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My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by snowpe(m): 9:11am On Jul 17, 2014 |
I have been married for 4years now,recently my wife listened to a preaching on the issue of jewelries,trousers and makeup.suddenly she changed and since then she have been making her self unattractive in the name of church activities.sincerely she is making me to loose interest on her,I have spoken to her about it and she refuses to change.what should I do?l am seriously trying not to cheat on her.please I need advice on what to do to save this marriage. please moderator move this to front page for advice 24 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by xynerise: 9:14am On Jul 17, 2014 |
snowpe: I have been married for 4years now,recently my wife listened to a preaching on the issue of jewelries,trousers and makeup.suddenly she changed and since then she have been making her self unattractive in the name of church activities.sincerely she is making me to loose interest on her,I have spoken to her about it and she refuses to change.what should I do?l am seriously trying not to cheat on her.please I need advice on what to do to save this marriage.And if she doesn't make-up you will have no choice than to cheat on her? 90 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by snowpe(m): 9:19am On Jul 17, 2014 |
hei not the make up issues alone,she now looks unkempt and refuses to make her hair and refuses to even look attractive. 24 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by xynerise: 9:22am On Jul 17, 2014 |
snowpe: hei not the make up issues alone,she now looks unkempt and refuses to make her hair and refuses to even look attractive.My question still stands 57 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by ChrisChino(m): 9:24am On Jul 17, 2014 |
Chai!! She has been brainwashed 49 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by ggrin(f): 9:27am On Jul 17, 2014 |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by snowpe(m): 9:32am On Jul 17, 2014 |
My question still stands[/quote]if you have advice please give and don't interview me cos am in dilemma 118 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by snowpe(m): 9:34am On Jul 17, 2014 |
akraym: Hey, another HIV victim lurking around the cornerwhere is the victim?for my 4years I have never cheated on her. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by xynerise: 9:36am On Jul 17, 2014 |
snowpe:My advice comes after you answer my question 19 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by ammyluv2002(f): 9:36am On Jul 17, 2014 |
snowpe: hei not the make up issues alone,she now looks unkempt and refuses to make her hair and refuses to even look attractive.I understand your point....I sugguest you find a way to still love her like that cause if that's the way she has chosen to worship her God, it won't be fair for you to start cheating on her. I know guys have areas that gets them attracted to ladies but you don't really have a choice here rather you should support her and makke her feel loved. Btw, thatz why is always good to fall in love with the someone from the inside and not because of the physical apperance cause you may get married to a queen today and by tomorrow her beauty is gone. We should be able to still love those we claim we love even if the person turns out to be a skeleton tomorrow, just take a clue from a mother's love to her child or even God's love to His children. Love should be unconditional. @OP, pls don't get me wrong o...I'm not making reference to you, just saying generally 153 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by alabiyemmy(m): 9:36am On Jul 17, 2014 |
xynerise: Did He Say so. 26 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by xynerise: 9:38am On Jul 17, 2014 |
alabiyemmy:Did you read his post at all? 28 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by snowpe(m): 9:38am On Jul 17, 2014 |
alabiyemmy:help me ask amoo 12 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by alabiyemmy(m): 9:41am On Jul 17, 2014 |
xynerise: NO I didnt. Read it out to me. Let me hear. 79 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by snowpe(m): 9:42am On Jul 17, 2014 |
ammyluv2002: I understand your point....I sugguest you find a way to still love her like that cause if that's the way she has chosen to worship her God, it won't be fair for you to start cheating on her. I know guys have areas that gets them attracted to ladies but you don't really have a choice here rather you should support her and makke her feel loved.tanx alot,I still love her very much,she is the mother of my child.I can't do anything to hurt her,that's why am asking for advice. 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by xynerise: 9:44am On Jul 17, 2014 |
snowpe: I have been married for 4years now,recently my wife listened to a preaching on the issue of jewelries,trousers and makeup.suddenly she changed and since then she have been making her self unattractive in the name of church activities.sincerely she is making me to loose interest on her,I have spoken to her about it and she refuses to change.what should I do?l am seriously trying not to cheat on her.please I need advice on what to do to save this marriage.@alabiYemmy. What does that tell you? 22 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by Dygeasy(m): 9:44am On Jul 17, 2014 |
alabiyemmy: snowpe: Sincerely she is making me to loose interest on her,I have spoken to her about it and she refuses to change.what should I do?l am seriously trying not to cheat on her. Please I need advice on what to do to save this marriage.There!!! 16 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by flipflop(f): 9:46am On Jul 17, 2014 |
Sir, I'm sure you did not marry her just for beauty alone. Your wife has acted on faith, you criticizing and demanding for her to change may destroy her faith. Give her your support as her husband and friend. If you feel she looks unkempt, it just because you are still looking for that woman she used to be. You suggesting cheating on her is absolutely absurd and terribly wicked. Your wife is your wife, stop loving her for the outside "beauty" and start focusing on the inward beauty that does not change or fade. *#shrugs shoulder 39 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by xynerise: 9:48am On Jul 17, 2014 |
Dygeasy: There!!!Some people don't read between lines 9 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by Provie(m): 9:51am On Jul 17, 2014 |
Op it's not all about her orientation; it's about yours too. She is not really looking dirty or unkempt, is she? Having noted the above, know that women tend to be fanatical wit their new-found Christian faith. All you need to do is allow her some time. The steam will definitely blow off. Just help her kip out of trouble. Secondly, u must upgrade yourself in terms of Christianity/Bible knowledge and make out time to have a chitchat with her on biblical principles as different from what is really taught these days. I'm sure your wife will be back. 16 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by snowpe(m): 9:53am On Jul 17, 2014 |
flipflop: Sir, I'm sure you did not marry her just for beauty alone. Your wife has acted on faith, you criticizing and demanding for her to change may destroy her faith. Give her your support as her husband and friend. If you feel she looks unkempt, it just because you are still looking for that woman she used to be. You suggesting cheating on her is absolutely absurd and terribly wicked. Your wife is your wife, stop loving her for the outside "beauty" and start focusing on the inward beauty that does not change or fade. *#shrugs shoulderthanks |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by snowpe(m): 9:56am On Jul 17, 2014 |
Provie: Op it's not all about her orientation;its about urs too.She's not really looking dirty or unkempt,is she?thanks alot 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by tempem: 9:58am On Jul 17, 2014 |
ChrisChino: Chai!! She has been brainwashedMake it strong!! Brainwashed 15 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by Dygeasy(m): 10:05am On Jul 17, 2014 |
Bluntly speaking, No advice anyone gives the OP will be sufficient to change his orientation cos for a man to have TRIED to consider cheating on his WIFE for a reason as absurd as what he's stating here, trust me he is just wasting our time. It's either she changes or he cheats. 34 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by xynerise: 10:08am On Jul 17, 2014 |
Dygeasy: Bluntly speaking, No advice anyone gives the OP will be sufficient to change his orientation cos for a man to have TRIED to consider cheating on his WIFE for a reason as absurd as what he's stating here, trust me he is just wasting our time.Exactly 16 Likes
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Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by zeb04(f): 10:12am On Jul 17, 2014 |
Cheating is out of it but how do you take major decisions like these without invloving your patner, Its just wrong. 14 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by snowpe(m): 10:13am On Jul 17, 2014 |
Provie: Op it's not all about her orientation; it's about yours too. She is not really looking dirty or unkempt, is she?thanks bro |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by Nobody: 10:14am On Jul 17, 2014 |
You married her because of her artificial looks 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by obayaya(m): 10:16am On Jul 17, 2014 |
Dygeasy: Bluntly speaking, No advice anyone gives the OP will be sufficient to change his orientation cos for a man to have TRIED to consider cheating on his WIFE for a reason as absurd as what he's stating here, trust me he is just wasting our time. I don't think that's true. The OP is going through a hard time adapting to his wife's sudden changes. And at such times, temptations abound. So far, he's been able to overcome the temptation. He's only seeking advice on how to adapt to the changes as fast as possible and save his marriage. The bolded is a rather harsh conclusion. OP!!! Honestly I don't know what to tell you. I'm not married and I know very little about women and relationships. But I think you really need to remind yourself why you married your wife. The reasons you fell in love with her. I'm sure it's more than just her looks. look beyond that. Goodluck 95 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by Tallesty1(m): 10:18am On Jul 17, 2014 |
@Op, don't go nuts yet. She is just trying to devout herself to God, apparently to make up for her past mistakes. One thing that will be bother me if I were you is if she is in the right place or not. Believe me, all those thing she is doing are nothing if her church is not rooted in Christ. Secondly, If you want her to listen to you then you must start studying the scripture with, infact pretend you need Christ more than she does. Hopefully she will be able to understand that most of those dos and don'ts do not apply to Todays's Christians. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Over Spiritual Orientation Is Driving Me Nuts!!! by Blockus: 10:18am On Jul 17, 2014 |
snowpe: I have been married for 4years now,recently my wife listened to a preaching on the issue of jewelries,trousers and makeup.suddenly she changed and since then she have been making her self unattractive in the name of church activities.sincerely she is making me to loose interest on her,I have spoken to her about it and she refuses to change.what should I do?l am seriously trying not to cheat on her.please I need advice on what to do to save this marriage. OP!! Spare the rod, spoil the child. One day, take her by surprise, looosen your belt and whip her like a child that she is. And when you are done, give her an ultimatum; Return to factory default setting or move out. Dont let any pastor become the head of your family. If your biitch isnt acting right, whip her or cut the biitch off. And its okay if you cheat now, God would understand. If Virgin Mary looked like that, she would not had been God's babymama. 24 Likes |
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