usafemo: Not easy!!!

. 45 proudly virgin, hopin 2mit a tall,slim,dark,God fearin lady nd do d needful...

sod09: At last i found my people....

. Hahaha guy u funi die

vict505: Yea but I need to see u and that will determine if you need my advice or not. So show ur face? Or id entification.

with all due respect sir, i'd rather not meet anyone.

natifa: . Sometimes love is not jst enough. There are oda things involved and in my case it was dignity. I was jst 20 at the time while he was 27 already. The bone of contention was sex. And since at the time my dignity mattered more to me, i had to walk away. I'v not stoped crying ova him yet, i'v not bn able to quite connect to any oda heart as with his. My! I stil miss him and i keep wondering whether walking
away from him was a mistake.

Thank God you still believe it's your dignity and I salute your courage for not giving in.
The fact is that if a guy truly loves you, he will wait for you till you're ready. He will try everything to satisfy you, which this is included. No true guy will keep pestering you for sex when you've already made up your mind. Stay away from him and try and take him off your mind, it only means you've not met your MR right. When you meet your own, he won't leave you for any reason not even for protecting your priceless gift. There are still plenty guys out there that still appreciates this so called Virginity. So, keep cool and forge ahead

Come, virgin girls no dey here?

Neyoor:

Thank God you still believe it's your dignity and I salute your courage for not giving in.
The fact is that if a guy truly loves you, he will wait for you till you're ready. He will try everything to satisfy you, which this is included. No true guy will keep pestering you for sex when you've already made up your mind. Stay away from him and try and take him off your mind, it only means you've not met your MR right. When you meet your own, he won't leave you for any reason not even for protecting your priceless gift. There are still plenty guys out there that still appreciates this so called Virginity. So, keep cool and forge ahead

tnx neyoor, my friends jst think am a silly lil selfish girl to want things done my own way in the relationship.

Seun: Signing up!

ah Egbon!

Natifa: tnx neyoor, my friends jst think am a silly lil selfish girl to want things done my own way in the relationship.

That's not selfishness if there is no other thing attached to it. You're just trying to protect a priceless gift, Your precious dignity. Try and persuade him to convince him that you are not keeping it for any other person than him. He just need to be patient with you.

bokoslayer: This thread go dry mehn. Sex is now like food o, if you no chop beta; u go get kwashiorkor.

If this is ur philosophy and u are not married yet, I'm sorry bro, u are lost in time. U'd better rediscover urself and embrace moral standard. I aint virgin myself but I wish I was one

for most virgins, virginity is not dignity, its just lack of opportunity. especially d guys

Natifa: with all due respect sir, i'd rather not meet anyone.

you must meet me ma

Am a nice looking bloke at 24 and still a virgin. I have to confess that I've been under some pressure (especially when I was an undergraduate in UNN and also during youth service) but I've not tasted the forbidden fruit. I've strongly determined to maintain chastity and be a proud celibate. Every where I go, I see wicked seductiVe girls who definitely flirt and show body languaages for sultry sex however, how I manage to escape, only God knows. Sometimes I watch p*orn which leads to masturb*ation to get relieved of the stress involved and urge every young man faces but honestly, that has been a ridiculous way in search of sexual liberty; it only leads to stirring up more fire for the near fall... So I now use the word of God. And it helps but I'll be lying if I don't tell u that sometimes I imagine the unclad and fake orgasms. I feel sex is OVERATED. By God's grace I'll be still and get married very soon and enjoy the proper way for immense intercourse and copulation. Thanks!

..team vargeen

Bjfirst: for most virgins, virginity is not dignity, its just lack of opportunity. especially d guys

The Most "WRONGEST" statement i'v heard 2day. I'm 27, had numerous so called 'opportunities' but never usd it coz, Guy, I value my Virginity above my body. I believe and convinced it'll be worth the wait.
Its just mentallity. What you dont Want, you dont Watch(give attention to, you dont Let) and what you dnt resist has a right to remain.
I am a 27 year old MAN . I Am Virgin. A Proud One! Never Regreting! God Bless U.

zikclassiq: The Most "WRONGEST" statement i'v heard 2day. I'm 27, had numerous so called 'opportunities' but never usd it coz, Guy, I value my Virginity above my body. I believe and convinced it'll be worth the wait.
Its just mentallity. What you dont Want, you dont Watch(give attention to, you dont Let) and what you dnt resist has a right to remain.
I am a 27 year old MAN . I Am Virgin. A Proud One! Never Regreting! God Bless U.

Dont get me wrong. i didnt say all, i said most. kudos to you cuz its definately not easy.

vict505: you must meet me ma

like seriously?

Capableben: A virgin at 18, it is not easy but with God, u flow smoothly. But I need advice, counseling or explanations for this. I have never had a wet dream b4, I have never masturbated b4 and I have never seen my semehn b4.. why?? my mates were having wet dreams even back then in secondary school... Matured advice pls

Why not open a thread on the above question and see what professionals in romance here will have to say.
Maybe those in medical line may have useful advise for you

Idowuogbo:
Oh no.... i cant stand your waterworks ooo..Wetin happen? Dem m0lest u?

It's you!

i'm here to stay!!

[quote
author=Neyoor]

That's not selfishness if there is no other thing attached to it. You're
just trying to protect a priceless gift, Your precious dignity. Try and
persuade him to convince him that you are not keeping it for any other
person than him. He just need to be patient with you.[/quote] once i get in touch with him, he will think i've changed my mind and once he discovers i've not, he wil get angry some more. i'd rather left things the way they are cos i hate the pained look on his face anytime he tells me i'v rejected him. it saddens me. i can't keep hurting him and getting hurt the process.

35 and still a virgin[/color] [/quote]
You? hmmmmm....

Natifa: once i get in touch with him, he will think i've changed my mind and once he discovers i've not, he wil get angry some more. i'd rather left things the way they are cos i hate the pained look on his face anytime he tells me i'v rejected him. it saddens me. i can't keep hurting him and getting hurt the process.

You have to leave him then, if he is urs, he will definitely come back to you. There is no gain going back to him when what he is demanding beyonds what what you can offer. Just stay focus and be determined.

@Natifa, what kind of guy is that you love but has no respect for your dignity, virtue, even your personality as a Lady? How can he be "angry" at you for not allowing you have s*x wit him? He's not your husband, he doesnt even respect you your person, your stand for a virtous woman! A he's "angry" ? FOR WHAT?
How many ladies have this sense of chastity and moral strength of yours? Kai, Let him GO! GO! GO!
Continue with this stand of yours and you'll NEVER regret it when the REAL MAN comes, who will DIE for your character!
Angry ke? abegi!

Am 26 and am still a virgin.

Natifa: like seriously?

yes oo

I can see this is d sign of end time when people are no more value their vaginity. Do u know that any body that disvirgin you both of u had life convenant and quote me wrong if you are not opportuned 2 marry dat guy if u later see him in the future the first act will surely sink back in 2 ur mind nd dat satanic act wl stl developd in u again either u av got married or not. No wonder it is difficult 2 have life marriage nowadays becoz nothing to prove ur self in d presence of ur husband. we that we are complete i said congratulation nd U that u av lost dat glory pls is better ask for the forgiveness of sins.

It is a shame when a "child of 20yrs without marriage can not proud of his or virginity.Am a guy of 23yrs & am proud of myself dat am a virgin, because virginity is glory & if u lost dat glory 2 just ordinary person dat is d end.although I do av feelings but determination matter most.wen i was 20yrs sincs then av bn searching 4 d girl 2 date both in campuse nd area but wenever i toast and she agreed my next question is dat "are u a virgin if not dont cal my number again" & that wl be d end without any quarel.Umm dis world has turned 2 somthing else evn i toast a girl of 17,18, to 21yrs but they have lost that glory. Wao early this year i met 1 beautful girl, proposed 2 her and she acceptd i askd my question she was suck nd said am the first guy 2 ask this question.But she said she is a virgin.Am so hapy & i huge her 2 keep it til our wedding day. & she said dat is her determination.& i told her dat wednday nd I discover dat she is not dat is the end of that Marriage.She agreed.KEEP IT 4 D PERSON DAT VALUE IT

segsman: what u need to do is to guide ur hart diligently against all evil thought.... Fornication start from the hart because what u think is what u might end up doing u need to stop watching sex movies or sex story if u have been doing so. Is not sin watching it but it make u feel the urge to wanna practice it. U can also discipline ur thought or body by fasting....i hope this help

Bros,thanks for your concern,i have tamed my heart against sex thoughts,but d damn urge keep coming,i dont watch blue films.
I think i need to go for the fasting option...
But,my mind have been begging my flesh not to have sex,but the stubborn flesh wants a taste of pussy.
I will keep trying harder to overcome.
Thanks

Capableben: Ehm, I am a virgin at 18. Seriously, it isn't easy in this generation of ours. I want some advice, I have never experienced wet dream b4, forget not, I am 18 o.. wat does this mean? And I have never seen my semen b4 , I have never mastutbated. Professional advice pls

Eyaaa,i understand your plight,dont be afraid for you are very much potent.By the time you get to your late 19 or 20s you will start having wetdream...but it mostly comes in a form of having sex in the dream or via a casual eruption of the fluid.
I started wetting when i was 21...
To be virgin as a guy in this sex sex generation aint easy ooo

Bjfirst: for most virgins, virginity is not dignity, its just lack of opportunity. especially d guys

i have had countless opportunity bros,but the Original BIBLE advised against sticking ones dick into anothers pussy...i respect that till now,though konji dey deal with me,but i gat to resist

Teeboi4real: It is a shame when a "child of 20yrs without marriage can not proud of his or virginity.Am a guy of 23yrs & am proud of myself dat am a virgin, because virginity is glory & if u lost dat glory 2 just ordinary person dat is d end.although I do av feelings but determination matter most.wen i was 20yrs sincs then av bn searching 4 d girl 2 date both in campuse nd area but wenever i toast and she agreed my next question is dat "are u a virgin if not dont cal my number again" & that wl be d end without any quarel.Umm dis world has turned 2 somthing else evn i toast a girl of 17,18, to 21yrs but they have lost that glory. Wao early this year i met 1 beautful girl, proposed 2 her and she acceptd i askd my question she was suck nd said am the first guy 2 ask this question.But she said she is a virgin.Am so hapy & i huge her 2 keep it til our wedding day. & she said dat is her determination.& i told her dat wednday nd I discover dat she is not dat is the end of that Marriage.She agreed.KEEP IT 4 D PERSON DAT VALUE IT

bros,how do you manage to suppress the urge?
because mine is freaking making me weird