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Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by naija4life247: 5:12pm On Mar 14 |
Ance4Liverpool: Any girl that marries a senseless man in this one room is nothing but a cursed vagabond |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by biggie73(m): 5:14pm On Mar 14 |
Yes, just do the needful. It's unfortunate we now place relevance on material stuff. Do what you have to do now. |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by MrCover: 5:15pm On Mar 14 |
Why not 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by Jewessgratitud3: 5:15pm On Mar 14 |
ednut1: That you didn't enjoy certain luxury as a child doesn't mean others didn't. I'm telling you something you're telling me I'm deceiving myself. I was born and brought up at awolowo road ikoyi and You can't get any one room apartment there those days, not even now. It was during my university days I moved to the mainland where people pack themselves like sardines inside one room. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by albert2512: 5:17pm On Mar 14 |
Jewessgratitud3: Love is sweeter in small spaces. But I won't advise they breed here. |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by NELLY1990: 5:17pm On Mar 14 |
Just advertise ur room to the whole world. Nawa o. |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by Awesome01(m): 5:18pm On Mar 14 |
I married into a one room like this in Lagos. Mine is not even nice like this one. Today, I am my own landlord, having tenants soon. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by victorazy(m): 5:18pm On Mar 14 |
Jewessgratitud3: Is called Studio apartment. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by Thewesterner(m): 5:18pm On Mar 14 |
All most all Gen Z will reply NO... NEVER... Dey play |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by SPAMBOX7: 5:21pm On Mar 14 |
Only fools and weak men with no options reason marriage in this generation. 2 Likes |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by Agunesinjaweola: 5:23pm On Mar 14 |
Some that are married are not having privilege of a better place like this. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by edogu(m): 5:27pm On Mar 14 |
Jewessgratitud3:I don't see anything wrong with this room. I and my wife started with self-contained room before we moved to two bedroom apartment. Infact, our first child was six to seven months before we packed out. It all comes down to understanding between the couple involve. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by 96ACE: 5:28pm On Mar 14 |
humilitypays:Very thoughtful of you. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by yesloaded: 5:29pm On Mar 14 |
Jewessgratitud3: No no no At least a room & parlour is fine if you cannot afford a flat 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by tenpipsperday: 5:30pm On Mar 14 |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by 96ACE: 5:30pm On Mar 14 |
mysticwarrior:No be lie, Real matters |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by PointZerom: 5:31pm On Mar 14 |
madone: Don't mind them. I was telling them the other day how people are sleeping in pako houses in Canada they said I was lying. |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by inforesource: 5:31pm On Mar 14 |
I would rather like to see the person's mental room and his inner kitchen |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by bolabadmus38: 5:32pm On Mar 14 |
Cool. I know of a friend that started with ned furniture and laid mat on ,used ordinary clothes as curtains even a boys quarters which sewage chamber passes through his room. But today he lives comfortably in atgree bedroom with the same girl that beacame his wife. We should learn to start small sometimes |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by weedfada(m): 5:32pm On Mar 14 |
You kidding me right. I personally see nothing wrong with this living space. Lots of couples are living happily, peacefully and forging ahead in worse situations.... Lots of millionaires got married in far worse conditions than this. I personally know of a Banks' top executive, who got married to her husband in a face me I face you room. Heck! she even had one of her siblings living with them in that same space. Today she and her husband are fucking millionaires (and I'm being modest), giving out cars, scholarships etc like pure water. Don't wanna let out too many details for privacy sake. Y'all really need to look beyond all these ephemeral type of things when it comes to settling down with someone you love. But hey, to each his own I guess. To answer the question, Yes I can! |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by PointZerom: 5:33pm On Mar 14 |
naija4life247: Do you know how much a room like this goes in VI lagos? Marrying from here doesn't make you a failure. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by seunayantokun(m): 5:34pm On Mar 14 |
It is a good small beginning. So, yes if |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by geoworldedu: 5:35pm On Mar 14 |
naija4life247:People can marry in any number of rooms. It's not everybody that will end up with a rich man. They can marry from there and become greater, get a 2 bedroom or 3 later. I've seen that kind many times. |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by PointZerom: 5:37pm On Mar 14 |
96ACE: The insult and abuse no be here o. I know one guy that did it, his wife has to runaway, refuses to come back unless the guy rents a house. |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by pansophist(m): 5:39pm On Mar 14 |
There is a reason why if you are learning to drive a car, they always teach you with a manual car, which is more challenging than an automatic car. And it's simply because, in life, hard mode is the default. Easy mode and luxury are privileges/exceptions. If everything in life fails you, then by your very existence, you are thriving in hard mode. Having the above in mind, it is a very narrow worldview to expect a man to marry only when he is living large, especially when ''living large'' is not the default. If you advise a single man not to marry in such an accommodation, would you also advise a married man to divorce his wife if he can't afford a mansion anymore due to life's problems? If you would expect a woman to still be with her husband during challenging times, then why advise a man who is just starting life not to marry in such an apartment? Or advice a woman not to marry such a man? There should be consistency. Whats also the usefulness of such a wife if she is just intending to "move in", instead work and "build with" her man? What's the usefulness of her education and growth then? This is not an encouragement for women to marry losers, but not all broke people are losers. Some men just need sunlight, watering, and photosynthesis to blossom. Team up with him. Nigeria is hard. Being wealthy is not the norm in Nigeria. Everyone is playing the game of life at different levels, or in different stages. If you go to the deepest poorest village anywhere, humans will still form families and thrive in it. If two people mean well to each other, I don't see a reason why a woman and a man can't marry in such an apartment and keep working hard to move into a better place. Most of our parents started like that. This generation and materialism. Na wa 24 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by ikevictor: 5:39pm On Mar 14 |
Aarh! Boys wey de live for this kain room can knack for Africa eeh! They slaughter anything wey wear pant, including their own neighbors teenage daughters... 3 Likes |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by spartachico(m): 5:40pm On Mar 14 |
Yes but no child bearing,must move out before wife gets pregnant |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by youngrichnigga: 5:41pm On Mar 14 |
This is a luxurious room na, people marry into even decrepit rooms with mattress on the floor. So many of the rich families today started out of single rooms (mother, father and children (some other family members), the unrealistic expectations of many youths is what's keeping them from marrying 2 Likes |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by AfroBeatDiary: 5:41pm On Mar 14 |
harjay1986: Most definitely you don't procreate within those periods. We had my child 9 months after our wedding, 2 months to arrival I shouted! My Father My Father!! We need a bigger apartment and it happened! It's not easy getting married in a environment like this but perfect for a bachelor. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by MemoriesAndMe: 5:42pm On Mar 14 |
Jewessgratitud3: Thanks curtains can be replaced with a newer one, it doesn't stop the man from marrying whoever loves him in his current state. |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by Pisol(m): 5:46pm On Mar 14 |
GenderMix: 1 Like |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by millionboi2: 5:46pm On Mar 14 |
Jewessgratitud3:na ppl like you dey force men put hand for wetin pass them. 1 Like |
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