Though i love her very much, the way take offence in every little things baffles me. We started relationship 2 years ago and i have broke up with her 3 times but she wouldnt let go, sending different people to me that she will change and she doesnt want loose me, then i forgave her because i love her with my whole heart. Meanwhile,during this break up and make up period i met a girl and now we re dating but in secret. I dont know what the future holds between my nagging fiancee? Please i need your advice because i dont want to loose my first love...thanks.

Wait I'm trying to understand here. You ave a fiancee but u're also banging another chick??

Blackeard: Wait I'm trying to understand here. You ave a fiancee but u're also banging another chick??

Ahahaah lmao

What makes her nag?

Nagging is what a man should be able to manage, if truly you a man. Majority of ladies nag, so therefore, if its only nagging & there is no other hidden issues, why should you breakup?

You aren't't giving the complete story here......as long as she isn't a psychiatric patient,she can't nag for no just reason....it seems you don't know exactly what you want because you said you don't want to lose your first love but you are still cheating on her
You have a choice of walking away if you feel you can't cope with her naginess,its much more better than two-timing cuz at the end you might lose on both ends

You have interest elsewhere thats why your decision process seems cloudy !!!! Wait till your new chick begins to nag you, then you will understand that nagging is in the female DNA !!!!

itsmee: You aren't't giving the complete story here......as long as she isn't a psychiatric patient,she can't nag for no just reason....it seems you don't know exactly what you want because you said you don't want to lose your first love but you are still cheating on her
You have a choice of walking away if you feel you can't cope with her naginess,its much more better than two-timing cuz at the end you might lose on both ends

well said miss, well said...can I have your autograph

She nags, you're already tired of her.

You also have a spare tyre

Dude, quit the relationship and don't make her suffer. 'cus it's obvious you no longer have her in mind.

Dyt: What makes her nag?

my sister i tire oo, if decided to pamper her she will change it for me, if i choose to be reserved she go say i nor get remorse for her as in my fiancee they confuse my head.

Blackeard: Wait I'm trying to understand here. You ave a fiancee but u're also banging another chick??

bros nor be my fault oo my babe dey nag like mad, and i love her so me dey fear if we fit marry with this her behaviour....bros u suppose no everything na.

itsmee: You aren't't giving the complete story here......as long as she isn't a psychiatric patient,she can't nag for no just reason....it seems you don't know exactly what you want because you said you don't want to lose your first love but you are still cheating on her
You have a choice of walking away if you feel you can't cope with her naginess,its much more better than two-timing cuz at the end you might lose on both ends

babe i know u will take a side cos u re a female but the story long so i dont know were to start. if u see the pressure wey my fiancee dey mat on me ehn, if not for love

eluquenson: Nagging is what a man should be able to manage, if truly you a man. Majority of ladies nag, so therefore, if its only nagging & there is no other hidden issues, why should you breakup?

bros nor be as u think i don try explain to her n make sure everything work out but b4 u know she don start again, she make me go jam one ukpeke.

Ask urself if ur own complaints started after meeting ur new gf. Secondly put yourself in her position and see if u too will nag if assumed u r she and she is u. Thirdly av u thought about the essence or causes of her nagging if u r actually the cause. I think if u will be able to think about these things u will get a lead

Snoggy: She nags, you're already tired of her.

You also have a spare tyre

Dude, quit the relationship and don't make her suffer. 'cus it's obvious you no longer have her in mind.

bros nor talk am oo if u see the way my heart dey pain me say my lolo nor wan comport herself. im not happy that i cheat on her but she is the cause of everything

Justiyke4u: Ask urself if ur own complaints started after meeting ur new gf. Secondly put yourself in her position and see if u too will nag if assumed u r she and she is u. Thirdly av u thought about the essence or causes of her nagging if u r actually the cause. I think if u will be able to think about these things u will get a lead

bro read wetin write for up i never cheated on her but due to the break up n make up so my mind come dey reason two ways na so i take jam another babe though me nor love her but my love dey scare me cos i dont want after marriage my integrity will be destroyed due to divorce cos me nor wan leave her

Why is she nagging? What are you doing to her because she can't just start nagging,you must be doing something! AND there's nothing like she made you cheat you cheated cos you wanted to! Am glad you still love her tho' so leave the new girl and fix your relationship because you don't know what the new girl will do eventually. THE DEVIL YOU KNOW IS BETTER THAN THE ANGEL YOU DON'T KNOW.

xxKofoxx: Why is she nagging? What are you doing to her because she can't just start nagging,you must be doing something! AND there's nothing like she made you cheat you cheated cos you wanted to! Am glad you still love her tho' so leave the new girl and fix your relationship because you don't know what the new girl will do eventually. THE DEVIL YOU KNOW IS BETTER THAN THE ANGEL YOU DON'T KNOW.

bro you are right that is what im trying to fix now but im afraid my fiancee will continue her nagging life.i cant figure out what makes her do so, the problem with her is that she is too emotional, she feels i should succumb to her rules in our relationship

LAST BULLET ladies should know that men have emotions too, our heart is not aso rock.

Bro its in em...just device a means to counter the nagging...keeping silence @ em @ the point of their nagging is a very sure anti-duct to that behaviour, it makes em look like a fool...u either turn on ur tele and watch a match or u pik up a news paper and read...believe me...she will never nag again after the xperience she will gain from ur action...#mysecret...goodluck!

Still_stan: Bro its in em...just device a means to counter the nagging...keeping silence @ em @ the point of their nagging is a very sure anti-duct to that behaviour, it makes em look like a fool...u either turn on ur tele and watch a match or u pik up a news paper and read...believe me...she will never nag again after the xperience she will gain from ur action...#mysecret...goodluck!

bro thanks for ur advice,i really appreciate

Still_stan: Bro its in em...just device a means to counter the nagging...keeping silence @ em @ the point of their nagging is a very sure anti-duct to that behaviour, it makes em look like a fool...u either turn on ur tele and watch a match or u pik up a news paper and read...believe me...she will never nag again after the xperience she will gain from ur action...#mysecret...goodluck!

A very good point.Op please fellow this steps it help a lot.

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sanb: @Op; have you completely let go of your ex; and is your ex aware that you have finally broken-up with her? Cos you mentioned that you now have another lady you are dating secretly!!!

It appears that you still prefer your ex to the new lady you are dating; if that's the case, then please don't waste the time of the new lady as that won't be fair. For your ex who nags; if at all you get back with her; try the 3 options below;

1) Ignore her when she starts nagging; but bear in mind that she might not like that;
2) Sit her down and tell her that her nagging attitude is getting you down; let her know that she's got to do something about it; and
3) If she's not willing to change her attitude after you've spoken to her; then LEAVE HER; cos you probably might not be able to compromise and cope with her attitude.

As the saying goes, you're better-off being in a house with a leaking roof than with a nagging woman. Also bear in mind that it's pointless being unhappy in a relationship; and you can't change anyone except the person is willing to change.....

Remember that there's no smoke without fire; hence, you need to check yourself that it's not as a result of some certain attitude(s) that you display that makes her nag.

Your call; but be sure to make the right choice.....All the best!!!

babe u spoke well,the. Reason for her nagging i dont know n frankly speaking i dont know how to molest female cos i have respect n feelings for fragile people, i pity them, dont get me wrong i am very stuborn to rude people n femaleS are not in that category.

Women tend to nag when they are insecure in a relationship, this occurs mostly when she loves you.
This does not apply in all cases though, because some women naturally nag for no good cause.

OP,

joanpinkie: Women tend to nag when they are insecure in a relationship, this occurs mostly when she loves you.
This does not apply in all cases though, because some women naturally nag for no good cause.

sis i will take this since its coming 4rm female folks, cos i cant even know d course of her nagging

Hmmm

hensben:
bros nor talk am oo if u see the way my heart dey pain me say my lolo nor wan comport herself. im not happy that i cheat on her but she is the cause of everything

You are Sick! She is the cause of your cheating abi!? Then y are u still wasting her time? Time she would have used to move on & start preparing for someone more deserving

fruityjojo:

You are Sick! She is the cause of your cheating abi!? Then y are u still wasting her time? Time she would have used to move on & start preparing for someone more deserving

You dey vex o

Tymax:


You dey vex o

Ayam tired. I didn't sleep well

fruityjojo:

Ayam tired. I didn't sleep well

Awww. Me too.