slimyem:

Seriously or for play?

Seriously.....
I created this handle when I didn't want anyone on NL to recognise me.....I am an old member.
Some people in the family section will remember that I created a thread about a woman's age and child bearing..... It's because of the lady.
My Mum just told me to go ahead if I wanted her, cos it's God that gives children.

ademotors166: Heavy G,
I guess I know your ex.......and if I am correct, she is my present girl.
She described you as rich, tall, handsome but ARROGANT. (Am I correct?)
The thing is that you lost a good girl because of your arrogance. A girl that doesn't care about your money. (SMH)
I'm planning on marrying her. Yes age may not be on her side but like mum said "God is the giver of children."
So you think because you have money, she will get pregnant for you? Your arrogance knows no limit. By the way she is on Nairaland and I will be showing her this thread.
NB
Stop asking your mum to invite her to your place, cos she ain't coming. Move on to other girls who you can snap your fingers at, and they will run to you.
Welcome to 2014, we will be sending Invites to you.

Congratulations! That lady is an asset. Be good to each other! Good luck!

heavy g: @ademotors

It is not yet time to shout victory. Afterall, you are not yet married, are you? If only She would allow me see her, I know I can make her see reasons we can be good together.

And don't dare bring my mum into this, OK? Yes, I told my mum to plead with her on my behalf. But my mum has Since decided to wash her hands off the whole issue when She saw She wasn't getting results. What's this bull story of my mum inviting her?

Please show her this thread. Maybe It's just what She needs to see I love and care for her alot.

Am sorry bro, she won't see you. Am equally sorry about mentioning your mum, but I wanted you to know that I am aware of everything going.
"A woman is like a bird, treat her right she will always come back. Treat her badly or try to cage her, and you will never see her again".
NB
My advice, move on. Your Arrogance (and maybe temper is the problem.)

ademotors166:
Am sorry bro, she won't see you. Am equally sorry about mentioning your mum, but I wanted you to know that I am aware of everything going.
"A woman is like a bird, treat her right she will always come back. Treat her badly or try to cage her, and you will never see her again".
NB
My advice, move on. Your Arrogance (and maybe temper is the problem.)

And the bolded hasn't changed. If he marries her, he will still be acting like he did her a favor by being with her since she's 'over 30 and still single'.

Ademotors166=heavy g

Ewuro707: Molly why na

Na so I see am o. As visitors just no gree me rest today, I don cook rice tire. Make I find who to e-tongue lash.

But true true, whish kain yeye talk be say she's 30? Na favor you think say you dey do her? Yeye dey smell!

Happy new year Ewuro. If your moniker is same as the Yoruba word for bitter leaf, 'adun ni yo gbehin aye yin oooo, ase!'

Nutase: Ademotors166=heavy g

So you mean this thread is purely for entertainment?

I was beginning to wonder how ademotors found this thread and how conveniently he is the subject of discussion fiance....
Thank you for the expose!

Nutase: Ademotors166=heavy g

Very fuuny. I hardly use this handle. But immediately I read OPs story, I remembered all my girl told me. NL makes forumites to remain anonymous, but some things cannot just be mere coincidences.

slimyem:
So you mean this thread is purely for entertainment?

I was beginning to wonder how ademotors found this thread and how conveniently he is the subject of discussion fiance....
Thank you for the expose!

Below is the thread I created because of the 'age issue'...... When the thread got heated I deleted my posts, but you can read other peoples comment and maybe have an idea....
www.nairaland.com/1421162/marriage
OPs story is more than a Coincidence no matter how anonymous NL is.
NB
Can someone go through the threads created by OP, and come back to tell me how I am even remotely connected to this guy? This is a confused guy for God's sake....

*sits down with popcorn* Couldn't pass this one by. This is one heck of a coincidence.

ademotors166:
Below is the thread I created because of the 'age issue'...... When the thread got heated I deleted my posts, but you can read other peoples comment and maybe have an idea....
www.nairaland.com/1421162/marriage
OPs story is more than a Coincidence no matter how anonymous NL is.
NB
Can someone go through the threads created by OP, and come back to tell me how I am even remotely connected to this guy? This is a confused guy for God's sake....

Are you high? Who is confused? Look here, don't insult me. I find it insultive enough being mistaken for you. What do you do Anyways? Sell used cars? Better recognize class when you see it Because I am not your mate in any way.

... now this is entertainment.*spreads mat on thread*

NA WA O!

Hmmmmmmmmmmmm....something is happening here...

I might learn sumfin here o

heavy g: It is no longer news that I am beginning to regret my 'choice of fianceé'. 80k for Brazillian hair. . .Over 200k from our wedding funds flushed down the drain. . .a girl more interested in her pings than making dinner, ignoring me for hours on end while staring, glassy eyed at her BB. It isn't by mistake that I am beginning to miss my ex and her old fashioned simplicity/nerdiness.
Yes, ex ignored me sometimes when she was reading one of her numerous novels. But it wasn't overdone, and she would shut it most times to listen to me talk or just to indulge me. We had intense, meaningful conversations and my trust in her was total, she earned it. Her food was also off the hook, she was my dream of a perfect woman. . . .
Now, I realise I have slipped back to talking about my ex.
It isn't my fault. My fianceé isn't helping matters. I'm beginning to feel like I'm just another trophy to display to her friends.

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heavy g:
Before I broke up with my ex, I talked it over with my guys. While others expressed regret that we had been their mentors as a result of our love, there's this one who really supported me in my decision. He told me I was a man, that I should do what I had to do and free the girl. He told me there were many girls out there like her when I was ready to settle down.
To cut a long story short, that same guy, who encouraged me, is making moves on my ex and has even gone to see her family to grovel as she hasn't been paying him audience.
What happened to the code of not sniffing near a friend's ex. What happened to friendship. What happened to the talk of; 'there are a million of girls out there'? Why has he now chosen my ex that I still have feelings for?
Its not that I don't want her to move on, not just with that guy. Will she now look at him, the way she used to look at me? Will he see her unclothed, touch her? I am going crazy!

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heavy g: The thing is; I'm not with my fianceé for money, it's just mere coincidence that her family has some. I'm ok now myself. And when I raised the issue of calling off our engagement, my uncles walked out of the meeting, that I want to disgrace them. So my mum said she'll talk to her instead. And I also spoke to her parents. She promised to change but I'm disillusioned already.

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heavy g: ^Everything is complicated. And I cant even think straight of what step to take

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Source:
www.nairaland.com/683928/been-stabbed-heart-very-own
this thread was opened in 2011............we are in 2014.
NB
Tell me again you are not confused, OP? A grown azz mofo who allows people to take decisions for him......... Guy, move on.......or I will make you regret opening this thread. Everything does not have be about you and your family

^^
I know your type. And I also know How to deal with your type. Oh, you were not a silly mofo when you came online trying to ask if you could make babies with her, huh?

You better back off my thread else you will have a glimpse of that temper you've bee talking about.

A duel to the death for the worthy lady!

heavy g: ^^
I know your type. And I also know How to deal with your type. Oh, you were not a silly mofo when you came online trying to ask if you could make babies with her, huh?

Lolz.......... Any other person here will tell you that thread was more matured than this trash..... Am sorry for your lost, next time appreciate what you have..... A wise one once said, "All that glitters is not gold".
Man Up, Chin Up and move on.
NB
A piece of advice, do away with 'Frenemies'. I am not your enemy.

steph7: ... now this is entertainment.*spreads mat on thread*

popcorn?

ileobatojo:

A duel to the death for the worthy lady!

I don't fight over a lady........ Isn't obvious that he did not value her, why try to woe her back only to cause her misery again?
He said he got money, and ladies will die to be with him.....why not go for those ones?

kulyie:
The girl has made her decision and moved on so you too do the same.abi babalawo join una 2 together ni

love my foot

Oh my my where have I being ,this is what am talking about.
Give it to me now! Babe come and.
I like the way you roll( in dbanj voive)

An0nimus:
popcorn?

Yes, Please

If I would say.....
I really do not think any of you both deserve the lady....

Not the one who doubts her fertility without reasons and not the one who thinks it's be her loss if she doesn't marry him because he's the best she could have and she's 30 .

slimyem: If I would say.....
I really do not think any of you both deserve the lady....

ha ! Don't say what you can not defend oh. Habi you want make dey turn the fight to ur head? Abeg!! Jsut sit down dey watch. The season film power by !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!lol

Luckiest lady of her time

Reminds me of my high school days, guys fighting over you know who

steph7: ... now this is entertainment.*spreads mat on thread*

I'm rolling in bed with laughter.

mollytinrox:
Na so I see am o. As visitors just no gree me rest today, I don cook rice tire. Make I find who to e-tongue lash.
But true true, whish kain yeye talk be say she's 30? Na favor you think say you dey do her? Yeye dey smell!
Happy new year Ewuro. If your moniker is same as the Yoruba word for bitter leaf, 'adun ni yo gbehin aye yin oooo, ase!'

Ori yin lo kun ton wa ba yin fa trust my people they won't leave room for desert. Chop to quench

Abeg don't mind the man, the guy na serious joker. I still wish the lady good luck sha cos ikan o gbekan. Sebi ademotors opened a thread whether or not to marry a 30yr old? Ki olorun gbawa lowo awon alainikanshe gbogbo wonyi.

Adun lo ma gbeyin aye gbogbo wa. Amin

Best thread in 2014 so far

slimyem: If I would say.....
I really do not think any of you both deserve the lady....

Why if I may ask?

steph7: Yes, Please

*passes popcorn *

and slimyem comes with another twist

Ewuro707:

Luckiest lady of her time

Reminds me of my high school days, guys fighting over you know who

I'm rolling in bed with laughter.



Ori yin lo kun ton wa ba yin fa trust my people they won't leave room for desert. Chop to quench

Abeg don't mind the man, the guy na serious joker. I still wish the lady good luck sha cos ikan o gbekan. Sebi ademotors opened a thread whether or not to marry a 30yr old? Ki olorun gbawa lowo awon alainikanshe gbogbo wonyi.

Adun lo ma gbeyin aye gbogbo wa. Amin

Best thread in 2014 so far

That thread was out of genuine concern. There are certain issues that bothers a man/lady when a relationship is heading to the alters, and such was one of them.
NB
After that thread we both went for a medical test and everything came out fine. We will still be seeking more professional advice as we makes plan for our future together. ( I didn't think the thread was offensive.)

Oh! The hypocrisy!

Being a 30+ year old single woman in Nigeria is apparently a serious problem.

Suitor A is acting like she's doing the woman a favor. Captain-save-an-overripe-spinster.

Suitor B is scared that she might be barren.
If he discovers her chances of giving birth are slim ....

Eligible men are scarce for real.

heavy g: Good day all.

I started dating her in 09. I began talking marriage late 2010. I even broached the topic of her getting pregnant for me.

We had a bad fight January '11. We were trying to patch things up slowly when sometime around April we got talking on phone. I made a statement and then She told me She can Never marry me.

Since that day till this moment, She stopped taking my calls, She cut off all Contact. All efforts to reach her were met with silence.

I decided to move on.

But after some relationships, I realised I needed her back. I traced someone whom I felt could plead with her. This person wouldn't give me any info about her But I deduced from our conversation that my ex girlfriend was still single.

But what surprises me is the fact that at her age, She prefers to remain single than to come back to me. She doesnt even want to hear anything about me. This is a girl I loved so much. Am I so bad? This is 2014 and I need to get settled. I might just go for the available one, Since the desired is unavailable.

move on & stop degrading yourself before a woman. she's moved on & so you should. whatever she decides to do with herself since she's left you is entirely her prerogative. there are a million pebbles on the beach. find someone else.....