghosted. Unless you renew it. And there are many subscribers, so stop feeling as if yours was such a big deal. 😭

Kinda looked here and there and i've come to a conclusion not to help anybody, man or woman.
Charity? NO!
Pious giving? NO!
Help anyone? NO!
Let's be honest, most of the time, the helper gains nothing.

True

If men are up then women are down. That is the duality of nature:

https://www.nairaland.com/7263645/wild-worrisome-ways-women#115372929

i know seun is secretly following the redpill thread.

Is not about helping a woman, you men still want something more under her legs. You always feel entitled to her body, marriage, even her time, is only few good men that don't ask anything in return.

As a lady I always go back to appreciate, is not even a gender thing. But anytime I go back to appreciate is when can we see

Women forget the good u did 4 them easily but not the bad ones
They are the worst when it comes to carrying grudges

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Although a lot of women do this more, maybe 75%...

... I have guys who didn't even regard me after helping them.

But yeah, I'm going to agree with the one for men!

An example is me. I always get reminded of a favour someone did to me immediately I set my eyes on them.

The worst is when it is money and I don't have the means to pay back.

Even if they don't ask, I'll continue to feel uneasy.

Entitlement mentality them

Breakfast na national cake

Seems seun self don collect

is everything ok with seun

they don give you redpill swallow, abi you wan join woman basher them

Dyfynezz12:
Women forget the good u did 4 them easily but not the bad ones
They are the worst when it comes to carrying grudges

Psychologically, emotions are strongly tied to memories. If you positively stimulate a woman's emotions well, you've etched yourself into her mind (that's why some exes can bed them after relationship has ended [even in marriage] ). And it's the same for (strong) negative emotions.

Gratitude is a virtue, not an emotion, so they're quick to forget it.

StrongAlphMale:


I'm surprised too bro.

Never knew the guy was a redpiller too

Person no need be redpiller to fear women. 😂😂😂

StrongAlphMale:
Exactly my point 💯

This is exactly what redpillers have been preaching on nairaland for ages, but SIMPS just like the SIMPLETON above won't listen.

A woman's love for you is conditional, she only loves you because of the gifts and money she's getting from you. The moment you stop giving her gifts and money, her love for you reduces and fades away, there she goes looking for another Scape goat to manipulate and cash out from.

Helping a woman, esp a gf is like throwing your money away. Once you stops giving, she forgets everything you have done for her in the time past, she'll even ask you "what exactly did you do for her" 😂 This is exactly why I have no pity for SIMPS who literally jump up at any given opportunity to please and impress a woman into loving them

Preach preacher!

Help a woman when she needs help, she will only remember you when next she needs help again

You can give a man 1k and he go hail you like say help am secure visa, women are not that appreciative, they can even insult you on top “no be your mate dey dash girls 200k?”

That’s why I don’t have any financial dealing/relationship with anyhow girls, girls I have sent money to without expecting anything in return are girls that have shown me how valuable they are

If girl message me she needs urgent money, it’s because I give her that space, because I have benefited from her before, not necessarily by sexx. Otherwise if you need urgent 2k from me I will need urgent doggy from you as well, I no Dey shame for that one

StrongAlphMale:
Exactly my point 💯

This is exactly what redpillers have been preaching on nairaland for ages, but SIMPS just like the SIMPLETON above won't listen.

A woman's love for you is conditional, she only loves you because of the gifts and money she's getting from you. The moment you stop giving her gifts and money, her love for you reduces and fades away, there she goes looking for another Scape goat to manipulate and cash out from.

Helping a woman, esp a gf is like throwing your money away. Once you stops giving, she forgets everything you have done for her in the time past, she'll even ask you "what exactly did you do for her" 😂 This is exactly why I have no pity for SIMPS who literally jump up at any given opportunity to please and impress a woman into loving them

I will disagree with you slightly on your submission

I carefully select my girls, the type that are valuable and can take care of their basic needs
My girl for example has spent more on me that I have, she gifts more and some times I collect money from her to fix stuff and later send to her, with interest

I don’t have problem helping my girl, because of value we have added to each other, but you see all these entitled ones, Dem no fit see my five naira