khiaa:

Explain #2

MuhdG: no I won't. Cox dats my opinion. And am nt gonna explain and have u criticise it

3cycle: As a lady, sometimes I come across great post by a guy and I fall in love immediately. Most times I try to ignore the poster but I do Remember The username so I summon the courage to follow him and see if I can strike an online conversation before I send a pm but I never succeed.

Just yesterday a young tall guy on Nairaland from Enugu state gave me an all time blow when it was obvious I was trying to woo him, he started with iyanga and walah he ignored me completelyonly for somebody to call me names for making my intention known.
To make matters worst his response was "I don hang boot since last year"
Who says that to a lady bikonu

Do we really have gentlemen on Nairaland?
Can a guy reply pm's of a girl with an open mind?
What are the chances of starting an e romance if a lady were to be the innitiator?
Seun is it possible for us to chat with a nairalander without a third party involved?

khiaa:

I promise I won't criticize you.

MisterLongman: Always try to get to the facts right before jumping into conclusion.. According to their chat, the guy told her that he has hanged his boots since last year meaning he is either married or engaged... And I believe that is better than leading her on when he has no plans for her... C'est fini...

MuhdG:
There are some girls that when they like a guy, they only give him the idea and then let him go after their heart.
That's my type

But there are others whom if they like a guy, they just approach him and start going after him. In this scenario (to me), she is the guy and the guy she's after is the lady.

To me, that's not classy and that's not my type of gal.

I like a gal who would play hard to get. Coz when I have her I know how hard I tried to get her and won't take her for granted.

Understand this.

A gal who is cheap to get and already has a bf, chances are (if she's not loyal) other guys would snatch her from her bf easily!

MuhdG:
There are some girls that when they like a guy, they only give him the idea and then let him go after their heart.
That's my type

But there are others whom if they like a guy, they just approach him and start going after him. In this scenario (to me), she is the guy and the guy she's after is the lady.

To me, that's not classy and that's not my type of gal.

I like a gal who would play hard to get. Coz when I have her I know how hard I tried to get her and won't take her for granted.

Understand this.

A gal who is cheap to get and already has a bf, chances are (if she's not loyal) other guys would snatch her from her bf easily!

limociano007:


I don't like gals dat play hard to get, give me d green light I move forward you open up we match den zoom we go.

ihedinobi2: Falling in love is not the same as loving? News. Maybe it's something to do with urban definitions. Because otherwise it sounds a lot like falling in water is not the same as getting wet. As absurd as it gets.

@OP, you don't woo men.

khiaa:


I understand what you are saying BUT just because a woman tells you how she feels about you doesn't mean she is cheap and easy to get it only means she's honest. Telling you she's attracted to you and actually getting her are two different things. You may miss your soul mate by being so closed mined, this is 2014 not 1814, the world has changed.

runnazz:

i feel u...don't stop trying,u know good things don't come easy so..blv some1 will pick u up b4 u crash from the falling

khiaa:


I understand what you are saying BUT just because a woman tells you how she feels about you doesn't mean she is cheap and easy to get it only means she's honest. Telling you she's attracted to you and actually getting her are two different things. You may miss your soul mate by being so closed minded, this is 2014 not 1814, the world has changed.

MuhdG: Okay, Noted.

Thanks

khiaa:

We can chat right here.

ihedinobi2: Falling in love is not the same as loving? News. Maybe it's something to do with urban definitions. Because otherwise it sounds a lot like falling in water is not the same as getting wet. As absurd as it gets.

@OP, you don't woo men.

jonsin:

what he's trying to tell you is, the lady shouldn't play the guys part, giving him green light is good enough, cos you can't force some one to love u

3cycle:
Ogini di nobi?
So I was actually wrong in an attempt to woo a guy? We learn everyday

jonsin:

she has crashed already lady

khiaa:


I know what he's saying, but read my posts to him. I know a woman can't force a man to luv her just like a man can't force a woman to luv him, but it is so much better to put the cards on the table upfront than to waste your precious time on someone who is not into you.

MuhdG: aoouucch

runnazz:

khiaa:

I didn't mean it that way. I can't receive email.

marieolae: Wow as fine as u are.. Dese guys are mad ooo

3cycle:
Ogini di nobi?
So I was actually wrong in an attempt to woo a guy? We learn everyday

Sheriffav: buh shez not as beautiful as u , u are just like a diamond in d sky

marieolae: Wow as fine as u are.. Dese guys are mad ooo

Elantracey:

lol , I tell you

Oahray:
Seriously?

Elantracey:
yes o

3cycle: As a lady, sometimes I come across great post by a guy and I fall in love immediately. Most times I try to ignore the poster but I do Remember The username so I summon the courage to follow him and see if I can strike an online conversation before I send a pm but I never succeed.

Just yesterday a young tall guy on Nairaland from Enugu state gave me an all time blow when it was obvious I was trying to woo him, he started with iyanga and walah he ignored me completelyonly for somebody to call me names for making my intention known.
To make matters worst his response was "I don hang boot since last year"
Who says that to a lady bikonu

Do we really have gentlemen on Nairaland?
Can a guy reply pm's of a girl with an open mind?
What are the chances of starting an e romance if a lady were to be the innitiator?
Seun is it possible for us to chat with a nairalander without a third party involved?

marieolae: thanks

jonsin:

put the cards gently, not thru it all in his gave, guys don't like that, y is it so hard to understand