Lately, ive been quite busy and my obsessed girlfriend didnt get to talk to me 100 times a day like she used to.
At best, we speak twice a day or once a day but we get to speak everyday sha.
Then she started acting up last week and when I asked her if there is anyother guy in her life, this is what she told me.

See screenshot


It made me quite upset.
So I am just an option to this girl and next guy with a swollen pocket comes along, im getting kicked to the curbs.
Meanwhile, im a music producer.
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Out of all the response i have read, only that from starlingbawa has driven some legit points...
most people are just saying "the girl is too smart"and all.

Ok seriously she don't like/love you at all...and she don't value you too
Sorry

Op u mumu, u ask a question and she replied u,dnt u get it...

jsunex:
Op u mumu, u ask a question and she replied u,dnt u get it...

Please lets keep it civil.
I never said that I didnt get. I just feel she is not with me as an option.

@Op you are very stvpd for wasting my time and data.


You wan tell us say you get babe and she loves you abi? How am i even sure this is not you chatting with ur two phones.

Babeless guy forming relationship. You are a madcow.

icebeatz:

Please lets keep it civil.
I never said that I didnt get. I just feel she is not with me as an option.

Mayb she needs more of ur attention for u to feel dat

hmm, she's indirectly telling u that she no longer loves u :x maybe u have been cheating on her, the msg is very clear, but I wouldn't advise u to breakup with her, let her do it.

EroticAngelina:
hmm, she's indirectly telling u that she no longer loves u :x maybe u have been cheating on her, the msg is very clear, but I wouldn't advise u to breakup with her, let her do it.

I have never cheated on her to the bestof her knowledge.
She has cheated on me before though

No break up with such a brilliant girl o, cos u have very few Nigerian ladies that are this brilliant.

I guess she does not put on "goat hair" in place of the so called "human hair" . Stay with her and gently find out why she is been acting up. U cud be the reason u no.

I'm not sure u even understood d message.. lol
Its obvious shez starved of attention.. all she needs is U..
Read ur message again, coz Dat was a very clever reply

EroticAngelina:
hmm, she's indirectly telling u that she no longer loves u :x maybe u have been cheating on her, the msg is very clear, but I wouldn't advise u to breakup with her, let her do it.

Did you read the message ? She said : " its impossiple to find someone that perfect" which means its impossible for her to have someone else.

EroticAngelina:
hmm, she's indirectly telling u that she no longer loves u :x maybe u have been cheating on her, the msg is very clear, but I wouldn't advise u to breakup with her, let her do it.

I advice him to breakup with her first and still gets his pride

The message she intended to pass across was - what would make her cheat on you did not exist!



What if it existed nko?

icebeatz:


I have never cheated on her to the bestof her knowledge.
She has cheated on me before though

in that case, she's trying to tell u, that she ain't interested in u again, start packing

icebeatz:


I have never cheated on her to the bestof her knowledge.
She has cheated on me before though

She has never cheated on you

Don't be so sure

she has already broken up with you ...wats the point breaking up with her

samflexxy:
I advice him to breakup with her first and still gets his pride

really? its not about pride, its better she breaks up with him first, so he knows that he's free from her, coz he mentioned that she was usually obsessed with him. rule no 1- don't break up with an obsessed woman, she can do anything to have u back :-x even kill.

so let her be the one to call it off, at least hr knows that he's free and she CNT accuse him of breaking up with her or cheating on her. my opinion tho

you guys should read the message and understand before giving him bad advice.

Very clever a lady.. I don't knw why most people find it difficult to comprehend what msg the lady was trying to pass across.OP, you aint trying at all oooo and you need to start doing the needful.. Read the msg again and ask yourself what this phrase means '' It's impossible for someone to be this perfect''

Dats d bomb shell..My guy run olaga race oooo..She dnt value u for one piece of coin.Laddies cheating since 1623BC..

jsunex:
Op u mumu, u ask a question and she replied u,dnt u get it...

What makes you think he's a 'MUMU'?

Please enlighten us some more, since you got the intended message

hehehe,Op,why you go break up with her na? she just answered you question..if she had lied and you latter got to find out,you go call all ladies liars. Oya Op,maybe you no dey treat am well,hence her reply

starlingbawa:



What makes you think he's a 'MUMU'?

Please enlighten us some more, since you got the intended message

Ots alright.
I already asked him to keep it civil and he has.
Lets skip the mumu aspect

farano:


Ok seriously she don't like/love you at all...and she don't value you too
Sorry

When someone is tired of you.



Even a good morning could lead to a breakup.

She's asking you to be those things. It's not like she don't like you. Maybe she do. A meek love maybe.

All i see above me is a 'LOT' of stupid advises. Little wonder we have lots of fake and faceless people on this forum!

@OP: The first thing that got my attention from her write up is the fact that you have 'TRUST ISSUES' with her. That could make a woman leave you if she isn't cheating. PLEASE NOTE IT!

Truth is, she's a brilliant girl no doubt and said what 'MOST GIRLS' would have said to you too. I think she's still into you but then she's had to give you a little warning just to awaken your consciousness and keep you focused.

You need to work on yourself(your trust issues with her) and learn to trust her if you can. There's really no point in being hysterical because i think she's still feeling you.

Finally, you need to prepare for whatever outcome by getting for yourself a pair of SHOCK ABSORBERS for your heart because in as much as she's still into you, she's also leaving her options open and you should too!

Did i hear you mention that she's cheated on you previously? That calls for concern but then she'll cheat if she wants to and there's precious little you can do to control that!

Here's hoping it works out for you guys......................

starlingbawa:
All i see above me is a 'LOT' of stupid advises. Little wonder we have lots of fake and faceless people on this forum!

@OP: The first thing that got my attention from her write up is the fact that you have 'TRUST ISSUES' with her. That could make a woman leave you if she isn't cheating. PLEASE NOTE IT!

Truth is, she's a brilliant girl no doubt and said what 'MOST GIRLS' would have said to you too. I think she's still into you but then she's had to give you a little warning just to awaken your consciousness and keep you focused.

You need to work on yourself(your trust issues with her) and learn to trust her if you can. There's really no point in being hysterical because i think she's still feeling you.

Finally, you need to prepare for whatever outcome by getting for yourself a pair of SHOCK ABSORBERS for your heart because in as much as she's still into you, she's also leaving her options open and you should too!

Did i hear you mention that she's cheated on you previously? That calls for concern but then she'll cheat if she wants to and there's precious little you can do to control that!

Here's hoping it works out for you guys......................

The trust issues started when I discovered she cheated and lied to me for 2 solid years.
The relationship has been downward spiral since thwn.
I forgave her and never mentioned it again but its not been d same

starlingbawa:
All i see above me is a 'LOT' of stupid advises. Little wonder we have lots of fake and faceless people on this forum!

@OP: The first thing that got my attention from her write up is the fact that you have 'TRUST ISSUES' with her. That could make a woman leave you if she isn't cheating. PLEASE NOTE IT!

Truth is, she's a brilliant girl no doubt and said what 'MOST GIRLS' would have said to you too. I think she's still into you but then she's had to give you a little warning just to awaken your consciousness and keep you focused.

You need to work on yourself(your trust issues with her) and learn to trust her if you can. There's really no point in being hysterical because i think she's still feeling you.

Finally, you need to prepare for whatever outcome by getting for yourself a pair of SHOCK ABSORBERS for your heart because in as much as she's still into you, she's also leaving her options open and you should too!

Did i hear you mention that she's cheated on you previously? That calls for concern but then she'll cheat if she wants to and there's precious little you can do to control that!

Here's hoping it works out for you guys......................

Wow! Special adviser. mtcheeewww

icebeatz:


The trust issues started when I discovered she cheated and lied to me for 2 solid years
The relationship has been downward spiral since thwn.
I forgave her and never mentioned it again but its not been d same

hmmm

farano:
Wow! Special adviser. mtcheeewww

I'm not one to pick fights whenever derogatory remarks is aimed at me so please have a field day.

And lastly, i'm not surprised....