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Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by SAMBARRY: 10:54am On Oct 07, 2014 |
KanwuliaJara:lol you this woman you won't kill me which one you con like ondo ekiti lagos abeokuta Ife which of them |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by SAMBARRY: 10:56am On Oct 07, 2014 |
And what about sambary, ehen loretta? cococandy: |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by coogar: 10:56am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Joy83: are you planning to cheat? if you don't trust yourself, don't marry an ijebu woman o. the punishment is usually death! it's an unforgivable offence as far as they are concerned. cococandy: tpia is the nicest woman ever - she just gets misunderstood a lot. SAMBARRY: sorry ma'am. i thought you are an ijebu babe judging from the number of men you have used your connection to arrest - just because they toasted you. |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by SAMBARRY: 11:03am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Is toasting now criminal offence? them dey arrest person because e toast woman? coogar o coogar: |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by Joy83(m): 11:16am On Oct 07, 2014 |
coogar:I can't cheat naa, but that character is very dangerous, especially when a man is not cheating but rather perceive to be cheating. She might have done bad thing to the man before realizing her perception is false. |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by Nobody: 11:24am On Oct 07, 2014 |
coogar: ...isn't that because ijebu landladies know how to 'get rid' of their husbands who built the houses... #sotheysay |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by Nobody: 11:27am On Oct 07, 2014 |
zeemoore: Funny geh... |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by Joy83(m): 11:30am On Oct 07, 2014 |
theLORDreigns:So what could be the reason? |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by coogar: 11:33am On Oct 07, 2014 |
theLORDreigns: we are saying the same thing na. the landlords cheated & the wives got rid of them - so the wives became landladies by default. where have you been, TLR? Joy83: no, they always get it right! they get their facts before going to task to get rid of you. so if you ain't a serial cheat, you are in safe hands. make no mistakes - the death isn't a sudden one. it's a slow poison....long sickness & death so as not to arouse any suspicion. SAMBARRY: you mean if i toast you now, you won't get me arrested? |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by Nobody: 11:52am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by Nobody: 11:52am On Oct 07, 2014 |
theLORDreigns:Tell me you didn't see the original post |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by Nobody: 11:57am On Oct 07, 2014 |
zeemoore: Lollzz...Tp quoted it! Naughty u. |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by Nobody: 12:14pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
theLORDreigns:No, she didn't quote the whole post She only quoted the part that got her "hehehehe-ing" |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by Nobody: 12:21pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
zeemoore: Awww...I missd d rest of it. Lool @"hehehehe-ing" |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by Nobody: 12:32pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
theLORDreigns:I'll fill you in when we see |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by pickabeau1: 12:37pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
Coogar u r exaggerating on your stats of 1 to 20 The reality is more in line with average number of widows to widowers |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by Nobody: 12:39pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
zeemoore: Oya naa... Ebola no dey again |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by aderonila18: 12:49pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
I've never believed in stereotyping so when I hear stereotypes about different tribes or different states I just think it's silly. As a non Ijebu Yoruba person I don't believe there are any vices that Ijebu people have that you won't find everywhere else in Yorubaland or amongst non Yoruba sef. The character of the person you're marrying and the outlook of his family is all you should ever concern yourself with 5 Likes |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by helen4(f): 1:08pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
Guys, they are not the same. The good ones are rare, that you won't believe they are ijebus. I've been living with the ijebus all my life. There are some that u will call brutal( if i can say that) especially their women, but there are some enlightened ones amidst them. Know your partner before going ahead. 4 Likes |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by coogar: 1:15pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
pickabeau1: of course - the reality is more in line average widows to widowers. it's only in ijebu that the life expectancy of men is the lowest in the entire country. ijebu men must be strictly soldiers, miners or ebola-carriers to be dying in such appalling numbers. |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by EfemenaXY: 1:16pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
helen4: Helen, you say you've lived with them all your life, meaning it's possible you were born and brought up there (in their land). You probably speak their language fluently, so you most likely understand everything pertaining to their culture. You're more or less an indigin... So your case is different to what @op is driving at / asking. |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by helen4(f): 1:28pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
EfemenaXY:true, being born and bread there doesn't mean am part of them, I'll still be a stranger till eternity. What am saying is they are not all the same. Despite being there for long ivery experience one thing or the other from them but am saying there are some unique ones among them. |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by cococandy(f): 1:33pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
I was waiting for you to confirm that you're from ijebu. But you said you aren't. So no wahala. I'm looking for an ijebu bestie Stone cold babes (according to coogar) SAMBARRY: |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by EfemenaXY: 1:46pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
helen4: Just out of interest, what could possibly make you still be that stranger - despite your growing up with them? |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by damiso(f): 1:57pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
coogar: Coogaaaar be expecting words from my lawyers. This is defamation of character. OP don't mind coogar o there are ijebu landladies because ijebu women are very industrious and buy and own properties in their own names as well.. 6 Likes |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by pickabeau1: 1:59pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
coogar: Lol Exaggeration.. damiso: Exactly....very industrious women Go to mile 12, they own most of the shops there Even in lagos island 3 Likes |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by coogar: 2:01pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
damiso: don't send your lawyers..... i said "according to what i researched/gathered from people." what i said wasn't my opinion - i am just recanting what people generally think of ijebu folks. |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by damiso(f): 2:06pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
coogar: Why are you maligning my people like this naa? Ijebu women are the best wives you can ever get. Hardworking, fiercely loyal, industrious (a real asset to your family finances she can double your family income as they are often entrepreneurial), caring,accomodating (she won't chase your family away ), classy, educated, etc etc I know I am biased but pls don't buy into rhis stereotype coogar is spreading. Eeeso omo alaare 1 Like |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by helen4(f): 2:08pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
EfemenaXY:oniovo me. You should know no matter how close u're to them wen it comes to indigene stuff they will boycott you. I don't relate with them not even a friend can't stand their behaviour (female). |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by coogar: 2:11pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
damiso: damiso - read my comments again. i said if everything goes as planned, ijebu women are the best assets to have. they are highly connected, mostly wealthy & they love their hubbies to death. they are ready to pluck out the moon from the sky for their partners...... however, when they are at war with their partners, only the tabernacle in jerusalem can save such men. the result is always an untimely death, an incurable illness or a terminal disease. if you handpick 100 random families whose wives are ijebu, at least 90 of the husbands are dead or fighting hepatitis. once again, this is what i was told. 1 Like |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by cococandy(f): 2:15pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
Ijebu women sound so much like mbaise women. Going by what you and coogar are saying. I believe both of you. Wonderful creatures but brutal when crossed. damiso: 1 Like |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by TV01(m): 2:16pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
Joy83, I can confidently tell you that the Ijebu are quite sniffy about marrying out, and don't unduly concern themselves about those thinking of marrying in. They are respected amongst the other Yoruboid clans, whom they themselves consider as "awon ara oke". Amongst the paramount Youruba they are; The most well-read The most widely travelled The most astute politicians The best bureaucrats The chieftest and shrewdest entrepreneurs They are aspirational for their sons and their daughters, with clear role expectations for both. Any vestigial baggage - i.e. jazz - is being relinquished and becoming a thing of the past. They never willingly surrendered to foreign invaders and till this day remain unbowed and unbroken. As per my opening and last points, they are secure in their homeland and comfortable within themselves. More than content to keep it Ijebu and happy to be isolationist . While our women are consulting with our lawyers, our men are sharpening their spears. Ewe So Omo Alare You inquiring, who are your people? TV 1 Like 1 Share |
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