chienyem:

U better suspend dt introduction for now or u may regret later.She needed someone better if not she won't be doing hid and seek.

No, She might not be looking for som1 better but needed to explore like many have pointed out. Adventure is really the spice of life.

@op, sorry for that horrible experience but believe me she is young and needs to be sure she is not leaving anything behind.
If you love her and convinced she has changed, forgive and go ahead with your marriage plans.(Once beaten, twice shy)

NB; 80% of girls are like that even those pretending holiness on this thread, some of them have done worse

^ no mind dem



Buhahhahahahahaaha
My head ooooo
Guy, cool down
Don't destroy dat gadget outta anger
Sh1t, ur life is based on it already
Log out so u can feel beta a bit

Dyt:

Come back u say?
C all dese ur men are now attackin me like am d gal

I know ow to luk for trouble oo
Choi

awww... don't look for trouble plss
I've received enough 'e-blows' cos of u... Just stay"calm and maintain. I'll do my best to protect you *winks*

...

On one condition o

Dynamicaziz: I never intend to bore you with this my personal experience on how unfaithful ladies can be.
I have a girlfriend of close to 2 years that has almost become my wife because we are planning to have our introduction in a few months time. She is 23 years old while I'm almost 29. She is completing her NCE by september and thats about the time I will be resuming for my Masters. She respects and adores me (Don't know wether it's as a result of the difference in status) and I equally cherished her. She stays on campus and comes around on Fridays. She is becoming a part of me - like the proverbial missing rib. To be frank, I'm always happy around her.
My trouble with her started a few weeks ago when she began to exhibit traits of a girl who wants to test the waters. I called her, made my observations known, softly scolded and advised her. She practically went on her kneels weeping with a promise to be a good girl afterwards.
This new episode started last Sunday when I registered a new account on her favorite social media with a new identity. I sent her a friend request which she accepted promptly, then the conversation began! After she had given me her details all of which were accurate, I requested that we should exchange numbers, as a team from my office is likely to come to her town for a meeting with some government officials and I will like to meet her. She was reluctant initially, but dropped the number after a little persuasion. I had thought the number was fake because I didn't know her with that number. You can imagine my bitterness when I dialled the number and was greeted by her voice. So this girl operates a secret number I didn't know of!
I kept my cool and continued calling her as a stranger with a strange voice on this line. We exchanged messages both on the social media and on phone.
Then on Friday, I called to inform her that we are already in her town lodged in a hotel for the meeting and asked if she would come around. Her excuse was that she couldn't make it that night but promised to show up the next day. I couldn't wait for the next day to break when I've started calling and sending messages to make her realise how important it is for us to meet. She promised to come by 2 p.m and exactly on top of the hour, she called to inform that she is setting out. All these while I was becoming restless. I left my home immediately so as to get there before her. Everything worked out as planned. I was stil lurking around when she called to announce her arrival. I told her to stand at a spot so that I could come pick her, she did. When I eventually showed up as her date, she nearly collapsed. Enraged as I were, I managed to stop a cab, took her home and gave the red card. She requested that I give her writing materials, which I did.
Her excuse was that I didn't allow the game to end properly as I didn't know her plan for showing up there. That even made me mad the more! What reason could it be?
She is pleadin for forgiveness now and thats why I need candid and matured pieces of advice from fellow nairalanders.
I must state here that througout our unfortunate dating period, I never cheated on this bitch not even once!

oh hell no. kick that TRIIICKK to the curb. she does not deserve your love. Damn y do bitchezz end up with good men and good girls with bad men? what nonsense make sure nobody i mean nobody steals your happiness.

Ijeoma Okeke100: poster your damn fault that happened to you. why did you have to start this game in the first place. look let me tell you, whether man or woman nobody like to get bored and we all wana explore once in a while. there is nothing wrong with some exploring before one ties the knot so that when she is married she becomes a proper wife. she is only 23 and needs time to play and make er own mistakes. she was not there when you explored your youth so stop being such sour grapes. By the looks of things, you never even gave her a chance to play coz you turned her into an unofficial spouse from the tenter age of 20 or 21 and that is the time someone wants to see life. your fault again that yalls was fiance for over 2 years. who the hell wants to be a fiance for soo long. nigga pleassssss

na lie. explore before you get into a relationship or else you guys can agree to an open relationship. humans like to eat their cake and have it. i would have kuffi smacked her dusty azz. the same go for men to. tic for tat

Dyt: On one condition o

I'm listening

Dyt:

U didn't cry?


Where are those attacking me sef?

hahaha... MEN don't cry

pls leave your attackers... e don do

And who says?
I can mk a man cry like a baby

Acido & dirty l mean dyt why this derailing attitude?.

U ll say u want to join na

handson: She is lying and i dnt think u are a fool live that gal she is not a wife material, many women are out there but few are wife material.you may want to no my reason they are 1, why would a gal u dated for 2years hide a private line if she is not a runs gal. 2, If the person that went to pick her was any other rich guy he would has F**k the living day light out of her because of her long troat for material tins. God has helped u so be wise.

. Well said brov......lord help us....

There are two types of Women. Dating material and marriage material.

I think you know which one yours falls into.

Be thankful you found out when you did.

PS: My NL Sisters, do not be offended, it is what it is. If Girl is upfront and say we are just friends, then we are just that, friends, no strings attached. But if one presents herself as ready to be introduced to family like in this case, and then pul;ls this stunt then she is definitely not to be taken seriously.

OP please give her second chance to prove her love and trust for you again but to tell you the truth you really go extral mile to test your babe but why on earth must she have a screte number hidden from you?

All these while I was becoming restless. I left my home immediately so as to get there before her. Everything worked out as planned. I was stil lurking around when she called to announce her arrival. I told her to stand at a spot so that I could come pick her, she did. When I eventually showed up as her date, she nearly collapsed. Enraged as I were, I managed to stop a cab, took her home and gave the red card. She requested that I give her writing materials, which I did.
Her excuse was that I didn't allow the game to end properly as I didn't know her plan for showing up there. That even made me mad the more! What reason could it be?
She is pleadin for forgiveness now and thats why I need candid and matured pieces of advice from fellow nairalanders.
I must state here that througout our unfortunate dating period, I never cheated on this bitch not even once![/quote]


Kids don't date kids ....U r immature...

So fortunate am not Ur babe odrwise U wuld hav explained d reason U came to d hotel to cheat...whorbish!

And She even hav to beg ( over wat[s][/s]?)

Seems U r unemployed cos It's evident .....befr I spit out my venom, Tender Ur apology (verbally or in written form) to

Ur galfriend cuz U lured her into ds devilish trick in spite of D resistance....

Why manipulate her tru Her weakness ? Oh ! So U can play the victim huh

Seriously, If I were Ur Babe, I wuld giv U d boot after d Hotel incidence cuz suspicion wuld inhabit the choicest local on ma mind....

Skenge98: OP please give her second chance to prove her love and trust for you again but to tell you the truth you really go extral mile to test your babe but why on earth must she have a screte number hidden from you?

Becos She s a smart girl whu knows it is unhealthy to place her delicate eggs in one basket.
while He is jst A boyfriend (wit a capital 'B')

If this girl doesn't have another line which her bf doesn't know of, then I'll be willing to make excuses for her but that alone shows she has already gone far.

@Fairyprincess and the rest of you ladies concerned.

Please stop making flimsy excuses for this girl, I'm a woman and I understand how our minds work.

Like I said, having a secret number has spoilt everything, if she gave him her original number after persuasion I'd have said it was prolly her first time but hey he was calling her on that new line for the period of time it took for them to meet at a hotel, meaning she's had that number for a over a period of time and what kinda girl agrees to meet a man for the first time at a hotel?

Let's tell ourselves the truth, that girl has been in the business of meeting strange men at hotels for a while now, I just hate when y'all keep being sentimental with the truth.

Fairyprincess and Dyt can't seem to believe you gals are all being defensive of dat ladies action...well maybe ur understanding of english has being corrupted...

This just goes to show dat your a mess to womanhood

@xtr0v3rt
Cut me sme slack please.....am not defending d ladies action but wat happens to d AUDI ALTERAM PARTEM principle ?

Oops! I forgot U 'r yet to obtain Ur standard 6 certificate "shakes head in pity"...

Am not defending d OP's babe jst dat most Men Nid to stand up to their ball n take d bull by the horn wen their are uncomfortable n a relationship

Or than devising CHEAP TRICKS for CHARACTER ASSASINATION