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Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by flatROCKhead: 6:41am On Mar 24 |
AyobamiOluwole:You messed up big time. No be by force na. You lose for futures trading but you still wan bleep. The girl was smart enough to know that you were going to fvckk the futures loss out of her. Na she send you work? Why would you throw her out in the dark like that? You are the wicked and the selfish one. What if she fell into the trap of ritualists, rapistss and what have you? You are an evil being Pls look for a way to apologize to her. If possible, make her happy by buying her stuff 5 Likes |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by obi58: 6:52am On Mar 24 |
funkemary: So you as a babe if a guy that has been giving you gifts asks you to come to his house to 'cuddle' will you honestly go there not knowing what could happen? Why agree to go and cuddle someone from the opposite sex and not expect anything to happen if you are really smart? The worst part is that the girl went there and did not even go with her TP just in case something goes wrong? And you call her smart? Perhaps you are also as 'smart' as her! No free lunch anywhere my sister. If you think you've been smart all this while eating men's money and getting away with it, it's only a matter of time before the cock will come home to roost! 3 Likes |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by thomasjoe(m): 6:52am On Mar 24 |
Yes on your anger but No on the other aspects.. She is not interested and sees you as a simp ! Move on to reclaim your dignity... IMHO there was no need trying to show her back . Next time ,.ignore her and sleep. ! Or light your weed or drink up ! AyobamiOluwole: |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by obi58: 6:56am On Mar 24 |
flatROCKhead: You're joking right? If he feels like buying stuff, he should buy gifts and send to his parents who sacrificed to raise him or better still go to the nearest motherless babies home and invest! If anything the girl should be the one apologising for leading him on! From the onset she should have clearly defined the rules of engagement and let the boy decide if he wanted to continue with this weird relationship/friendship thingy. 1 Like |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Amayabor1: 7:12am On Mar 24 |
Nackzy: Until you are in that situation, then you will know if you can do it or not. Mind you, another lady was coming to OP's house and there was no way both ladies will be comfortable staying under the same roof. So, it was better for the other lady to go. |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by excel1960(f): 7:24am On Mar 24 |
At the Heat of Anger, don't React. Good morning AyobamiOluwole: |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Psoul(m): 7:27am On Mar 24 |
riverbird: He did his best how? Right from day one, the guy knows that he will devour the girl. He was just waiting for the right time. The way he sent her out and brought in another woman said it all. He's an animal. How can you tell a girl to just come and cuddle you in a bed and want her to believe they will not have sex. He want to put the girl in the mood and finally have her. That was why he was very angry that he may not have that girl that night. He can help the girl without wanting to be compensated with sex or stop helping entirely 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by GerogeI(m): 7:27am On Mar 24 |
AyobamiOluwole: What a disgusting human being. You want to turn a girl you have no intention of marrying into a sex worker, because you bought her fish and moi moi? You then leave her for who? You did not see any of the already messed up ones parading at junctions, with full HIV waiting for you. You just want to add this innocent and morally sound girl to their pool. Are there no brothels in your area? To you it's a few minutes of pleasure and ejaculated. To her it could be the starting point of a lifetime of responsibilities, raising a child you will deny, or the lifetime trauma of aborting a baby and living with the memory, or life changing sexually transmitted disease since you obviously sleep around. What is the worth of the money you lost, to the future of the young lady, with the minions of ways you could ruin her life with sex? The selfishness of even equating the two is unthinkable. Do you even have a sister? Whats funny, is that you lack shame, and feel so entitled that you brought your dirtiest to an online forum. It's one thing to play with morally bankrupt female like yourself, it's an entirely different level of toxicity to pressure a responsible naive girl into sexual relations with you. 6 Likes |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by izubext007: 7:31am On Mar 24 |
No, u did the right thing , imagine you taking Viagra thinking she will come, and she did not show up. |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by WoroSeeWoro(m): 7:41am On Mar 24 |
you did the right thing....many nigerian girls are good for nothing.....imagine she dont even have tfare to take go home....where una de see all these type of cockroaches una de call GF,.. @OP stop wasting time on Nigerian girls....just bang dem and throw dem out no one ever love you , many are just coded oloshos
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Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by phenylalanine(m): 8:01am On Mar 24 |
because you gave her things, you feel entitled that she is supposed to curdle you because you lost money, she came to give you moral support not sex. Hmmmm you are annoying 3 Likes |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by eamark505: 8:03am On Mar 24 |
Bro, firstly it's a good indicator You realized the outcome of your anger which needs be in check for future events. Secondly, You wanna take off a lot from Your mind, there are lotta other things or activities that could achieve that and don't rely on women for all your joy and happiness or normal decluttering. And lastly, call up this lady and apologize plus give her another good treatment. Get some good books on personal development. Light and Love. #Candle 2 Likes |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by olibeans: 8:05am On Mar 24 |
No hard feelings man. A girl did similar thing to me and I dumped her in the hotel room the next morning without transportation back. She probably called home for her fares from Port Harcourt to Uyo.. I had every opportunity to rape her or drug her but am no beast. I just got to know I wasted time and effort on her and dumped her fast. |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Thabothabo101: 8:07am On Mar 24 |
My opinion is she wasn't sexually attracted to you. Just because you spent money or time on her doesn’t change this; it may have made it worse. She was willing to be there for you, and that’s why she came over, but your temper after she rejected your advances revealed how childish you were. Women pick up on these things. I believe you somehow know you’re in the wrong here. Apologize to her by text or WhatsApp. Possibly send her money, but don’t try to pursue her romantically. Move on, and invest in yourself regarding the “game” and how not to be a simp or wuss. 2 Likes |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by funkemary(f): 8:12am On Mar 24 |
obi58: He invited me over and I accepted. Fine. Do you have to rub it on my face? Manner of approach matters a lot you know right. The fact that you are buoyant financially doesn't mean you should not checkmate how you approach people coz your intention may be right but I tell you this, your approach can make it look bad. P.s I never supported her for not going with T.P and I wonder why you are not seeing what the guy did wrong. Are you saying you can even do worse? meanwhile this is what you get when you are completely dependent. For me, I rather learn with peoples mistakes than wait until it gets to me Happy Sunday |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by saasala(m): 8:26am On Mar 24 |
NoahHadNoArk: Thank you too bro. Blessings always. 1 Like |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by gerizzim: 9:01am On Mar 24 |
etrange: I am learning |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Zealoy(m): 9:02am On Mar 24 |
And some girl self y do they keep accepting gift from men knowing fully well they can't give wat d guy ask of, abi them think say men na father Christmas? If u know u won't give into a request from men then stop accepting gift from them period |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Ferdinandu(m): 9:12am On Mar 24 |
AyobamiOluwole:Don't worry online traders are like that their emotions runs with the market tick. It takes a special kind of people to be in relationship with them. Beg her if she can't understand Find yourself another Girl and continue your quest for riches. 1 Like |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Trojan8(m): 9:22am On Mar 24 |
Nackzy: You never jam wahala. Say na "no matter what the girl did". Just keep praying trouble stays far away from you. |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by DKM123: 9:25am On Mar 24 |
abba190: You abba190, The expelled paed0phile ex school teacher called Victor Omerigwe aka HellVictorinho6 aka abba190 aka TrustNone aka EbenezerTriumph aka keet13 aka MrsAminaBello (and 40 other monikers) , the internet scammer and perpetual banbiala beggar is calling another man a s!MP. You a l0ser in real life is the real definition of a s!MP! See ehn, I will keep coming for you until you cough out every penny you sc@mmed from the p00r widowed mother of 4. She will be your last victim. I assure you. 1 Like |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by biz2get(m): 9:27am On Mar 24 |
Typical women Always on the receiving end, but cannot for once in their lives give to the giver .. You told her why you want her to come to your place , she agreed . so why is she trying to manipulate you .? She probably didn't take what you told her serious and thought it was another day for her to receive free offerings from the church of man . Next time op, give to your fellow man , if to say nah your padi you call that night ... Story no go long but you choose to give eve a chance but eve prefer the devil in her 😍 😁🎉 |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by sukkot: 9:31am On Mar 24 |
But what’s her problem ? She can’t cuddle someone ? These naija women can be very weird sometimes . In the uk if you are feeling down or unloved women give you sympathy hugs, over here you ask a woman for a hug only she thinks you are asking her for a million dollars |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Oluwademilade: 10:33am On Mar 24 |
You’re a terrible human being. You wanted sex all along, but wanted to form nice and decent guy. You endangered a girl’s life cos of sex, even after she told you she has no means of getting home. That means she used all the cash on her to come visit you. Imagine it’s your daughter or sister. Na you go first spend on woman? You should be ashamed of yourself. 3 Likes |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Deepthoughts: 10:36am On Mar 24 |
AyobamiOluwole:Una de try ooh,me I no fit keep female platonic friend ooh |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by NezzyMike: 11:00am On Mar 24 |
hopeforcharles: You mentioned your "wife"! He had no right to her body. OP work on yourself about rejection ok? She isn't attracted to you. 1 Like |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by SoliBayNG: 11:00am On Mar 24 |
At the very least, you should have booked a bolt for her to get home. After that, have nothing more to do with her. That way, you will seem mature. You didn't necessarily do any wrong, cos you both had a transaction agreed to by both parties, but putting her safety and being childish aren't super traits. |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by ebhaleleme51490: 11:18am On Mar 24 |
Please tell me. I need to see this from a different perspective. Pls. I regret it and I wouldn't like this to happen another time. Perhaps my mindset. Pls tell me.Please tell me. I need to see this from a different perspective. Pls. I regret it and I wouldn't like this to happen another time. Perhaps my mindset. Pls tell me.... |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by DrFunmisticGlow: 11:21am On Mar 24 |
AyobamiOluwole:you seem like a confused fellow. Which one is you are expecting cuddles, bit thinking it will lead to sex but not expecting sex again? You called her to your house to dump your negative emotions and negativity laden cum unto her because you lost your money to crypto. She no gree and you kicked someone's daughter out unto the unsafe streets in anger. What you did is a bad omen and the girl is lucky she dodged a bullet. You are an energy vampire. What you wanted wanted was a bootÝ call and A LOWKEY FETISH SPIRITUAL SACRIFICE. I hope ladies can learn that not all that glitters is gold. Imagine if this babe 'cuddled' the guy and inherited all that negativity from you. Her life and fortune will stagnate. She will be wondering why her life is jot moving forward and be running from one deliverance center to another. @ ebhaleleme51490 1 Like |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by DrFunmisticGlow: 11:22am On Mar 24 |
sukkot:Nigeria is too hot to be hugging and smelling body odour. 1 Like |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by DrFunmisticGlow: 11:25am On Mar 24 |
GerogeI:God bless you |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Thabothabo101: 11:52am On Mar 24 |
obi58: I believe he should apologize and possibly send her money or buy her a gift as a way of making things up. He shouldn't try to get together with her anymore as trust has been broken. The essence of the apology or gift or cash is to move on and for the lady to forget and forgive. |
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