ayobase:


na d matter pain u sotey wey u come dey wet me with saliva?

digbolugi ma ni eleyi ke.

stop shouting and go take ur drugs.

GO AND CALL UR FATHER TO COME AND QUOTE ME. I WOULD'VE PREFERRED TO HUMBLE HIM ON NL.
ANUMANU DI KA GI. ISI GBOWAAKWA NNA GI

Acidosis:
I really don't have problems with people who cheat wholeheartedly; my anger tilts towards those who call cheating: a MISTAKE, TEMPTATION, DEVIL'S WORK, 'FELL FOR HIM/HER', etc.


If you want to cheat, please tell your spouse you want to CHEAT; Don't go falling for that tall dark-skin dude with pink lips in your workplace (after getting married to a rich, but extraordinarily short albino).

this post sef is the devil's work

Decryptor:



Cheating Wife Detected!

Cheating husband detected

chlowi:


Nice

NICE ABI? OYA COME AND CASTRATE SOMEBODY PIKIN BECAUSE SAY HE CHEAT ON U.
NONSENSE

Drkul:
Adulterous Affairs Don’t Begin with Sleeping Together; they begin with inappropriate friendships. Friendship and emotional attachments with people of the opposite sex can spell danger for your marriage. Protect your marriage by avoiding private communications and intimate conversations with people of the opposite sex. Beware of workmates who seem too concerned with your personal private life; those that tell you “let me know if you need anything.” Beware of those that give you exaggerated and suggestive compliments about the way you look. Regardless of what is happening in your marriage don’t give the Devil a foothold in your marriage by falling victim to this trap. Let your workmates know there are things you won’t tolerate. Keep a healthy physical, social and emotional distance between you and people of the opposite sex. - Isaac Kubvoruno.
the problem with men and women today is they feel that if they dont have sex with the person its ok.Anything that you have to hide from your spouse :conversation, text etc. is not ok its called an emotional affair this hurts just as much as a physical affair and could eventually lead to sex in the long run.

Very sensible comment I read lately.... many saying jagoons.

crackhaus:

You will die before you ever admit you like that picture

You really don' know me.

coogar:
You

good question!
marriage can be complex - what about hygiene issues? you stayed in a hostel at some point, i'm sure.....

did the lifestyle of some women not make you wanna puke? yet, these poor habits of theirs are invisible on the outside. so when you see husbands of fit women seeking greener pastures, look more inwardly.

You and this your weight argument as being the main reason why men have affiairs

Stop skating round Dami . .She made a very good point.

What about men who have size 8 wives but cheat with size 14's?

You are making it sound as if its weight or the lack of it that keeps the hubby faithful

Some men just cheat for the sake of it and have no real excuse; but look for something to blame anyway.
Everyone has a reason to cheat . .FACT!! cos no one is married to Mr/Mrs perfect and there is always someone better looking, richer, more interesting, more successful, dresses better than your wife/hubby .. but they choose NOT to.

coogar:


it's not so black & white.
in a way, you can hardly blame married men that cheat. the only thing that can make a man go outside is because what he has inside is no longer attractive to him.

what is the role of the wives in this? that's what you should be looking at? women just generally stop trying to look good especially after having a child or two. what's a man supposed to do when tri-weekly sėx becomes bi-monthly sėx?

he should go to divorce court & chase out the mother of his children? cheating is the easier option. it's not like i am condoning this but women cannot just add 20kg out of nowhere & expect to still be attractive to their husbands.

Well i guess you should never blame the woman you marry if she cheats on you with a healthier, muscular looking guy or a richer guy.

After all if sex appeal is all there is to marriage for men, don't complain when women make marriage all about the money.


People are clearly moving away from whats really important and focusing on the most trivial things.

Even if a woman gains 20kgs she can still lose it, with a loving and supporting husband who will encourage her and make the process less frustrating.
Even if a man loses all he has, with a loving and supporting wife who will help him get back on his feet.

Its sad we have too many immature people getting married these days. They never willing to put in effort to do whatever it takes to make it work. They would rather throw everything away over something trivial, instead of putting in effort to fix the problem.

fairlyisabel:
Emmmh! So you guys think that when a man cheats, is either the wife is fat or has attitude problem, in other words it is the fault of the woman. Akuko! I guess same goes to the women, when they cheat, is either their husbands have attitude problem, small penis, inability to last long on bed or provide for the family.

chaircover:

You and this your weight argument as being the main reason why men have affiairs
Stop skating round Dami . .She made a very good point.
What about men who have size 8 wives but cheat with size 14's?

they never wanted the size-8 wives in the first place. if you look inwards, that kinda Union were shotgun marriages - men that were trapped by strange pregnancies.

You are making it sound as if its weight or the lackl of it that keeps the hubby faithful

body health is very important & weight issues is the most important. do you not marvel when you see caucasian females jogging in your borough every evening? where are their nigerian counterparts?

Some men just cheat for the sake of it and have no real excuse; but look for something to blame anyway.

no one cheats without an excuse - if the stew in the home is no longer tasty, he would wander out & scour for the tasty ones.

Everyone has a reason to cheat . .FACT!! cos no one is married to Mr/Mrs perfect and there is always someone better looking, richer, more interesting, more successful, dresses better than your wife/hubby .. but they choose NOT to.

hahahaha - didn't you just say some men cheat without no real excuses? now you have changed tune that everyone has a reason to cheat.

so which is which?

Poznan:
In all honesty, it is notan easy battle to be chaste in marriage. I have a pretty wife and a very cute son, and i can say in all honesty that i have been under situations that could have made me do it. But i had tofight it. My marriage meant i hadto stick to my wife. She may not be the best sex partner, she may be odd in bed, perhaps, but i have a commitment to her and i wish to see it out.

I don't claim to be a saint. No. Jah knows i am not. But the truth is, single and married, chastity is a virtue. And in my little experience, sometimes, the girls seem to go for married men, they know u are married, yet they still want u. Beats me! I wish all of us, men and women, live up to our marital dedication. Hebrews 13:4- 'Let marriage be honourable among all and the marriage bed be without defilement for God will judge fornicators and adulterers'. So the point is, one act of extra-marital sex, defiles the marriage bed.

God bless you for dis comment. May God continue to give u grace to resist adultery!

elipheleh:


NICE ABI? OYA COME AND CASTRATE SOMEBODY PIKIN BECAUSE SAY HE CHEAT ON U.
NONSENSE

Many are mad, few. Are roaming!!! u are def among the. Few

austine4real:
We men wll stop cheating d day God starts removin an inch 4rm our d1ckz!!
Assumin u'v 8inches,if u cheat 5times u'll av 3inches left..if u cheat 6 times u'll 2inches left& if na 8times plz wots d ansa i no skul abeg

Na wah ooo

coogar:


they never wanted the size-8 wives in the first place. if you look inwards, that kinda Union were shotgun marriages - men that were trapped by strange pregnancies.



body health is very important & weight issues is the most important. do you not marvel when you see caucasian females jogging in your borough every evening? where are their nigerian counterparts?



no one cheats without an excuse - if the stew in the home is no longer tasty, he would wander out & scour for the tasty ones.



hahahaha - didn't you just say some men cheat without no real excuses? now you have changed tune that everyone has a reason to cheat.

so which is which?

I am sure you know what I am saying.
There is really no reason to cheat. You made a vow and if you are not happy with the situation at hand, then you say or do something about it

Cheating is not the answer. You genuingly help your wife/husband to get over whatever challenges that they may have
I have a friend on a low carbohydrate diet. She is struggling becasue when she gets home, her husband insists that she make him poundo in the evenings. How is he helping her and encouraging her? . . . . .but he is the one complaining that she is getting too fat for him.

If a mans wife is overweight; will the man keep on having affairs till he is 90?
Do you know how much that will cost him in money and emotions in the long run
He is only cheating himself

Yes we can all look for reasons to justify bad behaviour but we are only fooling ourselves . .cos the truth is that there are no good enough reasons.

You are obsessed with caucasians jogging . . .the same ones that drink gallons every evening after work and jump off lamposts and have one night stands with strangers in alleyways. How healthy is that if I may ask?

Stop being so close minded joor and learn to love your own women. God made you a Nigerian for a reason . . . . or you would have been Clive on Poundland

Mondisweets:

Well i guess you should never blame the woman you marry if she cheats on you with a healthier, muscular looking guy or a richer guy.

i am fit enough for her. she kisses my abs every morning before she goes to work. she knew what she wanted from the outset & she got it......no reason for her to wander cos i have not added adipose cells in 5 years.

After all if sex appeal is all there is to marriage for men, don't complain when women make marriage all about the money.

this is a dirty slap on feminism.
so even after feminism fought for women to get education, get good jobs, etc - some women still marry for money?

People are clearly moving away from whats really important and focusing on the most trivial things.

these things are not trivia - attraction is a huge issue in marriage. hubby & wifey constantly need to find each other attractive - that's the only real solution to infidelity, not fasting & praying in the wilderness.

Even if a woman gains 20kgs she can still lose it, with a loving and supporting husband who will encourage her and make the process less frustrating. Even if a man loses all he has, with a loving and supporting wife who will help him get back on his feet.

that's the annoying bit, mondicandy.
they can lose it and yet refuse to lose it. this is why some men are frustrated about the whole shebang. you hardly ever see black women in the gym.....why??

Its sad we have too many immature people getting married these days. They never willing to put in effort to do whatever it takes to make it work. They would rather throw everything away over something trivial, instead of putting in effort to fix the problem.

like i keep saying - no man just wants to wander out & sleep with another woman. contrary to what you think, men are not the monsters the media make us to look....

the truth is....some men have talked & talked but yet no avail. some women are naturally gluttonous. even if they work out, they still manage to consume fattening foods. you see some wives in their 40s dragging chocolates & ice cream buckets with their daughters - what do you expect?

carefreewannabe:


The truth is that some women will end up with shallow guys who have funny pictures in their online profiles.

You are smart!!! I love the twist!!! Trust me u. Just summarized the truth teller hehehehe

chlowi:


You are smart!!! I love the twist!!! Trust me u. Just summarized the truth teller hehehehe

carefreewannabe:


You really don' know me.

Maybe I don't, maybe I do...is there a price for it?

chaircover:

I am sure you know what I am saying.
There is really no reason to cheat. You made a vow and if you are not happy with the situation at hand, then you say or do something about it
Cheating is not the answer.

no one here said cheating is the answer but men being men would take the easier option which is cheating!

women are particularly sensitive about their weight or body features. if you home on the topic too much, she would take offence so what's a man to do?

So if a mans wife is overweight; will the man keep on having affairs till he is 90?
Do you know how much that will cost him in money and emotions in the long run
He is only cheating himself

what makes you think the woman outside isn't the one bankrolling the affair? besides, how much do men spend on these mistresses - no be nigeria? hundreds of thousands of women would drop their undies for a TFC meal.

Yes we can all look for reasons to justify bad behaviour but we are only fooling ourselves . .cos the truth is that there are no good enough reasons.

you don't know men enough - this is why you are saying this. most men would take the easier route for their quick fix - men are risk takers.

You are obsessed with caucasians jogging . . .the same ones that drink gallons every evening after work and jump off lamposts and have one night stands with strangers in alleyways. How healthy is that if I may ask?

that's about only 1% of them.
the others keep their fitness issues very seriously. she's either on her bike or running yards morning & evening. they are more disciplined when it comes to their weight plan.

Stop being so close minded joor and learn to love your own women. God made you a Nigerian for a reason . . . . or you would have been Clive on Poundland

that's why it's painful that the people God made more beautiful are not taking care of their assets.

ayobase:


here is one of them......I am sure ur parents still dey feed u.....chop finish first. supo!

Mondisweets:
this post sef is the devil's work

Lol, na real devil's work o

BananaBender:


My exact thought after I read that comment. That can't be coming from a woman or someone who even has female friends.

coogar:


i am fit enough for her. she kisses my abs every morning before she goes to work. she knew what she wanted from the outset & she got it......no reason for her to wander cos i have not added adipose cells in 5 years.

this is a dirty slap on feminism.
so even after feminism fought for women to get education, get good jobs, etc - some women still marry for money?

its got nothing to do with feminism. If you misplace the your priorities when it comes to marriage, don't expect your spouse to maintain hers.

these things are not trivia - attraction is a huge issue in marriage. hubby & wifey constantly need to find each other attractive - that's the only real solution to infidelity, not fasting & praying in the wilderness.

that's the annoying bit, mondicandy.
they can lose it and yet refuse to lose it. this is why some men are frustrated about the whole shebang. you hardly ever see black women in the gym.....why??

i don't know which gyms you are talking about, because i have always seen more black women in gym killing themselves with aerobics in the gym.

like i keep saying - no man just wants to wander out & sleep with another woman. contrary to what you think, men are not the monsters the media make us to look....

cheating is a matter of choice, i dont ever remember of hearing about anyone cheating under duress.

the truth is....some men have talked & talked but yet no avail. some women are naturally gluttonous. even if they work out, they still manage to consume fattening foods. you see some wives in their 40s dragging chocolates & ice cream buckets with their daughters - what do you expect?

men have talked but yet no avail, but you have more men dying of obesity, heart disease, high blood pressure and diabetes than women, because the same man have failed to take their own advice right?

coogar:


no one here said cheating is the answer but men being men would take the easier option which is cheating!

women are particularly sensitive about their weight or body features. if you home on the topic too much, she would take offence so what's a man to do?



what makes you think the woman outside isn't the one bankrolling the affair? besides, how much do men spend on these mistresses - no be nigeria? hundreds of thousands of women would drop their undies for a TFC meal.



you don't know men enough - this is why you are saying this. most men would take the easier route for their quick fix - men are risk takers.



that's about only 1% of them.
the others keep their fitness issues very seriously. she's either on her bike or running yards morning & evening. they are more disciplined when it comes to their weight plan.



that's why it's painful that the people God made more beautiful are not taking care of their assets.

1% ke are you having a laugh
Free me . .you and I both know that its much higher than that
Many of them drink too much . .the day I found myself in central London during rush hour, the number of people drinking outside packed pubs was a shocker.

Anyway you are forgetting one very important thing and you are underestimating the consequences of this cheating
Go and ask men your dads and grandfathers age
Many now live a life of regret
Many have been abandoned by their own children; while the mummys that they cheated on are travelling round the world doing Omugwo (Hope I spelt that right)
Some of these men are just tolerated
And unless you are loaded, no young girl is going to look your way anything past 45 and above anyway
You are only looking short term . . you are forgetting long term
The same "fat" wife you treated like shit will have the last laugh in the end.
You are better off at age 30 putting on your trainers and saying come on honey lets go to the gym together.
You will reap what you sow.

crackhaus:

Maybe I don't, maybe I do...is there a price for it?

You definitely don't because if you did you would know that I consider poser photos awkward.

You wouldn't get a price for knowing that but you wouldn't draw wrong conclusions either.

chlowi:


Na wah ooo

thats d best way 2 stop us 4rm cheatin..com let's cheat

blueberryp:
if u say a man who cheats on his wife because she got fat is justififed why do u turn around n say a woman who cheats on her husband because he got poor is not justified.

A man who cheats on his wife obviously married her for her body structure that is why a change is enough to push him out, he never loved his wife. Same way a woman could cheat on her husband because he got poor. Its all about satisfaction which in the mans is case is sex while in the woman's case its money
.
We all know that men want lots of sex while women want lots of money but In life you will neva be satisfied with these two, u will always want more, ur wife will not always satisfy you with sex and ur husband will not always satisfy u with money, ability to love ur partner despite dissatisfaction(if their is a word like dat,lol) is what I call true love!

Infact those marriage vows should be changed, let it be; this woman you now hold will not always be sexy, are you prepared to not cheat on her and cherish her all the same?
For the woman it will be; this man is not always going to be able to provide u d necessities of life , are u prepared to not cheat on him and respect him all d same?

this pretty much sums it up

austine4real:
thats d best way 2 stop us 4rm cheatin..com let's cheat

Na, cheating is Cheap!!! Try staying faithful!!!

Mondisweets:

Biko which abs? I have seen your pic, you are quite a slender guy.

my picture? coogar's picture? where?
mondi, we will have to talk in private about this.

its got nothing to do with feminism. If you misplace the your priorities when it comes to marriage, don't expect your spouse to maintain hers.

i hope you are aware of the effect of attraction in male-female relationship? for any man to come to you at all, he must have been attracted to you. it's that attraction that keeps him coming back - once that attraction is lost, other things come into play.

i don't know which gyms you are talking about, because i have always seen more black women in gym killing themselves with aerobics in the gym.

trust me, for every black woman you see in gym killing herself, another 500 are at Amala joints stuffing their guts.

cheating is a matter of choice, i dont ever remember of hearing about anyone cheating under duress.

cheating is a matter of choice? is being hörny a matter of choice too?

men have talked but yet no avail, but you have more men dying of obesity, heart disease, high blood pressure and diabetes than women, because the same man have failed to take their own advice right?

it seems you don't get my point....
of course, some men are also guilty of these weight issues but that's beside the point. the koko is - wives should stop living an infidelity-inducing lifestyle & not expect infidelity.

a wife must always do the things that would keep her forever attractive to her hubby & vice versa. if that spark gets lost, she should be ready to face the consequences.

chaircover:

1% ke are you having a laugh
Free me . .you and I both know that its much higher than that
Many of them drink too much . .the day I found myself in central London during rush hour, the number of people drinking outside packed pubs was a shocker.

they still live way far healthier lives than black people. even right now in my borough, everyone is running & biking around like there's a beauty contest coming up next week.

Anyway you are forgetting one very important thing and you are underestimating the consequences of this cheating
Go and ask men your dads and grandfathers age. Many now live a life of regret
Many have been abandoned by their own children; while the mummys that they cheated on are travelling round the world doing Omugwo (Hope I spelt that right)

yes, sunny ade is regretting....
dokpesi, okoya, etc are all regretting. you think men are sold to emotions like women? he has lived his life the way he chose to. if he perishes, then so be it.

Some of these men are just tolerated
And unless you are loaded, no young girl is going to look your way anything past 45 and above anyway
You are only looking short term . . you are forgetting long term

45??
where did you get this magic number from? there's no day i visit moremi hall & i don't see men with grey hair in the company of young undergraduates & these men don't look too loaded. who cannot afford N10k meal for a good sex in nigeria? even okada men are capable of doing that. men are always in demand - age is no barrier.

The same "fat" wife you treated like shit will have the last laugh in the end.
You are better off at age 30 putting on your trainers and saying come on honey lets go to the gym together.
You will reap what you sow.

that's for the romantics & the emotional beings. you only live once......there's no promise there would be another life. men & women should strive to look attractive to each other in marriage. sentiments & emotions cannot cut it.

chlowi:


Na, cheating is Cheap!!! Try staying faithful!!!

am faithful oo.hope u'r nt married o make bros no kari gun blow me

God doesn't feel bad about creating women.if you do feel so bad about it,you can start by killing the women in your life and get married to a man.

Assshole!

Edusouls:
Single ladies during their blossom youth years deal with single men, they rough handle and treat them vry badly, they dump them after their hard earned effort, whenever or anyhow they like, they pick among their suitors and use them as they like, some do her upkeep, some recharge phone 4 her, some pay her school fees, some help in doing project 4 her, at the end after getting what they want, they still play on the feelings of these young men, and take it as fun..an average young girl has dated at least 6 boys and a married man, between age 16 to 25, and this is the mild cases, the vry nasty one would have dated about 9 boys, 3 different married men one or two papas. Women re a big creation flop, i wonder how God feels about these lost species then when they want to get married they hope they would get a faithful husband! Noo laws of karma always prevails, what goes around comes around. Ur husband will always cheat on u, relentlessly, just as u did to many suitors at ur earlier age..